Literally how does one get a bf?

How is it done?

Work

>>7538834
What do you mean?

>>7538843
A lot of friends have partners from work. They are much older though and knew each other for years before dating.

>>7538852
I'm a neet.

>>7538859
Exactly

>>7538866
How does a neet get a bf?

>>7538903
/r9k/
maybe not right now because they're having a schism over the trap threads being deleted
but if your standards are low enough, and they fucking better be (though a decent number of robots are bdd-kuns just as a decent number of /tttt/ mtfs are bdd-chans), you can find a guy who loves you despite your horrible, horrible flaws

>>7538903
._.

>>7538727
>have no standards
>ask for boyfriend on gay dating/meeting app, say you'll take anyone
There. You probably got a boyfriend in less than 5 minutes.

>>7538918
I've tried /r9k/ for over a year.
>>7538926
Aren't those for hookups?

I can be your bf.

>>7538954
I doubt you live near me.

>>7538983
Now he has to live close to you? Aren't you a picky little princess.

>>7538997
Internet and long distance relationships are dumb.

How do such things work?

How?

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lose weight
gain height
hit the gym
have sex
get a clue

>>7542898
How do I get a clue?

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>>7543030
follow the five step program and you'll be rewarded with getting a clue

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>>7538903
You don't. Getting a job should be your top priority.

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>>7543099
Really? I can't imagine my coworkers will be gay.

>>7543112
As I said. Get a job first. Then look for dick. No one is going to love you if you are being a useless cunt.

>>7543174
Hypothetically if I had a job how would I meet a bf?

>>7543112
be a hairdresser or something

>>7543450
I don't know how to cut hair and I already finished school for something else.

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>>7538727
Just chat and meet people that have similar interests to you

>inb4 Neet

Then just go to places like discord where all the neets go and maybe you will find someone eventually who lives in an acceptable place for you that you think can be a suitable bf.

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>>7543545
How do I go to discord? Isn't it just software?
I want a bf now!

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Go to college or get a job or go outside I don't know

Holy fuck the mobile version of this site sucks shit. Fuck you moot and Asian moot

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>>7543755
I already went to college.
What am I supposed to do outside??

>>7543788
Go to a bar or a club or something Have you ever seen the movie Weekend yeah just do that

>>7543800
Are there any guides explaining what happens at bars?

>>7543805
Idk you'll have to do your own research on that one My advice is to just get really really drunk and see how successful you are
That isn't very good advice but it's all I've got

>>7543823
I don't really like to drink and I'd be scared I'd get taken advantage of.
I can't be the only teetotaler,, shut-in, virgin gay.

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>>7543714
Ill be ur bf

>>7543863
Okay, what happens now?

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>>7544003
Nani

>>7544002
I don't really get how this works, do people meet in real life? The internet friend thing eludes me.
>tfw no gay friend to show me the ropes

>>7544179
Well anon, I cant really help you with irl stuff, but maybe if you hang around we can go around discord and I can maybe help you find someone here who lives near you as a part of your great love quest!

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>fell for the MMO bf fantasy
>3 years of dedicated healing and still no bf
IT's not fair.

>>7543800
This is terrible advice unless you are the kind of person into the bar scene.

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>>7543714
I don't normally say this but you are the most entitled little shit on this board. Like, fuck you.

>>7544542
I'm trying to be proactive.

>>7538727

Go on Okcupid or Grindr, whatever. I'll assume you're socially retarded and can't do bars/clubs/friends/work/etc. Be at least average looking. Don't need to be hot, just alright. Stay on there and talk to all the guys you think are cute, and make sure you don't hate their guts. Go on dates. Ask them to be exclusive. Basically all there fucking is to it.

>>7544679
How do I make sure it's for dating, bf, etc and not hooking up?
What do you put as picture(s)?
Should I lie about being inexperienced virgin?

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Y don't u homos just date eachother

>>7543800
>Go to a bar or club
literal HIV fest

>>7544635
>I'm trying to be proactive.
Being entitled and whining because you can't get a boyfriend is not being proactive.

>>7544751
this is the gay equivalent of "NORMIES REEEEEEEE"

>>7543800
>>7543805
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iH3FPrI_Cuw

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>>7544753
I'm asking how to do it.
I have literally zero experience with dating.
I have literally zero experience with the gay community.

ok but how does one get a gf
someone be my gf

be a cat boy

it worked for me

>>7545053
Were you born that way?

>>7544912
Where are you from?

>>7545363
Atlanta.

