/bi-gen/ Bisexual general:

>>7587019
i think we might need a new discord server

but there is one

>>7587023
Okay, how come?

>>7587040
Because it's full of spergs and weird artistically acting people.

>>7587057
*autistically

>>7587057
Okay, I am unsure how this could be resolved with the premise of a community based off of 4chan. Please persue another server if you feel it to be the best course of action and I hope to review the results of your efforts.

>>7587065
Hello, admin

>>7587091
Why in the world would I pretend to be anyone else?

Why would I not promote you to create something better?

>>7587019
I have struggled really hard to come to terms with my bisexuality. I don't want to like guys, it makes me feel weird.

Whenever I'm sober I am bi, probably closer to gay, but drunk I'm straight. Like I was with a girl drunk and wanted to fuck, when I was with her sober I was less certain.

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>>7587103
are you the type of nigga that wants kids

>>7587065
Its a shame you weren't smart enough for a law degree, you'd a been a good lawyer

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How do you deal with liking dick but not being attracted to men in general?

>>7589922

Just go after femboys.

>>7587019
Hi /bigen/, how do I get to date a boy and a girl?

>>7589884
I don't know.

i can't be the only one here who doesn't really feel at home in the community. gays don't trust you, trans don't trust you, and a lot of straight people don't want to fuck you. It's real out here

>>7591626
I prefer bi dudes IDK what you're talking about

It's straight dudes that I avoid cuz it's pretty obvious they want to pump n dump.. duh

>>7590649
Look for people into polyamory. They're not that common.

>>7591626
That's why you stealth.

>>7593998
Eh... Plenty of straight dudes want marriage.

>>7591626
I'm not trans, but aren't a lot of trans people bisexual? Like, a majority of the trans population?

>>7594133
Straight men do not want to marry even relatively successful, stealth trans women.. fml.

Bi guys are for meaningful relationships.

>>7594307

Ah. Trans, rather then bi cis girl, would get a little more hesitation from straight guys. Bi guys a lot more willing.

>>7591626
I went on a few dates with guys after coming out, but in my area of town most dudes just wanted to fuck or didn't want an actual relationship, that sucked. Currently dating a woman as a result, which leads to the "Oh, you're just confused" shit

will wearing panties (tight obviously) for any prolonged period of time make my dick smaller or something?

>>7589922
this >>7589940 trans, or cute boys with soft features.

>>7590649
Are you a girl?

>>7589922
Oh my god I have this problem. Is this a bi thing? OH GOD AM I BI?!

So I recently acquired a very cute boyfriend. I haven't really done anything sexual before, or even kissed anyone. We tried making out and it went pretty well. I was focused on doing a good job and he ended up super hard, but I didn't really get more than a semi throughout the whole session. Even though I enjoyed the intimacy and his reaction, I wasn't overtly turned on like he was.

I know I'm probably overthinking it, but I've always been somewhat doubtful of my sexuality and this has introduced more conflict.

I've stopped watching porn since then, and I've been ending up with stronger orgasms thinking of him than I ever did watching porn. This is even with jerking off twice a day.

Should I be concerned? I'm really into him emotionally and intellectually, but I'm worried I won't be able to satisfy him physically. For the record, I've been watching porn since I was about 9 and masturbate to almost everything.

>>7601735
Quit fapping and after a short while you will get better.

>>7601260
Yes you are. There are various bi types. Some just wanna suck a cock. There are bis closer to gays, that would maybe sometimes touch a woman.

It reminds me of disgusting terms like homoflexible and heteroflexible. ie. bi people still in denial about their bisexuality, that they needed new terms to feel comfortable with their feeling of wanting a meaty throbbing dick in their mouth.

You're bi. It's cool. The more of us accept us for who we are,and we be clear and open to people around us, the more people will be cool with us.

Bisexuality is probably the least understood sexuality, and the most ignored.

>>7598865

>trans
Plenty of them are cute, but they don't really like it when you touch their peepee. Almost everyone likes it when you touch their peepee -- men, women... just not trans people.

Any qt boy around Bielefeld?

>>7602204

>Bisexuality is probably the least understood sexuality, and the most ignored.
It's funny, because I perceive bi people as normal and everyone else as kinda weird.

>Be biguy
>Tell a girl that I'm bi
>She instantly and permanently believes that I'm gay
How do I avoid this

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So for some reason friend one of two refuses to rate my looks and two of two is ace and quite frankly not of sound judgement. I'm confident enough that my face is fine aside from a need to trim the fat and the scraggle, but not enough to resist seeking validation from strangers i meet on the internet. Fire away. Or not idk.

>>7603401
You avoid her, at least if she insists on being wrong.

