Hello legbutts, bi guy here.
I'm wondering if it's worth coming out to the girl I'm with (I really like her, I'd hate fucking things up), or if I should just pretend I'm straight.
I feel like I shouldn't hide anything from her, but maybe it'll just end up in her saying me as a faggot and dumping me. What do?
And yes, I'm drunk.
wait till you aren't drunk and bring up bisexual people in conversation to test the waters. If she says she wouldn't date a bisexual person then it's a no go, that is if it really tears you up inside that she doesn't know
>>7523663
>coming out
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
don't.
Unless she's a bisexual herself.
Coming out to a straight person always leads to trouble.
Nothing good has ever come from of coming out to straight people.
If its a hook up don't worry about, but my philosophy on relationships is to put your 'worse' foot forward so that you only end up with someone who REALLY likes you. Saying you're bi is like the ultimate test.
>>7523678
I'm not REALLY torn about it, more like afraid she'll eventually find out either way and make a big deal out of it
>>7523679
Should I just take your word for it, or are you going to give me some stories?
>>7523688
Hmm, trust the dubs. I think I really love this girl, despite all the circumstances being complicated.
>>7523704
>Should I just take your word for it
I'm just telling you this because I've seen it happen over and over on this board.
gays, trannies, bisexuals, all coming out and all living miserable lives.
Don't be the next in line to fall for this fiendish meme.
It doesn't get better, and coming out isn't gonna help.
>>7523760
I mean, I have come out to some of my friends. And I'm pretty sure most people who give two shits know by now.
And it's alright, despite me living in a shit country. No one is treating me any differently, I only got one "lol ur a fag" joke in over a year.
>>7523780
>And it's alright, despite me living in a shit country.
I live in a country that praises itself for it's tolerance and accepting nature.
I can easily tell that's a lie.
All I can say is that you should be careful, because even closest friends or family are not who they seem to be.
>>7523839
Thanks for the advice. But I'd like to be a bit more optimistic, even if it means I'll get depressed again.
>>7523849
>I'd like to be a bit more optimistic
That's understandable.
But do not let blind optimism cloud your mind.