/bi-gen/ - Bisexual General Discussion

>If you haven't had any partners, has there been a reason why? If you tried looking, how/where did you look?

Dunno, I've tried to look in dad's basement, but he tells me I shouldn't go in there.

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>where/how did you meet your current or past partners?

Gaming honestly. Struck a conversation and it just took off. I've met partners at bars, tindr, the standard stuff but online has been my favorite.

>Has your experience in finding partners changed since you sorted you were bi?

Some people really jusy don't want to be with bisexuals, it's a bummer but what can you do?

>>6902188

In much the same way that straight and gay people do, I suppose. Met most of my previous girlfriends through mutual friends/school. Only had one same-sex relationship with a close childhood friend so I guess i'm a little inexperienced in that regard.

>>6898561
pretty great desu, could always be better though

>>6902289
dont tell them you're bi, not being stealth is bi hardmode

I have been so excited for the last thread to die, because this OP image pissed me off

And now it's back. Fuck!

>>6902654

What you got against muh man Clopin?

>>6902654
OP is being lazy again.

>>6902365
Yeah, because if there's one thing people love more than a whore, it's a lying whore.

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>>6902713
>>6902654
Next thread will be something completely different, scouts honor!

>>6902749
avoiding bi stigma if it's possible is just sensible

>>6902654

don't hate on autistic people please.

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>>6902752
Man I can't wait.

>If you haven't had any partners, has there been a reason why?
I have social anxiety disorder and severe depression. Please kill me. I just want to love somebody.

>>6903363
How have your precious attempts gone?

>>6903363

Yeah, fuck, I could have typed this too.

>>6902757
>lying about yourself because people might not like the truth
Don't you have any integrity?

>>6906244
Pretending to be gay (or straight) in order to attract the same (or opposite) sex people more easily is just pathetic.

I'm bi leaning. I want to fuck a guy sooo fucking badly but I promised myself several years ago that I would fuck a girl first. Thing is.. I'm an anxiety-ridden piece of shit so it's -really- hard for me to talk to girls. So yeah.. 23 and virgin atm T^T

>>6906279
>I promised myself several years ago that I would fuck a girl first
Why would you do that? And is there any real point in keeping such a retarded promise? Just wait for the right person to come along and then fuck. It doesn't matter which gender you sleep with first if you're bisexual.

>>6906282
That's pure dogshit. :)

>>6906284
It's been an internal point of contention for me for a while. Like, even though I've known that I've liked guys since ~ 7th grade, I'm having trouble accepting it.. I'm basically just lying to myself that I'm straight and trying desperately to ignore the fact that I like guys too

>>6906282
>>6906296
Are you trying to post things that make zero fucking sense on purpose

>>6906296
Can anybody even decipher this post?

We're reaching levels of dogshit that shouldn't even be possible.

:)

>>6906301
Well, stop doing that.

>>6906308
Easier said than done. Thinking about starting therapy or something to try to get over it, though. Also,

>Just wait for the right person to come along and then fuck. It doesn't matter which gender you sleep with first if you're bisexual.
This actually made me feel a lot better.

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>>6906321
Don't go to therapy, it's a waste of time and money. Just talk to 4chan when you're feeling down, we're always here for you my nigger.

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>tfw you weighted 280 lbs
>tfw you were depressed as fuck with no objectives in life
>tfw your parents are fat "positive" who say ""all is genetics"" and feeds themselves and his only son with trash foot and sugar.
>decided to loses weight
>try to do exercisse but you can't move much thanks to you body fat
>tfw more depressed
>tfw no energy
>you never have energy for nothing
>tfw you simply decided to eat much less and healthier
>tfw you are starting to lose weight
>tfw when losing weight feels nice
>tfw you meet a fit bi boy
>tfw you and him are friends
>tfw from friendship to a romantic relationship
>tfw you bro bf and you can talk about chicks
>tfw your bf give you tips to lose weight and exercisses
>tfw you have a lot of energy now
>tfw you have a threesome with your bf and one female friend of her
>tfw you now weight 190lbs
>tfw for happinnes for firts time since 12 years.

friendly reminder that fat activist is cancer and the 99% of fat people can loses weight if they have the will.

>>6902188
>Old thread is on the way out and so we start anew!

Uh, it's only on page 5 with 266 posts. Way to shoot off prematurely, my /bi/tch.

>>6902699
It's annoying because it's a puppet, his arms look stupid, the background reminds of me 9/11, and I have no idea how it represents bisexuality at all

>>6906971
>they don't know the flag
s m h

>>6907026
I mean flags are kinda silly, really.

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>>6906747
Bump limit is 300, I will make sure to wait for it next time!

>>6906971
Also no more Clopin, atleast for a while.

Noted, a productive thread thus far!

>>6902188
which one?

I have 5

Generally not being a cunt helps, being a good dom helps more

>>6907178

Are you polyamorous?

How do you manage all of those partners?

Is there one you like the most?

I just noticed something funny. When I'm single, I tend to not do much maintenance on myself.
When I start dating a girl, the first thing I do is cut my nails short.
When I start dating a guy, the first thing I do is shave my legs bare.

>>6907918
Why the fuck would you shave your legs bare ?__?

>>6908768
I wanted to visually balance between "cut nails short" and "shave legs bare"
Or is the correct terminology "bear"?

>>6908854
Bears don't shave their legs. lololo

>>6902188
>like sex with men more than sex with women
>no romantic attraction to men
>want a cute gf to cuddle and watch animu with
>get crushes on women I don't actually like sexually

why is this allowed?

>>6907681
Never ever have a favourite

I think polygamous is more accurate, they're all my subs kinda, one also doms me,I have them play with each other and generally everyones happy

>>6908938
You just need a gf who will give you those cuddles and also accept an open relationship so you can get some dick on the side

>>6907026
>>6907029
Damn, I guess I get it now.

Either way, the puppet is only red and blue, so it doesn't look much like the flag. I figured it was some red+blue=bi shit, but I also didn't want to believe that's all there is to it, because it's kind of dumb, lol

I think the trans flag is kinda dumb too, though much nicer to look at

t. Bisexual trans woman

>>6909509
if I get dick on the side I'll probably not have any left for her

at that point it's just having a fag hag

>>6909531
Maybe you're a homosexual and you just need to condition yourself to grow appreciative of....man stuff? Man hugs and cuddles? Idk.

>>6910175
I appreciate man cuddles and hugs

I just can't fall in love with a man. I fall in love with like any girl I find cute.

>>6910193
Let me guess, you browse 4chan for a lot of porn so you end up jerking it to a lot of dicks?

You need to condition yourself in the opposite direction you've been conditioning yourself then, i.e; away from dicks.

>>6910193
u str8

>>6910285
Do not listen to this jelly cis female in disguise. Embrace the dick. Embrace it.

>>6910306
>mfw straight bottom

this is the worst

>>6910285
Yeah, but I've jerked it to shemale porn since I was a teen because I like cocks.

Now I am actually doing as you say and jerking it to straight porn. I only find straight porn appealing if the woman has a really big fat ass.

>>6910475
You just need a good dom, you little pansy.

>>6910311
I encouraged him to go gay first >>6910175
but he doesn't love men, just dicks.

>>6910484
You're just fucked I guess. Maybe you need a gay dom and a female sub or something, so you can get dick and experience love.