>>7603401
lol you get this a lot from straight girls, trust me.
you avoid this by not telling them, unless you've scoped them out

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>>7587019
are there more cis bi guys then cis bi girls?

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Aw never posted a link in here. Well here we are!

Come and join the bi-gen server!
https://discord.gg/EDzmjbv

Been on about 5 dates with this really cute guy and I know he likes me because we've kissed several times. The only issue I have is that I always have to plan and organize every single date. How do I tell him I want him to put more effort in? (We've both never dated before, he's gay and I'm bi)

>>7587019
cismale bi here, can digits get me a qt bf?

>>7612400
I'm here bb
Where do you live?

>>7604442
i think it's the other way around

>>7602204
So If I like dick, but only if its attached to a woman, and other female identified people, Im bi? Ok, Ive been thinking of myself as a weird lesbian my entire life.

>>7617222
Yes.
Obviously not fully since you only like dicks and not dudes.

>>7617248
Do femboys count as dudes?

>>7617440
yeah

I kinda want your guys' opinion on something:

Im a cis lesbian and am dating another cis 'lesbian'*. I recently learned she has a huge fetish for transgender people. she said she identifies as gay. Is she gay though?

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>>7619720
Did she specify? If shes into Transmen I would assume shes bisexual since she is dating you.
If shes into Transwomen, I would call her a lesbian because I see other transwomen as women. If she likes both or anyone that would fall under the trans umbrella then....Fuck I dont know, pansexual?
Does it bother you that she likes trans people?

>>7619765
Not at all! I just don't really understand. she specifically said she had a thing for trans women, but that it was like a sexual thing. Sex isn't exactly my area of expertise is all.

>>7619839
Ehhhhh well it kinda sounds like she's a female chaser. But technically, she is only into women, so she is still gay. Technically.

>>7619839
girl w penis is what "str8" guys are attracted to too

>>7601735
It sounds like you're just really nervous with him, and that might be why you're having trouble with your election

Cis female here, anyone else have weird problems with the opposite sex when it comes to dating them to the point where you won't bother dating them anymore? I remember courting a guy and his male friends suddenly became massive cunts about it after a while when they previously couldn't have cared less.

And any women specific minefields similar to the above I need to worry about?

>>7621329
Was this guy spending much more time with you and much less time with his friends? It's not really male specific but that'll do it.

>>7587057
>full of spergs and weird artistically acting people
_every_ discord server looks like that...

>>7601735
since you're into him romantically, it's just anxiety; keep making out & cuddle with him, you'll be more relaxed, it should be better. Or maybe go for a kinkier session.

>>7603788
I'd say you're average (scraggle is fine); not my type at all tho.

>>7611475
tell him where does he want to go next time (something related to his center of interests), what are his favorite places, etc. I guess it should motivate him a bit more.

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Is it really so much to ask?
Why did I have to repress so long?
Now I'm in a long term committed relationship with someone I'm closeted to, and constantly have to police what I say for fear of a fight or shame or guilt.
I don't know if I can break up with them, but I don't know how much longer I can take this

>>7623732
Why are you closeted?

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>>7623732
Come out to them and explain to them that every second that you lied to them was like a knife through your heart or some bullshit
Repressing gets you nowhere, and if they leave because of you being bi, then they're shallow and vapid as fuck, so it wouldn't be worth it anyways

>>7622288
Possibly.

There was this one guy who he seemed very close with in particular. We'd all be in the same area but we barely had any group conversation. It was either me-other guy or other guy-friend going on, though it was heavily skewed towards me. I got the feeling the friend was off in a way, at least towards me so I didn't inquire too much about him. All I knew was that he was the other guy's friend from way back and was dating some other chick until he wasn't.

Looking back on the whole thing it was a waste of time and had no real substance anyway. Only promise, and that only gets you so far.

>>7623732
Right now you're in a relationship that won't last. Either you'll start resenting them or they'll resent you. It's a dead end.

Right now you're prolonging both of your pain by staying together. You're wasting time because you're afraid of wasting all the time you've invested in the relationship. At some point, you've gotta give up. The sooner the better.

>>7617440

They identify as dudes, and they're a lot more wiling to let you play with their penis. But they look semi-girly, so it's kinda the best of both worlds.

>tfw didn't know there was a bi gen
>tfw been posting on gaygen for years

>>7624477
bi gen's been dead for a while

so, I fucked/dated a guy for the 1st time last month. It's not that different from fucking a girl desu, or more exactly, I act very similarly. Being intimate with someone else, holding & kissing someone you like, it's always nice whatever you grope tits or a cock
/blog post

>>7624477
gaygen is 10 times more active anyway

>>7624477

Bi-gen is usually dead.
Gaygen hates us

>>7624767

Gratz, mate. Hope you end up with someone you can be a little more longterm with.