Just do like pokemon.
Go outside, find a wild bf and capture him with specialised bf capturing gear.

>>7545439
are you cute?
[spoiler]I live near there[/spoiler]

>>7545848
I don't know, I don't look like a girl if that's what you're asking.

>>7545906
as long as you are decent looking people should find you attractive

>>7545930
I think I qualify.

>>7545944
in that case explore and wait for dragoncon, you never know when you could bump into a hot date.

>>7545955
I guess, I've never been to a convention.
Are you the anon who lived near by?

>>7545968
No! That post was from me, I am the anon who lives in Milton! I am not really looking for a bf desu though.

Let's all meet in the Fox Theater one day and watch a comfy play while eating comfy food!

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>>7546223
>I am not really looking for a bf

>>7538727
let the bf come to you familia. anyone you find in your desperate search will probably be shitty because you will overlook aspects of their personality/might not be ready for a relationship yourself. You dont need dick to be validated you probably already have one. Just do what makes you feel fulfilled and be nice to people and social and you'll find a boif before you realize it.

>>7546503
>let the bf come to you familia
I'm worried this is path to being old and alone.

>>7546509
its not that simple you need to take action. Not in the sense that your actively searching for a boi but in that your actively making yourself more appealing. By focusing on what you want to do and maintaining a friendly sociable interesting persona then your way more likely to attract someone naturally. Also try /fa/. Don't take what they say too seriously but there's a couple good clothing tips u can pick up which will help u get the boif

>>7546851
Do people really just run into other gay people?

>>7547109
Yes, and dont even realize it. I am Bi/Trans but people take me for cis/Het all the time.

Work on being more social and outgoing. Make straight friends, be open about your sexuality and the fact that youre looking. In the "olden days" the way you met more gays, outside bars, was through straight friends hooking you up.

>>7538903
Idk but i did i guess being a cute tranny helped

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>>7547146
>Work on being more social and outgoing
>Make straight friends, be open about your sexuality
This sounds really hard.

>>7547184
oh ok well if being a person is too hard for u then i suggest getting rich. You can buy a cute bf if your wealthy enough. at least for a little while.

>>7547161
>>7547265
You type like shit.

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>>7545968
Yes I am, the other anon was being silly. You'd love it there. Tickets are cheaper right after it ends so around this time is easier to purchase them.

>>7545683
This.

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Hypothetically if someone got a job then how would they get a bf?

>>7551510
I dont know onichan, messing with colleagues typically doesnt end well. But having a job helps being more social overall, which is what we need.

>>7538727
Chloroform, a chair and a sturdy rope

>>7551673
Rude.

>>7551526
Any tips on being more social?

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>No UK bf

>>7544926
I'd do that but you probably don't live anywhere close.

>>7546503
Not OP but I followed this advice and am still a virgin at 22.

>>7551673
Elicited a chuckle

>>7558578
Yeah, I've wasted 24 years waiting for bf to come to me.

>>7538727
>tfw bf

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>>7558644

Go out, be social, join clubs, all that jazz. I'd advise against dating at work but it can work.
If you're a true hardcore NEET you can try dating sites or finding people in online networks (chat groups, gaming groups, the sort).
Alternatively you can post your info on /r9k/ or /soc/ and just ask for a boyfriend.

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>tfw almost had a bf(even did sluttly semi nude stuff around him), but fucked it up because I was too shy to be proactive and seal the deal
>two years later I still masturbate to him and bug him about dating but he says no and is depressed
Y wont this small cock bastard love me. It isn't fair

>>7538727
Hope for a rebirth?

>>7558902
>wanting a small cock

>>7559037
>opinions

>>7558902
details

I started a discord group in a similar thread the other day, hopefully together we can figure out how to get a bf. Anyone is welcome to join.

https://discord.gg/bUJXFEy

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>>7558357
I'm from the UK! I could try be your bf.. um just to see if it works out

>>7558902

HEY! That guy's basically me, but my dick works, let's hang!

online

>>7558594
Hi I'm your bf and I'm here now
let's chat and hold hands. I'm not kidding, come on.

>>7558594
Same. I eventually reached out to a guy but it blew up in my face so now I'm back to waiting.

Step 1: have reasonable expectations

I've heard a lot of people talk about meetup.com (for everything, not just meetings potential bfs) but have people had good experiences with it? I've never actually gone to anything because many events have <10 people and I get nervous assuming they are all regulars who know each other.

>>7564755
S-Sure.

>>7538727
How does one find a bf if one is 6'4" and bottom?