>>6910193
Just because you haven't fallen in love with a man doesn't mean you won't. You shouldn't write yourself off.
I find it much easier to get dopey with girls, but here I am in a relationship with a guy whom I'm head over heels for.
It doesn't happen often. But here we go.

>>6910677
How did you meet? Did you start off the rship with preconceived notions? Are you worried about AIDS?

>>6902289
do you go to bars solo or with friends I want to go to clubs and bars but I always get a tinge of anxiety that it will be harder to introduce myself without wingman/woman.

>>6911052
We met through a music project a mutual friend roped us into. I was upfront about how I felt in just a couple days. It was scary how quickly our bond formed.

Why do you all keep perpetuating the stereotype that we can't commit to relationships and that we keep dumping people to sleep with the other sex? No wonder everyone here shits on us.

>>6912388
How do we propetuate this? Is it through the thread topics?

I am the embodiment of a slut and of which I am proud, but I do not wish to impose this image on to others who do not want it.

>>6912873
Through irresponsible memery.
Ironic shitposting is still shitposting.
Poe's law etc.

>>6912879
None of what you said carried any value.

Try again?

>>6912914
Through a combination of some jokingly playing along and others trolling the idea sticks around even though nobody really means it.
Making jokes about something without actually taking a stand and rejecting it will give off the wrong impression to outsiders.

There's basically an extrapolation of imageboard posting behavior to real life behavior.
Then again, I Seriously Hope You Guys Don't Do This.

>>6912925
Are you implying that we are to uphold some sort of moral expectation to other bisexuals based on societies views on sex?

It is fine to imply this, but to what benifit?

>>6912932
When you are (possibly implicitly) vocally representing a group you do have some obligation to actually be representative.

Why does my brain have to be so fucked up?
I don't recall ever falling in love or even being somewhat attracted to anyone and I only get turned on by porn with older women or twinks with manly men.

>>6912957
I am transparent. honest and respectful to my sexual partners. If my charecter is what represents a group, the group should be so lucky.

What is the fault you see in me that reflects so badly on the group? Do not mix words, what exactly do you resent of me?

That I am not monogamous? Is that your only issue?

>>6912991
Well no problem with you then.
There's no issue with purposely and clearly not commiting if that's what you want.
It was more about the original statement of "can't" as opposed to your "won't", also "dumping" vs a clean breakup.

>>6913003
>>6913003

Every group has bad apples but these threads usually show the better side of bisexuality. It's unfortunate but honestly I find the other orientations avoid us because they hate competition. Too much jealousy.

I literary never met a bisexual that wasn't somewhat into BDSM. Why the fuck is that?

>>6913404
Hi, I'm a bisexual and I'm not particularly into BDSM. It's probably just the company you keep.

>>6913404
Too many celebrity friends>

>>6913430
>I'm not particularly into BDSM
That's enough for being somewhat into BDSM. Most straight friends I have are pretty vanilla, while every bisexual at one point mentions something related to BDSM. Might be confirming bias, but it seems more prevalent in this community.

>>6913493
I mean, if you're counting people who aren't into BDSM as being somewhat into BDSM then yes, it might be confirmation bias.

>>6913493
Eh.
I think it's more that unconventional sequality comes with more questioning, exploration, acceptance, etc., so bi people are more easily chill with a little bit of this and that?

>>6913506
This too.

>>6913493
Surveys show something like 30% of people are interested in BDSM.

>>6913639
So basically bi people are more honest?

Gay guy here =)

PSA: Telling me and almost any other gay person that you're bi drops your attraction rating by AT LEAST 15%

We don't trust you won't cheat on us and statistically you're over 90% likely to dump us and marry a woman.

>>6913684
What am I supposed to do then, be mysterious and keep it a secret?

>>6913692
Yep, or take the chance and be crushed when they don't want to date you.

>>6913698
My poor fragile heart.

>>6913684
No one asked. No one cares.

PSA: We're over 90% more likely to find a woman attracted to our genitals than a man. This means we have more women to choose from than men, and a higher chance of finding someone we're compatible with.

Why are gays so insecure that they think that's about them? If a bi man breaks up with a gay and marries another man, they ignore this, but if it happens with a woman, it's a sin.

>>6913698
So I can weed out the psycho guys by telling them I'm bi? Fukken sweet

>>6913706
"psycho"
Oh yes, not wanting to date someone who will leave you is crazy

>>6913716
Most relationships end, anon. That's the point of dating: to find someone you're compatible with. Most people simply are not compatible with you.

How convenient that the gays who leave their boyfriends for other men don't count.

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>If you haven't had any partners, has there been a reason why? I've had one male sexual partner and multiple female ones.

> If you tried looking, how/where did you look?
I want to look, but I'm still getting comfortable with my sexuality, and therefor not ready to be out yet which makes finding a partner difficult. Also, I live in a college town, so the same people go to the same bars/clubs and what not all the time. Someone is bound to notice me.

Also, have some more Clopin.

>>6906232
It's not lying, it's just truh from a certain point of view :^)
https://youtu.be/pSOBeD1GC_Y

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Since I've discovered I am bi I have had no partners and have felt immense depression. I feel 0% love for men, just lust. And for women it's about 5% lust, maybe 20% if really my type, but I do feel a stronger sense of wanting a reciprocating emotional relationship.
I feel like love without lust and lust without love in a person is completely off-putting and unnatural. I hate it, and I hate my life. I can't bring myself to get with men, because I am not promiscuous like that, there must be some sort of emotional element, which doesn't exist for me... Anyone get me?

>>6914140
A-are you me?
I've come to conclusion that I never will be happy, so better make best of it. For now I'm taking a break in any kind of relationships (one-night stand, long term bf etc.). Kinda helps, but there are moments when lonelyness is crushing. Still it feels better than emotioncoaster of relationships.

>>6914140
I've had the same feeling lately, I don't feel anything for guys and sometimes have difficulty getting hard having sex with girls

Why can't I just be into guys? But guy faces are unattractive, and I'm not into guy's bodies, only cocks

>>6914322
I often want just to be straight or gay, never both FML

>>6914179
I've spent a lot of time on self improvement to internalise a sense of pride and whole-ness, such that I don't feel the need to seek this type of emotional crutch from a significant other. I look better, I earn more, I learn more and I am physically healthier, but loneliness is just a weird feeling that only produces self consciousness and doubt, where no negative feelings ought to be.

>>6916338
>If you haven't had any partners, has there been a reason why? If you tried looking, how/where did you look?
Havent looked. Too scared that I might actually be bi, scared that friends will find out and scared because I have never been with anyone

>>6916342
it'll be fine, it's only scary the first time and you'll realize that you're worrying about trivial things ;)

I went to a women oriented party last week and not only I realised I didn't belong in that kind of place, but that I forgot how to talk to people in those situations; I look okay and I'm not fat, so looks aren't a problem, but I just don't know how to speak to others, I feel autistic.
I want a girlfriend so bad.

>>6916736

do you have a celebrity look-alike?

I personally am attracted to the feminine and masculine wavelengths that people give off, and the body parts are irrelevant.

Is it the same for you guys? Or the opposite?

>>6920144
your mother is a wavelength

>>6920339
no u

I found my bf on Tinder and from then I knew I was bi. I hate to put it like this but it kind of started out as an experiment because I was totally okay if I ended up liking this guy sexually. I don't find him visually attractive but I get turned on when I get close or when he touches me and that's when I knew for sure. I'm not certain if I would date another man because as far as I know he's the only one I'm attracted to like this. We've been together for 5 months now.