Is clubbing worth it? I'm half considering cruising shit but I have no clue what's going to happen.

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Anyone know why bi gen is usually dead? What do they got that we dont?

>>7589922
im the reverse...

how do you deal with being attracted to men but not liking dick?

>>7625349
Because half the time we stealth in the other gens.
>>7591626
Sometimes it bothers me but can't do much for that besides show yourself as you. If you manage to reel them in, you reel them in.

Have any of you had the dubious pleasure of both sexes fight over you, bigen? If so, how did you react?

>>7628521
Best (girl) friend got a crush on me at the same time than I fell in love with a guy: I felt bad for her desu Then I had to tell her that I am bi & currently "prefer" men.
She asked for a fuckbuddy relationship but I refused, that was a (desperate) bad idea.

>>7628546
Wait was refusing the fuckbuddy relationship a bad idea or her asking in the first place bad? Not judging at all, just want more clarification.

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>>7589922
This trully is the age of question.

I want a bf, but I'm afraid of how he'll age if we desire any long-term commitment. I could just marry some nice girl and fuck twinks behind her back until I die at the ripe old age of 79. Any woman who will let me do that is a keeper.

>>7628593
*should say "age old", fuck

>>7628556
Her asking me was a bad idea; she must have think I could accept because of the meme "bisexuals are promiscuous & like to fuck whenever it's possible"...
it feels good to be desired, but I hope it won't fucked up our friendship that I rejected her (I usually date girls, then become close friend with them once they break up kek).

>>7628602
>It feels good to be desired, but I hope it won't fuck up our friendship that I rejected her

Aw man. I remember one of my male friends confessed to having a crush on me the day after I was crying in the shower about love related shit (pretty abnormal behavior on my part, generally stoic when it comes to this, the shit was general "you don't deserve to have anyone love you" stuff). My response was fairly harsh and we haven't talked in months.

Is she still talking to you, anon?

>>7628640
I'm still friend with her; we see each other regularly.

>>7625616
Trans men maybe?

>>7628593
Or, rather than cheating, you could get into an open relationship...

>>7629243
>Or, rather than cheating, you could get into an open relationship...

Sure honey go out and fuck boys while I'm using my vibro

I have the same problem, can't see myself in 10 years with a man. I like young assholes anyway.

>>7630022

So you suppose women age better?

>>7630307
not him, but absolutely. im not into daddies in the slightest.

Damn, you bi types are so lucky.. I'm lesbian (cis), and I really fucking hate my community in its current state. All the cattiness, all the stupid shit I have to deal with. Women only bring me misery, yet I can't help but to be exclusively attracted to them. Have been ghosted 20 times or so, fuck fuck fuck. AND I can't rant about this to lesgen, since I'd be accused of being a male troll or someshit. I would date a bi woman tho!

>>7633690

Maybe you should try dating a transbian. Female appearance, but male socialization. Less catty, probably.

being bisexual has made me come to hate gay people

>>7629243
>>7630022
Open relationships literally never work out

>>7633769
The feeling is mutual, breeder.

>>7633810
faggot

>>7633854
switcheroo

>>7633769
For what reason?

>>7633805
That they do not, but Anon needs to get the polygamy shit out of his system, since he clearly does not seem ready to tackle a proper relationship.

>>7633739
Sounds good, if she's post-op. But how not to look like a chaser?

>>7634540
>if she's post-op

You already don't sound like a chaser desu.

>>7634540
trannies only hate male chasers (since they have a thing for feminine penises).
you're good.

>>7634549
Thanks! I mean, yeah I'm not trying to chase, since I genuinely believe transwomen are women too. I'm just so tired of fellow cislez and their double standards and backstabbing culture.
>>7634636
Yeah, penises turn me off, even if Emma Watson would have one. Post-op is a must.

>>7623874
because I'm a little bitch
because I didn't figure out I'm bi until real late through a combo of being 2.? on the kinsey scale and classic religious suppression
because my gf is a touch homophobic and a huge scatophobe so asking her to peg me is useless

>>7624127
I'm familiar with the sunk cost idea, but I am legit afraid of starting over after so long together
if I were to come out and her attitude toward me is more positive and helpful than I expect, is it still doomed?
do you think your average normie female would be willing to role/cosplay as the opposite gender in the bedroom?

>>7635229
Not the anon you'e replying to, but I believe most normie women would find the request a little odd. Perhaps not outright disgust, but expect weird stares and incredulity if you ask.

