I have a question/problem/worry. But here's the background first.
>first year at university
>living in dorm since a week
>4 beds/room
>barely know room mates yet, never seen 2 out of 3 as they start uni next week only
>put the sentence "i'm gaaay" by iDubbbz here
I am not planning on coming out or anything or at least not in the first few months before knowing them well enough, I just want to know how awkward can it get if they ever find out? I am asking this because I have never lived with others, it's fine by me if my friends know, but if I'm closed together with people for at least a year, it's really a hit or miss if it ever happens. Has anybody here got problems or trust issues because of it?
And yeah, my phone and laptop have passwords on them.
>>6906189
I don't think they would care, I think if you brought home a guy/girl they would be fine. Honestly its not that big of a deal. Let it come up in a conversation.
>Hey anon see any girls/guys you like.
>Nah im interested in guys/girls
Btw I don't know your gender thats why it seems like im being cryptic.
bump come on op
>>6906544
>>6906718
As I said, I won't just spill it and tell them before they even know me. It's just not gonna happen, I don't want to come out yet. Also I'm a guy.
But you know what I'm talking about, being around in just underwear, showering etc. Do people ever get used to something like this and start acting like it didn't happen?
>>6907084
acting like coming out never happened? thats not what you want
or acting like walking around in underwear never happened? again, not what you want
But to answer your question, after a while of being around each other shit like that (walking around in underwear sometimes) becomes normal. And if it doesn't fly with any of them It's not you're problem if they can't get over their aspergers.
>>6907188
What are you talking about? I haven't come out yet, and all I'm asking is if you ever had complications of normally average things because of a changed perspective. Those examples were meant as "are people on average still comfortable walking around in barely any clothes after knowing the other is gay"? As for me, I'm okay with even talking to people in the shower with my dick out.
>>6907084
Also like I said its not a huge deal. Personally I think coming out is stupid, cause its like saying you're straight to someone.