Just want a bf to snuggle and be affectionate with
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>>7436185
God damn it pictures like these get me every time, I hate being so alone ;_;
post more though I wanna feel more sad
>>7436185
Same. I had one for a short while and its heaven.
2017 will be the year ;__________;
>tfw rejected
>>7436753
I don't have very many
I will be someones bf. I'm excellent at snuggling and am very loving.
Too bad!
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA!!!
>>7436614
Quit posting this twincest smut
>>7437260
>twincest
w-what
...I need sauce of that >>7436614 now
>>7437260
Wait I think you know more about it than I do, are they actually twins?
Keep posting pictures of boys cuddling/sleeping!
AGP
>>7436185
Well, where are you?
And will fucking you in the ass count as 'affection'?
>>7438517
Nah, I'm british. I just want someone to cuddle and fuck and spend time with that isn't a complete fucking moron.
Unfortunately, my local area is full of morons, which has lead to me being antisocial. Plus it's winter and going outside involves getting cold.
>>7439293
I have a similar problem anon. I feel your pain.
>>7438263
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A4SOHe7OQrE
>>7443325
thanxx anon! I'll feel (slightly) less alone for the next week
>>7436185
>tfw nobody to be the big spoon for
>tfw you're about to fall asleep, but your crippling loneliness kicks in
>tfw you're tired of feeling angry and want someone to love
I want off this ride, anons.
>first night at his place, 2am
>"I should get going"
>"It's pouring outside, you'll die from hypothermia if you drive home now"
>"I don't want to trouble you..."
>"It's alright, I can make the couch ready for you"
>"No it's fine, I can sleep next to you..."
>later next to him in bed, facing opposite directions
>Me: "I'm sorry but I'm not really ready for..."
>"I won't make you do anything you don't want to"
>kinda awkward pause
>Me: "I'm cold"
>"Do you wanna penguin?"
>"I've never cuddled with someone before"
>"Do you want to?"
>I blush, nod
>he embraces me from behind
>My body tenses up bc not used to intimacy
>he notices, starts stroking my hair
>"it's ok..."
>I relax, inch further into him
>he kisses my head
>he keeps stroking my hair until I'm asleep
I want this to happen just once in my life. Please...
>tfw the first time he trusted you enough to fall asleep in your arms
>tfw waking up being bigspooned by him
>tfw rolling over into the warm patch he made in the bed while he went and made coffee in the kitchen
>tfw FWB i did all this with just moved to China
>tfw its cold and lonely now
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE ;___;
>meetup in 4 weeks
yayyy
desu I have fantasized more our future cuddles than any eventual sexual activities
>>7436185
I had one.
After a year and a half I realized I wanted more than "just" that.
Like, I want him to not be an alcoholic, or need to be drunk before being able to be affectionate.. and I want him to actually care about me, and not just use me.. and I want him to actually want to have sex with me occasionally, and when we do have sex I don't want him to act/look like I'm raping him..
Honestly, I really REALLY enjoy having my big cumfy cozy queen sized bed all to myself now.
>>7445069
wtf you just cured my depression thanks anon
>>7445069
Hey I'm a depressed codependent piece of shit and I have that!
>>7445638
I'm sorry your poor attempt at criticizing people over meaningless things in order to feel better about yourself didn't go well anon.
>>7445658
criticizing how? they are acting like overemotional children, I said don't act like that and for some reason thats me projecting?
>>7445665
>criticizing how? they are acting like overemotional children
Straight anon
I wish I had a little fem gay friend to cuddle with
with him holding me ofc
>>7445694
I'm not telling them how they think or feel, i'm telling them as a neutral arbiter how they are acting and what it would look like to any normie.
I'm so cold. I'd do almost anything to be cuddled up with one of you, all cosy and warm and in love.
>tfw already have cute dykey girl to cuddle with
>tfw also want a cute dork boy to cuddle with but it'd mean giving up cute dyke girl
Being bi is suffering
>>7445976
Be grateful for what you have anon. At least you have somebody to snuggle up with this Christmas.
Anyway, being bi is great.
>>7436185
>tfw had one for a short while
>Didn't fully appreciate him until he was gone
Reminder to always cuddle like there is no tomorrow.
>be lonely straight male
>go on /lgbt/ for 1st time
>see attractive guys cuddling
>heart hurts
Am I bi or just lonely af?
>>7446126
Could you give up tits for cock?
If not, then no you're not gay.
>>7446126
>straight male
>go on /lgbt/
Does not compute
>>7446170
Nope never, thats why I said bi not gay.
>>7446126
Do you think boys are cute?
>>7446170
Can you imagine yourself cuddling with a dude? Would it make you happy?