Go for it I guess. Just be careful

On my online dating profile I'm listed as bisexual and I think it's part of why I only get guy responses not girl ones. Girls think a bi guy needs sex from a man and will cheat or something. Before I embraced being bi this didn't happen

>>7635645
My take on this problem:
monosexuals are too insecure & can't grasp the concept of bisexuality; but after all, they have to deal with rivals on their own sex AND rivals of the opposite sex.
(And women probably fear more about the highest rates of STIs in bi guys; something that is more common within the gay community that's why they probably don't care so much about it).

>>7635699
I got my first sti from a girl lmao. Irony.

I'm sure it might just be my personality in part but maybe other bi men know the feeling of only attracting other men. Which is alright with me i have much stronger relationships with them

>>7635645
My first true love (and oneitis for a while) was a bi guy, and I'm a bi girl.

I still fantasize about the one time I got to peg him. That was years ago, back in high school. We only had sex a handful of times but each time was amazing. Blog post aside, I think in general you'll have an easier time attracting bi girls compared to straight girls. But we are fewer in number, in general.

Am I bi if I like futa?

There has to be vagina, but I like dick so long as a vagina is part of the package too.

Not into Trans because no vagina.

>>7640453
That makes you a penis fetishist, which is pretty normal for men anyway. Why do you think guys like big dick porn? It's not necessarily gay, as long as it's in the fantasy realm of futa.
Traps and trannies are still at least a little gay

help, am i bisexual (or straight afterall?)
i´ve always had crushes on males (i´m female) and i have i boyfriend who i´m in love with but i´m not sexually attracted to him that much; i get turned on by touch but for that the gender doesnt actually matter

i dont find male gentials attractive at all, but i can get really turned on from even just looking at female body

but then again i have never had a crush on a girl and i dont think i will

>>7641530
I think you're bi: you have romantic feelings for one genre, and sexual attraction for another. If you are straight, you'd be repulsed by the thought of being attracted by a female.
>and i dont think i will
hey, you never know, you might be surprised ;)
You might have never met someone attractive enough, or someone who doesn't match what you're looking for in a partner

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>>7635645

Honestly I think guys being bi is turnoff for most girls. No woman wants to imagine her bf, her man, her provider, her protector, the future father of her children, being fucked by another man and sucking dick.

Girls like masculinity, and and being a fag is anything but, this is why most guys just keep it on the low.

Same reason why trannies don't like chasers, they see anyone who likes dick as a limp wrist faggot.

>>7641952
Which is such bull because not all bi guys are fem or anything

Who /list orientation as lesbian/ here?

Fuck I hate being a bisexual woman.

>>7641952
>Girls like masculinity
dman' patriarchy!!!

>>7641749
oh thanks for the encouragement

>>7641984

Why?

>>7641984
At this point I basically should just do that, because it would make things less complicated. I'm not interested in 99% of guys on any given site or app, so like... yeah.

>>7641984
do bi girls ever go for femboys?

>>7602398
ME TOO!!!

Really!! can't understand monosexuals!!!

>>7643060

I know for a fact that some do, and they go for ftms and mtfs, just like many bi men do

>>7634540
a lesbian who'd date a transbian? go to the AGPgen threads, you'll swim in transpussy there, since all of them are transbians and usually have problems to find a girl who loves them (many lesbians have prejudices against transbians).

Go forth, enjoy transbian love

>>7643883
She could probably find a less AGP transbian IRL.

>>7587019
reminder that the b stands for best
>>7589922
dont know, its just wierd. Im really into dudes until i cum and then its just not right

>>7630307
of course.

That's why the romans or greeks (duno) were bi. It's just a fetish during the youth and than you get married and you have kids.

>>7632875
>im not into daddies in the slightest.
Right ? I hate hairs.

>>7644035
Sucks to be you. I love a full rug on a man's chest and abs. and forearms. I can put up with the rest of the hair too I guess.

>>7643813

I also can't understand much guys who need to be exclusive bottom or top. Well... Exclusive tops maybe, but really, people should really consider enjoying both roles.

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>be normal loser "straight" guy
>give up on girls or ever having sex for reasons but still fap
>imokaywiththis
>start to get into gay porn
>think I might be bi but still want to remain a virgin
>feel kinda bad cause now it seems like I'm repressing or a closet case

Its a weird feel, I think society has brainwashed me into thinking not being open about this side of me and not sucking dick is bad, when I felt no guilt repressing my desire for girls or even using self delusion to not care about them.

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>>7645283
even after having sex with girls & guys (and enjoyed it), I still feel like shit; being virgin doesn't change anything.

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Is dating a bisexual person better than dating a monosexual? I've done neither so I wouldn't know. I guess you'd be more at ease talking the other sex, but it wouldn't be all that different.

