Tranny relationship advice plx

Why can't you stop sleeping around? Were you looking for serious relationships with those guys at all?

Would she be receptive to an open relationship, or a polyamorous one?

>>7144620
Here name wouldn't happen to be Alana would it? I know something really similar

>>7144620

I can't say I've ever been in that relationship and hope I never will be. Who was your surgeon and what did you get done?

Polyamory or an open relationship might be a viable option, depending on if either of you would be OK with it. If you DO go that route, communication and honesty are incredibly important.

Otherwise, you need to really look at yourself and ask if you can be fair to her in this relationship as it is, or if the only way to preserve your relationship is to transfer it to a friendship instead of a romantic one.

>>7144918
>>7145079
I could see myself in a relationship with either those guys, for sure - being in a straight relationship is actually really appealing...
I think at least part of the problem is that I never had a phase in my life where I slept around - I've mostly only had sex with cis girls while in LTRs and a few one night things with guys. I have asked my gf if she'd be willing to try being poly but she reached badly at the time - that was a year ago but she's said things recently that make me think she wouldn't be open to the idea now either. She's carrying a lot of emotional baggage because of the sexual/physical abuse in her past and I think that contributes to her feel insecure when considering non-monogamy - I will bring the idea of some sort of poly arrangement up again though, since that's starting to seem necessary if we're gonna stay together - thanks for the advice :)

>>7145032
Nope, neither of us have that name

>>7145034
I'd rather not say exactly where I went in case it helped someone work out who I am, but I got full FFS (forehead, hairline, nose, lip lift, jaw and chin) and not in the US or Mexico.

>>7144620
do her a favor and break it off before you hurt her even more, she doesn't deserve what you're doing to her. this seems like a falseflag though

>>7144620
You're a horrible human being and don't deserve to be in a relationship.

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>>7149468
This tbqh familia

I hope OP gets raped by a pack of disgruntled niggers.

>>7144620
Answer one question. Do you care more about sleeping around or this soulmate you've found?

P.S., if you chose sleeping around, you are a scum of a person, and deserve a painful death, but it's your choice.

>>7145032
I think I know Alana but heard her 'bf' abused her lol

>>7149468
This : )

>>7144620
You are a shit person please off yourself to prevent this girl from being harmed any longer by your egocentric behavior, you dont deserve her.

>>7149468
>>7150383
Both these senpai.

You clearly value cock over companionship.

You were unfaithful and want to keep doing it. Just break up with her already and stop dragging her along.

>>7144620
Don't cheat on her damn it. Break up or suggest pegging if sex with dudes is that big of an issue for you.

>>7144620
You could always go poly? What is your gfs sexuality? My bf and I are both bi and we understand that we both sometimes have needs that can't be fulfilled by each other.

Also, transition is a time when most people undergo a lot of changes. Personally, I feel like a totally different person now than I did before. On the one hand, this is good because you become closer to your true self, but on the other hand you might lose interest in people and things that were important to you before. It sucks, but sometimes you just need to realize that things have changed and you need to move on.

>>7144620
>>7153520
This anon is correct.

>>7145351

So how much did it cost?