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Knowing who you are

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I'm a male, now over 30, and I always felt that I had a big feminine part (way bigger than what's considered as a typical male personnality).
On the other hand, I'm a virgin and I maybe have been with 2 girls when I was younger, for weeks only.
So I'm wondering if the fact that I often feel more like a female comes from the of relationship I'm trying to fill unconsciously...
I don't even know who I'd want to be if I could chose (because cognitive dissonance and other people's judgment I guess)

I'm also considering that the fact I can't do anything right with girls may come from the fact that I don't really want to be with one (I don't really like male bodies sexually, tho)

So...this may seem like a weird question, but how do I know what I want to be?
There seem to be so many kind of distinctions nowadays...
If no one could judge me, I'd probably try to dress and act feminine, but I don't have the looks for it at all.
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>>7190517
Sounds agp-ish.

This is totally not a perverted question, what kind of partner and what kind of body (for you) do you usually picture in your sexual fantasies?

Why don't you want to be with a girl?
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>>7190517
How to know your gender.
Step 1: look in your pants
Step 2: if you see a penis, congratulations, you are a man, if not proceed to the next step
Step 3: sit and look near the place where the ass is, if you see a pussy, congratulations you are a woman, if not you are disabled/mental.
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>>7193937

Gee thanks, i had no idea i was disabled/mental.
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>>7190517

Always loved this image.

I am man with lady arm.
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I'm just gonna piggy back here. I've been trying to find a way to become a real girl since I was like 6. Like, I would wish for it and look up fucking magic spells to do it. I'm 18 now and starting diy in like a month.

I don't like vaginas, as in I don't like how they look and my face actually recoils when I think of one. I don't know if I like dick though. When I imagine getting fucked it's usually as a women and I'm getting fucked by a guy. I crossdressed like twice as a kid but it wasn't sexual.
Am i just a tranny or some other shit?
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>>7194138

Sounds trans gendered to me.
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>>7190517
Lul. Well if you had some sex experience in your teen-ages you wouldn't be THIS bummed. Cause the older you become the harder for you to explain why are you still a virgin to anyone. Cause everyone understand in this world that if you hadn't sex till 25 there is something "REALLY wrong" with you.

But I guess it is something in your libido or something like that. Some people want to fuck each day everyday, some of people don't want to fuck even once per month. You don't want to have sexual experience cause MAYBE your mind is offering better choices to get endorphins and your instincts of reproduction isn't working at all.

OR. Maybe your manhood covered with problems and lowest self esteem ever? THERE ARE SO MANY REASONS for that.

Also what the fuck is this image? Your legs are girl and you are boy? Or your right arm is a boy and your rest body feminine (fits for virgins though lol)
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>>7194138
I thought I was the only one who looked up magic spells to switch genders when I was a kid...
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>>7193878
I read a bit about agp definitions and took this test
http://alt.support.srs.narkive.com/uCNse82H/test-yourself-for-autogynephilia-homosexuality
And it seems to be close to me.
How do agp people in general deal with their life then, if the'yre doing what they want? Crossdressing? (I'm really aroused by this idea but then again I'm very...male)
What about relationships? Huh fuck that's complicated.

>This is totally not a perverted question, what kind of partner and what kind of body (for you) do you usually picture in your sexual fantasies?
Perverted or not, doesn't matter. To be honest I like girls with alternative styles in general, or very cute styles. Not the bimbo style at all.
I also like distinctive features and imperfections.
Oh also I'm into femdom but not only. I like intense stuff in general.

>Why don't you want to be with a girl?
I actually had the closest moments I had with a girl for decades a few days ago. I also tried to meet girls using dating sites. I felt good talking to her, but I guess the virgin barrier always stopped me in the end. As ridiculous as it sounds, even kissing. I'm a chronic depressive and anxious, and I always imagine the worse, so something like women laughing or being pissed off because I'm a virgin. Well it's not so ridiculous, see the first part of >>7194754
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>>7194754
Also

>But I guess it is something in your libido or something like that. (...) You don't want to have sexual experience cause MAYBE your mind is offering better choices to get endorphins and your instincts of reproduction isn't working at all.
Nah I'm horny pretty often, it's probably what you suggest last. Fapping, procrastinating, etc.

>OR. Maybe your manhood covered with problems and lowest self esteem ever? T
And this too actually. As I said, my depression is pretty strong and everytime I reached a happy state for some time, the fact that I'm so late in many ways ended up, crushing me back into depression.

>Also what the fuck is this image? Your legs are girl and you are boy?
Cyborgs
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Ill piggy on this too.

Im 22 y/o and want to know if im either a porn damaged straight guy or a sexually frustrated Bisexual.

I started watching porn very early, and it didnt take long until i was masturbating multiple times a day.
The porn i watched gradually changed from vanilla to very extreme with themes ranging from BDSM to Scat to Shemale porn.

My fetishes were changing and jumping around a lot and I can claim to have seen almost everything you can think of before the age of 18.

Now Im at this point in life were I start to wonder were I point on the scale.

It is almost impossible for me to get sexual stimulation without watching porn. In some cases I substitute it by chatting to girls and twisting the conversations in my mind.

Today I can get off to almost any porn I get my hands on, but I tend to watch humiliation porn a very lot. Themes include Femdom, Bisexual behaviour and cuckoldry.
Common theme is usually massochism.

There has to be a certain criteria for me to get a hardon and it has to include atleast one woman (either body or voice) and I need to have visual stimulation (could in theory be almost anything as long as I can turn it sexual in case it isnt originally).

I know that im attracted to females and/or femenine feautures and I know that the same cant be said for males and/or masculine feautures.

This is very hard for me to understand as I dont know how to read into stuff like this.
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>>7200653
OP here, nothing to add to what I've said before atm, just wanted to say your history and tastes with porn are disturbingly similar to mine.
Wondering if it kinda fucked us up or just revealed a larger amount of tastes we wouldn't have know about without porn/internet.
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>>7201192
I would like to believe the latter but ive been thinking about it a lot and I have started to believe it was my child mind that contibuted to the way im feeling today. Could probably be a link.

The thing that is bugging me is the fact that even with the information out there, I still cant make up my mind. I feel and act hetro but my porn habit speaks otherwise?
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>>7190517
>So I'm wondering if the fact that I often feel more like a female comes from the of relationship I'm trying to fill unconsciously...
No, this is a myth. It's like saying you're gay because you saw your parents having sex when you were 4.

>So...this may seem like a weird question, but how do I know what I want to be?
See a psychologist. Don't come here, 4channers aren't qualified to tell you if you're trans or not.

>>7193878
Case in point. AGP is a 4chan exclusive anachronism. You shouldn't wave that meme around when someone is asking for legitimate help.
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http://avitale.com/developmentalreview.htm
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>>7190517
there are only 2 genders
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>>7200653
>"Help me figure out my gender identity"
>Goes on to talk exclusively about her sexuality
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>>7204491
>"Help me figure out my gender identity"
Never asked that
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