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Can I Go From Bi to Gay? 2017-01-14 09:43:54 Post No. 7577314
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TL;DR at the bottom for you lazy fuckers that don't care about details.
So I'm really confused about my sexuality right now.
I'm a 28 year old male, and I've been primarily attracted to women for the entirety of my life; up until very recently.
I've never dated a man, but I've subconsciously always known of my attraction to them since my first homosexual attraction when I was a child.
At the age it was of course innocent, but it was still no different than how I displayed emotions around a woman that I had a kid crush on.
So I've gone my entire life identifying as strictly heterosexual outwardly, while identifying secretly as bisexual to myself, but never fully exploring it.
Recently I've begun with sexually exploring myself with gusto - especially all the areas previously off limits because of the taboo of "gay" affixed to them, and I've started to experience a weird phenomenon.
My sexual attraction to women is dissipating, and my sexual attraction to men is flourishing.
What the fuck is going on?
TL;DR
I've been a "hetero-romantic bisexual" for my entire life, but after experimenting with myself sexually, I'm finding myself fantasizing about relations with men more than women - where before it was near non-existent.
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>>7577314
Every gay guy goes through this.
It is called "coming out".
You are finally able to see that you have been repressing your sexuality all your life.
Deal with it.
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>>7577327
I've had women as both short and long term sexual & romantic partners. I can't deny my attraction to them, and labeling myself as strictly gay does that.
I just don't understand why the primary attraction is fluctuating where gender is concerned.
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>>7577314
Ignore the pseudoscientists who say "you were always X" about whatever you seem to be now.
Sexuality is entirely fluid. Experiment with the kind of partners you enjoy most, sexually and romantically, and never assume that just because you didn't like one sex or the other before, in either way, that you won't like them now.
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Just keep open-minded. If you're less attracted to women and more attracted to men right now, try dating men for a change. You can always go back or keep switching.
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>>7577946
Fuck off not everyone is a lesbian teenager
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>>7577994
Yeah, because they have attitudes like yours rather than taking things as they come.
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you're just enjoying a part of yourself you've kept at bay for a long time
go with the flow, you're probably always going to be bisexual
many bisexuals like myself will express how our sexuality drifts back in forth in waves over time
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>>7577946
Thank you - I guess I'll just have to play this one by ear.
I first tried coming out as bisexual at about 14-15, but I was essentially shamed back into "the closet" because "bisexuality" wasn't real back then either, and full on gay didn't feel right either.
Hardest part will be coming out to my Bible thumping JW family for sure: I'm probably just freaking out because of that.
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>>7578580
>JW
Do you have somewhere to go when they kick you out? JWs don't fuck around.
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