sex with trans gf

For reference, I'm 21/F and she's 23. We have a 6 month old (next week) baby together. We've been together since high school.

Ok I need to go to bed now but I'll check back tomorrow. Please help!

>>6911095
Just give it some time. The switch will either flip and she'll become a raging horny slut or she already is one and is just cheating on you.

>>6911095
>>6911138

You're going to divorce someone you have a child with because of sex?

>>6911095
It's possible that she loses interest in girl (at least sexual). That's what happened to be.

>>6911349
This is happening to me at the moment, I went from only liking girls to mostly liking men.
>>6911095 (OP)
My switch flips every now and then as the other anon has said. once every month or two I'll have like a week of just raging hornyness then the waters calm again for a bit.

>>6911095
Toys, ask to watch your partners masterbation
You will have to talk if you want change. Change could be good, you know it could be bad so think of the positives.

Have her levels checked. Some girls go overboard trying to rush changes and end up with too low of T.

Otherwise, give it time. She has to get used to having a new hormone set and body. I'm on T now as an FtM and it's crazy how much easier it is to get horny and into sex. A simple mention of sexy look from my partners are enough. She needs to get used to not getting horny from the wind blowing and work up to it. Estrogen based orgasm are much better and worth it anyway.

It could be a dysphoria thing to. Maybe she feels too masculine using her penis now? You may have to get used to taking a more dominant role and introducing toys and strap ons into the mix.

>>6911311
this
wtf

>>6911480
my father divorced my mother when I was 7 for the very same reason-she didn't want to fuck him so he found himself another woman and left me

>>6911311
We aren't married. I don't want to leave her but I can't go forever without sex either.
>>6911474
I will suggest this but she doesn't seem to want to bring it up to her doctor. I don't think it's a dysphoria thing because she never had a problem before.. But I'll talk to her some more and try to find out. I just don't want to make her feel inadequate.

I hope she doesn't lose interest in women. I will support her but that would pretty much have to be the end of our relationship. I've tried to be patient but we haven't had preventative sex in at least three months.

>>6911948
yaa don't forget to take the kid with you and sue the tranny for money before the court lmao

libido going away when you start HRT is pretty normal.

It comes back again, but it's different.

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>my girlfriend is trans
>viagra
>I'm F
>we have a baby together
God damn it, OP, I was just eating!

>>6912034
Are you 12?

>>6912046
>he thinks it's perfectly reasonable to have a baby while being trans
Get out transtrender.

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she likely isn't attracted to you anymore and instead wants some rough pounding from men now

sorry pham

Learn to love cuddles anon.
Also, masturbate. I'm sure your SO won't blame you.

>>6912034
it is disgusting, and this is what happens when two irresponsible people hook up together

>>6912046
being disgusted by pregnancy is nothing childish, it is disgusting, despite what society is trying to forcefully indoctrinate us into thinking

>>6912164
>giving up sex for masturbation and cuddling
hahahahaaa
GHAAHAHA

>>6912186
>bringing new life into the world is disgusting
what are you a satanist?

it is messy and painful, but not disgusting

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>>6912194
>he fell for breeder propaganda

I bet you enjoy playing with newborns too

>>6912186
there is nothing disgusting about pregnancy but there is everything disgusting about an AGP transbian knocking up his wife

fucking transbians

>>6911311

Having a child doesn't mean you should be miserable forever and end up subconsciously resenting it. "we must stay together for the children!!!" has fucked up far more kids than divorce. Plenty of people raised kids like responsible adults after an amiable breakup. Especially if it's a tiny baby who'll never know the difference anyway.

>>6911375
>This is happening to me at the moment, I went from only liking girls to mostly liking men.

This is no joke one of my biggest reasons for never transitioning. I'd rather be unhappy with my body than have to put up with men. I pity straight women so much for that.

I say make the agp hon pay child support and find yourself a real man or even a real woman if you're into that.

>>6912260
You're agp anyway so just don't.

