ITT: We talk about our coming out (GONE WRONG) stories...

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>>7559846
> be slav with homophobic, catholic & fascist family
> joke around about being gay to see reactions
> whole room laughing, screaming "ewwww"
> father doesn't laugh, is dead serious and tells me to stop making stupid jokes
Yeah.

I've never come out to my parents. They've found my gay bondage gear lying around in my room and cleaned it, pretending they didn't see anything though.

Doesn't help the fact that I tried to avoid coming out to stop them from cringing. I also am about to go trans at 21 and look like complete shit until at least 27 when I can afford ffs, maybe even longer.

>>7559846
My mom thinks I'm an abomination. Says I ruined her life and would rather I be gay than trans.

>>7559846
>coming out (GONE WRONG)
That's all of them.

Coming out is a dangerous meme and we should put an end to that.

>>7559924
Fair point, anon

>>7559912
>I also am about to go trans at 21 and look like complete shit until at least 27 when I can afford ffs, maybe even longer.
Why will it take you so long to get the money? When are you getting SRS?

>>7559924
It's not like there's any alternative.

>>7559924
>having intolerant pieces of shits for family
wew anon i feel sorry for you

>>7559980
I'm a contracted janitor. All my money is going into classes and rent, at least until I can get fasfa back. Then I might be doing a double major and have to temporarily drop working.

>>7559924
how should we live our lives anon.
What should one do in his life, what if you find the one, what if you can't find the one because you don't want to hurt your family or be hurt.

this is called being weak

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>>7559846
>older sister catches me crossdressing when i am 10yo
>says she will support me if i am trans
>i deny it and repress for over 10 years
>finally accept being trans and start hormones
>tell sister first because she said she would be supportive
>she says ive been brainwashed by media and corporations into wanting to be female
>wtf.jpg
>she outs me to other family members saying i am on "drugs" and am "getting high on estrogen"
>we argue on facebook, and she keeps calling me a tranny, and says to fuck off because im a cunt.
> blocked her on facebook, deleted that bitch from my life

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>>7559924
So
>repress for years
>get self dependent
>Cut contact with senpai
>Start new life

>>7562541
Good for you, fuck her. It's pretty weird your own sister would do something like that

>>7562541
qewgwarjkophejrao WHY DID SHE DO THIS

>>7562611
>>7562616
my guess is borderline personality disorder

>>7562541
>but because yer a cunt
BTFO so hard
will (You) ever recover?

>>7562857
>will (You) ever recover?
ya, i cried it out during my uni exams :)

how about coming out stories (GONE SEXUAL) now?

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I guess I got lucky. When I came out to my parents, they just told me "Just as long as you aren't a liberal, we'll accept you no matter what."

>>7559984
>falling for the double major meme

>>7562560
>self dependent

Independent. The word you are looking for is independent.

>>7562909
I laughed. I shouldn't have, but I did.

I came out at 15 to my parents as bi male. They told me this was a phase. Now I'm 25 and I still wank to gay porn, at least my gf understands and accepts me.

>>7563020
fucking breeder go away reeeee
>>7562873
>came out to dad
>he comes out too
>sex

>be 15 in 90s
>finally get computer hooked to internet
>..one week later...
>be printing out raunchy sweaty hairy hardcore 70s gay porn pics in my room in the middle of the day
>mom comes in without knocking
>"what are you printing?"
>looks at pics and face turns white
>"i-i-i-i j-j-just cli-clicked a b-button aand.."
>"Are you gay?!"
>"n-no! of course not!"
>looks relieved but disgusted
>"Well that's good. Because if you were your dad would be REALLY MAD!"
>wads up the porn and leaves the room

Nearly 20 years later, and I still haven't told any of them. I just moved as far away as I could for college and keep them on a very strict information diet.
They finally stopped asking/complaining about girlfriends/wives/grandchildren a couple years ago. Shit's pretty good IMO.

>start seeing a guy
>decide i should probably war my friends
>send a text of me kissing my bf saying
>just a headsup im gay now
>didn't realize what day it was
>'April fools?'

>>7562909
My parents said the same thing except they give me a ton of shit for being trans and tell me I can never present around them, so they were kind of lying :/

>>7562616
maybe she was upset you didnt want her advice?

idk she's a bitch fuck her anyways

>>7563366
> using the word breeder
> unironically

kek

>>7559924
This

>>7565573
it's retro and a fun word...

but as a different bi anon, I don't say it because I mostly fuck girls [spoiler]without condoms[/spoiler] so I respect it's not really my word.

>>7563366
>calling bisexual people breeders
>trying to discriminate against people because of their sexuality
>telling them to go away when this is the lgBt board
fuck off back to tumblr

>out of my mind on opiates at a party
>random girl is really touchy-feely for some reason
>sit on couch, let her cuddle with me because it feels nicer than being alone I guess
>late at night, going home with circle of friends, all male
>"You really had that chick all over you"
>"Dude, we're really proud of you, I knew you weren't one of those sissies"
>starts chanting "not a faggot, not a faggot"
>whole circle of friends proceeds to slap my shoulder and commend me
>"not one of those sissies"-guy proceeds to talk with me about how girls are into feminine guys like me nowadays the whole way back

welp.

>>7566355
your friends sound like some dudebro shitters

>clear summer night
>sit on stone wall with close friend
>"I gotta tell you something"
>"Go ahead"
>"I'm gay"
>"Wait, really?"
>he starts breaking out in laughter
>"No way. You really are a faggot?"
>proceeds to laugh 2min straight.
>"Well, sucks for you I guess"

The first time I met his mother she asked me privately if I'm "involved" with her son. I told her I wasn't, she seemed visibly relieved and gave me her business card - she's a manicurist...

