Lets say im 'gay'
and my closeted gay lifestyle brings me a lot of stress, paranoia, frustration, even depression.
I feel this strange need to tell someone in my family, my sister is the only one I would consider "coming out" to. But im not 100% sure ill be accepted, she has said negative things about gays in the past, and my mother, despite being very loving and supportive, she doesnt seem to fond of gays either judging from her past experiences with them.
Im not sure what to do.
>>7274639
I told my family when I was 16 that I was bi.
They told me it was a phase.
I'm still waiting to pass this phase.
Judge your family, you can start with the bi stuff and don't bring home any girl. A friend of mine did it and it worked better than just coming out of the closet.
>>7274639
Do not come out.
Come out to us instead.
We don't judge you
>>7274773
>Come out to us instead.
no
>We don't judge you
lies. I don't believe you
>>7274639
>people stressed because coming out as gay
jesus
I thank god you are not a tranny because you would be broken right now
>>7274639
Maybe wait to tell until it's relevant. Like around when you start dating or are in a relationship. That way you will have some support no matter how they react. Also, it helps to have some security in who you are, that way you won't even need their approval
>>7274639
DO NOT DO IT IF YOU ARE IN ANY WAY DEPENDENT ON YOUR PARENTS
It isn't worth the risk of losing your future just to feel relief, wait until you are fully independent to squash the chance your sister is a big mouth