>>6912260
> not wanting to be the submissive girl who gets chocked by her bf during sex

Not truetrans anyway

>>6912273

It's cute that this board even has its own default cure-all insults for people with no reasoning skills.

>>6912274

Nice fetish you have there, weird name though

>>6912324
If you had dysphoria you wouldn't be able to just not transition because you don't wanna like those icky boys.
I bet you also don't understand why FtMs transition because you can't fathom why anyone would "want" to be a man.
Fucking kill yourself, fetishist.

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Anyone who's dysphoric wouldn't use their benis which tells me your husband isn't really trans.

How dare you come here asking what you should do with your fetishistic impotent husband? Just get a new husband, dumb faget.

>>6912413

>If you had dysphoria you wouldn't be able to just not transition because you don't wanna like those icky boys.

I'm quite secure in making an informed decision that I'd rather be unhappy with my body than be unhappy because I had to care what idiot men think. But keep on dictating the terms of the universe based on your all-consuming ego, I'm sure that'll solve everything.

>I bet you also

I bet you also think infanticide is cool and don't understand why anyone thinks it's wrong.

Oh hey look, it works when I do it, too! Man, and all this time I've been responding to what people say instead of just making shit up and attributing it to them. This is going to change everything! Thanks anon!

This thread makes me mad. >:(

>>6912489
Why?

>>6911095
Ehh at least your trans wife didn't do it when she was 45.

Just leave her and move on with life, if you don't want your kid to have a tranny parent you can always do something about that with help of some lawyers.

You're honestly not at fault here, you didn't marry a woman to begin with so you're not entitled to be with her.

If my girlfriend decided to become a dude I would leave her and that's about it.

>>6912260
I somewhat understand you though I'm on the other side. Being a girl myself I like to fuck my boyfriends up the ass and call them names. I wouldn't mind if my BF decided not to put his dick in me anymore and asked me to only fuck him. I like cis-girls too but they are boring compared to people who were boys at birth. I don't mind my female body but I'd gladly possess a dick instead of a vagina leaving the whole body as it is.

>>6913019
*leaving entire body as it is. Except for dick.

>>6912260
but anon boys are cute and it feels nice to be close to one and be in his arms

>>6913037
More like a cute boy in my arms. I like 'em needy and snuggly so to say. Yeah, I prefer effeminate guys and not that shit with being submissive and getting choked >>6912274 though I'm a woman myself.

>>6913019

same person you replied to here: I have a friend who feels sort of similar to you, except that she prefers women. Where it gets confusing is that we sort of fancy each other, and have to be careful about getting drunk together because she's not single. It's all a bit frustrating really.

>>6913104
Yeah, I think bisexual women are the best choice for you as you are for them. Your friend with a woman now?

>>6913155

Nope! She's with a cis dude. It's complicated for other reasons - I don't know him well but as far as I can tell they're ok (I don't get any "this relationship is fucked" vibes, which I usually do), and he's been good to her. But he doesn't really Get It, either for her gender stuff or for some of her family and emotional stuff. Whereas I do. Buuut I don't really want to break into that, and she's better off with him anyway.

So yah, kinda complicated. But that's the thing, right? It's not just about your gender but how you work out your gender shit alongside everything else in your life. Nothing's ever bloody simple.

Bi women do seem to be a natural fit, yah. You just have to be as honest as possible, especially if they're mostly gay. I try not to take it personally if I'm just not their thing.

>>6913261
You seem to be a nice and considerate person for not destroying your friend's relationship. )) Just let things to go their way. As I said, my partners gender doesn't mean much if I still get to fuck them. If I do, I can put up with pretty much everything. But your friend may be not that dommy or some degree of sexual incompatibility doesn't bother her that much, then she may be genuinely satisfied with that relationship she has.