>>6920144
I'm attracted to the wave length of cock and the amplitude of ample booty

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Hi, bi male here.

No partner at the moment, have only been with one other guy. Back in high school I was curious but didn't readily label myself. I'm attracted to more effeminate guys, masculinity isn't really for me. This one guy a couple years below me really caught my attention, aside from some mutual friends we didn't know each other, but I saw him almost daily in the halls or at events or whatever. During my first year of college he posted kind of a distressed status on facebook and I sent him sort of a blank "I know I don't know you well but I'm here for you" kind of message. We got to talking, turns out he thought I was cute and we went from there. We never had a relationship, just a couple flings but 10/10 perfect experimenting experience

>>6919627
uh no, why is that?

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I'm bi curious, for both sexes really since I'm a virgin. Don't mind being a virgin though, I want to stay a virgin so I can sidestep the whole gay thing (and the whole woman being batshit insane thing).

>>6923012
I envy you.

How do you manage urges?

>If you haven't had any partners, has there been a reason why?

Living in the middle of buttfuck nowhere not knowing anyone and not being having a car or license kinda does that

>>6926074
Which state you in?

>>6926098
oooh caaanadaaaa, southern ontario

>If you haven't had any partners, has there been a reason why? If you tried looking, how/where did you look?

People are either never interested or I am too terrified to hit on people for fear of harassment or some shit.

>where/how did you meet your current or past partners? Has your experience in finding partners changed since you sorted out you were bi?

Never met anyone that didn't end up betraying my trust before it even began. And for the most part no, I haven't even been looking lately. I'm mostly just living my life and enjoying myself.

>>6928005
Just a note, not the bi-gen discord but still discord one can join.

>>6928005
>TRAP CITY

Been IDing as pan for some years now, girl here.
I've rather recently been sexual with someone of my same gender, trying out some sort of relationship? Though it is a mess since she's really invested in college and we rarely get to hang out much. Also I'm a fucking weirdo who is romantic/sexually awkward with girls while simultaneously being more into them than into guys.
And to top it off haven't had girl on girl action in months because im such a sub i just don't know how to initiate the nasties.

Why am i such a mess.

>>6928236
is it months or recently, make up your mind

>>6925556

What's kept me pure is the fact that I'm not desperate enough for sex to hook up with someone I'm not attracted to, but since I'm not very attractive myself I don't have much of a chance with the people I am attracted to either, so it doesn't require much willpower to keep myself in check. I think it would be a lot tougher if I was attracted to normal guys because of how easy and available they are as opposed to woman or traps.

>>6928242

Consider myself pansexual for some years now.
Only had same gender experiences about a year ago.

>>6902188
How do you tell if you're bi or just lonely? I usually imagine myself as the girl when I watch blowjob videos, but I don't know if I'd want to do it in real life.

>>6928792
imagining yourself as a girl and sucking dick is different to imagining yourself as yourself sucking dick

you're still curious at least, go suck some dicks and find out

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>>6928005
I like the other Discord better.

>>6928792
AGP

>>6929095
that's what they call it here, but there are gay, bi and straight agps

>>6929163
I'm bi and AGP

>tfw you're playing with a girls pussy and you get horny because you imagine you're playing with your own pussy

>Bis, where/how did you meet your current or past partners?
I'm terribly single atm and never had a real partner. But I've met people through OKC and Tindr. I've never had the opportunity to date someone from "real life"
>Has your experience in finding partners changed since you sorted out you were bi?
I figured out I was bi at around 15, so no.
>If you haven't had any partners, has there been a reason why?
Grew up isolated, went to a small private school, family is mega religious, I'm shy and bad at pursuing someone, as an adult I'm a depressed best and never meet new people. I've dated people but it's never lasted more than a week before they break up with me. So as far as I'm concerned those experiences don't count.
>If you tried looking, how/where did you look?
The usual dating sites

>>6929179
keep trying, you seem to have a good attitude ;)

>>6902188
>Bis, where/how did you meet your current or past partners?
High School mostly. Okcupid once or twice, hasn't been terribly successful.
>Has your experience in finding partners changed since you sorted out you were bi?
I've matured some since I started, and don't just dive for every guy who gives me even a tiny bit of attention like I used to.


fuhg why am I here... guess I'm just trying to support my own. luv u fellow Bi's of lgbt, only placed we aren't rediculed here =/

>>6929340
what's the bi-hate even all about?

>>6930336
bi people are different and different people are scary

>>6930340
oh no! I'm a monster and I didn't even know it! what do I do?!?

>>6930345
hide

hide in a closet

>>6930355
I'm already in Narnia, what do now?

>>6930357
you've completed all the instructions, what you do now is up to you

>>6930345
Make friends with other monsters, duh.

>>6930357
suck on some dicks

>>6902188
>Bis, where/how did you meet your current or past partners?

Through friends. My main partner we developed feelings after a threesome with his gf, who was my friend before they even got together.
They are still together and all of us hang out quite often, functioning like a polyamourous "V". Also I'm kind of dating his ex gf but it's sort of weird.

Can you guys tell me how you cope with this? With falling for someone on the weaker side of your kinsey scale?

My attraction to men has been so on and off. Due to my consistency with women, I had figured I was probably more lesbian than I thought I was. So I've been dating women.

And now I've had this guy fall into my lap. We're electric. So in tune personality wise and he's jump-started my fading sex drive.

We're really compatible emotionally for a long term relationship. But what if my sexual attraction fades? What if I start eyeing other girls?

What can I do to preserve this? What have you done to preserve your relationship?

I know that I'm supposed to just not worry about what-ifs, but I really want to be proactive.

I've started to avoid lesbian and solo girl porn, for starters.

>>6935591
Off the bat, be honest with said guy about this.
I think rather to repress your attraction to girls, why not accept it as an intrinsic part of yourself as it seems to be? Repressing never ends well.

Have you or your partner ever discussed an open relationship? There are infinite configurations that may work, but i get its not for everyone.

Hope any of this helps, good luck sis.

>>6935618
Tell him? That seems like a great way to get him paranoid.

We've chatted before about polyamory conceptually while we were in the flirting phase, and he's said that he wouldn't be able to do that. He said he'd have a hard time sharing.
I don't think I would be able to either, to be honest. I'd have a hard time balancing and would stress about prioritizing. I'd worry that I would want to pour myself into a new relationship, which would defeat the purpose of opening it in the first place. And it wouldn't be fair to the other person who I'm limiting my heart to. The concept of secondaries never sat well with me unless I'm a secondary to a couple. Making someone else take up a secondary role feels gross. I'd have a hard time believing they really did prefer it.

When I'm with him, my monogamy family-making hormones do ring loud, so I don't even think about others when I'm with him.

I really appreciate you helping me out. You're right, repression is bad news. At least I'm out to him. I do casually mentioned my attraction to women a bit. I thought maybe he'd feel flattered to know that he's so special compared to other men I've known.

>>6935591
I mean I think the Kinsey scale is kinda dumb, I evaluate people as individuals first, and whatever I say I am on the Kinsey scale is just a generalization about the rough proportion of people within each gender I find attractive. But the point is that among the people I *do* find attractive within each gender, they are all comparable, I just might tend to find more in one gender than the other.

So your question is weird. If you like him then you like him; how attracted you are to his gender on average should have no bearing on how attractive you find him personally.