>>7564755
Where do I contact you, anon

>>7569676
Hopefully you don't mind being topped by someone shorter than you. I know I don't mind being a short top.

>>7574924
here I am

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>>7574924
>>7574995
Ignore him. Here I AM.

>>7575161
HERE I AM
ROCK YOU LIKE A HURRICANE

>>7567068
The 22 year old again.
I did that too and it sucked. So fuck it.

>>7575391
Where are you from anon

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There's really no way to get one you just have to find somebody that you like and are compatible with and see if they like you feel the same way and then that's pretty much it there's a there's really no way to get one you just have to find somebody that you like and are compatible with and see if they like you feel the same way and then that's pretty much it there's no science

>>7575209
Be my boyfriend

>>7571890
It's not only about sex, I want a bigger more masc guy to snuggle with. But thats pretty hard to find if you're as tall as me + have shoulders nearly as broad as a door.

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>>7546509
You shouldn't just "wait" for someone to come and scoop you up. If you are a winner, boys will see your shine and come to you. I am attractive, masc, I use the gym, I'm in college, I have a job. If you do things that are valuable and are sociable, eventually someone is gonna show interest in you. That is how I met all the boys I spent time with.

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>>7558902
It sounds like you wasted his time and now he does not trust you.

>>7576409
Fuck off Chad.

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I wish I knew, OP... It seems like there's more than a few of us in this thread, asking the same question. Yet none of us know how to find each other....

In my case, I'm assuming that once someone found me, they'd hate me, and I'd be sad, so I just stay hidden. Why? I don't know... I'm a fairly successful guy, holding down a good IT job. I've got multiple nice vehicles... I ride quads... I'm average looking, but not disturbingly bad.... And yet, here I sit... Alone, for going on a half decade, after getting out of an abusive relationship...

I'm petrified to be with someone again... And I'm petrified to be alone for the remainder of my pathetically solitary and scary life.

I don't know how to find someone... I don't think anyone would like me... I'm scared. I'm sad. And I'm painfully lonesome.

... *Forces his fear back into the depths of his mind* ... *puts on a fake smile* There. All better.

I hope you have better luck than I have had, OP. Godspeed.

are you a cute mtf or boy?

i'll be your bf probably i'm pretty good looking

>>7538727
>how does one get a bf?

Talk to people.
Take the initiative.
Instead of waiting for them to come to you, go after them.
Yes, you will experience some rejection.
Don't let it bother you.
Eventually, you will meet someone who is interested in you.

This site has a lot of information:
http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/

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You don't, normies are far too retarded to understand people from 4chan, even worse if you have been to /pol/, and getting a bf on 4chan is absolutely impossible.

>>7577778
>even worse if you have been to /pol/
What do you mean?

jesus christ all you people looking for bfs when i cant even lose virginity

>>7577825
I'm OP and I'm hhkv.

>>7577800

he means that people who have taken the red pill are generally seen as nazis by the rest of the world and therefore are unfuckable.
lurk moar.
talk less.

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>>7538727
I actually stumbled onto an opportunity for one and I'm not sure if I can go through with it

>strictly into femboys/qt skellys
>be pretty lonely lately
>lonely enough to try grindr
>get talking to 18 year old guy
>just normal chats, joking around
>chat for about half an hour each day for 3 or 4 days in a row
>he starts dropping big hints that he's into me
>but we still haven't exchanged pics
>like I said, I have a specific type
>I'm afraid to ask for a pic and not be attracted to him
>ghosted him today by not logging in at all

I have an opportunity here to have a bf but if we exchange pics and I'm not attracted then his feelings could get hurt and I don't want that either.

>>7577825
It's not even hard to lose your virginity. Just stop being a princess and use an app and get banged by some shady dude in a cheap motel

>>7577861
quit being a retard "ghosting" him is a shittier way to hurt his feelings than to give it a shot and not have it work out

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>>7561152
Not really much
> ask him one day what he thinks about nudity
> says it doesnt bug him
> ask if I can be nude around him and he says he doesn't mind
> strip down everything except a shirt to cover myself
> he tells me it's pointless to wear a shirt and persists about it
>too shy to take it off and always pull it down when I move around
> few days later he asks me to touch his cock (he was staying over at my place) and is pretty persistent about it
> keep saying no to it for retarded irrelated reasons
>sexual tension dies down but a few weeks later I asked him if he wanted to bathe with me
>he was down with it but we never had to opportunity
> mfw I missed out
He moved away so we didn't get another chance, and now it's too inconvenient to get together now, unless I could get him back over somehow. There were a few other situations like we were alone for a few days at another house and i did simular things and missed out on the last chance, and a great one at that. Tried getting him to sleep in the same bed with me while we were there but he said he'd be fine on the floor
>>7576418
Actually, it was kind of the opposite. He told me a year later he actually wanted to fuck me and we planned to get together sometime to do it. But he kept putting it off for personal reasons and it never happened. Only ever got dick pics out of it.
>>7565248
I doubt we live closeby