>>7641952
That's homophobic as fuck and I hate it. What exactly is less manly about sucking or taking dick? Sure women have typically done it for most of history but I mean other than statistics, what does the act have to do with either gender or the characteristics we ascribe to them?
Why is it that being on the receiving end of a dick makes you feminine AND WHY SHOULD YOU FEEL LESS THAN just because of it?
That women are subservient recepticles and men are dominant penetrators is an outmoded bullshit perspective on gender and it's frankly irritating that women won't be able to look at a man the same after knowing he's taken or sucked a dick or let a woman peg him like it's some sort of reflection of his character.
>/rant

>>7646917
>That women are subservient recepticles and men are dominant penetrators is an outmoded bullshit perspective on gender
homophobia is rooted in misogyny

>>7645302
>being virgin doesn't change anything.

I know. Thats why I've never been in a rush to lose it.

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How to find an Even or an Isak type of guy? You know normal qt dudes that dont behave like pure faggots.

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>>7646763
bi male here, dated a bi male, 2 gay males, 2 straight women and now a bi woman, can confirm, my relationship with bisexuals where much better than with monosexuals and a lot of bi people say that their relationship with other bi people are better than with monosexual people.

>>7641952
only straight women hates bi men, bi women prefer bi men to straight men if they are not dumb barsexuals.

>>7643034

Because bi women are lying attention whores and/or cheating sluts according to gays and straights.

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>>7643924
I'm actually a bisexual trutrans (because fuck Blanchard's prejudices about AGP and bisexuals).

I have no AGP here, but I could do a cute girl here and there.

There's like 1 NON-AGP bi trans for every 20 NON-AGP trans, so... yes, we do exist, although we're a pretty uncommon breed. <3.

cheers!

>>7646763
If you're bi, another bi person is heaven.

you feel more at ease, you can share your emotions without fear of prejudice, you can do kinky stuff only other bis understand, you feel a deeper and stronger connection and understanding...

It's all advantages.

>>7647696
specialsnowflake/10

>>7643883
>>7643924
>>7647696
Heyy thanks for the advice, bi's! I'm not quite sure what AGP means? Is it good thing?

>>7647738
Oh, and I'm not this poster

>>7647745
AGP = AutoGynePhilia.

they get basically get horny at the thought (or the fact) of being a woman.

Which means they're horny most of the time.

For some reason relatod to psychology, most of them (but not all of them) are lesbians.

>>7641984
Also a bi woman, half considering it.

>tfw you get hit with slut stereotypes when you are definition of permavirgin and can't pick up romantic intentions until long past the fact it would be relevant or if it's blatant "I want to date you anon in a /romantic/ way" tier

>>7643048
Guys on dating apps can generally be counted as shitters unless if they are bi. That being said, I only use Her.

Did any bi guys here wish they were gay at some point?

Straight women always seem offended and gay guys don't think bisexuality exists and bi people are just confused gay people.

I feel like being gay would be simpler

>>7648005
I get that, I usually just tell people I'm gay anyway. Unfortunately it just makes me feel like I have to come out of the closet again... I don't exactly like this feeling of being locked out of both camps.

>>7648163

Yeah I just say I'm gay too. I like men more than women a lot more so I can probably just keep it inside forever.

>>7648005

Personally, I wouldn't want to be anything else.

Am I bi if I like guys physically but I'd never fuck a man, and have no attraction to dicks or gay sex?

I'm not THAT straight either, i.e. I don't get that horny, but when I am horny I like women a lot.

>>7648272
Only you can know for sure but imo it doesn't sound like you are.

>>7648299
Oh fuck, that makes it even more confusing. I feel like this might be something to do with anxiety etc. I'll sort it out. Thanks mate.

>>7648304

>Oh fuck, that makes it even more confusing

Welcome to bisexuality (maybe), even when we're not "confused" we're still confused.

>>7648713
It sounds wonderful.

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>>7647250
But why are they better?

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>>7648005
>not experiencing the best of both worlds

>tfw want to one day have a wife and kids
>tfw have to keep the bi inside and never experience mansex because doing so would tar you gay forever for 99% of women

So it's either live life totally straight, OR never have kids/family OR have gay sex but lie to your life partner about it OR find a (very very rare) girl who's both fine with you being bi/had gay sex in the past AND is a good match in all the other important parts of a relationship AND is attracted to you

No winning moves

>>7655440

I know that feel. Part of me is considering an alternative, however:

1. Date trans girl
2. Donate sperm
3. Marry trans girl
4. Adopt

In effect, I still get to pass on my genes, and raise kids, just not at the same time. Via the trans girl, I can have a somewhat best of both worlds scenario.

Alternatively, I'll just settle down with a cis girl and keep dicks as a plan B if she ever divorces me or something happens to her.

