How to know if I'm bi?

You find features in men that make you want to cuddle them. This is 'bi' because on 4chan pansexual, which everyone is, is a dirty word.

Can you jerk off to men?
Generally if you can you'd fuck one in real life.

>>7440378
As I understand it, pansexual means being attracted to all sorts of "gender identities," being attracted to universal features rather than both male features and female features (as bisexual people are). I don't think I'm pansexual because, when I meet a nonbinary person, I see them as either looking like one particular sex and judge their features thusly or I see them as purely androgynous and don't find them attractive. Either way, even though I guess I can be attracted to nonbinary people, it's never nonbinary features that I'm attracted to, per se.

I dunno, as you may have figured out I'm not very well-versed in LGBT stuff.

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>>7440362
If you want to put your dick in both men and women, then you are bi. Until you do, you are not bi. I never understood the problem with this.

>>7440393
That's the biggest gripe making me think I'm straight and just confused: I can find men super attractive and cute and want to cuddle them and do romantic stuff like that, but I can't see myself actually fucking a man, and I can't get off to gay porn at all (unless futa counts). To be fair, I can't really imagine myself fucking a woman, but at least I can find straight porn that I'm attracted to.

>>7440396
I don't want to put my dick in a woman either, but I still find them attractive and can jerk off to women. Neither my stance on women nor men is entirely on one side so it's pretty confusing.

>>7440404
You find women sexually attractive but don't want to have sex with them? I mean, sure, I'm kinda sick of sex myself. So I don't want to have sex with them. But I know that if I were to put a dick in something it could be either a woman or a man, because I'm sexually attracted to both.

I don't get this at all. I would think you should focus on that aspect rather than focusing on if you don't want to sleep with men either... ?

>>7440400
Have you tried drawn gay images? I'm a gay gay but IRL gay porn is pretty shitty, considering it's never how I'd want sex to be, so I can relate there.

>>7440481
It's the same deal with yaoi: I can find the men attractive and want to cuddle with them and be romantic with them but it never gives me a boner.

>>7440432
When I watch straight porn it's never vanilla, is what I'm saying, and I actually can't even get off to vanilla porn.