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Can you feel attraction to women and be gay?

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Sorry if this is a shit post, but I've had my perception of sexuality kind of flipped turned upside down recently, in the words of Will Smith.
I was watching the Vice episode on Brian Anderson, and he said he has had sex with women before, and still is gay. I've also read of instances of men who get married, have kids, and are gay.
Do they just pop a viagra and fantasize? Otherwise, how can they be totally gay if they're attracted to women?
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I consider myself gay, despite more being what Tumblr would call a demisexual. That being said, I fantasy strictly about men, and don't really find women anywhere near sexually attractive unless I fancy them to some strong degree, and even then it is a lot less than what I feel towards men.

All and all, sexually is a spectrum, not a dichotomy. The amount of people who are hard 0 or 6s on the Kinsey Scale are few and far between.
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I could probably fuck one, but I haven't had the urge to pursue one sexually since my mid teens.

These days tits are about as arousing as elbows. In contrast to the ab/waist area of an athletic man..
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if you're a girl
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It's like, you can still feel sexual stimulation but not necessarily be attracted to something. Just close your eyes and pretend.
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>>7042512
>These days tits are about as arousing as elbows. In contrast to the ab/waist area of an athletic man..
Interesting, what about an athletic girl? Is it like guys who are into traps but still call themselves straight because the aesthetic is far more common in one gender than the other?
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>>7042550
Nah, doesn't make me feel anything. Other than that she'd make a pretty GOAT gym partner.
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>>7042274
I always found it pretty weird too anon. I mean any guy that went through some sort of performance issues in his life ( be it for whatever reason ) knows that no amount of wishful thinking will get your dick hard because you need it to be hard, so I have no clue how these supposed gays do it. I imagine that for them the act of sex with a woman is repulsive so no amount of closing your eyes and going "blablabla this is actually an ass I'm fucking" delusion would be enough to deceive you, since women feel and smell different than men. In order for there to be attraction there has to be something that attracts you in the first place, I think. Grab the most average normie on the street and have him get blown by a dude, tell him to close the eyes and pretend its a woman see what it results in. The act would probably be sexually stimulating, but he'd still have to feel a guy's beard scratching against his groin area and hear the grunts and noise of what's clearly a man and that would be enough to cut off any straight man's erection, I figure the reverse goes for The Gayz. We're not that mechanical, sex always starts in the brain. Unless you're a porn addict 4chan shut in whose contact with the world around has been so warped along with your sexuality that whatever hole there's around gets you going.

But then again this is all bullshit because people choose to identify with whatever they feel like.
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>>7042630
>I imagine that for them the act of sex with a woman is repulsive
Not repulsive, just unappealing. Like sex with an ugly guy.
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>>7042651
I dunno then. I'm biscum myself so shit just boils down to when push comes to shove, I getting boners from seeing both genders naked. All my gay friends report not even being able to force a boner by seeing a woman naked, it's just not something sexual to them and there is no interest at all on any level to the point of being repelled by the thought, hence me using the word "repulsive".
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>>7042274
can I feel attraction to men and be straight?
cause I do
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In my teens I convinced myself I was straight, I felt repulsed after sex but during it, focusing on what I felt while jerking off was enough to get me through, every time I paid any attention to what I was actually fucking, I started to get turned off. I thought it was because I was screwing women I didn't have feelings for rather than being gay. I could probably impregnate a woman if I ever had to but I wouldn't want to.
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>>7042274
cause there are more people that are somewhat bi than exclusively-gay
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>>7042274
it's called Bisexual, you faggot
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>>7042274
As far as I'm concerned, if a guy has ever fucked a woman, he's a breeder.

I don't care if you identify as gay afterward. Actions speak louder than words.
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>>7042274
No unless you're a gay woman.
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>>7042274
fucking a woman because you "have to" (fake straight marriage, experimentation, etc.) =/= fucking a woman because you have feelings or/and sexual hetero urges/attractions.
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