Is there such a thing as an asexual female?

Yes, literally all women.

>>7442940
My best friend is an asexual cis female.

>>7442940
I'm trans female, not sure if that counts.

>>7442960
So she doesn't have sex?

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Not sure. I've heard a lot of people claim to be ace, but literally every single one I've investigated further wasn't actually ace, but was just repressing it or were in denial, etc. I'm not opposed to the idea of it but I've yet to meet a genuine case and it makes me skeptical.

>>7442940
I exist

>>7442940
I met an asexual girl at uni. When the first thing you do when meeting someone is to tell them your sexuality I have to assume you're at least an annoying person

I don't think asexuality exists. Being on SSRIs for years may make you think you are asexual but once you stop taking them, you become your horny self.

>>7442940
I am a cis asexual girl, not sure I exist either

My best friend is an asexual cis female and I've had no reason to believe she's not genuinely ace.

People kind of assume I'm ace but I wouldn't say so myself.

I'm an ace female. I'm reasonably certain that I exist.

>>7442940
"Asexuals" are just people with severe intimacy issues and/or special snowflake syndrome.

>>7445280
>>7445982

Do you have sex?

>>7446077
I've had a boyfriend before and I had sex with him. I don't seek it out.

>>7442940
ace female here
Don't have sex. Have no desire for sexual relationships. Will probably die alone with 20 cats.

>>7446290
How close are you to obtaining magic powers?

"Asexual" female here too.

I am not interested in saying I'm asexual because that's like I'm looking for partners or a group or something. Honestly, I absolutely believe my "asexuality" is due to problems like agoraphobia, social anxiety, and other fun brain issues. There is no logical reason for me to drag someone into my problems (and then also be stuck with them in my house, when I just want to be alone and hate other people in my house). I suppose I could try to correct my personal problems but they're so severe that even inpatient didn't fix them. Besides, shlopping alone makes me feel a million times better than having another person in my house, touching me, so I can still get off when I want to.

Point is, sometimes SOME people who participate in a group are actually in there because of personal problems but that doesn't mean it's fair to try and break up that group because what's wrong with having an internet buddy? (I'm talking about the asexual community, obviously, and not implying that was on the op's mind) Rather, directly to the OP, I'd suggest being careful dealing with women who claim to be asexual but still want you...this is coming from one of them.

>>7446326
nine more years until I become a wizard. I'm hoping for ravenclaw

>>7446077
>Do you have sex?
No.

>>7442940
Yes, it's actually commonly (and incorrectly) believed that most or all asexual people are female.

>>7443117
I call myself asexual (but I'm not female), but it's mainly because my sexuality is so alien that it can't really be described as a sexuality at all.

>>7445249
What about people who have never desired sex, and AREN'T on any kind of weird drugs? That's a more typical case of self-described asexuals, most of them aren't on any drugs or whatever that would cause it.

>>7446012
I don't think so, plenty seem able to handle intimate relationships perfectly fine, just with little or no sex, and some are perfectly content to not go around telling people they're asexual unless it's actually relevant.

>>7442940
are you being serious

lots of us are if were honest

>>7451183
Most of you are also not virgins so its kinda contradictory

>>7451689
Not really, some asexuals may have sex for their partner's benefit despite not really getting anything out of it themselves, or may try it once or twice to make sure they actually are asexual.

>>7442940
Asexual is a meme m8, there is no such thing in real life lol

>>7451689
Asexual doesn't mean your genitals are dumb, you still physically enjoy sex.

It's all in the hormones you delusional fucks.

Testosterone levels are EXTREMELY FUCKING LOW compared to 50 years ago and still going down.

That shit means more beta twinky looking males who can't grow a beard and are probably infertile by the time they turn 35.

Younger women,who are facing the same hormonal imbalances as men due to chemicals in our foods and the enviroment,have even lower sex drives and have a very hard time orgasming(low T).You can tell a woman like that by the way she looks and acts:low muscle mass,pale skin,probably shy and socially akward.

