Why do you want to become a girl, /lgbt/ ?

Because being a man gives me dysphoria

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>>7312518

I don't.

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I can't stand my male proportions for no logical discernible reason. When people call me a guy or treat me like I'm a man I get unbearable anxiety and it feels like my body is on fire, when people treat me like a girl I don't feel anything.

I wish I fucking knew why I'm this way. I'd take being a regular, non dysphoria having guy just as fast as I'd take being a non dysphoria having girl.

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>>7312518
Honestly I didn't at the begining.
I just like dressing up and the attention I got, I was passing through a bad period of my life and all the anons saying I was pretty on the other boards kinda made me happy.

Thus I started paying more attention to my looks and trying to improve every day, now I'm a tranny.
I'm sacing money now for SRS and implants.

I don't even have dysphoria, I just like to be a pretty girl and anons to say I'm pretty for them.

>>7312589
How do I improve my appearance every day

>>7312599
Skincare and hormone therapy.

Ask if curious

>>7312608
>Ask if curious

But I just did

I don't. I want to make my body the same as my brain.

>>7312518
I've always felt like a tomboy growing up, just like my sisters; the only difference between me and them is that I don't blossom into a beautiful girl like they did at maturity. It hurts.

>>7312561
>>7312571
>/threading your own posts

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>>7312589
Are you another of those (((((((((((femboys)))))))))))?

>>7312518

Nothing I do as a man matters to me. I could win the Nobel Prize in Medicine at just 22 years old for ending cancer and I wouldn't care because I did it as a man. I feel like I can't really start my own life until I live as a woman.

>>7312518
because the sight of my male body makes me want to kill myself

>>7312518
I just like wearing skirts and women clothes, i am just crossdresser.

>>7312688
Fffffffuuuuuuuuuuu. His hits me hard.
I think it was 8 or so that in was started questioning why I wasn't 'blossoming into a beautiful young lady' like everyone else my age.

>>7312561
/thread

If there was a blue pill that rid me of dysphoria and made me comfortable being a man I'd swallow that shit up in a heartbeat.

>>7313436
I feel like I only see this sentiment on here. That feels like it would be tantamount to ego death for me.

>>7313522
That's because being trans is an identity to you and not a disease.

As in, you're not actually trans

I'm already a girl, I just have a really shitty natal development condition.

>>7313527
how does that make sense, maybe he just doesnt see being trans as a disease, no one said u have to. see it how u want to, however u r comfortable seeing it. if u like to say u r mentally ill bc thats somehow validates ur transition, fine do it, but dont hate on others just bc they have more self esteem about being trans than u do.

>>7313578
>not even redditspeak
>it's FB speak
Kill yourself

>>7313578
Why do you type like a fucking retard? It doesn't make you seem more feminine to type that way

I don't have any problem with being trans, there's nothing wrong with being trans just like there's nothing wrong with having any other handicap or condition.

>maybe he just doesnt see being trans as a disease
Then he's a delusional transtrender idiot

I just wanna wear girl clothes and not look like an ugly man

>>7313617
Stop watching anime

>>7313623
I don't watch anime

>>7313522
It would for me, too. My brain is female. I am my brain. I am female. But my brain is housed in a male body. We have no good way of fixing the body to match the brain for those of us who are too far gone (unpassable). So, the best way to improve quality of life for people in my situation would be to modify the brain to match the body. You're right about the "ego death" thing, and this would probably be considered an unethical treatment if it were possible, but it could be worth it if your goal is to function meaningfully in life without the crippling dysphoria and accompanying depression/anxiety.

>>7313707
Every cell in your brain has XY chromosomes, your brain is physically male

>>7313711
Then why the fuck is this happening to me? What's your solution? Maybe you can share it with the world and win a nobel prize.

>>7313719
>Then why the fuck is this happening to me?
Because you have gender dysphoria and identify as a female?

>What's your solution?
Transition obviously?

>>7313724
I'm unpassable. Transitioning doesn't help if you can't pass. I need a fix for the brain. Too bad no research in that will ever have a chance of happening because fucking transactivists would start screaming "transphobia" from the rooftops.