>>7568403

Sounds like a TV show

I came out to my roommate as gay 4 times because he thought I was joking. Dense motherfucker

>coming out

>>7559920
OMG... that's literally the exact same thing my own mother has said to me as well!

>>7562919
>not taking one major's worth of classes but getting a double major and a minor because you know how to work the system
Sad!

>>7568495
Most guys are dense if you're one of those not gay gays. Hell even girls won't believe you right away unless you have a lisp or appear faggy.
It really sucks

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>>7559846
I came out to my Mom via text yesterday.
She was nice and shit, but I didn't feel the "weight lifted off my chest" meme.
I just felt nauseous and shameful. Fuck.

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>tell my cousin and his gf that I'm gay
>'Oh, we've already known for a long time.'

>>7559846
>be me, 19yo
>big head
>poor family
>low grades and dropped college
Not coming out m8

>>7569841
>I came out to my Mom via text
>text
Commit seppuku.

>>7566553
Yeah, but in my circle of friends I call them faggots to make fun of them regardless of the fact that I'm out to them. If one of them does something with a girl I'll do the same thing. Could just be an inside joke or something.

>you'll never be a femboy with a bunch of jock friends
>you'll never get fucked by all of them

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>>7569967
that's how I came out to my mom desu

I "came out" to my dad like 3 years later tho
>be mtf
>be suicidal
>go to urgent care so I don't do something stupid
>check me in and send me to the hospital in the next city
>nurse checking me into this place thinks the M for male on my bracelet is a mistake, prints me a new one with an F
>when I get a room I ask one of them if they can call my mom
>"yes, SHE is at *insert hospital"
>mom has phone on speaker
>dad is with her
>wants to know why they are calling me she
>mom tells him I'm a tranny
it could of gone worse I guess

I'm closeted because I'm enlisting in the military soon, and I don't want my parents to worry, and because the closet is surprisingly comfortable, and I want it to stay comfortable during my service.

Thinking about coming out to my friends, but I honestly have no idea if they know already. I've gotten a bit handsy when I'm drunk, and I joke around a lot about being gay because my closest friend is liberal and accepting, but still a bit of a prude, so making him blush is so cute. I'm almost certain he knows, his girlfriend too, she's been trying to get a 3 way going for most of the last year.

On the other hand, my other friends in the same circle are always trying to set me up with chicks, even when they see me all but forcibly reject them in front of them. They think I'm shy I guess?

>>7565551
10/10 story anon

I came out to my evangelical parents and got thrown out of the house

only came out to a cousin, only person in my bio family that ever showed real nonjudgmental familial love (she's also a white supremacist)

fuck my bullshit family. they'd just hurt me while gaslighting & telling me they want to help me

>>7574434
>only came out to a cousin, only person in my bio family that ever showed real nonjudgmental familial love (she's also a white supremacist)

Sorry, but that additional info had me laughing for 5 minutes straight.

>>7562541
>older sister
>"getting high on estrogen"
uhhhhhhh does she realize she's female?

>>7562611
>>7562616

why? Because she grew older and became less open to the world. It doesn't take a bad relationship fallout or an actual life event to become cold on the inside.

>>7565551
sorry for bad luck friendo.
Am in exact same boat but haven't told because step dad is a conservative meme and openly yells about trans

>>7568403
you need better friends friendo

>>7569781
>faggy
Back to tumblr with you

>>7569894
Am trans, pot/pansexual mom said she knew I was gay when I was 5...
Am in a straight marriage with a gender queer female
fuck me right, mom

>>7574713
I don't know what this means.

>>7571078
nah basic ass straight people are scared to see homosexuals because on social fear, they dont care what you are, they care about filling the anxiety hole the don't wish to understand bubbling in their subconscious

>>7574722
imma a trans pansexual.
mom called me a faggy 5 yr old
have been married to a genderqueer afab, presenting as female for 5 yrs
she still thinks I'm gay despite understanding bisexuality at least

>>7574739
hahaha
oh man

I don't blame your mom

>>7574745
go suck someone else's dick, spaz

>>7574750
he's right tho'

>>7574763
this desu

i'd be embarassed to be >>7574739
>>7574713's mother

>>7574750
oh my, did I trigger your poor little tumblrina heart? :3c

>>7574713
I know some of these words.

>>7574739
so identity aside you're still just gay

>>7571078
you deserve no straight friends if 'you get handsy when you're drunk'

So you just molest your friends? This is why straight people feel uncomfortable around gay guys, you are the reason people hate us.

enjoy having shit pay, having every single aspect of your life from your hair down to what time you wake up and go to sleep dictated by indoctrinated assholes for the next 4 years, and then having no opptunities for employment outside of starbucks after that.

you deserve it.

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>>7574967
...You wanna know how i know your a woman/feminist?

>>7570083
Ohh I remember that greentext

>>7562541
>believing women
That was your first mistake

>>7574726
>Believing this stupid shit
>"Gays are so unusual that no one can handle our presence"

Fuck off.

>>7559924
I came out to my parents in the worst circumstances, yet it went smoothlier than expected. I registered on Recon when I was younger, so I could give a try to a dog/master kink I always had. I lost interest and never did it, but men kept sending me private messages and both my mother and my father once caught one while looking my phone. They yelled, told me I was disgusting, but I take it that was the shock. Now they accept me, but we don't speak about it.