This is asexuality and it's why mostly women suffer from it.

Or you just haven't found an actual dominant attractive man that makes you go into slut mode.

I dunno.I might be wrong but the hormone part is just FACTS

>>7452878
Asexuality has nothing to do with infertility and early sexual decline, most asexuals are people who just never developed an interest in sex in the first place. Most of them have normal hormone levels and a perfectly functional reproductive system, they just don't find anyone sexually attractive.

>>7442940
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=brN915ZoJ2I

>>7442940
I'm 29, and yes, I exist.
Asexual people make up about 1% of people.

>>7451791
DSM though...

>>7452878
If testosterone levels are declining why is the number of young men with baldness dramatically increasing?

>>7442940

confessions:

i don't exactly enjoy the acts. i do them to make someone else happy. i get no benefits from it, because i'm not the one forcing myself to enjoy fucking. i find that i function way better without having the burden that i have to spend time fucking.

it doesn't turn me on. i am great with friends n shit, but it seems that for me, it's only really there to pass on genes.

ofc i am awkward. we all are. this might or might not have anything to do with "ace" preference. i just see it as a lack of stimulation that most people have an abundance of or crave fucking on an hourly basis...or along those lines.

i think the definition of asexuality in humans needs to be redefined and "renamed" because it makes no fucking sense. plants it makes perfect sense. but when we use that term and apply it to humans, it sounds like fabricated shit for the sole intention of putting one's self in a category/identity checkbox.

Nsexual possibly? non-sexual? hell, i dunno. it just pisses me off that people make such stinks over genders, gender identity, orientation, and amount of sex/day. people always have to flap their stupid mouths and talk about sex and preferences before they talk about how awesome of a potential friend they can be.

OP here, funny, I thought it was mostly guys who are asexual

>>7442940

*A virgin....

At first I found it hard to imagine being asexual, but then I remembered how I felt after all those times I nutted.

I imagine it isn't as bad as most think, being In a constant state of post-nut. I'm still not rooting for asexuals to accept themselves. It's an awful waste being someone who won't ever suck a dick.

>>7442940
I'm an aromantic and asexual female. AMA.

>>7451689
There's a lot of reasons why an asexual might not be a virgin, even excluding involuntary sex.

>Experimentation
>Doing it once/more than once because of societal expectations
>Doing it to please partner (voluntarily)
>Doing it for money/favours/gifts
>Doing it because orgasms are nice I guess
>etc.

The easiest way to describe asexuals is that they don't get horny just by looking at a sexy person. Not just people that don' like sex (Although a lot of asexuals are people that hate or are indifferent to sex)

>>7443117
As if you had the ablility to see inside someone's head like that.
I bet you think to be a proper ace you'd have to have a dysfunctional neural system incapable of receiving pleasure from touch or something.

>>7461374
How do you define being aromantic?
Do you still feel love for friends and family?
What, in your opinion, separates romantic love from platonic love? Exclusivity vs. lack of it? Physical or intellectual intimacy?

Can they divide themself into another person or cell?

Then they are not asexual. Maybe a stinky virgin loser but it is Impossible to be asexual

>>7462182
yes, because scientific terms are never used to describe two or more different things, stupid as it might be.

>>7462182
Asexual literally means "without sex". And it has nothing to do with people who CAN'T find a date, because it describes your sexual orientation (who YOU'RE attracted to, not WHO FINDS YOU attractive). A gay guy is still gay if no others guys want him, asexuality means you're not interested in sex even if it's available.

>>7442940

>>7462030
>How do you define being aromantic?
Lack of romantic attraction towards people. I have never had a crush on anyone, ever. I had to make up fake crushes when I was younger to fit in lel.

>Do you still feel love for friends and family?
Yes.

>What, in your opinion, separates romantic love from platonic love? Exclusivity vs. lack of it? Physical or intellectual intimacy?
I guess when you're in love with someone romantically, you want to be around them all the time, think about them constantly, want to do traditionally romantic things with them etc. To me, platonic love is about mutual trust and respect, and that you're on the same page mentally. I hope this makes sense?