>>7313735
Most hormone medications for HRT come from other needs, and their use as HRT meds is adopted. Many research organizations are working on advancing neuroscience and chances are when we find a way to fix ANYTHING related to how the brain thinks at the fundamental level we can apply that to trannies, transphobia or no.

If you seriously think that sjws are holding back the secret anti tranny pill from being discovered, you're a fucking retard.

>>7313753
I'm not a fucking retard. But I agree with your reasoning and I hope you're right.

>>7313757
>I'm not a fucking retard.
Yeah I know you're not, you're just like everyone else trying to make sense of the world and the things you feel and experience. I'm sorry for being rude.

I can't help but call everyone retarded because I'm a tranny and I hate it and I'm fucking angry about it.

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>>7313711
>your brain is physically male
Downplaying the X chromosome much? Even if you have a Y chromosome you still have ONE X chromosome which accounts for about 55-60% of the brain construction.

The most important element comes later in the form of testosterone which reprograms the brain whether the brain is structurally male or female and it would happen even if the brain was chromosomally XX.

>>7312518
Maybe it's way I would be allowed to dress and behave. To be honest, I don't really know why. I know that I would love to wear an outfit like the one Serena wears in the games. Too bad that will never happen.

>>7313527
No, my identity is not "trans", it's female

The disease is the fact that I was born with a male body, which causes gender dysphoria. Which can be rectified with HRT (at a young age)

>>7312518
>Why do you want to become a girl, /lgbt/ ?
because it's hot and i want to be pretty and wear cute clothes and have a man to look after me instead of having to be a man myself.

>>7313707
>>7313571
>I'm already a girl, I just have a really shitty natal development condition.
please, enough with this shit.

>>7314004
At least I'm not AGP you fucking fetishist.

>>7314023
calm down and tell me why you disagree, besides muh feels.

I just want to be as far away from male as I can get desu.
I don't know that I feel like a woman, I just know that being a dude feels wrong even if I go feminine duder.
I'm not going to ever get out of the void, but I wanna be as far away from male as possible

>>7314004

>I'm already a girl, I just have a really shitty natal development condition

I actually think that's more accurate and less irritating than the "I was MEANT to be a girl" bullshit.

>"I'm already a girl" = "I'm a girl where it counts, my mind"
>"I just have a really shitty [pre]natal development condition" = "For some reason I have this really fucked up medical condition where my genitals developed one way, but somehow the conditions weren't the same when my brain developed. So my genitals and brain went in different directions and that conflict has caused me great emotional distress."

VS.

>"I was meant to be a girl" = "I believe that I have a female soul and there was a cosmic mixup when I got my body," (both scientifically and theologically tenuous) or "I'm stupid because if my sex chromosomes are a male pair; I have no other significant genetic markers that would completely or partially mute my male development or better yet cause me to develop in the female direction; and phenotypically developed no differently from any other biological male there is no possible way I could claim to have been MEANT to be a girl."

There's also that retarded shit Caroline Cossey said, "No one is born male or female."

>>7312571
this tbdesu

t. mtf

>>7314907
Any sentence that uses the phrase "supposed to be" is a conceited load of shit no matter what setting it's in. Transgirls were born with XY chromisomes and a mind wired for estrogen instead of testosterone. They weren't supposed to be girls. You can't just say fate fucked up.

>>7312518
Because it's what I've always naturally wanted.

>>7312518
If someone really considers 'becoming a girl', he should seriously rethink his entire life, because changing your physical look won't help you, but may even harm you. You'll just end up looking as a weird ugly frankenstein with masculine mannerism. Transitioning is only supposed to be a cure for legitimate transgender people, but they do not 'want to become the opposite sex', but they are already girls (or boys if ftm), just born into a wrong body.

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I don't, I just want an MTF gf.

Apparently that makes me an evil chaser perv or something, even though it's not for sexual reasons.

>>7320244
Why does it matter? You could pretty much just think of it like any other form of body modification. People get tattoos, piercings, boob jobs, etc all of which are probably just as damaging to the body and have permanent effects.

