As a passing tranny, is it better to just never mention that I am trans to people I go out with? I dont want to deal with them having bad reactions or outing me in case it doesnt work out.
If you don't tell them you deserve the severe beating afterwards tbqh funpai
>>7553444
I dont understand number 1. I'm just trying to live my life without being labeled as trans. And they wouldnt find out. Besides what they dont know wont hurt them.
only worth telling them before you actually have sex. It doesn't really matter before that and any person worth dating will understand why you kept this from them if you explain it.
>>7553495
But what if they walk away and out me? It takes a huge level of trust before I could tell anyone I was dating.
>>7553412
Tell them before the prospect of sex, but not until then
So, on a date where you might have sex at the end, but not in the bed when you're about to strip
>>7554183
you have to take that chance, like the old saying goes
love is giving someone the tools to utterly destroy you and trusting them not to.
>>7553412
You have to tell them before you do anything physical. Not only because they have a right to their own decisions about their own sexuality as much as you do (they do, tho) but also because if they figure out you're a tranny after you've kissed etc. you're liable to get the shit beaten right out of you.