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>>7559846
I don't have ms paint so this edit is shit. Sorry.

So I was forced to come out when my brother started working at the clinic I get my hormones from. He told my mom and she told the rest of the family. Most of the older people in my family hate it by my parents, siblings, and most of my cousins support it.

>>7577180
>So I was forced to come out when my brother started working at the clinic I get my hormones from. He told my mom
Aren't there laws against that, what the hell.

>Come out to dad, im sobbing and shaking incoherently
>He takes it amazingly, says he loves me no matter what
>Not two hours later he says "you're not gonna start dressing and acting like a girl tho right"
>I've been trying to explain it to him for months, even got my therapist to explain it to him
>He just thinks it's "depression", made me cut a buzz cut, and keeps pushing me to do manly stuff (i.e lifting weights, dating girls, going to football games, etc"

I know it's relatively tame compared to all y'all's stuff, but it still sucks a little

>>7559900
I haven't come out, but make these jokes with my mom. She used to get more mad but now she laughs. Never do it with my dad.

>>7577279
What is wrong with that?

>>7565573
cuz bis take away their gay sense of pride wwaaaaaahhh

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>im a tranny, dad
>no ur not, son
>ok
>btw youll be an ugly woman
>ok
>sneak HRT for 3 years
>jokes on him im cute now and passable now

>>7577463
I love this anime

>>7577218
There are, but most people are not going to sue family over that kind of shit.

>>7559924
Coming outs are incredibly important. What could be better for communities than having a big coming out party just to introduce your child to the world as the queer person they are.

>>7577715
>I want everyone to know I suck cock

>>7577279
don't diminish yourself so much... that sucks a lot

don't make excuses for him if he can't accept you for who you are

>Was in a really bad living situation
>Called my mom to come get me
>Was not ready to come out/planned on staying in boymode
>neighbor kept calling me 'baby girl' and she
>my mom wtf'd on me
>had a long car ride back home full of yelling and crying

>be 15
>come out to mom through an email
>she thinks its joke, tells her friends
>I explain no mom I'm for real
>"Oh no, lets get you into therapy!" -Mom 2013
>Go to therapy, was nice, but mom demanded she sit in sessions with me
>I don't want to go anymore, tell mom that
>"Why do you hate me! Do you know how much money I spent on therapy!"
>Mom calls dad, explains everything to my dad
>Have literally no idea that conversation happened
>Be 18
>Make joke about saving for surgery
>Dad pulls me aside
>Says "So is what your mom said true?"
>I say "Yeah-yeah..."
>Dad starts getting teary eyed
>"I thought you grew out of that"

My dad's known for three years. One of the shittiest parts of my life. My mom has been lying to me for three years essentially. And my dad has just been like fuck it.

>>7579387
>you didn't self-med

sigh

>>7562499
>"being strong" is sucking cock until you die and leave nothing behind

Ok.

>>7579402

I self medded on and off. Poor people problems, I was lucky to start spiro for a few months before turning 18.

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>Be 19 and living in Australia
>Have conservative ex-communist eastern european parents
>Both have personality disorders
>Get prescribed hormones in secret
>Come out to mother in meeting with therapist
>She has a mental breakdown, starts convulsively crying
>Runs out of room and apparently almost tries to kill herself
>Goes back home and tells rest of immediate family
>Proceeds to spend next two weeks in bed crying while near catatonic on klonopin
>Dad yells at me and breaks expensive things
>Siblings barely talk to me but are obviously ashamed and uncomfortable
>Get kicked out of home several months later because I refused to stop taking HRT
>Mother's logic is that since I'll end up killing myself anyway I should do it somewhere she won't have to clean up the mess
>3 years later, jokes on you mom I'm still alive :^)

>>7579533
>She has a mental breakdown
>Dad yells at me and breaks expensive things
This is something I never understood. Why do some parents do this? I understand the ones that basically go "you're dead to me" and kick you out of the house, but the ones that freak out like this just don't make any sense to me.

>>7579601
Not wanting to have a freak for a child is hard to understand?

>>7579705
No, that's totally understandable. What I don't understand is why they totally freak out instead of just cutting contact.

These stories are what I'm afraid of seeing happen. I know a FtM that is insisting he has to come out to his parents since he's about to change his name. I'm trying my hardest to stop him 'cause his folks are already outspoken against transpeople and they already don't get along over other shit.

I'm worried it's going to end extremely terribly but he won't listen to me and insists my idea of hiding it as long as possible until he's out of their house is the only way. "It just doesn't sit right with me" "I won't stick my head in the sand"

It feels to me he's just craving validation I know he won't get.

>>7579749
Is not the only way*

Oops.

>>7574967
Okay, fair point, but there's a bit of a miscommunication. I'm talking back rubs and falling asleep on their shoulder in the car ride home, etc.

If it made them uncomfortable, I hope I'd notice. Something to consider though, I suppose.

>>7579972
Keep in mind anon people have different interpretations of touching. If a good friend start rubbing my back I'd be extremely uncomfortable because for me that's a really intimate thing to do.

When i came out to my parents my father seemed to have straight up forgotten it 6 months later.
Coming out to my best friend took a few months becouse i was known for being sarcastic a lot.

>My cousin came out as gay a year ago
>Now my conservative Christian family treats him like an outcast and don't want anything to do with him
>Family makes fun of him all the time
>My dad sent him a facebook message about how "homosexuality is a sin"
>Cousin lives in Sweden now where he doesn't have to deal with my family's shit
>I still live in america with my family

Now that I think about it, besides facebook chats, I've never met my cousin.

