My Boyfriend Hates Anal, but I Love It

Leave him, that's a broken boy

>>7324234
Well that's not gonna happen.

Plus, he'll do it every once in a while if I ask. Just wish he liked it as much as I do.

>>7324241
It sounds like not that much of a problem

>>7324241
Top or bottom

>>7324244
I suppose it's not a huge problem, but it can definitely be... taxing. And by "every once in a while," I mean once every few months.

>>7324248
We're both vers. I like both equally. He dislikes both equally.

>>7324260
What doesn't he like about it?

>>7324264
>he has bad knees
>the 'that's where poop goes' disgust factor
>his dick doesn't work great. Needs very specific type of stimulation
>feels very uncomfortable to him as bottom.
Never given me any specifics on that one besides that the feeling "makes him want to die."

>>7324191
Find something else.
Or have him ravage your boyhole with a dildo or something.

>>7324307
>with a dildo or something
That's actually part of the problem. He doesn't mind fingering me and poking me with toys, but I don't really like that at all... About the only thing I like in my ass is a dick.

>>7324327
Get a bigger toy.
Some XXL triple deluxe special edition vibrating flared dragon dildo with inflatable knot or something

>>7324343
>Can't tell if sarcasm or not
Yea, no thank you. Size isn't the problem. I'd prefer my bf's 5in Asian dick over a big plastic toy any day.

>>7324191
I'm not huge about anal too, what sold me though it's the porn, so try to watch some movies with some actors that he likes. He might rethink it.

>>7324349
>asian dicc
l m a o

>>7324349
>I'd prefer my bf's 5in Asian dick over a big plastic toy any day.
Can't you make a dildo of that?
There's special sets that allow you to make a mould of someone's penis.
It'll be still a dildo but it's a dildo modeled after his dicc

>>7324191
Take cyproterone to get rid of your sex drive and testosterone

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>>7324358
Damn good idea.

We have sort of watched porn together. However, I can't watch porn without anal, and he's not a fan, so it just devolved into mutual handjobs. Next time, I'll intentionally show him anal stuff he might like.

Also have you tried different positions?
You don't *have* to do the double decker backward overdrive on the kitchen table, or the reverse flimflam on the stairs.

Or maybe he simply needs to do these things instead of boring missionary for the sole purpose of pretending to procreate.

>>7324381
We've basically just tried missionary, doggy, and whatever the fuck it's called when you're doing doggy style and the bottom is flat on his stomach.

What else is there anon?

>>7324389
>and whatever the fuck it's called when you're doing doggy style and the bottom is flat on his stomach
Prone bone?

>>7324389
Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl, probably some more.

>>7324408
Oh... We've done those too.

>>7324260
you sound like me, i am vers and i love both, i can top or bottom and thoroughly enjoy both

>>7324367
The thing is that penetration can be really scary, does he enjoy fingering and rimming? Try to start with those, he might relax and might be able to enjoy the cock if you go slowly

>>7324191
Is it bad that I haven't seen this movie, but now I want to?

>>7324191
Anal sex is expected in the gay community, that can be really scary and make a person axious (it really did for me), if you're a good partner you will find a way to make him relax and do it gently, don't put huge expectations on him though, go slow.

>>7324191
Some men just don't like anal sex because of many reasons.. I found over the years if you ask why and they say it hurts or its to messy or that they don;'t get enjoyment out of it i say can i please give it a try with you and your totally in control of everything... If they agree go slow get him warmed up really warmed up then use your mouth and toung and keep asking out like this are you ok... if he says stop stop... if he is ok then take it up a notch use a finger and keep it slow and hot as possible... You be amazed how many people who sad they never do anal because they disliked it turn that statement around fast... Mainly because people jump in to it like a porn and ram shit home.. Witch is ok for some and others need more time... I have dose this to 3 guys who would never do anal and after days of just getting a finger in and stopping they began to enjoy it and before long they became more bottom then top... So the key is time speak to your partner and listen to there needs and body.. if he still refuses then its up to you to decide is it worth braking up because of this or can you work around it... Hope this helps ya out some and best wishes...

>>7324191
Why does he have to be the one who changes? Why does he have to get used to anal instead of you getting used to have it every once in a while?

You must be a shit boyfriend

>>7324191
go fuck yourself

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>>7324191

Some people aren't sexually compatible.
Maybe you should find a different boyfriend.

Some people consider anal too risky and are afraid of it.

Some people equate bottoming with a loss of power and social standing. They feel that it feminizes or neuters them.

Some people just don't think assholes (and shit) are sexy.

Dan Savage has a lot of advice for gay couples who have incompatibility problems:

https://www.thestranger.com/archive/savage-love

>>7325393

fyi: It is a really depressing movie

>>7332682
>>7332692

Kys. Anal is essential.

>>7332630
>>7332781
not OP, but helpful
in few weeks I'm gonna top this guy but he's kinda reluctant/scared bout any analsex; we're both virgins, so I think it'll be pretty awkward anyway..

>>7332792
no it isn't you retarded faggot