If you know you're going to want to have sex with other people in the future, then that's its own issue. Either get his permission when it happens, or break up with him. Or just don't act on it.

>>6935756
>If you like him then you like him; how attracted you are to his gender on average should have no bearing on how attractive you find him personally.

This is a really good point. It sounds obvious now that you've said it.

I guess I'm comparing to my track record of men I've been attracted to and ended up losing interest in. But I've never felt so strongly about anyone else before. So probably it's that my draw to those other guys was too weak to begin with.


>If you know you're going to want to have sex with other people in the future, then that's its own issue. Either get his permission when it happens, or break up with him. Or just don't act on it.
I'm not really sexually driven. That's not really what I'm concerned about. I was more worried about losing these wonderful feelings.

But I guess that's a normal fear. I'm being cynical, thinking that this new great thing is going to end up going away.

Thank you. I needed a reality check.

>>6935823
You probably will lose interest somewhat, honeymoon periods don't last forever. You can chase honeymoons your whole life or you can settle with someone you have an enjoyable lifestyle with, or you can even just stay single or whatever. It's all good whatever you do, but I wouldn't expect your attraction to last with the same intensity it has at the moment. Once it happens, don't be afraid to stay, and don't be afriad to leave either. Just choose the best option.

>>6935863
Thank you. He does feel like someone that I could be just comfortable with. That's why I started this with him, really. The crazy sexual attraction built up after that. I assume it'll go down.

I'm used to being the one who's got it all together and now I'm experiencing all these new things that I don't have a framework for. It's unpredictable and that feels unfair. I need the control and social ease that I'm used to!!!

>>6922232
I wonder how many '''straight''' men would go bi if they actually let themselves feel the touch of another man like this

>>6937710
I wonder that too. Before I got with him I was certain I was pretty straight. I was kinda into traps though so I think that's what piqued my curiosity.

>>6937710
>>6939024

I think I'm more afraid of liking masculine guys than simply being bi for liking traps. I don't want to find out I like bears!

>>6939351
>I don't want to find out I like bears!

Why? Masculine guys are my favourite kind.

most bi women are really just straight girls. 90% of the time, they'll stay loyal to the guy. The other 10% need to get their urges filled so they cuck their gfs.

Bi guys on the other hand, stick with men in the long term because men aren't crazy and they offer better sex.

Men master race. Nobody likes women lel.

>>6939384
I like women. It's easier fucking women as a bi guy because you don't have to deal with lgbt stigma, also there are way more straight women around than gay/bi guys.

Actually grew up with my ex girlfriend. We came from a very religious polytheistic family and we were always around eachother as we grew up. Then when we were both 16 we were just talking and things just kind of happened. That's when we decided to become partners emotionally and sexually.

>>6939375

Idk, I guess is similar to the disgust straight guys feel when they think of fucking a fatty.

>>6939400
if there was no lgbt stigma, there would be no straight guys.

Just gay men and bi boys who pound their fem bf's boipussy. One day in the future, women will be made obsolete and we can mass genocide them all like what the Jews lied to everyone about.

>>6939474
>if there was no lgbt stigma, there would be no straight guys.

Yeah because every guy secretly wants to fuck another man's dirty hairy sweaty ass and get some Anally Injected Death Sentences.

>>6939721

it is a thing. Ancient Greek society greatly preferred men and considered women as disabled and abhorrent. Modern Islamic society are greatly attracted to young boys, and ancient Japan praised the relationship between men and young male youths.

You just need to score a virgin boipussi and you wouldn't bet getting AIDS.

One day the modern western world will throw away women completely for the servitude and worship of men. I mean, it's biological. Look at all the bi chicks who would totally go for a aggressive dude with a huge cock over any of the most beautiful women on earth. Once a "straight" man tastes the forbidden fruit that is semen and a dick pounding, he will always prefer sex with men.

Men are nature's greatest art and practicality wrapped into one divine package.

Women are what shit was left over and molded together into an overly emotional package of crazy nasty fishy smelling axe wound abomination.

Just saying that women should probably go kill themselves for not being able to compete.

A man will always be smarter, stronger, more trustworthy, a bro, who gives better head and delivers better sex than any roastie could dream of. Even chicks know it because all they can get off to is gay porn.

I've heard a million stories where frusterated str8 or bi guys go gay for a fellow bro because females were being bitches to them.

But I've never heard any story of a girl leaving a guy for another girl permanently and going full gay. F/F shit is always short term. Vagina just can't convert the way dick does.

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>>6939917
>Women are what shit was left over and molded together into an overly emotional package of crazy nasty fishy smelling axe wound abomination.

This is because of modern media that promotes the sexualisation of teen girls, turning them into promiscuous sluts and thus making a lot of men consider "going" gay, it's all part of (((their))) plan.

Besides, the LGBT people and homosexuals are more promiscuous than everyone else on average, do you really think society would be great if men just screwed eachother like pieces of meat? Society would decay and corrode as did Sodom and Gomorrah, you're using Islamic countries as an example and look how fucked up they are, we shouldn't aim to be like them at all. I wouldn't have much of a problem with gays personally as long as they keep away from children and had monogamous, long-lasting relationships but the problem is is that the vast majority don't, they have hundreds of sexual partners on average. (Source: https://carm.org/statistics-homosexual-promiscuity)

Face it, would you rather have an uncorrupted, sweet virgin country girl who will stay loyal to you and support you through everything as well as bearing your children or some hyper-promiscous, unfaithful, STD-ridden man who will never be able to give you children and likely gives off an awful scent when he sweats in bed like almost all men do.

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>Tfw probably bisexual but don't have the balls to admit it to myself

>>6940042
>uncorrupted, sweet virgin country girl who will stay loyal to you and support you through everything

she'll bear your kids but she grows old and fat and ugly while cucking you with another guy, and you'll be banging a hyper promiscuous young lad on the side.

>>6940107
>she'll bear your kids but she grows old and fat and ugly while cucking you with another guy, and you'll be banging a hyper promiscuous young lad on the side.

She won't because she won't chug alcohol or eat big macs flat out, we won't have any reason to cuck eachother because we both believe in monogamy unlike gay ass bandits. Live your faggot delusion as much as you want but at the end of the day any society that accepts gays as normal is a doomed society destined for decay.

>>6940107
don't try these butthurt /pol/ anons are just mad

>>6940217
>She won't because she won't chug alcohol or eat big macs flat out,

nigga, i don't know where you live, but if it's burgerland, the odds of your qt wife aging well is not going to be good.

>at the end of the day any society that accepts gays as normal is a doomed society destined for decay.
this coming from a guy who wants to suck cock and get fucked while trying to maintain a hetero normal marriage. Nigga plz. The more forbidden you make the fruit, the more delicious it tastes once you crack and take a bite.

I'm seeking advice, I'm Bi and I recently found out my roommate is also bi (sort off, We kissed things happened etc etc) we're dating now but we're both closeted, He told his best friend which was a big step for him. fast forward 2 weeks and they're both smoking and drinking in his room (I live in a dorm) and he asked me if I would join them for a beer so we could meet. It's the first time we would be "open" with someone and Idk if I'm comfortable with this yet. I've got a test tomorrow so I can't join them for a joint which would be my first pick. How should I handle this? Like any tips, subject I should talk about?

Got a chance to top a guy for the first time, should I try it?

