Hi, basically i've started to feel like i've always had a repressed interest in men (im also male). Really the only homosexual experience i've had was making out with a guy at a party in senior year... But at the same time I dont really fantasize about sex with men (though I realize there isnt really the cultural imperative to whereas i'm supposed to fantasize about women sexually).
Basically, i'm wondering if any of you Queer folk relate to this, or can give me an understanding of what it was like for you to realize your sexuality, since i'm very confused.
Thanks
PS I did pick the cheesiest photo I could find
bump :(
I'm feeling the reverse way, gay and maybe interested in women? I think it's hard to say because I don't wanna fuck a stranger to find out (probably a poor indicator anyway). Best bet is to not come out, IMO. Just be natural and if you do find a guy attractive at a social gathering or smthing get his number and act from there. If you flag yourself as bi/gay it will make you more available, but it's gonna be a bitch to undo telling everyone that if nothing comes of it.
>>7245228
Good advice, this is something i'm mostly keeping private.. but I set my Tinder to see men too (and after awhile changed back - there were too many matches) I guess I want to go from there but i'm really not sure and I dont want to make anyone feel like im wasting their time ! aarggg
>>7245254
nothing wrong with a tinder date. just meet for a cup of coffee and not near where the other guy lives so there's no pretext for him trying to get you to come to his place after (The gay promiscuity rumor is definitely true). If you're really being this innocent about it which I think is a good thing, treat the dates like any other. Nobody would consider a first date a waste of time.
>>7245162
Saw a guy on american idol that made me feel horny (that beat-boxer from the '05 season I think) and then I looked up gay porn and was like yep