Gay minorities

>wahh why doesn't everyone love me

>>7103335
What the fuck? That's not what I'm saying at all.
Read the post again

>>7103328
Being gay and not a minority makes me want to kill myself, so I'm not sure what to tell you.

being 100% serious though: most people DO NOT CARE if you're a minority. they care if you're attractive. if you're not attractive enough to pull the "average" dudes you want, then you need to work on that

>>7103353
Why would you not want to be white? Lol

I don't know what else I can do apart from surgery. My face isn't ugly just extremely plain and unnoticable since I have black hair and dark eyes. I put effort into my appearance: I exfoliate and moisturise, remove as much hair as possible, currently trying to find a haircut that works

It just seems completely hopeless when I see a white twinky guy who has bright eyes, pale skin, good vibrant hair and I know I have no chance/ can't compete

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>>7103328
>African queen
>a blackwashed Japanese woman

>>7103393
I meant even though I'm not a minority, being gay is still shit and makes me want to off myself.
Try working out/lifting weights, most guys are attracted to people that do that. "Vibrant hair" isn't a feature that is exclusive to white people at all. Bright eyes and pale skin look attractive but only if the person with them looks attractive. I can find you plenty of ugly fatasses with blue eyes and light brown hair who are undateable, and I can find you 10/10 nonwhite men with brown eyes and dark brown hair. The sooner you get over this, the more you will realize what you have and your potential

>>7103452
I don't want to be masc myself. I like being skinny. Plus I'm short so it would look silly anyway. I feel content with everything in my life except the gay stuff/sex life/relationships part. When I'm on Grindr I have a pic of my torso and get a lot of messages, yet as soon as I post my face I just get blocked/ignored. It's the same anytime I've tried online stuff. As soon as I show my face I just get ignored. In real life I get more attention from girls - I can't recall a guy ever being into me.
I just don't know what to try anymore. Maybe I should just accept that I'll be alone the rest of my life, but it's so difficult. That's what I've been trying lately and I feel less insecure but it dips, especially when I go on this bored and see pictures of guys who are cuter than I could ever be and hear about people's relationships and exes and even their problems. I don't even feel jealous because I know to other dudes I'm just undateable so there's no point.

>>7103532
Showing your torso reveals your ethnicity as well, doesn't it? So people aren't rejecting you because you're a minority. They're (apparently) rejecting you because they don't like your face pictures. I'm not sure why, I haven't seen your face so I can't make a judgment call on that.

I also get irl attention from girls and 0 from guys. It's the unfortunate reality of being gay. I don't know what to tell you, I have mostly the same feelings you do.

>>7103532
what's your ethnicity? asian?

>>7103694
South asian but born in the UK. There's a big culture here with south asians but I've never fit into it. The majority of my friends in the past have been white

As to the whole other average people ignoring you, I think Grindr has a similar effect to porn, in that it gives people unrealistic expectations. People cling to the hope that there's a chance that incredibly attractive twink is for some reason going to show interest in them.

More importantly though, get your face out so we can judge you.

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>>7103532
>implying short skinny men can't be masculine.

c'mon

>>7103812
Yeah that effect is in full swing. People avoid those in their same appearance range just because there are like 50 extremely handsome men just a second away (or with some apps like grindr, they're literally just on the same screen)

>>7103722
So indian/pakistani? That's tough, east/southeast asians are also ugly/small dick but have cultural appeal which you lack. Since you arent chinky asian the tranny route would just lead you to misery so forget about it.
There's not much going on for you so my advice is to try and get away from the indian look by leaning more towards arabness. The obvious steps to make you look better would be skin bleaching and working out. Don't try to be ripped, it would just make you laughable, but just being fit truly makes you look better, not even in terms of muscle, i mean facial structure, not to mention the confidence boost which people tend to underestimate. Take testosterone if you must.
When it comes to personality you would become miserable trying to repress your feminine side. If you are a femfaggot so be it. Own it.

You need to understand that you will NEVER be the ideal male, and that's okay. I hope your self hate doesnt entirely translate towards other members your own kind because one of the best ways to be happy is dating within your ethnicity. You are far from perfect and so will be your partner, deal with it. The rest of the world owes you nothing so just dont turn into a whiny bitch that cries about white men not liking you when you aren't also willing to find beauty in members of your race.

>>7103827
Have you thought of deleting apps like Grindr? Helps for peace of mind when you remove the urge to stare at faces you can't have all the time.

