TOP OR BOTTOM: when did it become clear?

>Be me.
>Feel like you're a bottom cus u always look at dicks in porn
>And I'm kind of passive
>Bottom for a guy when you're 23.
>Godthisisboring.jpg
>Want to top someone but every1 who approaches me to is #TopOnlyTop!!!
>fml

>>7033349
OP here. Let's switch LOL

>top younger guys
>bottom with olders

>>7033372
/thread

>>7033316
I love both asses and dicks, I knew I were a switch and WANTED a switch for a bf.

>>7033349
>Want to top someone but every1 who approaches me to is #TopOnlyTop!!!
Feeling your pain. Even when I became the bf of one, he still didn't let me even finger him.

>>7033365
if u live in the LA area just send me their #'s and I'll send u mine?

>>7033424
one of mine rly enjoyed being eaten out but it had to be around the rim only... and yet he would just keep asking for it

>>7033316
I've always been too lazy to be a top.

I just wanna enjoy the ride.

Probably a silly question, but are there more tops or more bottoms? Heard both

>>7033486
in the US/California, definitely more bottoms (that are looking). I've heard the opposite about Europe/France. There's a pretty large pool of vers's who cover whatever is lacking tho

>>7033316
>try bottom
>this just feels like I'm going to shit all over the bed
>wheres the nice feeling?
>try top
>this ltierally feels like nothing

Not even cut. Sex is just fucking boring

>>7033463
You're not alone, he is the same. I had half of my tongue in him and he loves it but he's afraid of a finger.

>>7033501
Assumming you are talking about online dating and apps
In hungary it's REALLY shifted to tops but as soon as you don't say it in your profile they jump on you, so it's breddy gud. I registered and got messaged in 10 minutes and by the first 24 hours like 10 people messaged me, mostly tops and vers

>>7033504
I feel you
ive got dicked once
didnt enjoy it one bit

id rather jack off than fuck t b h

>>7033535
desu I mostly use craigslist. grindr/hornet/etc. have too fast of responses and when you just say "fuck?" and send a picture it doesn't work as well.
But yeah, for grindr/etc, like, mostly people don't say & most of the ones who do are all "Bottom." I envy ur large crowd of pursuers.

>>7033316
For me it's become less clear. Started out as a strict bottom but met this guy that was super hot but was a total bottom so I lied and said I was a top and I enjoyed it so I've moved to vers

>>7033316

Because I've never had an attraction to dicks.
Started out liking girls, exclusively.
Saw buttholes, thought 'why not fuck them too?'
Started to like them too.
Officially bisexual, but lower end of Kinsey scale.

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>>7033316
Bottom, have a lot of female role models, plus I'm a smaller guy.

Became clear 1-2 years after I decided I was a switch. I just prefer being a bottom.

I don't really care for penetration. Gouinage master race here.

>be smaller stature guy
>prefer to bottom
>can never find a hook-up
>even "versatile" guys want to bottom
>put ad on craigslist as top
>responses over the top
>get my cock sucked, fuck asses
>still get to suck a cock in the process
>no one wants to fuck me

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>think I'm a switch
>meet my girlfriend and things start as such
>fast forward to now, where I have her in a collar and trembling at the words 'good girl'
The top life is weird

Well I don't think I'd date anyone that's exclusively one role, since I think that's kind of selfish, but I lean toward bottoming. But I still like topping.

Vers. The whole top/bottom debate never made any sense to me. My favorite thing about being a homo is the true equalness of the relationship. You don't get that when one person is always the others bottom bitch. Some guys are into that, but it's not my thing. Plus flip flopping sex is the hottest desu.

>tfw forever alone virgin

I've used a few toys on my ass before and always have insanely powerful orgasms that can leave me trembling and drooling. But using fleshlights are nice when I don't feel like getting preped for doing any butt stuff for the night. In that case I prefer bottoming but topping is nice too when I don't want to go through the whole prep process.

But I guess it just depends on the person, there's people I'd bottom for, people I'd top, be verse with, power bottom, etc. There's so many for factors than just top or bottom

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top because i am a narcissistic prick and i like to have my masculinity validated

>>7033316
when i was in junior high school, showering was mandatory after p.e.

there were so many hot, hairless boys, i kept having these dreams about fucking them. so for me.........it was those dreams that let me know that i was a top, although i didn't know what a top was at the time.