I'm sorry you're in this situation OP. You didn't sign up for this and it really isn't fair for your partner to put you in this spot. You seem to be doing your best to support them, which is more than most women would do, so good on you.
That said, I don't think you really understand or accept the situation. This isn't just your husband having a weird kink. Your partner is a woman. You are in a lesbian relationship. That means no more dickings and probably a lot of other changes you might not like. You've given no indication that you're attracted to women and as other people have said, there's a good chance your partner isn't attracted to women anymore either. If not having piv sex is a dealbreaker for you, you can either leave them or consider an open relationship. I don't think anyone would think less of you for leaving desu.

>>6911095
If you're talking about reduced erections, I've been using Cialis for a year or so now and it works pretty well. My hormone doc gave me the daily dose version and told me to just use it as-needed and it works like a charm.

The whole "lower libido" thing is a myth from what i can tell. She just needs some time to re-learn herself since now her sex drive is totally shifted to female. The things that got her off in boymode are not going to get her off now that she's on hormones. Try new things.
To put it in perspective, i was 100% into girls and not really into any kinks, and when i got on hormones i suddenly wanted guys and took a strong liking to BDSM.

>>6911095
Try polyamory. Your gf will probably get off on being cuckqueaned.

>>6913417
This is basically it. If you are not bi or lesbian, you are eventually no longer going to be sexually attracted to your partner. That's just how hormones work, even if they don't make someone look cis-passing 100% of the time, they make you girly-looking enough that you arent going to be attractive to someone that is exclusively into men.

>>6913417
>>6915575
OP said "my girlfriend" and used female pronouns. Where are you getting this idea that she doesn't think she's in a lesbian relationship?

OP hasn't said anything about not being attracted to women either...

I started hormones in April and my needs have shifted drastically.
I am even more into cuddling and not really interested in using my gt anymore. I think I didn't masturbate for 3 or 4 months.
It just feels really disgusting (mentally) to use my Penis.

I went from bi with a strong tendency to women to almost straight. If I had a gf I'd still love her, probably even more than before but sex would be complicated for me.
You should just sit down and talk. Make her understand that she can tell you everything and that you are on for new stuff.

He can't pull this shit on you after you have a kid. I would tell him he has one chance to man up and be a husband and father or he'll never see either of you again. If you can't find a new husband who will adopt the child and pretend to be the bio dad then just tell them they're father died.

>>6915646
If she still expects her partner to use her penis or take the male role in sex she clearly doesn't get it. Again, props to her for being supportive, but that's not going to save her marriage. Maybe they can be best friends or something instead.

>>6915984
>Maybe they can be best friends or something instead.
[spoiler]or share a boyfriend[/spoiler]

>>6912046
He might be 12 but it is hilarious how completely fucked these two are, far less that poor, poor child.

>>6911095
Give it time. When she starts progesterone (typically a little down the line) her libido should go up a decent bit. If she doesn't have any problems with using her penis and doesn't want to lose the ability to have an erection then I'd suggest that she masturbate (or the two of you have sex, whichever) about once every week or two. Apparently it's supposed to prevent transgirls from losing function down there (for me this seems to be true, been on hormones for over a year and haven't lost function down there yet.) Finally, speak to her, make sure you understand any boundaries she may have (as in, she may not what to use what she has downstairs, not many transgirls do) and give things time, sex isnt that big of a deal, if it happens, awesome, if not, then oh well, just love one another and don't let something as stupid as sex drive you apart.

>>6916128
He's 12 just because he is grossed out by a dude who impregnated his wife then started wearing dresses and the kid is probably now traumatized for life because he has to call his dad a "mom"? What the fuck is wrong with this retarded board.

>>6912572
They aren't married, the man really has very little say in a few states as far as the child goes and absolutely none in most others.
He could potentially take it to court and argue he's been a significant figure in the child's life (genetic father, there through the pregnancy, and thereafter thus far, similar arguments can be made to draw child support, even without the parentage against a man hilariously enough), but there's no way a court is going to give a fresh off the balls tranny custody of a 6 month old child.

>>6915984
As she stated there is no marriage.

>>6916306
It is populated by proud, unapologetic degenerates and apostates more concerned with appeasing and hugboxing people than the truth. In case your reading comprehension was clouded by whatever your condition is, I was agreeing with said 12 year old.