>>7320440
But changing your gender just because you feel you 'failed in your life'? It would just give you actual dysphoria and surely make you regret it sooner or later.

>>7313436
I would take a whole bottle of it.

But if there was a pill that would transfom me into a girl, I'd take pounds of it.

>>7320472
I think most people takes the dysphoria stuff too lightly.

It is a fucking hell.

>>7312518
Because if I was born a girl I could have been happy.

>>7320440
>tattoos, piercings
issue #1: Adults that are trying to act as spokeshons for trannies are currently pushing young children to transition, so they can live out their fantasies. This is dangerous and needs to be taken more seriously.
#2: boob jobs can kill you, and unfortunately health care often covers cosmetic surgeries like that for autogynepheliacs who would not benefit at all from them. It's disgusting that people would mutilate themselves without considering their mental health first
#3: there's enough psychological feedback you get from hormone correction if you're trans, that it goes beyond just body modification; it's essentially treatment for a mental disorder, even if that person doesn't decide to attempt to pass. I would probably be ok just staying in boymode and taking HRT solely because it normalized me as a person.

>>7312518
because fuck genetics,
got dealt non-bodybuilder genes and shit for height

WELL GEE, OP, I'M GLAD YOU ASKED.

Not really. I'll be honest with you, I can't reasonably discern which side of the metaphorical gender fence I'd rather be on. The way I see it, I'll never fully be the other. Even if I passed completely, nothing would change my chromosomes or my internal anatomy. Plus, being raised as one thing has colored my world view for life. It's hard - almost impossible, I think - to transition to the other sex when you've only known and seen the world through the eyes of what you were born as.

So if you don't mind, I'll stick to being an androgynous faggot forever.

>>7312589
>all the anons saying I was pretty on the other boards

pics (of yourself) or it didn't happen

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>>7312518
Im not becoming anything. I've always been a woman and myself. Just trying to deal with 20 years of ptsd, social anxiety, and self-hatred about it.

>>7312580
Humans are just machines made out of meat. You were given a female brain and male body. The anxiety is probably just your brain saying "does not compute" as it expects external stimuli to be in line with what a female would receive, but is instead given that of males.

I hated being a guy and being a girl just feels more comfortable.

Ever since I started passing as female everything just seems to make more sense, and I have trouble remembering what it was like before because it just feels like I was always supposed to be this way.

>>7312518
cose its more fun then being a hairy fat male

>>7313757
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>>7312561
>dysphoria
oh god no, not unease!!!

how do you even make it through the day?!!

>>7321716
>It's hard - almost impossible, I think - to transition to the other sex when you've only known and seen the world through the eyes of what you were born as.

this is why transitioning early is important. Not in terms of passability but because socialisation is absolutely essential. Every year spent being treated as the wrong sex is another year of conditioning to undo. Nature may beat nurture in the sense that it compels us to transition but nurture is a helluva drug

barely

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I'm genderfluid/bigender/straight/biological male.

I view myself as female sometimes.

I had a few dreams that I was female, like I was pregnant or a mother in one.

>>7313527
the disease is gender dysphoria

Trans IS a social identifier. It's not a medical term.

Retard

>>7331237
To be fair you're all retarded

>>7313711
Y chromosomes compromises 1/46 of the entire set and it contains much less information than the other ones. In fact I'm pretty sure that there is nothing on it that encodes for anything related to brain structure.

>>7312518
because there was always this weird sensation of everything being terrible and wrong and I didn't understand what it was until I tried hormones on a whim. Also, I felt like a sociopath before I started. All of my emotions where tuned down to almost nothing. It was weird.

>>7332856
How did you get hormones "on a whim" ?

>>7333251

Are you asking that anon about how they built up the courage to DIY, or are you asking them if they did DIY?

>>7312518

Because I'm mentally disabled.

:-)

>>7320331
>Apparently that makes me an evil chaser perv or something, even though it's not for sexual reasons.
Not everyne thinks that.

Why do you want an MtF girlfriend anon? Do you just prefer them over cis girls or would you only want an MtF?