>>7654155
More chemistry, without fears for being bi, Know that you are both bi, your patner knows how to feel to be bi, less gender roles (yes many gay men copy male/female straight roles or assumed things about bi men), etc.

>>7655612

But where did you meet bi girls?

>>7656364

Same places you meet straight girls?

Is it better to be the girl or fuck the girl?

Also are twinks or women better for fucking?

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>>7655440
>iktf

I either stay a gay virgin or get with a bi woman.

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>>7657545
>Also are twinks or women better for fucking?

Vag>>>>>butts

>>7657686
>that obvious tranny on the right
oh boy

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>>7657701
Some trannies even got upset at the women's march because signs about abortion rights with pictures of wombs, "this pussy grabs back" etc were extremely """" trans-exclusionary""""

I will never understand why these people are in the same acronym as us.

>>7657686
Is KStew the new meme? I can get on board with this.

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>>7658129
Sorta, I just avatarfag with her pics on several boards, some people have taken to it. It's fitting on her since she's 'queer' (hate that term). Help make her a meme.

>>7657763
I unironically love KStew and have avatarfagged with her before, so I have mixed feelings about this new meme.

>>7657763
pretty sure most of the people upset about the pussy things where cis people getting offended on transwomen's behalf

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>>7658964
I thought I was the OG with the whole kstew meme/avatar, but guess not. I have mixed feelings too, but I'd still like her as a meme, simply because it'd make her more popular.

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>>7658992
Nope, there were a ton of ass blasted trannies. I find it hilarious how trannies are taking over feminism, with every issue that doesn't accomodate them being blocked in some way.

A friend told me that half the mods on the r/actuallesbians subreddit (i know >plebbit) are transbians and that lesbians who don't want dick are considered transphobic there. She quit for obvious reasons.

>>7659073
>and that lesbians who don't want dick are considered transphobic there

That's not what the policy is, it's totally okay not to like dick, the policy is pretty much as follows:

>Things which are not transphobic:
>Not being interested in, or not dating, a specific woman who happens to be trans.
>Not being interested in, or not dating, a specific woman who does not currently have the genitalia you prefer.
>Not being interested in, or not dating, a specific woman who just doesn't catch your eye.

>Things which are transphobic:
>Not being interested in, or not dating, a specific woman because she is trans.

>>7657686

fuck you kstew I look like a swamp thing with wet hair and messy makeup ;_;

>>7659111
>Not being interested in, or not dating, a specific woman because she is trans.
But that isn't transphobic.

>>7659485
You shouldn't worry too much about this, she will usually be ugly (just doesn't catch your eye) and/or still have a penis (not the genitalia you prefer), so the chance that you'll run up against this last rule is slim.

>>7659535
*he

So, /bi-gen/, I just encountered a weird situation with one of my gay, maybe bi, friends and I figured it would be cool to ask here and get some insight on it. Gonna greentext for length, hope you guys don't mind.

>have straight-acting, masculine, proud gay friend
>everyone i know knows him as 100% gay for twink boys
>recently find out he's dating an old female friend of mine
>once i confirm it's him, i ask more questions and she says that he's 100% heterosexual and they're trying to have a child together
>gay friend denies dating anybody at all atm and says he would especially never date a girl because he's just not comfortable with them or attracted to them

I'm pretty sure at some point I'm going to tell her because she doesn't seem none the wiser but is this normal behavior for a "gay" man? Should he even be able to have sex with her, let alone have a child? And even if he was just "testing out the waters", why lie to everybody about it after being so proudly gay? Thoughts on this, guys?

How many bi girls would peg a bi guy to satisfy his cocklust?

>>7659485

Remember to take into account the other things not considered transphobic. What this person is saying is that even though you consider this person attractive AND have genitalia you prefer, the fact that you nonetheless are not interested in them purely because of them being trans would be transphobic.

>>7660034
Gay men have been impregnating women since the dawn of time it happens VERY frequently. That being said, him lying about it in >2017 is very wrong and he proabablg has a lot of messed up reasons for doing it but it's wrong. He's probably trying to save face with his family or something. Even if he's bi it's messed up he wouldn't tell her.

>>7635207
Jesus Christ it's me

I want out of this hell

>>7660034

I would assume the woman is lying about the situation. Maybe she has a crush on him or something.
I'm a cis gay guy and I had a female friend who fell in love with me after we got drunk and she sucked my dick.
She told everyone we knew that I was straight and that I was her boyfriend and that we were planning to get married.
I had to cut off all contact with her.
Then she accused me on faceberg of molesting her teenage daughter.
Fortunately the daughter denied it all to Child Protective Services because it wasn't true.
It was a nightmare though.
I'm sick just thinking about it.