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>>7577773
"Just be yourself, bro"
It's easy to say x and y but it's still difficult. I've went through about a dozen people and they all almost stopped replying to me almost summarily but all stopped eventually anyways, let alone be interested in me.
>>7577861
just do it. You don't want to hate yourself for the rest of your days for not taking the chance
>>7577703
Can't tell if ironic or serious

>>7578440
>they all stopped replying to me

sounds like you need to work on your personality or your body or both

>>7576228
Okay, let's chat. Hit me up with a throwaway email or sumfin. Don't fucking chicken out because I won't!

>>7578614
They didn't know what I looked like. Why would I show my body to people soon after I meet them? I used summarily for a reason. But I'm not sure what I'd need to act like; I tried to be genuinely as interested as I could in them and talk about what they're interested about. I talked about myself a little but I tried to keep a balance. A few even said they were impressed with what I do.

>>7578618
[email protected]

>>7579824
well I sent an email to it so yeah~

>>7578773
What do you do?

>>7582755
It's been a while. But I usually go though the usual small talk: what do they do for a living, where do they live, what are they interested in, etc. Then we usually talk about something they're interested in or some common ground. the person i talked to the longest was someone who also liked making music, is apart of LGBT, and liked vidya. We usually talked about music and the instruments we play and the music we like, and our experiences as queers, but in the end the conversation eventually just died down and there wasn't really much to talk about anymore, like all the other times. We only lived a few hours apart too and talked about doing music toegether

>>7583138
I mean this "A few even said they were impressed with what I do."
Unless that's what impressed them.

>>7583169
What do you do?

>>7583267
What do you do?

>>7583169
No, I talked about my music making hobby, 2 bands I've been in, and my language studies. 3 of them were like hurdur I'm impressed. I hardly do anything aka shallow normies who spend all their time doing nothing productive because it's not impressive

>>7576083
This.

Might happen, might not. Best thing to do is just stay positive.

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WHY ARE GAY PEOPLE SO STUPID
HOW THE FUCK DO I GET A SMART BF!?

>>7587910
Most gays do drugs or drinking, these impair intelligence. What do you expect?

>>7587910
Date a bisexual?

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>>7587910
pretty harsh, not all gays are stupid.

>>7588270
is my chances of bf zero if i don't come out of the closet

>>7587910
im in a prestigious university and fairly smart pls date me anon

>>7589002
no, why would they be? obviously every relationship is different. my personal opinion is this

yeah it would suck not being able to be open about the relationship but if being with that person i loved meant having to make that sacrifice then i'd be willing to do it.

obviously this is a case by case basis and not everyone would see it the way i do.

>>7538727 (OP) #
When you figure it out tell me as an agorophobic femboy I'm not this could ever happen but anyways.

I've thought out the perfect boyfriend for me.

On the typical day off
>Wakes me up by nuzzling my neck each morning.
>He lets me sleep in just a bit but cuddles with me for an extra 10 minutes. >He gets up brews coffee and makes breakfast.
>I give him a kiss to thank him for his hard work that ends with him playfully spanking me and carrying me back upstairs.
>He tosses me onto the bed and pounces on me grinning kissing all over my chest thigh and neck.
>Then he zones in on my ear and I'm butter.
>Whispers in my ear that he loves me but he loves to bully me more.
>Sucks on my neck nearly biting me.
>Then when I'm a complete mess my body twitching. Picks me up pushes me against the wall and fucks me for an hour
>Hitting my prostate just right I cum
>And we cuddle and watch TV shows on amazon till lunch.
>After lunch we go outside and lie out in the sun next to our favorite lake.
>I fall asleep in his arms and he wakes me up by giving me a kiss.
>At dinner I cook him my Asian fusion fish tacos. He eats every bite and loves it.
>We watch the news and afterwards take a bubble bath together.
>I go down on his 8inch cock and deep throat it under water bobbing up and down til he cums all over my face
>Then at night time he bust out the riding
>crop and SS uniform tells me I've been a >naughty prisoner and must be punished >ties me up and smacks me with the >crop
>Against my ass and take me in doggy >style with a leash around my throat he
>Rides me and cums inside me he strips >his uniform and kisses my rope burned wrists.

