How does one get over thier dysphoria and become normal? >Inb4

>>7550288
Instill habits of bringing positivity towards your born sex, and negativity, towards being the opposite sex.

If you think BEING a man is awesome, and trying to be a girl will be a shit show, it will be easier.

The key thing is to ask yourself is why EXACTLY you wish to be the opposite sex.

Its not to have those genitals, its something else...perhaps a trait, or people treating you a certain way.

Identify why, and then you can try fixing it.

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>>7550348
I just want to be a cute trap housewife. It'll never happen though so I'm trying to learn to accept my current state. I'm trying to fit in and I'm learning to fake it.

>bump

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>>7550288
>>7550348
How does a femboy keep his dysphoria/perfectionism from eating him and turning him into a full mtf?

>>7550614
That's a good question.

will anyone who is either not trans or at least 24 and not passable (and please no "i only get pity passed" BDDs) talk to me?

>>7550288
Why can't you transition, anon?

>>7550398
100 backpats love, I hope that you may find happiness. I cheer for you!


>>7550288
Maybe (if you like men) you are just getting mixed feelings and are mistaken. Perhaps you actually just want to be a femboy. If this is the case, you could take some hrt to remain somewhat cute as a male, but as well be the qt bf you could always have wanted to be.

>>7550653
Why the fuck did I say anon. This fucking habit lol

same feels
you can always kill yourself

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>>7550398
>It'll never happen though
why not

>>7550653
I'd be an ugly hon ;-;
I grew out a beard and everything so I'm just trying to live as normally as possible atm.

>>7550676
How old are you

>>7550737
Isn't everyone 18+ on 4Chan? I'm def not 17 *hinthint* otherwise I'd be banned.

>>7550737
18

>>7550783
You're 12 years too young to be a hon

>>7550804
>Implying age has more to do with it then genetics
Nice meme

>>7550814
If you really want to repress, you can start by avoiding any thoughts on tranny stuff. Stay away from 4chan and other communities with large trans populations, and surround yourself with manly men. Get into a male hobby and find a wife. Have kids.

Of course, you probably won't be too happy if you repress. You might find that you wished you transitioned someday.

>>7550853
I guess there is no real solution is there? Transition and I'll be excommunicated from the family along with a ton of other problems that I predict I'll encounter. Don't and I'll regret it someday. I wish there was just a body swap machine for FTMs and MTFs who want to change genders ;-; I guess I'll start repression by not watching trap hentai and TS porn... maybe I'll quit visiting /lgbt/ and just stick to /lit/

>>7550804
I was a hon since 14 moron

>>7550889
It sucks to be a tranny because you're right--there's way to win. You can only make the best of what you have. At least if you transition, you might have a chance at being happy. Slim, but probably better than if you repress.

>>7550911
Same ;-;

Anti psychotics worked in the one person they were tried on, but ideologically driven folks wanted to make transitioning the only method allowed to treat dysphoria. Good luck getting them though, and if you do, hope to god you don't get side effects.

>>7550971
I do believe in a push for transitional advancements but for some people like me or others who are doomed to be hons it would have been nice if there was an alternative such as what you suggested. Ugg this is such a shit show over all. Sometimes I wish I'd never been born at all.

>>7550997
>Sometimes I wish I'd never been born at all.
iktf

<1% chance to become a tranny. 50% chance to have been born the right gender.

What the fuck is this luck.

>>7550971
>in the one person they were tried on
>neuroleptics were never tried before in any cases of gender dysphoria ever
>this is what /pol/lutants actually believe

>>7551031
Eat shit

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8839957

>>7551045
http://genderanalysis.net/2016/12/myth-pimozide-and-gender-dysphoria-gender-analysis/

>>7550653
old
ugly
hopeless social situation

>>7551061
Wow, look, it only goes "hey he had other problems too so maybe it wasn't just that" and doesn't even argue anything else I said. I only said "worked in the one person they were tried on" to offer an ALTERNATIVE since OP doesn't want to transition. I never claimed it was a perfect solution.

It's worth trying to treat trans people with these, rather than having them sterilize themselves to possibly not even end up passing.

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The only real solution is to kill yourself. The sad truth of it is you're only ever going to be a hun without enough shekels to afford a fancy inverted cock surgery. If you kill yourself now at least you'll leave a nice cis corpse.

>>7551083
you didn't read it, though
neuroleptics have been tried far more than once -- they're still actively used in some places
if you'd read it, you'd have seen the section on that
do you think there was some kind of progressive tranny agenda in the 50s, or that there is now in bumfuck eastern europe, that wanted to hide the truth about neuroleptics being a treatment?

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>>7551109
sorry was tl;dr and I have some mentall illnesses myself

What do you suggest OP does then?

>>7551128
Kill himself

>>7551128
she says she's 18, so going repressionmode would be fucking stupid
even if she genuinely does look bad now she'll look a lot worse down the line
for milder cases of transsexualism there's an argument that embracing the gender role of your natal sex, whether the more traditional form of it or the non-conforming gay form, can allow you to repress it, but i'm uncertain as to how mild it needs to be to be pulled off and in Current Year that's less viable with the relative ease of transition

>>7550398

You don't need to identify as a girl to be a trap housewife. You can still take up that position as a femboy or a crossdressing twink. Marry a nice man, tell him what you want out of life...