>>6943500
>>6943483

you two should just fuck guys, you'll never go back to girls after experiencing the D. D is superior above all.

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>>6943505
How the fuck is this advice

>>6943483
Just have a beer if you can have just one, mellow out and have light conversation. Let someone else lead the topic of discussion. It will be easier on you

>>6943500
Of course, bring water based lubricant and condoms. Safe sex best sex. Bite their back and/or choke them if you know how and they are interested.

>>6943532
>How the fuck is this advice

because it's true? Bitter roastie detected.

>>6943505
Actually not at all. we're planning a threesome with a girl. We actually still talk more about girls then guys (we don't talk about guys at all lol). It might be bc we're both from small villages where people are extremely homophobic so we're still a little homophobic too but I don't mind it at all like this.

>>6943532
Thanks for the advice but I'm pretty sure we're all going to be uncomfortable (see above explanation on how we come from small homophobic villages). The only subject I've prepared is football but I could talk about that max 5 mins before I shut down

>>6943535
It's an opinion that doesn't advise them how to respond their respective situations.

Wanna take this out side friend?

>>6943550
bitch im not scared of you.

>>6943539
lol, just get rid of the lgbt stigma and you'll be 100% gay for cock full time. Just ask bi girls and reformed dyke to straight girls.

Let me get this straight, the simple fact that i am bisexual means i am hated by members of the lgbt community?

Thats the same community that parades individual rights and acceptance, right?

Wtf is going on.

>>6943563
Boy, I'll leave marks on you your kids will tell stories about.

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>>6943575
Yeah by some of them, but you're cool in my book!

>>6943579
cum rp with me on skype. Here's my info:
>>6942457

>>6943586
I would love to respond with an appropriate anime face but im on my phone, i tried the lenny face but i guess thats spam...

Firm handshake?

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>>6943589
Thank you for the invitation, but I am a bit occupied with other matters. Your lick'n will have to wait.


>>6943603

Firm handshake accepted.

You should try the discord, it's good people, cute too.

>>6943644
Thanks for the advice, ill check it out when i get off this 40dollar paperweight

>>6943657
Tough break. Well community helps deal with the naysayers. It can be tough out there.

Gay guys and lesbians have torn into me before in real life, shits weak.

Woo hoo! Finally nutted up and kissed the girl! I realise no one cares but I just wanted to feel good for a second.

>>6943575

Welcome to the bi club pal. Hated by gays and str8 alike

>>6943739
Good for you man.

How do I fuck my twinks female friends?

autistic virgin, going trans later i guess
found my boyfriend on /cuteboys/, posted on a depression thread and he asked me to add him
he's nice, biscum like me so no problem when i told him i was planning to transition

>tfw you'll never have a cute kinky gf who enjoys bi threesome with a twink or tranny

>>6944322
Why won't you ever have that?

>>6944344
Every gf I've had where I've implied that I'm bi by saying I like tranny porn gets disgusted by it and doesn't stick around too long

I don't think it's common to find a girl who doesn't mind having their bf having a cock in their mouth

>>6944371
How do you go about telling them?

>>6944371
pick a bi gf: problem solved?

>>6944371
I think it's different for bi guys vs bi girls.
If a bi girl tells her bf she's bi, the first thing that pops into his head is a threesome.
Girls get insecure and weirded out by it instead.

>>6944371
>Every gf I've had where I've implied that I'm bi by saying I like tranny porn gets disgusted by it and doesn't stick around too long

your problem is not women .. its your autism

What's the gay man version of a size queen? I'm becoming one of those.

>>6944470
its just "size queen"

>>6944371
>tfw I've been trying to convince my fuckbuddy/boyfriend of having a threesome with another guy
>tfw he wants to try the dick but is picky af
>tfw it's hard to come by bi guys anyways

Where u at anon :(

>>6944470
size princess

>>6943446
>nigga, i don't know where you live, but if it's burgerland, the odds of your qt wife aging well is not going to be good.

Nah don't live in 'murica mate, women here age like fine wine although alcohol in general is seen as mostly negative by the public.

>this coming from a guy who wants to suck cock and get fucked while trying to maintain a hetero normal marriage.

Alright Captain Assumption, just because I am in this thread doesn't make me a faggot who lusts after men like you, I find the male body disgusting.

Also your quote about forbidden fruit is very troubling, so basically the more taboo something is, the better it is to try? Fuck off mate you'll have people doing illegal stuff if you advocate that mindset, no wonder you people were registered as mentally ill until just a few decades ago, should still be that way.

>tfw no androgynous gf
>tfw no androgynous bf
just kill me senpai

>>6946707
>thw no hyper masculine muscular bf
>tfw no hyper feminine christina hendricks gf

>>6946728
>>6946728
Hyper masculine muscular fellow reporting.

We're out there, and we want you.

>>6946707
>>6946728
I'm into all of these but the andro bf.

>>6947038
andro girls > masc guys > femme girls > masc girls > other guys

>>6913698
Yeah, but then when you find out from my parents or one of my ex's you'll lose your trust in me anyway both because i am bi AND because I lied to you. Fuck that.

If I keep jerking off to gay porn will I become bi?

>>6948646
>keep jerking off to gay porn
you already are

>>6948646
sexuality is only really accurate as a convenient way to classify your own attractions
it's not like it's some rigid power that has complete control over you
if you've fapped to gay porn you have an attraction to men, it's as simple as that

>>6902188
>If you haven't had any partners, has there been a reason why?

Yes. All men I meet look awful (I'm into bears) or have an awful personality/view on relationships (open relationship request = immediate rejection) and women I meet are either not my type (because they seem to have no personality whatsoever) or not ready for a long term relationship.

In other words: IT'S THEIR FAULT, NOT MINE! I'M TOTALLY PERFECT AND NORMAL!

>>6949483
>because they seem to have no personality whatsoever

What does this mean?

>>6948895
>if you've fapped to gay porn you have an attraction to men, it's as simple as that

idk, I think its a difference between fapping to gay porn and being turned on by being intimate with a man in person. For example I could definitely fap to beastiality, but there is no way in hell I'd participate.

At the very least we should not use porn as a measure for sexuality when real life experience is way more accurate and really the only thing that matters. In regards to porn you should just consider everything simply a fantasy until proven otherwise.

>how did you meet your current partners

Grindr. Shirtless picture showing gains smoking a cig. Nerdy bottoms.

This is my first boyfriend. Never had a girlfriend.

>Has your experience changed
I used to think I was gay.

>>6949671
sexuality measures attraction though, anon. it doesn't really matter how willing you are to bring the relationship into reality

if you've fapped to gay porn, the attraction to men is there. you can be attracted to men without wanting to fuck them IRL

>>6950353

I don't agree, at the very least if you truly are gay you should have had at least one real life guy crush or even a brief moment of "He's hot.".

>tfw you have started masturbating to gfur because good /gayco/ is too hard to find

>>6948646
It would be extremely degenerate.

>>6953365
uuuu

>>6953365
for you

>>6953365
bane?

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>tfw no no fit MMA gf to pegged me and encourage to suck dicks meanwhile her is pregnant with my seed.

aren't bi faggots in denial?

>>6956614
in denial about being gay or in denial about being straight? or something else?

>>6956631
i dunno, i just want to understand.
Sorry if it was a bit offensive.
Usually i see "straight" people and "gay"
i just want to understand this "in between"

>>6956649
well I think straight people and gay people are kinda weird. I suspect they're just bisexuals who repress their attraction to one gender.