I'm probably not coming out anytime soon.
Gonna hide it as long as possible.

>>7580177
>>Cousin lives in Sweden now


>come out as gay
>family hates and makes fun of me
>move to accepting sweden
>muslims hate and make fun of me

hmm

>>7569781
It might suck when trying to come out, but while you're trying to stay in the closet, it's kind of nice, mostly because you can just grope a guy, make a dumb joke to go along with it, and no one will suspect a thing.

>>7566262
>back to tumblr
>is bitching about equality on 4chan

>>7580426
Kick the fucking Muslims out.
Like holy shit, you guys aren't even a "multicultural country" the way America is.

My family wouldn't care at all if I told them I was attracted to the same sex. I don't know how they would handle me wanting to get rid of my benis though. They would probably accept me eventually, but I'm still to scared to come out

>>7581086
They sound like well-meaning liberals, just do it, you're probably like 16-19 and wasting time.

>>7579715
Because, the parents still love their children although they disapprove of them?

>>7580177
>Cousin lives in Sweden now where he doesn't have to deal with my family's shit

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Bet he lives in gothenburg doesn't he, hahaha

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>be raised by homophobic conservative hyper-Christian fundamentalist father
>know I'm bi at 15, can't tell him
>move across country to be with a guy at 18, tell dad I'm moving in with some friends
>he dies less than two weeks later
>life begins to fall apart, develop severe daddy issues, bf falls for someone else
>move in with dad's brother (my uncle) six months later
>he's also conservative, but not bullshit retarded like dad was, just a social Catholic who doesn't really give a shit about lgbts, which is fine in comparison
>get my life back together, move out a year later at 20
>in school a while later at 21, close to my mom and stepfather (she remarried before dad died)
>stepdad is chill, really liberal and took the time to get to know me
>develop gender identity issues in addition to bi shit
>come out to my parents in private over Christmas, they support me
>finally feel safe after not having come out to dad years ago before he was gone
>graduate school, move away for new job at 22
>life is looking up, begin thinking about transitioning
>suddenly, stepfather is killed six months later
>go off the deep end with grief, drink a bottle of wine before dinnertime and spend most the night vomiting
>decided "fuck it" and came out publicly over normiebook in a wave of emotion
>started cutting that night, came dangerously close to suicide
>wake up in a mess the next day, own up to what I said
>notice uncle didn't say anything, only liked a few posts from others saying they still loved and cared for me
>betterthanexpected.jpg
>then some old friend of dad's started comparing me to "Bruce" Jenner even though she was never mentioned, get into a fight
>he would later say that my father was in heaven while my stepfather was in hell
>fucking deleted

So.... Yeah. The only good thing about finally overcoming my repression was that my uncle didn't abandon me. I don't know if the same could be said about my dad.

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>>7559846
>come out as trans 4 months ago
>get kicked out homeless for a few months sleep in hospital waiting rooms and friends houses
>meet fellow tranny
>start dating
>move in together with a couple other friends
>find a shit job
>starting hrt in 2 weeks

things might be ok other than my financial situation

>>7569841
>I just felt nauseous and shameful

I felt nauseous for like two days straight after coming out to my family, fucking hated it (obviously). Things felt better quickly though.

>>7579749
Nah I get it, he's man after all isn't he? It's important he does this his way, if that includes exerting authority over his parents than thats what it includes. Men need victories, even just a quick struggle is good for them.

Support him and let him have this, it's not about them accepting him it's about him accepting himself.

>>7577180
please don't co-opt our memes

>>7559846
Not coming out but
> Mom find my sister's clothes I used to wear alone under my bed while cleaning
> Say I don't know why it's here, it's probably my sister who puts them during her sleep
> She answer whatever and stop thinking about it
> And now 4 years later I'm unable to tell her about me being trans
I probably wasted my only opportunity

I came out to my family then some friends.
>then my bf dumped me and i was terribly frustrated that I had told anyone anything.

>>7559846
>came out as bi when 13
>Dad doesnt say anything just disappears
>Comes back a week later like nothing happened

Went better then expected T B H

>>7579749
i mean, the way i see it is that even once you start hormones chances are you (at least for ftms) have just a few months before they might start noticing changes, so it might be best to just get it out of the way and explain what's going to happen before you start inexplicably growing a beard.

if he's not planning to get on t soon though, i'd agree with you.

>>7578457
I second this. Don't accept the ignorance of people who would rather you stay the same in their eyes instead of becoming someone who is comfortable living in your own skin.
t. A Person who lived in an abusive relationship for 3 years

>>7559846
Why the fuck do you all bother "coming out"? It puts a fuck ton of focus on you, making you the center of attention and turning it all into a big deal.

I never came out. I just started dating women and told people about my girlfriend when they asked if I was seeing anyone, just like a hetero would do. My parents don't need to know I'm seeing anyone unless they ask. If someone who knows me, but doesn't like gays, finds out about my relationships they can either get over themselves because they consider our already established friendship as more important or they can fuck off. It doesn't need to be a confrontation.

Asking for 'forgiveness' is much easier than asking for permission.

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>>7577463
hoping this happens to me except despite being half middle eastern and having a Jewish nose, starting within a month and I just turned 18 a week ago so who knows

>>7586533
Don't worry, FFS is a thing.