>>7103888
I'm not OP and the effect doesn't apply to me. Was just generally agreeing with what the anon said about the effect of 'grass is greener on the other side'.

>>7103846
Have you met a brit-asian guy? Most of them are arrogant assholes or beta nerdy dudes. And yes I'm aware I fit into beta nerdy dude, I'm just not attracted to them. The good looking/decent ones can find white guys to be happy with.
I'd rather be alone then be forced to be with a guy I'm not attracted to. That's what I'm trying to do. I don't know how to be/ own being a femfaggot. Also, I don't understand why I wouldn't be able to pass as a girl?

>>7103899
Still get your face out plox

>>7103812
My face is really average and forgetable

>>7103954
try /soc/

Lesbian here so I dont know how it is with guys but Ive only been attracted to "minority" girls myself. There is something with exotic girls that I seem to enjoy more than with white girls.

So if there is a gay male variant of me out there somewhere you definitely find someone eventually OP. Just keep looking, just make sure you look like you take care of yourself and most importantly have a a good personality.

>>7103988
That's the thing though. There are straight guys who love woman who are minorities too. Ethnic woman are seen as exotic and mysterious. You hear about it all the time, yet you never hear about anybody liking men who are minorities

>>7104029
>you never hear about anybody liking men who are minorities

you're listening to the wrong people.
minority men are objectified as fetishes by men all the time.

>>7104029
of course you do, just not curryniggers

the other anon who said you should try to look arab is right

>>7104029
so your endgame is you want people to talk about how they like male minorities? i dont get it
i mean even reddit has an entire popular subreddit devoted to posting minority men

i mean fuck, some of the hottest guys people constantly talk about are minorities, and some of them even mixed

>>7104046
But those are the masculine, model tier ones. Have you ever heard of a black twink or an indian twink, like c'mon.

>>7104041
I don't want to be a masculine arab-looking dude though

>>7104040
Yes, by old creepy men

>>7103532
>dont want to be masc
>want to be skinny
Most gay guys want masc fit guys so you're experiencing rejection like every other white twink does. You're lazy and look like shit. Don't expect hot guys like you back. Lower your standards.

>>7104063
>But those are the masculine, model tier ones
um not really, just looking at the subreddits now i see a bunch of skinny men, one long haired guy. Then there's a subreddit explicitly for asian guys too
one of the most popular male celebs is a fucking pakistani twink lmao

like honestly it seems like the problem isn't really with an objective society, but rather your insecurities. i hope you find acceptance & love in yourself so that others can do the same 2bh

>>7104115
If you're talking about Zayne Malik then lol. His whole appeal is that he looks like a model with a chiselled face.

>>7104098
I don't expect hot guys to like me back, I just don't want to go one a site like okcupid, spend an hour making a profile only to get rejected by pretty much everyone and then feel like shit

>>7103328

Dear OP.

You're terrible and will continue to be terrible until you accept responsibility for the hand you've been dealt. You think you do, but you don't. All through this thread you've made bullshit excuse after bullshit excuse on how you try and it all doesn't matter because of OTHERS.

a femmy twink can still be a femmy twink and be a MAN about life. Man the fuck up.

The fact that you shit on exercise and have such a distorted idiotic view of it tells me you don't take responsibility for you life. "I don't want to get all muscley" you won't. You sound like those bitches who only do cardio cuz they "don't wanna get all bulky" you won't get bulky.

You only work on your outward appearance. You need to work on your mopey shitty whiney personality and exude it outward.

Got a small dick? Then git gud at rimming or giving blowjobs or massages or figure it out.

What you're doing isn't working. So try other shit and figure it out or stop crying. Stop blaming others for your retardation, otherwise, find yourself a fat desperate daddy to pound your spicy boipussi and live your life in self-wrought pity

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>>7103328
>tfw too special of a snowflake
It's mostly in your head man, stop watching so much media about people hating you.

>>7105894
What does "work on your personality" even mean. Personality is such a broad term. I can't just instantly change how I feel and be a bright, happy, outgoing person. What's an ideal personality anyway?
I don't think that I DESERVE things and it's other peoples' fault. I think "this is the way things are and I have to accept that" but it's difficult to maintain that thought process. What can I do to "man up" and take responsibility?

>>7106762
I hardly ever watch TV and I don't recall watching a show and thinking afterwards "everybody hates me"