>>6956653
why?

>>6956708
it makes more sense intuitively to me than the idea that there are people who are categorically not attracted to half the population just because of their gender

>>6956747
Honestly same over here.
This is tjh kind of thing that really makes you fully aware of how subjective /is/ reality.

>>6956653
>>6956747

Honestly same over here.
This is the kind of thing that really makes you fully aware of how subjective /is/ reality.

>>6956649
It's less "inbetween" and more "both"

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>tfw sometimes you want to munch on some puss
>tfw other times you want to shove a huge cawk down ur throat

It's the best of both worlds baby

I guess I'm bi considering I'm attracted to femboys and Femboys only

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>Bis, where/how did you meet your current or past partners? Has your experience in finding partners changed since you sorted out you were bi?

Parties and the internet. I found I was heteroflexible when I was in high school but didn't have a same sex experience until college. I've seen other men on here that also have lust for men but romantic attraction to women and I am in that boat. I get fuzzies if I see a certain guy and like making out and sucking cocks but I think I have a tough time getting off myself with men to be honest. Not sure if I'm still nervous about it or what.

I've had more relationships with women so I am more comfortable with them. I'm awkward so I generally don't like hooking up to begin with so that's why I am with men less I guess.

Is the internet useful for finding people to have sex with, or would I be wasting my time and should I just keep finding people the normal way? The internet is such a technological marvel that I can't imagine it couldn't be a great tool for connecting people but everything I've heard suggests all dating sites and apps are just populated by bots and stalkers.

I didn't have too many issues when I first came out at age 22. But once it had become well known that I was, people overreacted. It made my life more difficult, so I made the decision to not socially label myself... Because who honestly cares who I have sex with?

>>6963284
Yeah, that's similar to my experience. I'm not being openly bi until being bi is seen as boring.

>>6943483

You don't have to do everything your friend does.

If you end up smoking weed (considering it's legal where you live), try not to do anything sexual with him because it will make things awkward between the 2 of you.

And if you plan on getting busy anyway, make sure you keep some condoms.

>>6943483

Also, you have a test... so you should just call off the date with your friends. Your success is more important.

>>6963216

Yeah it def is

with tinder the bot thing is overblown don't worry about it same with okcupid grindr I don't know too much about

You know, I could really go for a fit masculine women right now. One with wit who is far smarter than myself.

That's what I want for Christmas /bi-gen/, make it happen.

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>>6928935
>discord
>celebrities
this is still a meme?

>>6968616
Yeah, the comment was so absolutely rediculas all members began to identify themselves as celebrity members and the joke stuck.

>be tranny
>into dudes more than women, not attracted to other trannies at all
>tfw only ever dated dudes because no women are into trannies
>tfw keep crushing on women for some retarded reason even though I know they most likely wouldn't want anything to do with me even if they were bi

y tho
I wish I could just repress and only be into guys idk

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>>6902188
>4:23am in my bed
>feeling atrociously alone in my life
>let's pretend I've got a partner next to me
>tfw I've no idea if it's a male or a female

>>6956614
lmfao senpai I wish I was gay, that would make it a lot easier

So, I'm an invader to this board, and I'm worried I might be bi. Worried, because this seems to be a recent development and not something I really thought about until now.

Long story short, I broke up with my boyfriend three weeks ago because he was an asshole. I didn't feel bad afterward, so I guess it's no loss. But lately, for whatever reason, I've become much more 'conscious' of other women, in that if I see one that I find attractive in some manner, I'll think of them in ways a straight girl shouldn't. Usually it's older women. There's a lady in my writing class in her 40s whom I find very attractive, but she also has a daughter who is a mere five years younger than me so that's rather creepy. But there's been other instances, such as getting helped at the grocery store the other day and some petite redhead who worked there left me stammering like a retard because I thought she was cute.

This is probably the part where someone will say
>just fucking find a date already
I can't do that, I'm not the type. I only go out with people I've known for a while. I'm one of those. Also, being 5'10 and Amazon-mode while generally shy doesn't help much either. It's a contradiction in personality. I feel like I intimidate people when they have no reason to be, and it makes dating difficult. Can't even imagine what another girl might think.

So how should I proceed here? Because I always assumed if I did ever end up dating a girl for some reason that it'd wind up being a close friend or someone I've known for a long time, and that's obviously never going to happen.

I also loathe hook-up "culture", so downloading an app isn't my thing

>>6970937
If you feel like you can't date someone you're not friends with first then the obvious first step is to make more friends.
You make a lot of excuses. That's fine, but you wont get very far that way.

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>come home from shitty day
>new Danny Brown album out early

>>6970937
If you don't want to meet new people deliberately (since you're refusing to find a date or use logistical tools like apps), then just be aware that you aren't only into guys and if eventually a good opportunity with another girl shows up, don't throw it away just because you're not completely sure about your sexuality.

>>6902188
>If you haven't had any partners, has there been a reason why? If you tried looking, how/where did you look?

m/22

Always had a back-and-forth with whether or not I'm bi. I'll go a little while being sure that I am, then feel like I'm straight, then I'll feel for sure that I'm into guys. It's annoying and it makes me worry that if I do try to find a guy to do anything with I'll eventually get back into a 'straight' mindset and hurt them/myself.

But for both guys and girls the bigger issue is just general insecurity and values. Plus I'm probably (definitely) too picky for my own good.

>>6972224
Are you me? I think you're actually me.

>>6971755
>If you don't want to meet new people deliberately
Well that's not EXACTLY true... I mean, I know there's lesbian hang-out spots in my area. The only problem is I've been to a few of them with friends, usually in the context of hey we just left the club, let's go have a drink at this place, or let's go see a drag show, etc., and those experiences were either neutral or negative. There's a very clean bar in the big LGBT area downtown I like to go to just because it is so nice inside, and last time I was there, I had a very aggressive black woman come onto me. She wasn't nice about it either.
>"Bitch, you're leaving with me."
>"LOL are you a Christian?"
etc.

I don't have anything against black girls but that left a bad impression on the whole, hey, go try to meet women, thing. But I'm willing to give it another try, I guess.

And I'll probably cave and do an app eventually. I'm just not looking to get laid. Sex without love is meaningless.

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>TFW nineteen and still no BF or GF

>>6972482
It was a one time issue. Get out of your head and start exposing yourself to more situations. You'll calm down eventually and meet a lot of people along the way.

>>6972224
Gonna respond to this because I feel similarly.
I'm so afraid to try dating apps or go to a gay bar or anything. Scared of being raped, scared of STDs, and above all else, scared that I'm not really bi. Maybe I will get with a guy and hate it. Maybe I will come out of the closet and then have to go back to identifying as straight later. Maybe I will get in the bedroom with someone and chicken out and break down crying, like the last time I tried to have sex with someone I didn't really care about. Or maybe I will end up leading someone on and hurting them. I disappoint everyone I know, and this won't be any different. I know I'm ugly and underwhelming. I know I make people feel insecure in relationships. And I know I can never make the first move or be on top, because it just doesn't suit me. So I let everyone down... I have such fucked up self-image issues, looking in the mirror I turn ugly and then attractive and then ugly again over and over. Whenever I think something positive about myself I am immediately reminded of 10 negative things.

>>6972555
See for me what holds me back (among the many things that hold me back of course) is that I'm against casual sex. I don't, maybe even can't, just hook up with someone. And, better yet, I want a partner that shares those values. Which feel impossible with guys or girls seeing as most people don't learn those things until they're already together.