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>>7586556
sadly there aren't any surgeries to fix hon hands

>>7559846
So I was staying with my extreme feminist mother when I was younger, and well...heres my story

>Growing up around her, she expresses all straight men are pretty much the devil.
>She only dates women or trannies
>Pretty much makes it seem like being a fag or tranny are the only acceptable thing, is nice to me otherwise, but otherwise mocks all forms of men.
>Try to make myself gay with her strap on her lesbian lovers use on myself, it hurts, don't really like it.
>Try finding a gay lover at high school, they complain im not gay enough, and the idea of sex is repulsing
>Sometimes end up thinking about women, their softness, their delicateness, cum buckets
>Be in the closet about being a heterosexual
>Eventually move in with my dad
>Dad is straight, mostly ok.
>Absolutely 0 confidence with women, paranoid about them, used to hiding my feelings at all times
>Awkward as fuck around women, literally do not know how to respond to girls expressing interest in me, so I don't respond
>depressed and suicidal as fuck
>Eventually get into consoling, get diagnosed with "sexual aversion disorder" by myself (its not a thing in DSM5 because you faggots made it "asexual")
>Doc refuses to treat it because its not a thing anymore
>treat myself,. slowly get out of the closet, but am terrified of my own feelings
>eventually come out, which doesn't help because straight men face a lot of hostility by many
>Life still a mess otherwise, but at least I am capable of getting with a woman...but confidence is still shit tier

Lesbians are the worst people to raise young men.

>>7579705
If they didn't want to have a freak for a child, they shouldn't have been freak parents with untreated mental disorders.

>>7586338
Same thing happened to me but it was my GF's cloths.

>mom finds skirt,shirt,panties in closet
>Tell her they are my gf's extra that she keeps here encase something happens
>"Oh ok, give them back to her"
>ok.jpeg

Whole thing scared the shit outta me, thought I was gonna get beaten by my dad if he found out. Now its also 4 years later and like hell if I'm gonna tell them now.

Thanks for sharing these stories. I haven't come out about feeling the wrong gender since I was a teenager. I doubt my parents and family would disown me, but even then I still fear confession. I'm already piling worry on them about being a Bulimic (which stemmed from my desire to be thin while I start a potential transition.)

>>7586819
How old are you? It sounds like you're not on HRT and wasting time.

>>7586861

27. It's probably too late.

>>7586689
Thats fucked up dude. Hope that you're better now

>>7574713
>fuck me right, mom

Looking at your family dynamics, I wouldn't be surprised if she actually did.

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>>7559846

>been on pill estrogen for a year, parents didn't know at all.
>decided to do the injectible meme
>one of the times I picked up needles from the post office I hid my needles in my car because my parents were home
>forgot about them and my dad went into my car one day and found them
>he thought I was doing heroin
>oh god
>"DAD! IT'S NOT WHAT YOU THINK!"
>was basically about to disown me at that point
>couldn't tell him it was for tits
>mom came in that night and I felt like shit but I had to tell her
>idk what she told my dad but he layed off for a while

PT2

>tried to jump off a marriot hotel
>pussied out and went to the mental hospital
>they told my family about my trans stuff without my consent
>"everything is going to be ok anon! Its hard but we will accept you and support you."
>get discharged, get home, they sit me down
>"anon, you are going to stop this insanity, you are disgusting and youll look like a hambeast
>get verbally abused most days, one time get groped my dad, parents tell me i'm disgusting all the time
>move out, never talk to them again
>life is gr8 now and i'm cute

>>7559924

Could not agree more, none of my friends needed to tell the world they liked pussy, I don't need to tell them I like cock.

>>7588286
no remorse over destroying your family?

Good job asshole.

Another shining example of how trans people are socially innept

By the way, how come no trans ever goes to their parents FIRST before taking shit? no wonder they treated you bad.

>>7586631
Just wear stylish gloves or long sleeve clothes.
Get creative anon.

I feel sorry for you people, some of you have really terrible parents. Being supportive of your children is parenting 101, people who can't even do that should never get kids.

>>7588286
>life is gr8 now and i'm cute
post pics

>tfw my parents would never disown me and accept me no matter what, that's why I feel obliged to them and I can never tell them that I am a failed son.
maybe having shitty parents is better, makes u think.

>>7574510
>10▶
>>>7574434
Ikr? It's like "yeah she's pretty accepting and openminded, she just draws that line at racial equality"

>>7588369
like I care? they can eat my poop. They would do ridiculous things before that, like throw away my shampoo if it smelled too fruity for them. There is no reasoning with them. My biggest joy in life is thinking about all the pain my parents are having because they didn't have a "perfect life", everything was ruined by me, yep, they totally had no part in that.

>>7588401
no pics, 4chan is bad. i'm at least okay looking enough to get dates pretty easily.

grow some balls annonete and come out. they probably already know

>>7559900
>Slav
>Fascist
Anon...

>>7588369

>By the way, how come no trans ever goes to their parents FIRST before taking shit? no wonder they treated you bad.

This desu. If I had kids, and they turned out to be trans, I'd want them to tell me about it first. Fuck's sake, I'd help them see a therapist about it so they could either get hormones or get to the bottom of why they're experiencing those feelings, and if nothing else, make sure they are otherwise mentally right in the head so I don't have to worry about them killing themselves.

>>7588369
>By the way, how come no trans ever goes to their parents FIRST before taking shit? no wonder they treated you bad.
And put yourself at real risk of homelessness?

>>7589243

Hate to go /his/ /pol/ whatever but the most vehemently fascists were the ones who came out in hoards when the Nazis rolled east. It even spooked the shit out of the Nazis by how dogmatic they were.

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>>7588369
You are a cunt. I hope you know that.

