> be me
> 26
>moved into apartment 2 years ago with roommate, also 26
> start doing a lot of things together a year ago, (running, theme parks, gym etc)
> start to grow closer i guess?
> recently come home crying from news of a death of a friend, sit down, he comes in and notices. sits down and hugs me and says "i always got you"
I don't really know what to think of whats going on, just looking at this friendship. i guess we've always been pretty close, at times i dont think i could live without him. we've done so much together? some intimate? stuff maybe, we've kissed before but it was more in a jokey way i think.
I've never been in a serious relationship/had a girlfriend before, never seen the point. is this serious?
>>6883525
>Kissed in a jokey way
>>6883525
>we've kissed before but it was more in a jokey way i think
How exactly does that work?
Like were you drunk and someone else dared you to do it? Because I can't see any other situation where a kiss can be jokey.
>>6883964
we were drunk
>>6886124
Accept your faggotry and move on
>>6883525
Could be platonic, is he gay?
>>6887482
i dont know
he's never talked about having any relationships
>>6883525
I don't know, is it serious? Only you and him can decide that. If you're not sure, ask him. If he gets mad, explain to him what you explained to us. Do you want it to be serious? Talk it out with him and decide together if you want this to be serious.
This is so beautiful
>>6883525
Don't confuse friendship for romance. I'm like this with my gay bff too. We're so close and we do everything together, but we know there isn't that romantic spark. He's more like a brother to me than my real brother
>>6888550
at this point i dont really know. we are kinda physical with each other
>>6883525
do you want to go further? do you want to kiss more often and maybe touch penises? if no, you're just close friends. congratulations.
>>6888799
i dont know if i do but i think i feel attracted to him
im just going to talk to him about this
>>6893761
Good luck, Anon. Please report back :3
>>6893761
that's honestly the best idea. from what you've described, he seems like someone who'd support you no matter what. also definitely update us with results
>>6894500
>>6894630
so i sat down and talked to him. we talked for about an hour but he finally admit that he has been dropping a lot of hints the past few months to wanting to be more intimate.
we talked about our feelings for a while after and agreed we want to go another level i guess.
i'm still fairly confused about my overall feelings of the situation. but my feelings for him are really, really strong.
>>6894934
nice! i hope it works out for you guys
>>6894934
This sounds exciting! Hopefully it works out! And anon, I'm proud of you for having that courage.
>>6894934
Good for you, best of luck!
this is one of those situations where if youre in it you dont know what to think but from an outside perspective its crystal clear you guys need to hook.
just dont go faster than youre comfortable with or your uncertainty will unman your romantic feelings
all will be well. GL OP
also this is so fucking cute
>>6894934
Wow, reading this made my day. I hope everything works out well for you guys op!