i just wanted to share something thats happening with me and my gf
At first we were friends, once while drunk we kissed each other and now we are in a relationship for about 7 months. I love to be with her but while having sex we both feel ashamed, can that be because we used to be friends or what?
Probably internalized homophobia. Be more confident about being gay and you'll probably feel better.
>>7485414
hm i dont think so, we are both really shy girls
>>7485428
Have you ever had sex with another partner? Did you feel ashamed with her?
>>7485444
yes, i tried with a boy and it was terrible, i felt really ashamed
>>7485451
Maybe you just have negative attitudes toward sex in general. It was probably a taboo in your family or something.
>>7485459
yes! but i dont know how to help myself with that :(
>>7485463
By having lots of sex and being proud of it, of course!
>>7485463
With positive reinforcement to condition your mind. Every time you fuck, treat yourself to cake or heroin or something.
>>7485473
hahaha maybe its a matter of time right? or at least i hope so, to be honest we did good advances since we are together and thats pretty cool!
>>7485463
Give up on everything
Society
Your ego
Your family
Everything
Then reform yourself from square one without inhibitions.
Get your partner in on it, maybe get some lsd