>>7033556
I'm at a university right now so it's luckily not filled with 40-year-old hiv-sluts, but bored guys in their early 20s. Out of like 20 people I talked with only 2 wanted to fuck right away without a productive conversation and a llot of them are just looking for friends

Found out I was a top. Can't be a bottom. I tried once and cried. I'll be a top all day though. I love fucking boipussy more than breathing.

Fapping was always pretty meh, tried topping once, got nothing out of it, was still just kinda meh.

Then I got with my ex, he would always top me, hold me down or tie me up while fucking me, whispering lewd things into my ear and groping me. Plus the orgasms were amazing from being fucked.

Never went back. Subby bottom is my true calling.

>>7033316
Honestly I've never fucked/been fucked by a guy but I imagine I would prefer being bottom. Thinking about it turns me on so much more than thinking about topping someone, even though as a whole I'd say I'm a vers.

>>7034774
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>be 17
>finally got myself a bf
>our sex is pretty much frotting and bjs
>he asks if we should try anal
>i end up being bottom becuse he doesnt want to
it was the most intence sex id had up till that point
i used to be quiet during sex but i ended up making sooo much sound
been bottom ever since

>>7035618
>I tried once and cried
faggot

Back when I was a teen-aged heart-breaker I'd exclusively top. It felt good to have all these QT bois offering their virgin asses to me. I still miss the primal satisfaction of giving a guy his first fucking.

But these days my boyfriend never let's me fuck him. I'm bottom only and he really enjoys invalidating my masculinity while he fucks me and I'm pretty into it as well. Life is strange.

When I was in high school I was super in denial
would try to fap to girls but just couldn't get off
Found fem dom and could get off to it
Thought that meant I was straight
The first time I tried gay porn I could never go back to the femdom stuff
Was immediately obvious when I came out that I was more into being submissive

Versatile leaning toward top but I'm good with anything as long as I'm humiliated t b q h

I'm a top, but I don't have a dick so I end up bottoming more than I'm comfortable with.

Bottom. Teasing and surprise domming is always fun.

>>7036441
I'm not gonna lie, being a bottom tease and making a guy I'm with get hornier and hornier gives me life.

Then again I like to tease the few times I top too...

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Total top af tfw no big guy to make slave +call me daddy

>>7033316
I'm afraid of pain and being submissive is totally not my type of fetish, that's why I'm top. And I'm attracted to older and/or bigger guys than myself, lol.

>>7036408
meet asian in a club he tells me "I'm a top" later he pulls his dick out and its about 3 inches and the most narrow thing ive ever seen...

Learn to bottom. or at least claim to be verse... ffs u cant top with a baby dick

>>7033486
I'm in the US and when I post as being a bottom, I get almost no replies.

When I post I'm a top, I'm flooded (even though I'm a manlet).

>tfw don't want to have anal sex
I think I just need to pretend to be straight desu

>>7033504
>>7033539
stop jerking off every day you dipshits

>>7042234
I jerk off everyday, yet still love sucking/being fucked so idk.

Tbh I think i'm just into it being ME that made them horny/cum.

>>7042291
no shit, when you jerk off you get low testosterone
you enjoy it though, those dudes would as well if they went a month without touching themselves

>>7042304
I've never gone a month without touching myself, 4 days is probably my best i'm such an addict :x

>>7042313
try a week or two, its a fun experience if you manage it

>>7036408
>have a big (well, above average) dick
>bottom
I don't know, kind of a waste? But what are you going to to...

>>7034915
same

>>7040669
>its about 3 inches
What? That's impossible, you're lying

>>7033316
My new bf is vers, but has more experience topping. Perfect for me, I get to work on opening him up and he's great at fucking me in the meantime.

>usually tops but enjoy being fucked too
>find sexy 100% sub bottom
>he has a mean horsedick but def refuse to top
REEEEE

>>7033316
>tfw bi
>tfw mostly like bottoming

when is it mine turn for femdom gf that likes to peg me?

>>7042891
Not that guy, but I'm in aus and there are a lot of asians in my area (seriously its like 60%). Most of them really do have cocks that small.

I'm a switch who says he's a top, two reasons I'm terrible at taking a dick and the prep work is a hassle.

I love being a submissive tease though.