>>7446126
you're bi: if 100% straight you would have closed the tab, browser & taken a shower right away
>>7446184
You can believe mayonnaise is a gender but a straight[spoiler]ish[/spoiler] man on 4chan LGBT board is too hard too far out there.
>>7446188
Maybe some attractive feminine looking ones.
>>7446193
At this point, receiving attention from anyone would make me happy.
I went to /hm/ and tried jerking off. It definitely was not as easy or arousing as straight porn. I had to "think" to get aroused and only to certain pics wheras with straight porn everything turns me on.
BUT here's the thing, if an attractive cute gay guy asked me out I don't think I'd have a problem saying yes.
Which brings me back to my original question of am I actually bi, or just in love with the idea of anyone finding me attractive?
>>7446241
>hard
kek
>>7446292
you sound like a narcissist.
in love with yourself.
just go on grindr and let some fags suck your dick.
fags love to worship closeted narcissists.
just tell them you're "new to this and experimenting" and that you "don't reciprocate" so that they don't expect you to blow them.
>>7446340
Isn't attraction in general narcissistic from all genders/sexualities? Letting a stranger suck my dick doesn't fill the hole in my heart.
I guess what I'm trying to say is this: does being emotionally but not as much physically attracted to some guys make me bi? Or just lonely?
>>7446292
First of all, these are normal feelings. Even if it was just because you feel lonely, they are still valid and should be given time to look into. In my opinion, I'd say that attraction to both genders meets the criteria for bisexuality. I would know, I'm a closet bi. I'm still not sure whether or not this is just a phase, but whatever it is, it's okay and so are you. It may be scary, but just let it happen. Like how you said:
>if an attractive cute gay guy asked me out I don't think I'd have a problem saying yes
That's good! Do what you feel is right, always. No matter what, don't shut yourself down. Anyways, tl;dr: I think you're bi but it's up to you in the end.
>>7436185
I'm giving up on it. I tried to date 3 guys my friends set me up with: one had a feminine face and voice, other was a complete SJW and the last was a full-blown faggot twink. I don't want to date someone I won't feel comfortable around, or would be embarrased to introduce to my friends or family, but guys like that are hard to find because they don't stand out.
I'm sick of being alone, I want a long term relationship but it just seems impossible to find the right person.
>>7446580
>one had a feminine face and voice
I can't find the problem here
Anons, I'm even fine with a long distance relationship at this fucking point. My romantic attraction to men is starting to broaden from just feminine to twinkish/muscular.
I don't think I'm bad looking. Locally, there is just perverse older men on grindr. Where do I find qts to date?
>>7446591
The night was going fine until we were went back to a friend's after clubbing. We were making out, and with a bit of privacy he started talking very softly and femininely and now that I was more sober and with better lighting I could see his face better.
I had a gut reaction and it started to feel wrong, I just wanted to get him off me. I let him cuddle and make out some more for courtesy's sake and then told him over text it wouldn't work out next day.
I felt like shit because he's perfectly fine otherwise (I'm almost a whole foot taller than him but I can overlook that), plus he was really into me and I didn't want to hurt his feelings, but the way he looked and talked felt viscerally and irrationally repulsive to me. It's not something I think I can get used to.
>>7436185
Did you post this on /pol/ earlier?
>>7445992
This. Cuddling is the best thing you can do, it also beats sex.
>>7436524
justin beaver?
>>7436614
>jesus
>>7445097
> FWB
> Feels
You're doing 'friends with benefits' wrong. You're not meant to fall in love with them.
I just want someone to cuddle up to me at night again, and to go out and do things with. Maybe even go clubbing with me when I feel up to crowds.
Maybe someone to gently pry me out of my confrontational grumpy asshole shell with affection and kindness. And not turn on me and break my heart this time.
>>7445991
>Anyway, being bi is great.
>never being able to have everything you want without being in a shitty polyamorous relationship that's bound to fall apart in two years max
>great
you've sure got a strange definition of great buddy
t.person you're responding to
>>7448984
>being a polyfag in 2016
You're the reason people think we're sluts
>>7449331
>implying you arent
>>7436524
>jay from inbetweeners
>>7449331
So where in my comment that specifically derided how shitty poly relationships are did you come to the conclusion that I'm a fan of polyamorous relationships?
>>7450068
>I'm telling ya m8, I shagged his asscrack so hard that he came without even touching his knob!
>tfw I think I'm ugly and don't want someone to be with me when they could potentially be with a better looking guy
It hurts
>tfw never get a good night's sleep because your bf's sleep boner presses against your butt or between your legs and pokes you in the balls
Only slept about 6 hours in the last 3 nights, not being single is suffering.
>>7450707
I feel exactly the same.
>>7450863
>not taking care of his boner before he goes to sleep
>>7452497
SHAME! SHAME! SHAME! SHAME!