>>7589533
where do i sign up, i'd cut my fucking arm off to have a chance at a day like that.

>>7589533
you had me until fucking for an hour

>>7589548
I wish i knew are you a top or bottom anon as you can tell imma bottom bitch.

>>7589549
I last really long but it's a fantasy anon the sex doesn't need to be that long irl.

>>7589562
top

>>7589571
Oh wow and you liked my little fantasy what part of that day would you like the best?

>>7589589
besides the sex?
laying out in the sun by the lake and cuddling in bed in the morning. i'd really like that.

>>7589604
*Sigh* it would be my perfect lying out in the sun on a lake there's a lot of lakes here in my home state many that most people don't even go to that are so pretty.

>>7589641
its a date then.

>>7589656
I'd take you up.on the offer if you were local Anon. But there's never any gay men in my state damn Bible belt.

>>7589698
What state?

>>7589710
Tennessee regrettably

>>7589753
Come to atlanta and be my friend.

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>want a sweet bf to play games and cuddle with
>i'm a really shy nerd and suck at meeting people
what do i do pls help

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>>7589967
This thread is blind leading the blind.

>>7589764
That's like five-six hours away anon and I dont leave my house much much less travel sorry you'll find a cute bottom one day.

>>7589764
Or we could exchange kik if you wanted to?

>>7589967
You post your area code and cry because you don't live near anybody

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I want a bf

>>7592788
i am a bf

>>7538727
>Getting desperate enough to try dating apps like okcupid
Why is this so nerve racking!? Something about looking for people online like this is creepy and feels so unnatural

>>7593570
Be my bf

>>7594207
ok

>>7569640
>>7570585
I know it's a bit late but you could email @

[email protected]

>>7538727
Arcane Magic.

>>7597361
>throwaway44223423

wew lad

>>7589986
ikr

I've had bfs through long-distance, bfs I got introduced to by mutual friends, bfs I met drunk in bars. It doesn't really matter which approach you try, it depends entirely on being able to find someone who actually wants to stick around and is suitable for you, something I have realized is incredibly hard.

tl;dr good luck lol because if you're this bothered about it you are in for a lot of disappointment

>>7597369
its a good name

>>7597414
>bfs I met drunk in bars. It doesn't really matter which approach you try

in my experience, the only people you're going to meet in bars are alcoholic sex addicts

>>7597545

you would be surprised

TELL ME

>>7602887
I think the trick is asking nicely

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>mfw no Scotland bf

Gay shut in in South of England,?

tfw no warm squishy bf to hold against me
tfw no nice hair to ruffle and smell
tfw no one to give piggy backs to
tfw no cute bum to spank
tfw no one to lie with for hours and chat and drink and stare into his eyes
tfw no one to go on little road trips with
tfw no one to hold hands with

I'll be your bf. If you're somewhat cute.

>>7605368
roadtrips, I like your style. Sadly I'm more of a piggy back giver, because I'm fatswole.
(also I don't really like dudes)

>>7605368
Would you princess carry me as well as piggy back?

>>7605481
yeah

>>7543859
I'm in the same boat as you, anon.

>>7558594
Me too. i wonder if I'll reach wizard status.

>>7539013
So are your standards, as you are a NEET and should have almost none.

>>7606676
An internet bf isn't a bf at all.

>>7604773
Is this a question or what

>>7609407
>An internet bf isn't a bf at all
If it types and exists, then ta-da it's a fucking boyfriend you greedy neet with bs standards, I'd be grateful if that ever happened

>>7609642
Is a chat bot a bf?

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>>7609660
>implying chatbots are real people
Get over yourself, kid.

>>7609677
It types and exists.
Physical intimacy is integral part of relationship, people with internet "bf"s are deluding themselves.
You're just erotic penpals.

>>7609695
Long distance doesn't mean you never see your BF, you can still be physical when you can

>>7609695
Phone calls, video chats, photos you take throughout the day.

Put a little effort into it and you can be incredibly close. Then you go and visit for at least a week so you really get to know them. Then you arrange plans to move in together.

That's the lesbian way. I don't know how others do it.

>>7609733
>>7609846
These guys get it, now, OP, stop being a picky prick.

>>7609880
I can't talk one on one unless it's face to face.