Can your orientation be changed? I thought orientation was pretty much fixed from the onset of puberty. Most of my life I've been into women, but now I find I can get hard and masturbate to men. I think I'm gonna come out soon. Any advice? My family's not that accepting.
Stop watching porn and you'll go back to normal
>>6871282
how the fuck did you know I watch so much porn, I've masturbated to some very hardcore and obscene things in the past. But even using my imagination, I can get off to having normal sex with a dude.
>>6871282
Also, just to make sure I'm not bullshitting my orientation, it's not normal for gay people to at first fear being attracted to men, right? They're usually scared of what their family may think
>>6871311
>it's not normal for gay people to at first fear being attracted to men, right?
No, that is 100% normal is almost always the first reaction. It's called internalized homophobia and is due to the fact that our society does everything in its power to teach children that being gay.
The fear of what family and friends might think is the next step and doesn't really come in until you accept yourself first.
>>6871337
>It's called internalized homophobia and is due to the fact that our society does everything in its power to teach children that being gay is wrong*
Accidentally a few words there.
>>6871295
Because I went through the same process where I needed more and more depraved(in my mind anyway) stuff to get off and then I found myself drunkenly blowing a guy
>>6871295
I've also watched pretty obscene and hardcore stuff. I stopped after a while and I think I'm still bi. Try stopping and see for yourself.
>>6871274
ur brain doesnt stop developing until around 25
>ur sexuality develops over time as well.
perfectly normal