Gay men, don't have sex with your female friends the way you have sex with your male friends. They can't handle it.

>>7643060
I want one, yeah

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>>7660045
Most of them probably. Plenty of women like pegging becaude it makes them feel in charge.

>>7660034
If a man has any kind of sexual relationship with a woman, he's not homosexual.

>>7660088
>Gay men have been impregnating women since the dawn of time it happens VERY frequently.

Why do bisexuals have to insist that everyone is the same as them?

Please stop conflating gay men with yourselves.

>>7661342
>gay guy
>fucked a woman

Pick one.

>bonafide kinsey 6 since age 11
>starting to feel pretty 5-ish
>growing curiosity about fucking women
>jerking off to straight porn more and more
fuck
im too old for this sexual confusion shit

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>>7659415
She is a total qt, too bad we never see any of her body anymore.

>>7662011
What the fuck are you talking about I KNOW homosexuals that have impregnated women.

Way to miss the point I'm sure you know SO MUCH about sexuality, here's your 4chan diploma

>>7663606
as a straight, I agree bisexuals are scumbags

at least tru-fags keep the aids contained.

>>7663611
People who are in the closet and get into a relationship with a woman, which happened much more frequently in the past, are still homosexual. They probably fantasized about a guy or some other repression method.

Saying sexuality is defined by who you have sex with is like saying all virgins are asexual what a load of horse semen.

>>7662011
Yeah true. Clearly bisexual. But its odd how the term 'gay' is just used so freely

>>7647825
What the hell is a "shitter"?

so i've always considered myself pretty straight but i have an attraction to one of my guy friends. to be honest it's probably the emotional attraction more than anything else, since i don't really find myself turned on by men physically at all. is it worth telling im "bi" when i'm really only attracted to him? honestly im more scared it'd fuck up the friendship more than anything else

>>7663996
first, can you explain what kind of attraction do you have for your friend, since it isn't physical? I guess you like spending time with him, but would you like to cuddle/kiss/etc him too? Is he attractive?

Anyway, if your friend is 100% straight, try to find someone else & don't tell him what you feel: it might ruin your friendship and confuse the both of you.

>>7641952
bi cis woman here. id take a bi guy over a str8 one in a second. they are usually more tolerant, accepting and dont judge as much as others

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>>7663606
>>7663639
I don't care how it's done. If you impregnate a woman, you've surrendered your homo card.

>>7625616

How could you not like dick?

>>7664593

Also, if one of us comments that someone else is attractive, we can toss in our own opinion rather than trying to get super jealous over it?

>>7664784
You realize how dumb it is to reject something that 95% of people do, because other problems exist?

Breeders don't CAUSE poverty, or war, and overpopulation is more an economic issue.

Also, overpopulation is not even "too many people born atm" its theres too many older people generally...you always need young people

Homophobia is self inflicted by gays, and racism is caused by jews

>jews, thats racist!
implying I mean genetic jews.

>>7664784

Can we at least TRY to operate on the same definitions of homosexuality and bisexuality? Because most of the world uses the following:

Homosexual -- someone who experiences sexual attraction purely to individuals of the same sex
Bisexual -- someone who experiences sexual attraction to individuals of both sexes

Under these definitions, it is possible for a homosexual to impregnate a woman. That is, he has had sex with her, but he is not attracted to her in the slightest.

>>7587057
well what the fuck did you think would happen this is4chan

>>7665944
If said gay guy impregnates a women without the use if meds (a natural boner for his female partner ) then no matter what he says that's bi.

Is it hard to get laid with women as a hairless twink?

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Bi female.

Can only get off to lesbian porn but prefer male company. Only fucked girls haven't had any meaningful relationships with a woman yet.

Tfw I am a woman yet I sexually objectify women

>>7665941
Breederism gives rise to concepts like "race" and "nation" - the family unit expands to incorporate those that are "like you" in some arbitrary way or another. The perceived need to preserve these racial and national interests absolutely leads to racism and war. It's a primitive fetish with barbaric consequences.

The expansion of an already huge reservoir of surplus labor allows the ruling class to wield unemployment as a weapon against working people with impunity. So long as people continue to breed, this problem can never be solved. Overpopulation and poverty go hand-in-hand in this way.

There is a clear alternative lifestyle to the destructive cycle of breederism - homosexuality. Those at the top are very aware of this and so they fuel homophobic sentiments among the general population. If the average person became aware that this was a moral issue and that they actually had a choice, the entire world could be reformed within a single generation.

But yeah, please tell me how it's all the Jews' fault.

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>>7666292
It's usually the opposite. Women tend to make emotional connections with women much easier. You really should just find a girl with the same interests.