>>7588369
If making a choice for your own self puts the precious family unit at risk of being upended, so be it. Fuck the collective, the individual is what matters.

>>7589249
Yeah but most parents would take the hrt away..... that's why we don't say shit

When you all started transitioning, did you have your sperm frozen for a future potential use?

>>7581365
Nah, they just love their mental image of their children

>>7586863
Its not. I started around that age. I should say its not too late to take hormones if thats what relieves your dysphoria. Social transition, I would say, really depends on you and how well you feel you pass.
I dont pass yet (and not sure if I will), but taking hormones has gotten rid of my dysphoria so its whatever. Do what you will, just dont suffer if you dont have to.

>>7577180
Are testosterone pills orange?

>>7588286
>not suing the hospital for breaching doctor patient confidentiality
Almost had a total win there.

>be cross playing at a convention
>have wig in box
>dad "anon can I use this box"
>I guess
>dad pulls out wig
>later
>"so do you want to be a woman?"
>i...I think I do

He was kinda weirded out. Seems accepting though. Getting ready to come out to mom

>>7589446
I don't want my sperm to be made into children so no, my everything down there gives me dysphoria I really just wanna get pregnant ;-;

>>7589416

Honestly, I'd be making sure they see a medical professional so they know to get the right dosage, of the right type. I would rather my children not be experimenting randomly with medication.

>>7559846
17 yrs, not in closet about being bi but topic never came up until...

>Be in car with dude1 and dude2 after party.
>Dude1: Hey anon, Gayguy was totally hitting on you tonight. Like super gay and shit.
>Dude2: Yeah man, he was.
>Me: Can't blame him for admiring my aesthetics, bros.
>Dude1: Yeah, but its gay!
>Me: Only if I look him in the eyes.
>Dude2: Did you look him in the eyes?
>Me: Yeeea, sure did lad.
>Dude1: Are you FUCKING GAY, Anon?
>Me: Ye.
>Dude1: You'd suck cock?!
>Me: Ye.
>Dude1: You'd take it up the ass?!
>Me: May.
>Dude1: Well fuck dude!
>Dude2: Would you suck my dick, Anon?
>Dude1: Dude2, wtf!?!?
>Dude2: Hey, he said if the eyes don't meet...
>Dude1: WHAT THE FUCK!?!? When did my car become full of faggots!?
>Me: Glad to hear you're joining us. Should I put down the seats?
>Dude1: Fuck no! ...And who the fuck is changing songs on my fucking ipod!?

I can't help but laugh every time I think back. The next week the three of us watched Dexter at Dude1's house. We were all in the same bed but alas no homo.

>>7586689
Chills ran down my spine just thinking that there is a feminist mother raising a boy. hope you're better.

>>7565522
fucking lost it

>>7559920
She's right you know.

You people are so fucking disgusting.

>>7559920
Same shit from my mom as well. Tfw is not that easy.

>>7559900
I wish my father were like that; it might have helped me to repress my tranu nature.

>>7568403
Lmao one of my friends reacted like this, but he immediately altered tone, apologised, and thanked me for telling him; then went on laughing. I miss that guy.

>>7589446
I would have just in case, even though I don't care about having biological children (though I very much care about being able to be pregnant, which sperm banking wouldn't help). It costs money though so it wasn't worth it.

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>>7559846
>blue pill

>>7559924
I mean, mine didn't go wrong really. My parents just ignore the fact that I like guys more than gals. Hell, the next day my dad brought home one of those calenders with the girls in swimsuits. And my mom was the one who was disappointed, totally not what I thought would happen.

>>7592843
Pottery. It's like God was having a laugh. Same as when the actual Matrix directors turned out to be trannies.

>>7589670
Considering how often these so-called professionals view 650ng/dL test or 200ng/dL test (far above female range) as perfectly fine, the kid would be better off on their own with blood tests taken through GP or private labs.

Daily reminder that if you get ~*official*~ hormones, you're being a total retard if you don't make sure your doc shows you your exact hormone level numbers so you can cross-check with acceptable ranges and make sure they're doing their job well.

gays nead castrated

Not really coming out but I want to be a trap very badly and have for years and I kept it hidden but been open around friends, my mom keeps asking if I am at least bi or gay because she's picking up on stuff and she always talks about how gross trannies are in this city here called Ybor (for any of you FloridaFags you should know how that city is) but she only suspects i'm merely into dudes, should I just tell her the truth?

>>7592986
Do you think it would help you? That's the only reason you should do it. Considering she's talking about how gross trannies are I fail to see how tat would be the case. Telling her your sexuality probably wouldn't help either.

Also, understanding that you want to just be a trap and aren't trans (unless by "trap" you just mean "trans") is hard for a lot of people.

>>7593005
I usually say "trans" irl to friends because it's easier to just say that than explain what a trap is, but I mean i'm very much decided that it's what I wanna do and I don't want to just show up one day with fake tits and trapped out and out of the blue just "i'm trans now", my dad I have to do this with because he used to be a part of neo-nazi gang so I would probably get hurt after, I have 3 siblings and he said if even one of them was bi he'd find another place to live and my step-mom agreed with it too

>>7593017
In that case I think your only option is to hide it until you move out and stop being dependent on them. You clearly can't tell them, and unless you're on HRT for a while HRT for a while you'd be able to inconspicuously hide it until you no longer have to.

How exactly do you mean "trap" then, since it's a broad term? Will you take HRT? Feminise your voice? Change your legal gender? Consistently present as female in public? One can do all of those things while still calling themselves a trap rather than a woman or an MtF, or without considering themselves "a woman on the inside" or whatever.

