So how the fuck do I stop crossdressing and being a sissy? Is

>>6852355

bump

>>6852355
Why would you want to stop? You should want to be a girl

suppress your sissy tendencies

until you're miserable

>>6852355
It's hardwired into your mind that you need to present as female. Welcome to being trans. Nothing you can do to change it so you might as well accept it and go with the flow. Do figure out if you are transsexual or not sooner than later. Because the sooner you transition, the better. I'd suggest you start going to a qualified gender therapist to help you figure out what you are.

come round to my place where crossdressing and being a sissy is celebrated and worshiped rather than met with fear and disdain
have you picked a new name for yourself yet?

Dissociate presenting female from sexual gratification.

>>6853430

how do I do that?

>>6852757

But I really don't want to be a girl. I like being a guy. If I could switch from being a guy to being a girl and back whenever I wanted, I would do that. But I don't want to be a girl full time.

It's more of a sexual fetish thing that happened every now and then, and I always feel like shit afterwards... and that's why I would like to stop.

>>6853503
And what if I strongly dislike being a guy but at the same time don't want to be a girl?

>>6853503
Do the gender therapist thing and have them help you figure out where you stand on it. They can also help you with coping methods.

>>6852355
Go to your local church asking for deliverance. Nothing that Jesus can't do.

>>6852757
>people still believe this 2014 Reddit SJW tier crap
If you're < 20 and short and you look youthful still, sure go for it and you'll probably be happy but you're almost 100% likely to take on a monster of stress and emotional baggage transitioning after you've finished the blunt of nature's course of looking like a man.

>>6853572

what makes you think I know? :)

>>6852757

Chaser detected.

>>6853639
It isn't reddit tier. How does a female dog know to stand for the male dog? how does a male dog know to mount the female dock and thrust? Cows and bulls? We humans have that same base programming for our reproduction roles.

>>6853677
No, just a MtF transsexual who used to be a therapist.

>>6853852

Yep I can agree. Just look at crossdressers. They feel a strong need to be feminine even if not naturally so and often it will lead to bisexuality. Having a miswired brain is a plausible theory.

>>6853852
It is Reddit tier because you are telling people that they should just accept it when they could likely end up worse off. What you said about them evaluating themselves is key. Depending on how long they have been going through male puberty, they need to be aware of the decision they are making and not fall into a delusion that they're going to pass flawlessly and be happier off magically, but that they might have missed their chance to pass perfectly and transitioning might be the right choice or might not.

>>6852355
Cypro. I'm serious. It's the only answer.

>>6853572
You're probably just unhappy then. Get a change of scenery.

>>6853503
>I always feel like shit afterwards

Oh honey...That's your body telling you that you want to go even further than just dressing.

>>6854013

what is cypro?

>>6853503
I had the same feeling for many years. One day it just happened that I no longer feel like shit. This was exactly the point on no return. The last thing that was keeping me sane to some extent.

>>6854111

what do you mean?

When i quit watching porn, these fantasies mostly go away, or become much less frequent. For me, porn makes them became irresistible.

I don't believe myself to be trans or gay. but porn makes me want to become that which I desire, if that makes sense. I never see a man and feel attracted to him, but after watching porn, I want to be the girl.

So for me, quiting porn, which is very hard for me, has been the trick. My fantasies returned to normal, but it took a long fucking time, like a year and a half of quiting porn, then benge watching it, then quiting it, etc.

>>6854173

It's actually the opposite for me. When I don't watch porn or masturbate I get super horny and I start to do weird things.

>>6854135

so what happened then?

>>6853503
>It's more of a sexual fetish thing that happened every now and then, and I always feel like shit afterwards... and that's why I would like to stop.

Hey Anon, have you tried simply not feeling like shit afterwards? Forget these fucked up idiots, there's nothing wrong with having fantasies as long as you recognize that they're private fantasies, i.e. don't go into work wearing a lacy thong unless you want people to think you're a nutter.

Come to >>>/d/ where there aren't as many mentally handicapped individuals. Just because you find dressing up exciting doesn't mean you're trans or whatever the fuck these nutjobs have gotten into their heads.

>>6854335
I no longer get aroused when I think about being a girl. Instead I do think about it when I'm not aroused. And this is fucking insane. It's just don't go away if you masturbate.

>>6853852
>It isn't reddit tier. How does a female dog know to stand for the male dog? how does a male dog know to mount the female dock and thrust?
Holy fuck you're just proving his point. Male dogs will hump EVERYTHING when they're aroused. They don't know their dick from their balls, they just know rubbing their weenie on things feels good.

>No, just a MtF transsexual who used to be a therapist.
Christ almighty, I cannot fathom the sort of damage you've done to poor confused individuals. You deserve to be shot for your ignorance.

>>6854508

yeah, that sounds like it would suck....

You can't just switch back and forth. If you're going to be sissy, you're going to be a sissy for a long time. You might be one forever. Same thing happened to me.

