Sex: Do's and Don'ts

To clarify I am male and so is my boyfreind. Can't bloody assume anything here anymore with polygenderetheralstarfish-kin spacefruitcake gender or whatever lurking about.

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>>7419623
The most important thing is that both of you are comfortable with yourselves and each other, sexually. You can't have sex (at least not very good sex) if you're tensing up or overly self conscious off your nudity or whatever. So get comfy first, maybe just snuggle without clothes on, kiss and be intimate. Remember there's no rush. As for 'prep', I recommend that whoever is bottoming at least fingers himself in the shower until his fingers start coming out of his butthole clean. To be extra sure not to have any dirtiness ruining the experience, use a proper enema kit. Of course when it comes to the actual sex you'll want lube, lots of lube, and if the top is a big guy (for you) you'll want to take it very, very slowly. Actually for the first time you should take it very slow regardless. And above all, talk to each other. If one person is in discomfort or anxiety and not saying anything about it, it's a problem. Also you need to tell each other what you DO enjoy or what you want to try, in order to pleasure each other properly communication is key!

>>7419724
This and film and post it so we can coach you up on what went wrong and how to fix it

omg this is adorable <3

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>>7419724

Thank you, just this helps a lot. Lube I can get easy enough, although I hadn't thought about an enema, that does make a lot of sense though!

I think this will be super awkward in any case, and some build up as you suggested might be a good idea. Thank you.

>>7419813

Ohmai

>>7419867

Eheh...Thank you. I don't know really. Think we both just needed something a bit more emotional to want to try this stuff. I mean I've been propositioned in clubs and places before, just never wanted to do it.

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>>7419724
Has it right, about everything. Prep, comunication, and taking your time will make things good.

And yeah, it could be if you decide to bring it up, but if you bottom you could just clean and suprise him. But it's much better to put in the time and care for the experience, it's like any kink or most of BDSM, rushing things could lead to a messy disaster or harm.

To me, getting it right is better then trying to make it "in the moment". Unless, like i said, you could just clean constantly and when things get heated be out with it.