>>6916309
I know you did but I was referencing the poster above calling him 12, not you. No need to get hostile, brah.

I suggest you buy a strap on and BOTH learn to use it. Your partner has needs too and odds are she isn't going to enjoy or be satisfied with using her genitals.

>>6916515
why would an mtf be happy using a strap on but not her pee pee?

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>>6916515
>odds are she isn't going to enjoy or be satisfied with using her genitals.
OP's husband literally had no problem with using his dick and knocking her up. Are you retarded?

>>6916629
Well clearly her peepee doesn't work and she doesn't seem to want it too. A strap on would probably make her feel more feminine and less dysphoric.

>>6916651
>A strap on would probably make her feel more feminine
why though? it's the same basic action, just not direct penetration sensation.

it sounds like roleplaying a cis lesbian more than actually being feminine to me. if cis girls somehow got to experience sex as a male would they feel dysphoric?

>>6916670
If they got to experience it once it would probably just be a novelty. But they wouldn't want a penis day in and day out.

>>6916699
yeah but they'd make do, right? "it sucks I can't get railed any more, but at least I can still get off."

>>6915964
>He can't pull this shit on you after you have a kid.

The kid is 6 months old and wouldn't give a fuck if its parents were fish. Grow up.

People are still people after they have a kid. You don't magically become some sexless parenting automaton whose needs and lives don't matter. Ignoring that doesn't make you a better parent, it makes you a shitty martyr who'll probably fuck their kid's head up a lot more.

>>6911948
How long have you been sexless?
I would really just wait it out; by six months on hormones it will be back

>>6920439
She said three months at least. Did you even read the post you replied to lel

>>6920488
Lol I didn't I guess

3 months doesn't seem that long to me, but I found it interesting that she specified penetrative sex
I think they need to just buy some sex toys and dildos
Penis in bagine sex isn't always an option I think she needs to compromise

Young Mtf here, let me hijack the thread for a minute.
I've been seeing a girl and I think we might have sex at some point in the future. What the fuck is that even like??

Am I supposed to just get an erection and put my penis in her vagina? I'm not against that, I'm just not sure if I'm physically capable of getting and keeping an erection. Plus when is erect it's maybe 4 inches long; so is it even useable?
We haven't talked about it yet but I want to be prepared, how does transgirlXcisgirl sex usually play out?

>>6911138

Don't have a fucking baby with someone if you're not committed to them in good times and bad. This kind of shit is what ruins sex before marriage for the rest of us.

>>6911095
>>6911138

kek my sides

if she used his cock to impregnate you, then she isnt actually trans.

tru trans people dont go for penetrative sex with their own genitals.

>>6920509
I'm a cis-woman and I've never even seen a MtF, but if I were your girl I'd buy a strap on and fuck you. Later you can use it on her too. But for the first time using your fingers and tongue to pleasure her will do just fine if she knows about your condition and is understanding of course. You can also teach her things you like.

>>6921223
>I'm a cis-woman and I've never even seen a MtF

why the fuck you lyin

>>6911948
Have you considered that she just doesn't want to stick her dick in you? not due to lack of interest in you but because like, most trans girls don't actually want to use their dick.

Try out some other stuff, grab a couple vibes or a dildo. learn to do sex in a way that isn't standard hetero dick in pussy.

>>6921241
Well, I've seen pics of them and some porn but I live in such a shitty town I don't even know how to find a real MtF nearby. No kidding.

>>6920509
trans girl here, usually by my fiancé putting on a strap on and fucking my ass then having me eat her out. It's pretty great.

>>6911095
that's really selfish, the kid will suffer your sluttiness

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>the baby's daddy is a tranny

>>6911095
Sounds like shes not on hormones to me or a fetishist.

My sex drive has gone through the roof.
I mean I dont get boners and want to masturbate but when I do its like holy fuck im horny and all I can see is dicks everywhere.

So uh she sounds like shes bullshit or crazy. 2/10 would dump.

