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not sure where to post....anyway....so basically i meet this one guy on r9k and i like him so fucking much we have talked for almost a year now online and we have decided to meet and the thing is i have never had these feelings for other males and im super confused all i want to do is is hug him and cuddle him all day and all night and also hold hands and do boring normal stuff with him, he makes me feel so special and makes me feel like im not so shit
thing is i have had girlfriends before and im not sure what to do if things would get sexual im not even sure that i would like it to get sexual im not sure what to do if stuff where to get sexual but i still want to show i care about him much
and i also don't want it since i think its wrong and im pretty sure a male on male relationship would work in a long term relationship
anyway fuck you lgbt and stay out of r9k
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>>7394820
>stay out of r9k
what the fuck are you doing here then?
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>>7394820
you're gay kiddo
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>>7394866
only for him
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Dick sucking isn't that hard. You don't have to do anal.
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You could try starting by masturbating together while watching porn or something. Maybe hold hands while you do it.
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>>7394887
why not anal...or is it bad
do you need lube and stuff
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>>7394910
You do and you need to clean that shit out. Literally.
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>>7394820
Take a deep breath.
First off, it's not wrong. Secondly, your past girlfriends don't preclude you from being able to have feelings for this guy. LGBT does have the letter B in it, you know. And most bisexuals are not 50/50 split on their attraction so if this is the first guy you've ever liked, you're not broken or an anomaly. It's all good.
If things do start to progress, remember that this is your close friend who you've been talking to for over a year and he respects you. It's totally okay to say "hey, I would rather just cuddle" or "I've never been with a guy before so this is difficult and new for me- I really care about you but let's take it slow"
If you want to show him how much you care about him, being honest and even allowing yourself to be emotionally vulnerable is the way to go, not sex. You don't have to do anything you're not ready for and chances are that he wouldn't want you to feel pressured and distressed when you're with him.
It's just as okay to have a crush on your male friend as it is with a female friend. You're the exact same person now as you were before you had these feelings. Enjoy the thrill of a new crush, enjoy your time with him, and go get cuddles from your man.
Hope you have a nice day, OP! It will be okay, I promise.
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>>7394980
i think ur right thx wise anon
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>>7394820
Just do what feels right, OP. Let it happen. If you fight it, you'll just feel worse about it.
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