"For me, I was always a bit feminine but not attracted to men in the slightest. That's one reason I could get along with men and women both so well together or separate, it wasn't murky for me like it was for many adolescents. Then around age 21 I realized that I'm really pretty, and it all started crashing down so to speak. I'm still completely attracted to women but it's like I'm in tune with them now, because I don't seek out women, but I seek out men like a woman would. I'm full blown gay, I must be because Iiterally think about getting fucked like one of every five thoughts that I have, and my mannerisms have changed from, I assume regular guy mannerisms, to completely different. I walk with my ass, swaying my hips and slightly on my toes. I'm ALWAYS seeking sexual pleasure, it's quite absurd actually. I took a class this summer and the people immediately pegged me, pun intended, as the gay guy. And I WAS. Any guy could have had me if he wanted, luckily there were only two guys I'm the class besides me. I'm not sure I would have even been able to pass if the thought of a dick in the vicinity was a possibility. When I sleep at night I fall asleep thinking about how sexy I must look in the position that I'm lying in, and with how I've changed, with my long hair and my tanning and general body maintenance. They always called gays fruit, well I have literally turned myself into a fruit to be eaten. And it's become my entire identity and Lol desu if that's not gay I don't know what is, but the crazy thing is I honestly can't remember having thoughts like this EVER before age 20 or 21. Yeah I mean I had a few curiosities, like oh girls wear skirts boys wear pants when real young you know, but when the realization of leggings, that one can hide the body and become someone else.. I was sold."

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>>6852757
Even if you have gender dysphoria, it doesn't always benefit you to transition.

>>6854695

Yeah I'm the above wall of text, but I do not plan to transition and I honestly believe it's a bad decision for the vast majority of people.

>>6854634
>>6854705

so do you have sex with girls at all? do they turn you on?

>>6854711

I haven't in a long time, maybe three years now, when this identity really started to take hold. I guess you could say that opening up myself to gay feelings has also opened up even more straight feelings, however I enjoy sex from the receiving, submissive perspective.

And I only post because, I denied it for a while and I really shouldn't have. Being in touch with your feminine side is a blessing beyond belief. It's SUCH a blessing.

>>6854634
where is this pasta from?

>>6854518
>dogs only procreate by pure random chance that a male dog chooses to hump a female dog instead of any other miscellaneous object
wew lad

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>>6854763

Why, does it turn you on? ;) I wrote it last night and I posted it a few times cuz it just seems relevant. You want to swallow a big fat red pill? Here it is: trans is the perversion of bi. We are all technically bi, to an extent, but trans implies movement into one category permanently. Which equals gay. It is alphabet soup. It's ruining lives. Just be bi. Just be gay. Gay is fucking fabulous.

>>6854792

op here

I don't know about that guy but it definitely turned me on

>>6854817

Well I felt like it was relevant for you, because I used to feel like shit, too. And like one poster before said, when I just said "I'm not going to feel like shit about this anymore", I fucking snapped LOL

>>6854823

I'm not sure if I really want that though... I don't think I'm ready to go completely gay.

I mean, for example, I'm not interested in a romantic relationship with a guy, I just can't see myself in one

>>6854833

Same, surely when I hit 35 I'll no longer be beautiful, maybe ( hopefully not ) sooner. Then I'll start thinking about things long term again. It's fun to be someones complete slave, but only on the physical level, and only for a short time.

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>>6854880

I used to think those hentai comics I read were just overexaggerating, but no, when you take a bite of this apple, you realize what the garden of eden is, and you become a slithery snek, and you teach people shit, about how good they can feel. It takes your soul. It's a trip, man, and I'm not just rambling either.

But if you play safe, if you come out to your support systems with your intentions, and you obviously don't harbor any resentment towards yourself for this.. it could change your life.

People take that life changing experience and believe they're trans. They're not trans, but realizing what being bi is, is too much for most people to handle.

>>6854901
>and you obviously don't harbor any resentment towards yourself for this

yeah, I think this is the most difficult part...

>>6854901

And it could well be, that I'm just trans in denial. But the denial is not in what I am, it's in the technology being unable to change us into what we desire.

Sorry hun, but replacing your test with est isn't going to turn those giant bones of yours, or the fact that, I don't know, you're actually a dude?

But people want to believe so badly, that they'll sacrifice everything, to join a community that makes them feel like a woman.

Cuz it feels really, really good to feel like a woman. lol. I could rant on this all day.

>>6854932

Nah, it is very easy to forgive yourself. But it does take a lot of effort, the first few times. It is smooth sailing from there.

>>6854975

well I've been struggling with this shit for years so I'm not so sure..

>>6854997

It's your own journey, I obviously can't help you here, if it is even help that you need. I'm just talking from my own experience.

Because I have fallen so in love with the art, I tend to gush and that makes people say things, but a lot of guys truly aren't interested in the idea. Maybe they don't have feminine faces, which is one reason I am so into it. I was luckily blessed with that. It's up to you but I'll be here and you can message me at [email protected] if you ever want to talk about it. I check that email probably once a month, unless I'm in correspondence with someone.

>>6855097
>sissimaid69
Holy balls I lost lol

>>6855128

lol I'm glad i could entertain you. It's funny how gay I am

>>6855179
You can entertain me anytime then qt

>>6855192

;)

Anyway I've gotta go I might check this thread later but I had fun sperging out about, in a roundabout way how much i love the dick. So yeah message me if you wanna talk about it or if you aren't sure or something, I'm actually a good advice giver!

Everyone that is saying to accept it, stop normalizing a mental illness.

>>6852355
tis just a fetish, just have fun senpai