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OP here again. We got some toys and had a date last night and then spent the evening trying new things. It was better than nothing but I would still rather just have normal sex. I guess it's just that I would rather be with a normal man.
To put it bluntly, my gf likes being fucked, which is the exact opposite of what i was hoping for. I asked her if she still likes women and she said she is still figuring out her sexuality right now. I'm worried that that's a no.
I don't know what to do now but that's not your problem. Thanks for your help lgbt.

>>6922520
Your both idiots for having a kid, but he's the biggest idiot for transitioning while he has a young baby with a woman he might not even be into any more.

Get all the child support you can out of the fucker. Babies are expensive.

>>6922520
>To put it bluntly, my gf likes being fucked, which is the exact opposite of what i was hoping for.
Take turns with a strap on?
>I guess it's just that I would rather be with a normal man.
>normal man
Uhhhhhhhh
lol
>>6921499
Kys

>>6921390
That doesn't sound too bad. She doesn't need or want you to fuck her at all?
>>6921223
That sounds reasonable.
I've never had sex before so I don't really know what I like though

>>6911095
Yep, effect of her HRT. Her libido will come to match the female libido, and her erectile dysfunction is likely permanent. If she doesn't know how to statisfy you as a woman, she deserves you left.

Try to discuss it with her, and try to look at ways she can statisfy you without using her penis.

Fun fact: As her libido goes down, her sensitivity will go up, and in a few months, she can experience a full female orgasm. Initiate her to the art of foreplay. And be careful with her budding breasts!

holy fuck this thread is gold

my fucking sides are in the nth dimension.

Why not try a poly relationship where you get a man in the mix?

>>6911095
Wow, this board is gay as fuck

>>6923065
This is a great idea as long as
A) you don't mind seeing the father of your child sucking sucking dick and getting fucked in the ass
B) You want your child to have 3 parents
C) you're a degenerate
As long as that's you, go for it.

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>>6923331
"Dad, why are you wearing a skirt? And mom's makeup? And why are those black men doing something funny to your butt?"

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"What are you saying, mom? My dad lives as a woman? Other boys in the school are laughing at me because of this. They are bullying me every day and say that my dad pushed me out of his ass and that's how I was born. They call me the ass baby.

Why can't God smite me with fiery death right now? Why wasn't I aborted oh sweet lord? Why did you allow this to happen, mom?"

>>6923367
That's why you say the dad died.

>>6911311
Happens all the time.

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"Dommy, can I ask you a personal question? if I have a fleshy strap-on, does it mean I am a girl just like you, dommy?"

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"Dommy, look! I have the same pee-pee like you. Does it mean I will have breasts one day like you?"

>Dommy
Ahahahahahaha

>>6911095
POLACK HERE

you ppl are fucking insane . this is a new level of perversion and delusion

>>6923156
I'm really not comfortable with her being with a man. If that's what she wants to do that's her decision, but she can do it without me.

>>6922853
PiV is really not the best bit for a lot of cis girls

>>6911095
tell her to ask her endo about progesterone

>>6925071
Oh okay
I am just never entirely sure
I guess I'll have to remember the cunninglingus guides I've read

I almost sort of want to try piv just to know what it's like, but I think I'd need her to get on top of me for that to work

Serves you right breeder scum

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>>6922520
If you both want to be penetrated, maybe you should try wearing a strap on. Or if you both like power dynamics try s&m. If you both really want masculinity, you could try bringing another man into the bedroom.
And for asking for viagra, you should just send her doctor an email and ask yourself. I'm mtf, so I'm really embarrassed about asking questions about my body.
And if all else fails try out a sex therapist. They're extremely helpful.
Hang in there, op. Problematic bedrooms aren't an lgbt only problem. There are resources to help you.

well on another thread they said progesterone increased libido so maybe try that

Well progesterone increases sexuality to the male level, it also increases breasts, so it's a win-win

Bumping this comedy gold

>>6911095
That ice cream looks really good desu
Too bad I'm trying to lose weight