>Maybe I will come out of the closet and then have to go back to identifying as straight later.

God this happened to me. I was in high school and I came out to people and it was a huge mistake. I wasn't bi, I was gay (according to everyone else). Plus you can't really take that back. I doubt I'll ever really 'come out' again.

>>6972656
I'm the anon you responded to.
I feel the same way. I tried having casual sex before and it just felt so empty and cold and I just felt depressed about the whole thing. It felt like two people pretending to be in love and desperately trying to feel something. Which, honestly, was what it was-- we both have mental health issues, she and I. I too came out at one point, and was pretty much treated the same way you were.

>>6972482
>>6972656
>>6972712
Sex without love can just be for fun, you really don't have to ascribe meaning to it for it to be a good time. It weirds me out to hear people needing love to bother with sex, it's just so different to my experience. What's stopping you from enjoying sex in its own right?

>>6970937
>Also, being 5'10 and Amazon-mode while generally shy doesn't help much either. It's a contradiction in personality. I feel like I intimidate people when they have no reason to be, and it makes dating difficult.
That feel. I look like one of those typical andro confident butch girls and I carry myself in that way well. But my true personality is that of a shy socially autistic loner, at least romantically. I feel lioe girls expect me to be a certain way then get disappointed when I'm not like that. Feels futile man.

>>6972776
I can get how it can be fun, and I'm not saying I have to be in love with the person. But I just can't imagine having sex without intimacy.

Like imagine someone random person coming up to you on the street and groping you/rubbing themselves against you. Yea it might feel nice, and maybe their attractive, but odds are you're mostly going to feel awkward and wonder who the hell they are. That's how I view casual sex.

>>6972828
You don't need love to have intimacy. You can know someone really well, feel comfortable with them and them with you. You don't need to be in love to have a good time in the bedroom.

>>6972855
That's what I meant. I'm not against sex in a relationship because that would be a person I know and feel comfortable around. I wouldn't have a hookup because that would be having sex with someone I don't know and am not intimate with.

hi friends
i'm new to this board and i just have a question
so i guess technically speaking i'm bisexual, i'm a cis female and in the past i've only ever dated boys but lately i really feel like i'm only interested in girls and not really interested in dating a man at all at the moment
i wanted to post in the cis lesbian general but since i've been with guys before and don't know that i'm 100% lesbian i'm a little scared to post there cause idk if they hate bisexuals or not but at the same time i want to meet girls so that seemed like the place to go
please help i'm lost and scared ;~;

>>6972934
This is 4chan
No one has to know who you are when you post in a thread. If you don't mention you've had sex with guys before, no one will know.

>>6972934
Not a girl but hope I can help

>scared to post there cause idk if they hate bisexuals or not

i don't think they hate bisexuals really, but if you're bi I think it would be kinda rude(?) to go there. It'd be like if I started posted on the gaygen and started talking about relationships with women as much as guys; it's just not the place for it.

>so i guess technically speaking i'm bisexual, i'm a cis female and in the past i've only ever dated boys but lately i really feel like i'm only interested in girls and not really interested in dating a man at all at the moment

> since i've been with guys before and don't know that i'm 100% lesbian

From the sound of it you're not gay, just bi. It's just that right now you're in a really les mood. I get those too. There are times where I lean towards women so much that I think I'm straight but then other times there's nothing I want more than a cute boy to hold and be with.

You can be attracted to both but prefer one or the other at different times.

>>6972976
yeah this is true. it just feels wrong like if i met a girl there and she thought i was a lesbian when i might be bi it feels like i'm deceiving her.

>>6972984
>It's just that right now you're in a really les mood
yeah this might just be it honestly. i mean right now i just really want to be with a girl but i can't deny what i've felt for boys in the past. i guess i'm just confused because i've never actually been with a girl in person but i really want to and it's hard to know what i really am when i don't have the real life experience to back it up and i don't want to deceive or hurt anyone. thank you though this was really helpful i really appreciate it. <3

>>6973007
>thank you though this was really helpful i really appreciate it. <3

No problem. And odds are the only way not having experience would be a problem is if you're ignoring a part of having a relationship with women. That's just a minor thing that you'll learn if you end up with a woman anyways so it's best not to fret over it.

>>6972881

Honestly I wouldn't make a boundary until you try it. You can have casual relationships that are very positive. I am the same as you and generally feel the same as you do but have also had good experiences with hookups.

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>>6913684

>tfw want to play around with a guy or a trans girl
>but want to marry a biological woman and have kids
>don't want a one night stand, but can't have an indefinite relationship with same sex
>refuse to ever cheat
>open relationship would feel awkward

Maybe what I need is a FWB?

>>6973344
I understand that, but it isn't just a boundary for me it a moral value thing. And to break it and go against what I believe just in case I may not have a strict a boundary as I thought is hypocritical to me and relies on me doing a lot of things I'm not personally comfortable with either.

>>6972776
>Sex without love can just be for fun, you really don't have to ascribe meaning to it for it to be a good time.
It's not exactly something I control. I don't treat sex like a handshake. My ex-boyfriend did. Actually, what precipitated me dumping him was that we did it, and literally not even five minutes later he kicked me out of his apartment because he "wanted to sleep". He lives in a condo with a fully-furnished living room and two spare empty bedrooms and no roommates, just for reference. He simply wanted to get rid of me, or even worse, saw me as a tool.

>What's stopping you from enjoying sex in its own right?
Because I can sort any urges in five minutes with two double-A batteries. My ex was pretty spectacular in bed, but that's not what I wanted from him.

People intrinsically crave love and acceptance. When you don't get it, it's like your soul is starving.

>>6972788
I know exactly what you mean. I'm kind of a girly girl, I have long hair and I like cute frilly things, but I'm also pretty athletic and know some krav maga and kali, so I could probably dislocate someone's shoulder pretty good. People look at me and just expect I'll be super outgoing and confident when the truth is, if I don't know you, it'll be tough to get two words out of me because I'm likely intimidated by -you-.

>>6974227
Well not getting "acceptance" out of a partner when that's what you're looking for is pretty unrelated to perceptions of sex.

>>6974227

I'm skeptical, how starved for love and acceptance can souls really be? Surely people who are happy with who they are and can love and accept themselves wouldn't be as reliant on needing it from a partner.

>>6974474
I'm sure some can, but not everyone is like that and some can never be. One's personal thoughts and experiences aren't everyone's.

>>6974468
Zoning in on a single word wasn't really what I was getting at.

Some people want a quick lay.
Others want a partner for life.

I'm the latter.

>>6974791
My point is that you can enjoy plenty of quick lays on your way to finding your partner for life. Even afterwards, for some people.

>>6975176
Different anon, but with the same views as >>6974474 . The point is that sex just for fun wouldn't be enjoyable. I, and probably we, don't want sex outside of an emotional connection.

>>6975272
>>6975176

sorry, meant same views as >>6974791

>>6975176
And I'm telling you I don't want a quick lay, and I'm not going to try and sleep around in order to find happiness. Lots of people have tried and failed. It really and truly doesn't work, despite all memeing to the contrary. I loathe hook-up culture, as I've said, and I will not participate.

Do people actually date anymore, or am I just a walking anachronism

>>6975310
>>6975272
>I, and probably we, don't want sex outside of an emotional connection.
Yes. This, exactly.