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>>7666163
Be ottermode

wtf I like femboys & butch girls like Kstew here >>7670241

>>7663911
General insult. Kinda surprised this was asked about out of all the stuff in the post but eh. More you know.

>>7666020
What about a woman raping a gay guy though? Wouldn't the gay guy still be gay?

>>7666292

How strange, I get off to mostly gay porn, but have only had a relationship with a woman (Bi guy).

>>7670446
>woman raping a gay guy
Can that even occur? If you're a grown man you can probably just push them off.

>>7671232
>just kick them in their pussy lmao

>bi-guy
>currently dating a guy who is exclusively homosexual
>very happy with current relationship, has been going for several years
>still attracted to women, never experienced sex with one
>no desire to go behind partner's back
>tell them upfront about my curiosity
>no desire to open the relationship
>just want to find out what sex is like with women, then suck my partners dick for the rest of my life

I'm not really sure what to do here. It's not something that keeps me up at night, but "wishing I knew what sex with women was like" isn't a regret I want to have on my deathbed

>>7590649
OK, so let's get inside your mind for a minute.

You're a bislut who wants a date. K. And our first instinct is to go to the internet for advice...

Not only that we go to 4chan, and just because we're on a role we go on /lgbt/...

Anon the fact you're here is indication enough you will never get that date. My only advice is to close the computer, go up to a random person and start flirting with them. Anyone. Even if it's a miss it'll remove some of the very apparent fear you have of talking to potential partners.

Let's just hope to God you're a top.

>>7672124
It's a cishet pedophile.

>>7591626
Welcome to /lgbt/ or really the entire LGBT "community". We're already kicked out for the most part because most bi folk are fucking normal. Why do you think "pansexuality" is a thing? It's code for bi but part of the club. Also, purely because like 90% of our partners are of the opposite sex we're seen as "traitors" to the cause. Plus we broke to many fag and dyke hearts.

>>7670414
Are you me? Like seriously, I've only now just fucking noticed that holy shit. All my personal hottest women are all butch as hell and all my hottest guys are super twinky and femboyish.

What the fuck I've never been confused about my sexuality more than right now.

>>7635229
Yeah sorry it's been a legit week
Senpai, read this, it might help you make the decision: http://waitbutwhy.com/2014/02/pick-life-partner.html

But if you really want to float the idea to her, start with light femdom: if she seems really REALLY into it, you have a shot. Otherwise, no. There's someone out there who's right for you. You're delaying your search for that person and settling for someone who isn't right for you while you could be getting a headstart on that search.

>>7670446
>What about a woman raping a gay guy though?

Literally impossible.

>>7672278
Don't worry so much about that, they're preferences, and you just like a bit of both in the same person. And imho it's quite hot when someone doesn't conform entirely to the stereotypes of their gender. Embrace the confusion ;)

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>>7670414
Kstew is barely butch only the flannel sorta is, at least in that pic

>>7674163
>Literally impossible
"Here is a gun, eat me out or I will shoot you."

>>7671950
have an MMF 3way with him
a surprising number of gay dudes are willing to do this
let him pound your ass while you smash the puss

>>7662011
>>Gay men have been impregnating women since the dawn of time it happens VERY frequently.
>Why do bisexuals have to insist that everyone is the same as them?
>Please stop conflating gay men with yourselves.

They are referring to how closeted men would impregnate women to hide their gayness. You know, companionate marriages, "Beards", etc? It happened literally all the time in the 50's and waaaaaaayyyyyy before that because that's how society worked. Shit, it still happens today. Its been going on long before you figured out that you knew everything about being gay.

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>>7677273
>oral sex = rape

really sweden?
next you'll be telling me holding hands is rape.

>>7681146
Forced oral sex is, indeed, rape. This is not disputed in civil society.

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>>7681263
The actual definition of rape just says penetration, oral is at best sexual assault.

>>7681736
and people wonder why sweden has the highest rapes in the west
we actually include all kinds of rape into our rape definition

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>>7681882
>unironically admitting to being a sw*de

>>7681736
"Here is a gun, let me peg you or I will shoot you."

>>7681736

My state's laws explicitly refer to sexual intercourse, not penetration. The definition of intercourse includes "any act of sexual contact between persons involving the sex organs of one person and the mouth or anus of another whether such persons are of the same or opposite sex."

Just because the laws where you live have not been updated to the standards of civil society does not change the meaning of the word "rape."

http://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=9A.44.010

http://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=9A.44.040

>>7677632
Really? I've never heard of this happening. As long as I've known him, he's never expressed any physical attraction to women, but I guess I won't know unless I talk to him about it.

>>7677273
>>7682499
The question was regarding whether or not a pregnancy could arise from a woman raping a gay man. Neither of these scenarios work.