>>7462182
that's asexual reproduction idiot. If someone is a sexual it just means that they don't experience sexual attraction or desires not they want to reproduce asexually by splitting themselves in two.

>>7465462
>To me, platonic love is about mutual trust and respect, and that you're on the same page mentally
I feel like it's pretty much required for a romantic relationship as well, though.
For me mutual trust and respect and yadda yadda are basically present in all loving relaionships and are the biggest part of said relationships, since I'm asexual.
Maybe I'm leaning aromantic as well, if it weren't for my love of kissing and cuddling.

>I hope this makes sense?
It does. Thanks for answering.

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Huh , im 24F asexual. By that i mean i dont need/want sex but i still find guys attractive. I also never plan a relationship or lose my virginty cause it seems like a waste. Socially im fine, a little anxiety but get along with people. Wasnt molested or sexually assaulted. I also dont find any kind of porn exciting. If we are talking about masturbation i used to a lot as a kid , but it faded away when i was 13. Not sure y

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>>7465647
Asking other asexuals: the ones who are in a relationship: how do you get turned on?

Also since asexuality is extremely low or non exciting sex drive , it might be caused by low estrogen/test ?

21F Asexual. Still a virgin and never plan to change that. In a relationship on top of that!

For me, I don't want it. I don't seek it. And much of the time I find myself completely repulsed at the idea of sex completely. Touching seems to completely turn me away as well. It sounds really stupid to say but I have trouble understanding sexual peoples urges at all. Sex seems like such an unneeded thing for me so when people go on about how they "haven't gotten laid in x days" it just doesn't really click in my head how that works. How is sex such a nagging urge like that?

I find female bodied people attractive, but have no interest in them beyond romantic intentions. Lucky for me my partner is completely okay with that, as they've been questioning whether or not they're ace as well. (That or just trauma from past abuse, which sucks.)

>>7442940
My roommate.

Just so my fellow Herats and Clubs know, we DO have an /acegen/ containment thread, as the other /legbutts/ keep debating over if we should be part of the rainbow and get a bit shirty when we break containment. I don't usually namefag outside of /acegen/

>>7465671

I'm not in a relationship right now, but I can tell you that I generally do not get turned on. Visual porn only works for me until I get off and erotic literature may or may not work for me.

I don't just pop random boners. Never went through the "a light breeze makes me hard" phase in my teens or 20's. If I want to wank, I pretty much have to work at it.

(Less than a year away from getting my letter from Unseen University. Hoping to become a Reader in Invisible Runes. That or a Conjurer,)

>>7465593
>I feel like it's pretty much required for a romantic relationship as well, though.
I agree, if the relationship is going to be stable the partners should be able to trust/respect one another etc.

If you don't mind me asking anon, how have you felt in your romantic relationships, if you feel that you're leaning towards being aromantic?

>>7466078
>how have you felt in your romantic relationships
I eventually develop crushes on new friends in that phase of the friendship where you're getting close fast. It usually goes absolutely nowhere because I'm fine not telling them. All my crushes so far were fine with '''platonic''' cuddling happening from time to time.
I get emotionally invested in that person more than in anyone else around me but they never know, if everything goes according to keikaku.
I am jealous when they get a bf/gf, but it's none of my business.jpg. And mostly jealousy stems from the fact that the crush spends 90% of the time with SO now when before they had more time for me.
Sometimes I want an ace qt just to myself but we're like unicorns, not much chance of finding one in the wild.

It is genuinely easier to just admire silently than get involved with any coming outs required for a confession though.
Hope it makes sense as well, because on re-reading, I doubt it.

>>7465998
Discworld anon, what would you recommend to anon who loved DEATH, Witches, technology and religion books, including Nation at 13-14 y/o but found City Guards awfully boring? How do I get back into sir Terry? I'm 20 now, will I see the light and become a guards fan?