>>7593052
well, basically like Bailey Jay is what I want to be like, whatever she did to get to how she is now, I only recently am more open about so research only started a few months ago

>>7593105
Bailey Jay started at 15 and has probably had FFS, breast augmentation, and silicone implants. You'd need to be rich.

>>7593119
my family is, my grandmother is even a doctor, that's why I want to say I am to them that way I could get all the medical stuff done and paid for

>>7589774
I can only hope for an outcome that hilarious and accepting. Alas whenever it leaks that I'm a huge faggot it'll probably go terribly

>>7593119
>>7593105
The only surgery shes done is breast implants and had fat injected into her butt. The reason she looks like she does (or did when she was younger) is because she more than likely has klinefelter's syndrome. She apparently never viralized (no facial hair, etc) when she was young (Look up pictures of her when she was younger and you'll see she either looks like a ten year old boy or a skinny lesbian). She never bothered to get the genetic test for it because she said it was too expensive. This is all information I got from old episodes of her podcasts ("sugar and spice", "Third gender radio", and "The Bailey Jay show"). "The Bailey Jay Show" is still going on now, although they talk more about supernatural stuff now.

>>7593693
Oh I didn't realize it was actually fat injected, I thought it was silicone. Has she really not had FFS? That's wild.

Anyway, if she started at 15 she wouldn't have grown facial hair anyway, so that makes sense. Idk, to say she has Klinefelter's is basically saying "not even early transitioners can pass unless they're intersex". Especially because she doesn't really pass as AFAB anyway. But maybe.

>>7593723
Passing is pretty much genetics and luck all the way down with effort being able to modify your odds some.
When I say started, I mean thats when she started dressing as a woman. She's only recently(last couple of years) gotten on a regular hormone regimen. Her hormone situation is weird.

>Especially because she doesn't really pass as AFAB anyway.

Maybe when shes waving her dick around, but She seems to pass to me and most normies. Granted shes kinda internet famous (i.e. her dick is all over the internet) so most people who know her know shes trans just because of her e-fame.

>>7593265
Why do you figure it will go terribly?

I kind of figured my group wouldn't accept it very well either. D1 and D2 were my best friends but everything they said seemed pretty homophobic, To be honest after that day nothing changed and I realised that most of the way we spoke and the insults we used were cultural and not really as indicative of how we felt.

They still spotted for me at the gym and we still all went into the sauna mostly naked afterward. I never made any advances and we stayed good friends until adulthood, there we went our separate ways.

Its true that those around you might get pretty upset about you being gay, but then again they could surprise you as much as my mates surprised me.

>>7564094
> Anon you look really beautiful, you're fit and have a nice face it'll be easy for you to attract a girlfriend

That's what my mother said to me... I told her sometime I also liked guys but she seems to have ignored that and still believes I'm straight.

>>7592938
Hormone replacement therapy is about replacing. If you're injecting 500mg test a week into one guy or another it doesn't really matter in the overall testosterone levels because the testicles shut down testosterone production.

You have a few extra medication you can take to controll the side effects of testosterone well. The risk of heart disseases still remains though.

>>7586525
>either get over themselves because they consider our already established friendship as more important or they can fuck off. It doesn't need to be a confrontation.

That's exactly what coming out is for. What you don't seem to understand is that you come out every time you speak about your girlfriend or correct someone's assumption. When you're a faggot you never stop coming out, every new person you meet you will eventually come out too. It's not some special party where suddenly the entire world knows, and like 80% of the time it happens for the first time before you're even ready for it.

Some people are more pro-active than re-active, and would rather tell everyone at once rather than naturally come out through conversation.

>>7594021
> I realised that most of the way we spoke and the insults we used were cultural and not really as indicative of how we felt.

I wish more people realized this. The amount of times I've gotten weird looks for throwing around "faggot" as an insult or saying "Dude don't be gay" I'm not being homophobic, I was just surrounded by dudebro's my entire life. Sure maybe there's an argument that I'm perpetuating a sort of subtle homophobia, but fuck off. This is how I am now. You're not going to undo 20 years of living just because you feel strongly about the topic. Go harass some kids about it, not me.

>>7595682
>fuck off. This is how I am

Normally when someone makes a mistake they apologize and try not to do it again.
Your recalcitrance is off-putting.

>>7595714
It's not anymore of a mistake than your choice to use "recalcitrance" when "obstinance" would suffice, or even just "stubbornness". You've got nothing to prove anon, lay off the pretention.

And at any rate, I've been throwing around "faggot" long before I even realized I was gay. Humans are creatures of habit, friend-o.

>>7595830
that's not an excuse.
grow up.

>>7595830
prepare to meet my habit of kicking your ass

>>7595930
right, because the sort of sissy who cares about the word "faggot" is the type that also lifts.

>>7562560
hi cheeseman

>tell mother I am bi
>mom asks if I am sure
>say I am very sure
>mom thinks I am just pretending to be bi so I have to say I am gay
>I reassure her I am bi
>she starts telling it would be ok if I was gay, she then goes to tell me that being bi is a meme in her opinion
>try to avoid the subject and keep telling her I am bisexual and just gay
>She just reassures me that she loves me for whatever I am and leaves the kitchen
Tfw

>>7593052
>and unless you're on HRT for a while HRT for a while you'd be able to inconspicuously hide it until you no longer have to.
i'm just gonna say that in most cases this may or may not be true but in some changes can happen very fast. after a month i wasn't able to wear tshirts anymore because my nipple got so puffy they showed through them. now at 6 months i'm past the point where wearing most of my sweaters makes it obvious as fuck that i have boobs.