The ex got dumped because I realized that 'connection' was only going in one direction.

>>6975310
Of course people date, and they also have sex. They don't have to be mutually exclusive. It's fun.

>in order to find happiness

if you aren't already happy, finding a partner won't necessarily help that.

>>6975369
>if you aren't already happy, finding a partner won't necessarily help that.

To be fair, if the reason you're unhappy is because you're lonely then finding a partner would definitely help. It can also make you happier.

Anyone else bi but not attracted to trans "people"?

>>6975333
Yeah, and there's nothing wrong with knowing what you're looking for and understanding he wasn't going to provide it. But that doesn't mean the sex you had was retroactively not enjoyable.

>>6975383
To an extent, but I think that's often a recipe for developing nasty codependent relationships. You can't be too reliant on staying in a relationship with someone to maintain personal happiness, otherwise you have too strong an incentive not to get out even after things go sour.

>>6975391
same. I get how people can be attracted to them, it's just not for me.

>>6975434
I understand. I'm just thinking of it as a way to be happy in one specific situation (ie loneliness) and not something to be 100% dependent on for being happy. Like how food solves the issue of hungriness but you don't want to have all of your happiness reliant on food.

All my attempts at relationships have been sort of disasters, with both men and women. Honestly I can't complain though because it's my fault every time, I'm never properly interested which is awful. Those who are interested in me are the ones I'm not interested in, and vice versa. Bad luck.

I'm going to uni next year and am hoping that it'll be new city, new people

>>6975391

Yes.

>>6975399
It was enjoyable when I thought he loved me.
It became regrettable once I realized he didn't.

Having sex with strangers is probably the single most degrading thing I could think of. Maybe others are okay with it but I'm not. Blame those Sunday School classes I was in as a child or whatever, but I'm not going to change.

>>6975434
I think this conversation is going a bit off the rails. I was never suggesting I needed a relationship to give me purpose or a reason to exist. But everyone wants someone they can rely on and love. There's little point to life if there's nobody there to experience it with you.

The only thing that's intrinsically changed in me is that I'm willing to let a girl be that 'someone' now, too.

Who else hears a specific song mentally when they see an attractive male (and only male)?

For me, it is the violin theme played at the beginning of this video: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=vIJ0qzZjoOo

I don't know why, it just does.

Dammit, the lady was in my writing class again and talked to me because she liked the thing I did for the assignment. Thought I was going to have a heart attack. I need to knock this off though, she has a daughter and, I assume, a husband.

>>6978446
This boy I liked in high school kicked open the door to the club room right as 'Knights of Cydonia' started playing on the TV, so I've forever associated hot guys with that song.

>>6976055
>I'm going to uni next year and am hoping that it'll be new city, new people
If you're just starting uni, don't even worry about it, you'll meet someone. Aside from a few crushes, I didn't date anyone until college.

I don't think about sex with men that much but I really really just want a boyfriend, though I'd rather have sex with a woman if it's like a one night stand.

Also I just really wanna come out. I don't know what it is, it's just so frustrating.

>>6982446
>Also I just really wanna come out. I don't know what it is, it's just so frustrating.
Unless you live near your parents, does it even really matter these days?

>>6982630
What do you mean?

>>6982639
I mean there's a lot of ceremony behind "coming out", but the reality is, unless doing so confers some manner of positive social adjustment or advantage (such as, acceptance with your parents), there's no real reason to do it. Just go find your mate of choice.

>>6982692
Well I'd just feel more comfortable being who I am and my friends knowing my real identity. Especially if we're out clubbing and a guy hits on me and I can't reciprocate because I'm not out.

>>6982708
>if we're out clubbing and a guy hits on me and I can't reciprocate because I'm not out.
Why would that stop you? Have you been telling all your friends that you'd never fuck a dude?

>tfw physically attracted to both men and women
>tfw barely have any emotion for women
>tfw have a maddening crush for a guy I know

>tfw never had sex with anyone

This is why I'm conflicted. Am I just a faggot?

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>>6982446

>I don't think about sex with men that much but I really really just want a boyfriend,

>tfw

>>6914140
This is sort of the opposite of my problem.

I lust after women. I want to fuck them. But, internally, I find it hard to form relationships with them.

Meanwhile, I get crushes on guys semi-often, even though I'm an emotionally stunted retard who can't express romantic feelings in any way, especially not to guys, because I'm closeted as well.

It sucks.

>>6983995
if you're physically attracted to women (= you want to fuck some of them & play with your boobies), well you're not 100% gay ;)

>>6983442
No but I feel like there's sort of this expectation that you'd tell your best mates if you like guys, especially since we talk about sex sometimes.

I JUST WANT A BOYFRIEND SO BAD REEEEEEEEEEEE

>>6975391
>>6976279
>>6975965
if you look on okc there are a lot of bi people who aren't attracted to trans people.

As a trans person its depressing but i can understand.

>mostly just into furry femboys and tomgirls (cartoon men)
>don't really wanna fuck men
>don't want relationships with them either
>just want a qt girl
>gays wont leave me alone as they have accurate gaydars
>feel bad about ignoring gays sexual innuendo towards me
>too pussy to approach women tho
>attractive ones will never make the first move as well

Do I just give in to dick or man up, approach women and face more rejection?

>>6975391

>"people"
huh

anyways, ofcourse there are bisexuals not attracted to mtfs or ftms, it's all about preference. why would bisexuals be any different.

I get most interest from people who label themselve as completely straight, that's kinda funny, even if I'm pre op.

go get whatever you like, it's fine.

>>6988490
You know the answer. You know what you really want. Focus on umpiring yourself toattract them qts

Finally a post where I can post how autistic I am about my sexuality
>be me, a female virgin
>accidentally seduce a man with my terrible puns
>try to reject him while he's staying at mine for the night
>go to the bathroom
>female roomate makes out with me out of nowhere.
>"you're the famous anon then"
>tfw I have a reputation
>anon.exe has crashed
>explain to her that I'm too busy rejecting a guy
>tfw I think I fucked up
>she was beautiful
How the fuck do I deal with this?

>>6989076
Famous?

>>6989156

true celebrity.

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>>6989076
You'll get over it. I rejected my first kiss (she was beautiful too and made several moves on me), but I just told her I was drunk and didn't swing that way. Honestly I got over it. You'll meet more people.

>>6940051
but you just did

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>>6989076

>female 'bisexual'

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE GET OUT

I've got two questions:

1: If I were to experiment with a dude, like cuddlin and kissin and maybe fuckin, can I still like girls afterwards?

2: [spoiler]How do I let people know I want a friends with benefits thing rather then a serious relationship? I just got out of one a couple of months ago, and right now I just want to experiment rather then commit to something again.[/spoiler]

>>6990337
1. Yes

2. Tell the person directly, pretty much exactly how you said it. "I'm not looking for anything serious right now, I just got out of a relationship and I'm not really ready to commit to something again yet. " or something like that is fine.

>>6990577
Okay, that's good.

Now, how would I propose to them, "Hey you wanna make out and stuff" naturally without it being weird?

>>6990258
omg what`s wront with you

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Anus sex hole full of nice poop lube
Lulz

>>6975391
pansexual, how pretentious as it sounds, covers transpeople as "catch all phrase" or augmentation on being bisexual

>>6992557
I dunno, if you have problems with being weird I doubt people giving you tips will help.

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