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>>7551142
It is pretty mild for me but I grew up with a single mother and always remember trying on her stuff while she was away (6-8yrs) I always fantasized about being feminized and dressed like a Disney princess, when I got to puberty and discovered masterbation it was usually to trap related stuff such as the anime Princess Princess (I would always imagine myself in their position) and even to this day I wish I was a girly femboy so I could play a traditional housewife role, I always try to use female anime avatars online and give my friends the excuse of "oh that's just my waifu" or something along the lines, and I love being called by female pronouns online. I compensated in 2015 by acting like a big tough strongman but regressed back into my normal more mellow self by the time Q2 of 2016 came around. Don't get me wrong I love the idea of being a girly femboy but I know how impractical it is especially since it would interfere with future plans, and family affairs so I must continue to repress.

>>7551228
>future plans
doesn't potential happiness with yourself factor into those plans?

>>7551228
jesus christ, kid, do you hear yourself?
you are giving the exact hon backstory, word for word, without a spot of deviance
if you transition now, you will not be a hon
if you don't, you will
i wasn't about to suggest you do it but holy shit this story has been lived a thousand times before you for the sole purpose of stopping you from making that mistake

>>7551241
No. My future plans are really just about making my family proud since they expect so much of me.

Silly fuckers, there is no way out of dysphoria, trust me. I have scoured the fucking world and ended up transitioning anyway. Not all bad though because i got my own life and a bf and things are better then they ever were.

>>7550971
I was on an atypical antipsychotic when I realized I was trans. So either they don't cure dysphoria, or I reacted wildly differently to them than most.

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>>7550398
>wanting to be a housewaifu
>not wanting to financially support your husbando

I'm happy I live in a country where housewives are considered leechers.

>>7551272
Just a reminder, if you get married and have children, you'll not only ruin your life by transitioning in your 40s, but also theirs.

>>7551559
I'm not gonna transition at all so there's no need to worry about that ^_^

>>7551644
That's what all the hons thought. But if you can't learn on others' mistakes, there's no helping you.

>>7551650
Does everyone really transition at some point? Is it totally impossible to just not transition and suffer in silence?

>>7551667
Around 77% MtFs transition after 25, when they have slim to none chances of passability. Do you think they wouldn't prefer to suffer in silence if they could?

>>7551667
technically, it's possible to die before you transition
there are people who transition in their 70s, so there are people who would have transitioned in their 70s if they hadn't died before
but the average age of transition being 40s until very recently was not a coincidence, it was because long-term repression doesn't work

>>7551644
>>7550398
Learn to live with it or get medication for it
Everyone has to deal with bullshit in their life, and although you want something you can never get, that's no reason to never enjoy yourself

>>7551667
There is no evidence that transitioning improves anything for transexuals, they're just as unhappy as they were before as they are afterwards, because they can never "PASS"

>>7551674
>decades of research on the treatment of gender dysphoria don't exist
again, why do people think transition would be used as a treatment if it were anything short of exceptionally successful by the standards of *any* treatment? psychiatry is not known for wanting to affirm the beliefs of its subjects, or even really treat them as human beings at all

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>>7551684
If that's the case, why does the suicide rate of transsexuals stay the same, regardless of transition?

I trust statistics that can lie straight to your face more than psych research

>>7551703
it does not
trans suicide rate is elevated both pre- and post-transition (and in some studies there's a small delay until it drops to near-normal, accounting for treatment failures and people who put too much faith in outside factors to fix their problems), but the post-transition suicide rate is significantly lower in almost every study
if you're referencing the swiss study, which you are, you're misinterpreting it and the authors themselves will tell you that

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>עזראל
Isn't it the name of that cat from The Smurfs?

>>7551228
>since it would interfere with future plans, and family affairs so I must continue to repress.
Good boy, you should continue to repress. The matters of your family are more important than your own.
I mean you don't want to end up like some drugged up tranny prostitute with collapsed butthole and AIDS, now do you? You want that sweet CEO spot in some Fortune 500 company, family and all that shit.

>>7551752
Sounds pretty good to me desu

>>7551746
I don't think so.

>>7551709
Citation needed. Every stat I've seen shows even trannies whom are undetectable still have an 8 times suicide rate, less than normal hons, but still immense.

>>7551958
Even if it were still immense, any statistically significant reduction in suicide rate means the treatment helps. What other treatment could boast even that?

>>7550348
This.

Turns out I just want to be submissive towards men. And being a homo satisfies that

>>7550288
Start working out. Get a hobby. Focus on your academic aspirations, instead of your baser instincts

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>>7551942
It is tho.

>>7550348
>Instill habits of bringing positivity towards your born sex, and negativity, towards being the opposite sex.

Kek, this is one of the stages in repression of trans feelings. Happens in men from 18-30 after that suicide and, eventually relief as you get saggy tits as you become an old man

>>7551293

O please you turned out cute and if memory serves you live in NYC so youre invisible
Most folks live in a town of a few dozen thousand and cant hide

>>7553092
That's exactly the problem! I can't hide. But maybe I can run? I'll be moving out soon so I can start getting in shape and possibly even getting on mones :D I didn't think about it before. I'll just get a trap body then present in boymode when around family.