>>7596847
>being bi is a meme in her opinion
definitly

>>7597053
That is true, though the way I meant it was that it would be easy to hide before getting on HRT or after not having been on HRT for long enough that breasts become visible under inconspicuous clothing (other changes won't be a concern before breasts would be). It's easy to not let your parents find out you want to dress in women's clothing by just not doing it, and it's not a time-sensitive thing like getting on HRT so it's okay to not do it.

If you are going on HRT you can't be sure how you'll respond. Still, you should go on just an antiandrogen or an antiandrogen with a low dose of oestrogen (which would have minimal visible effects but stop your masculinisation), since the longer you wait the worse your body is going to get, permanently.

>>7593105
I think that's a pretty healthy perspective to have, from the impression I get from Bailey Jay. The way I'm interpreting it, it's not being too concerned with how you label yourself or how you're perceived by others and just trying to make yourself feel good about your body and your identity, yet without going into bullshit transtrender territory (so still actually wanting to change things, just being "casual" about the social aspect, for lack of a better word).

>>7559846
Serious question, has anyone here tried to come out like in the classic Queer as Folk scene?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91-7TWmO1e8

I think it would be amazing if someone actually pulled it off.

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>16, gather the courage to tell my mom that I'm trans and that I want to start sessions to get approved for HRT
>Full denial mode
>Eventually get her to approve the process
>Finish up psych sessions, get approved for HRT
>Mom starts nagging me even worse, loading on more and more pressure about going through with it (social, career, etc ramifications, constantly questioning my sexuality and still asking whether I'm sure)
>Find out from my patrilineal aunt that my mom told everyone on my dad's side of the family (they were divorced) about it
>"It was too stressful for me to handle by myself, so I asked your father about it and he asked your aunt about it (because she's gay) and she asked your grandmother about it" etc etc
>Panic and deny everything, effectively stopping myself short of transitioning

Four years later and I'm starting the process all over again. This time, fuck family. I'm doing this for me, so they can find out once I've started and I have some grasp of happiness to support myself with.

>>7601451
another tranny selfishly tearing their family apart what a shocker.

>>7601451
You sound like a coward afraid of truth.

>>7601451
Shame, you might have passed if you had started then. Now you probably never will.

>>7571078
DD6130.03.29.R

>>7559846
>coming out
>not just living your life and giving zero fucks
lmao this meme will never die. The only reason i had a "coming out" with my parents was that i was a minor and i needed their help to transition.

I think my coming out as bi was basically me letting my parents know i was dating my friend and that i wanted to invite him over

>>7602550
Okay but that literally was your coming out in every meaningful sense

>>7574739
What the fuck, are you me? My mom "knew" I was gay since I was five, but I'm actually bi trans, married to a genderqueer afab who has presented female for most of our marriage (there was a guy year).

>>7594671
I'm talking about mtf hormone therapy. Not TRT/steroid abuse
Many endos for mtfs are shit. They will go "heh, 200ng/dL test, sounds good to me hon" when in reality that's not going to be very good for feminizing them. Even worse for 650ng/dL (it's happened to a friend of mine)
It is about replacing. So with it in mind that many endos don't give a shit about replacing well, then one should always make sure to see the hormone test result numbers to make sure they're doing their job well.

>>7601614
Not afraid, ashamed. I tried to repress, but it just got worse. Killing myself would hurt my family more than this, so I don't see much option here.

>>7596847

>mom says being bi is a meme

lel

>>7603142
My mother shares the same point of view, dunno why people think bi is a meme or bi is just another meaning of promiscuous

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>>7601608
>>7601614
Pic related

>>7603270
>>7603142
The bi meme meme probably has a lot to do with half a century of faggots screaming "it's not a choice, I don't choose to love dicks"
If it's not a choice why would a person ever choose to be with a man when they are also into women.

>>7600812
>I'm moses and the parting of the red cheeks
topkek

>>7603697
I fuck for fun, not to raise children and for having fun I don't have to choose

>>7603697
>implying I'm into men or women
I'm into hair and necks

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>come out gay
>EVERY single person said "I figured you were/I knew but didn't really know"

>>7602550
>lmao this meme will never die
>also here are two separate and completely reasonable reasons to come out
Are you fucking retarded or what

>>7603889
lmao I never had a single person tell me they knew/noticed except for one gay guy.

>tell a straight friend of mine I'm bi
>he gets super defensive
>"I just hope you aren't into me or some gay shit like that"
backstory, this guy is a huge wannabe womanizer, always seeing multiple girls at a time, but never actually managing to fuck any of them.
>following this, he alway talks about how much he likes girls
>cranks up chasing pussy to the maximum
>actually manages to get some of them to bed but always "too drunk"
>eventually he starts avoiding me for bullshit reasons

I have a sneaking suspicion that he MIGHT have been gay the entire time.

>be me
>be 16
>mom and dad are sportive of lgbt
>step sister is trans
>me 2
>mom lets me dress up as a girl for Halloween
>get in full girl mode
>everyone is cool with it and it is going grate
>its my time
>tell my mom that i'm trans
>she says i'm not
>ok.jpg
>go home and cry
>a half a year later
>everyone forgot all about that
>this time tell my dad
>he says that me thinking i am is offensive to my sister
>to this day i have never told anyone i know
>tfw my excepting parents don't except me
>tfw my existence is offensive to my sister

>>7610987
Joanna?