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Not sure if gay or what

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So I've been lurking here for a while but this is my first post. I'm a 24 year old guy who has a hot girlfriend (by society standards anyway) and never really had any sexual interaction with anything other than girls.

Problem is as of late I've been a little depressed, I never really enjoy sex all that much, it's more like a chore to keep a girl's company. I've been having some weird thoughts about a close friend of mine. Sometimes I wish I could just stop time to try to give him a kiss to see how I'd like that.

Tldr; I have normal sex with girls but it's a chore, have been having fantasies about a guy, wtf is going on ?

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>>7239576
>having sex with girls is a chore
>fantasies about male
Sounds gay senpai.

Have you ever felt attracted to or enjoyed sex with a girl? Did you ever get strange awkward boners when thinking about certain guys?
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>>7239599
When I met this girl I was attracted to her yes, and I recall enjoying it for a while, things have changed about 6 months ago.

I don't recall any awkward uncalled for boners, it only happens when I deliberately think about it.
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>>7239627
Try cheating on her with somebody from craigslist, see how it feels.
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>>7239576
Tell me op, are you not dominant?

Tell me your "average" sex with your gf, in green text...this will clarify a lot.
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>>7239627
Who knows you very well could be bi. Don't worry about lebels ATM just explore. Ever try porn -- or just browse some of the threads here. How do you feel when you look at the guys -- do they make you curious ? What goes through your head when you see a beautiful guy ? Do you pop a boner ?
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>>7239576
do you want man love?
do you want man sex?

if you answer yes to either of those you might be gay
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>>7239576

1st. You already have sexual experience with women, and liked it. So, at most, you're bi, not gay

2nd You haven't had sexual experience with a guy, so you don't know for sure. Once you try, you can decide, so don't think you've got the bi already

3rd you've got curiosity, so you're now officially "heterocurious", once you've tried and decided, you could become, hetero or bi.

That being said. I myself am bi, and have to tell you a few things about this world.

there are few, very few bisexuals that are like 50% hetero-50% gay. most are 10%-90%, 80%-20, 70%-30%, and so on. that's why bisexuality is measured using a continuous scale called the Kinsey Scale.

Bisexuality is characterized by fluidity. Me myself tend to prefer women at some times, and men at others. Don't freak out when you feel like you fancy mostly guys and at the following day you fancy mostly girls. If you turn out to be bi, with time, you'll see that those variations tend to orbit around a center of balance, which is your true point at the so-called Kinsey scale.

Or you may end deciding that you don't like that thing and become just an heterosexual guy.

Whatever it comes, accept yourself, and leave your prejudices at the door, you'll enjoy the show much more.
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>>7239642
>>7239672
>>7239701

Ignore these, trolls or demitrolls

>>7239599
>>7239674
>>7239831

Good tips form based anons.

Also, many bis discover their bisexuality later in life, between the 25-35 ark. It usually happens that they initially adopted an heterosexual identity because of inertia, social pressures, etc, and when you grow older and wiser and stop caring so much about prejudices, and get bored with your heterosexuality, you explore other things, and discover you actually like them too.

Those "repressed bis" often go through a phase of self discovery.

Also, prepare yourself if you turn out to be bi, there are some perks:

-you'll be the favorite of gays.

-Bi girls (and guys) will quickly give you extra points, specially if you show confidence and not being embarrased of your sexual orientation. If a girl tells you she's bi, tell her you too. An instant bond of understanding will be formed, and you'll find that friendship/relationship much more fulfilling than others with heteros. I know by experience.

-Bis tend to date and marry other bis, for understanding reasons and because, being both bi, you can indulge in any kind of threesomes, orgies, etc with other bis, freely and without attachments or jealousy. Most bi couples tend to find other bi couples and have fun toghether. That's why bis "tend to settle with people from their opposite sex" (the part people doesn't know is that these other people are bi as well), in one hand it gives you best of both worlds, in the other, you'll have somebody who can understand you, and finally, it opens a new world of amazing sex that gays and heteros will never experience.

See you anon!!!
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