Please carefully explain to me how to get a cisgender girlfriend

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Me too

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>>6851214
>pass
>do what a normal girl would do

Lewds, not rudes.

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>>6851214
What's wrong with a trans girlfriend? There are a lot of perfectly good trans lesbians looking for a loving relationship, why limit yourself?

I got one because my best friend in HS was a lesbian leaning bi girl who was super obsessed with me. We went out for like a week pre-transition, broke up, and then got back together later after I started transition, and now our relationships been going really smoothly, I hope I cam marry her some day. Anyways, iunno, it just depends on circumstance, socialize with cis girls and I'm sure you'll find one.

>>6851238
>socialize with cis girls
/thread

>>6851288
How do you do this if youre extremely inherently awkward, boring, bad at conversation and all cis women you socialize with eventually ghost you?

>inb4 stop being boring/awkward/bad at talking
THIS IS NOT FUCKING POSSIBLE I HAVE NO INTEREST IN ANYTHING AND IF I TRY TO FAKE IT ITS PAINFULLY OBVIOUS, I CANT GET BETTER AT SOCIALIZING IF I CANT EVEN SOCIALIZE FUCK YOU NORMALSCUM REEEE

>>6851330
Everyone is boring. I'm boring af. Really you just have to find someone who appreciates your special brand of boring and loves you for it.

>>6851335
I have been completely unable to establish a permanent circle of cis female friends in 3 years of effort. Even insanely awkward channer girls ghost me

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>>6851330
They can tell you're an awkward man. Why do you want to date cis girls so badly, anyway? Can't you just date other trans women?

>>6851214
>>6851330
try detransitioning, which probably wouldn't be hard for you judging by these posts

>>6851342
Other trans girls amplify my dysphoria and im not fond of dick

>>6851347
Id rather die

>>6851347
My only post besides this one is OP

I already regret making this thread because I'm reminded why I hate trannies so much so now I'm going to order a pizza and get drunk

>>6851366
>complains about trannies being stereotypes
>self hating tranny alcoholic buying pizza
Oh come the fuck on

>>6851380
When did I mention stereotypes?

How is drinking alcohol or buying a pizza a fucking tranny thing?

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>>6851214
>Please carefully explain to me how to get a cisgender girlfriend as a male-to-female transsexual.

Same way you get any girlfriend, except you're more likely to get turned. Just be yourself, and if you don't think you're good enough to have a girl... well stop worrying about a relationship and focus on working on yourself for awhile.
>>6851330
>How do you do this if youre extremely inherently awkward, boring, bad at conversation and all cis women you socialize with eventually ghost you

>I CANT GET BETTER AT SOCIALIZING IF I CANT EVEN SOCIALIZE FUCK YOU NORMALSCUM REEEE

Stop worrying about if you're boring or interesting, and in this case I'd state try to stop fretting about being single. Worry about finding things you enjoy. Explore hobbies, awkwardly put yourself out there, just -live-. Pursue your passions. And in time you'll be able to talk about things.
Spoiler: Failing at something doesn't make you a failure, so just suck it up and keep trying. Be happy being you. And if its really that bad, try therapy for social issues to help you move forward.

>>6851395
To get turned down*

>>6851393
Because you hate trannies for some dumbass generalized reason??

>>6851339
Then you're probably not making enough effort to socialize with them and make them feel like friends. Do make an effort to socialize, don't make an effort to pretend to be someone your not. As someone who's an unpleasant, boring, unpassing hipster, wannabe musician tranny, I've always had great success with being open, positive and active in social situations. Emphasis on open. Like almost too open. It works.
>>6851342
Trans women are a mess of mental issues and misery. Like my cis gf is also a miserable fucked up person, but it's nice that we're fucked up and miserable in different ways so we can help and support each other.Also your image is some fucking terrifying buffalo bill ass shit.
>>6851395
This person knows what they're talking about.

>>6851395
I dont have passions

Do you realize humans have mostly toiled and then died at age 28?

Having passions is a fucking pure stroke of luck

Im not desperate for a gf, just being a bitter fag

>>6851406
then pursue things that interest you. And if nothing interests you make up a dartboard of hobbies and take a dart and try something new for a week. Or ask people to pick something for you to try. Pursue cooking, gardening, hiking, photography, drawing, dancing, or one of the other million things out there. Just go for it.
>>6851404
Thank you

>>6851399
Transsexuals are far more likely to be rejected by their friends, their families, their churches and their communities. Transsexuals are more likely to repress their thoughts and feelings, feel safe hate, be overly stressed, and resort to unhealthy coping mechanisms. Transsexuals are far more likely to be depressed, to have low IQs, and commit suicide. Human beings that are happy, healthy, and well-adjusted are an extremely small minority of the population, and while there are transsexuals like that, they're a rarity in an already small group.

>Because you hate trannies for some dumbass generalized reason??
Just the way you typed your sentence is fucking annoying.

If you can't understand why anyone would be averse to transsexuals, you are a clueless idiot and are incapable of understanding anything from the perspective of others, even in the broadest and most general sense. A generalization that trannies are going to be more likely to be annoying or socially deficient is a completely safe one just given the nature of transsexualism. Even your two fucking question marks is annoying and screams that you're either underage, immature, or trying extremely hard to be feminine based on some ridiculous warped view of femininity (hurr I'm a real girl, I have to type like a child and use lots of emoticons and exaggerate EVERYTHING~~ because that's what I think girls are like)

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>>6851363
>Other trans girls amplify my dysphoria and im not fond of dick
Not all trans girls have dicks. Also, if you would not want to put up with dysphoria in your partner, why should you expect your partner to put up with your dysphoria? Perhaps you should focus on your own mental health before attempting to get into a relationship.

>>6851441
It's easier to emotionally support a partner if they're problems are different than yours. How are you going to help someone cope with something you can't cope with?

>>6851450
If you are constantly in need of emotional support, you should find a therapist, not a girlfriend.

>>6851237
i have enough mental instability for one relationship

>>6851462
I'm in my early twenties. Literally me and all of my peers need constant emotional support.

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>>6851511
>Literally me and all of my peers need constant emotional support
That's not normal, but dysfunctional people tend to attract other dysfunctional people. You guys need therapy with a professional. People date for fun and company, not to provide emotional support to the mentally unstable. If you are expecting your girlfriend to be your therapist, you will be disappointed time and time again.

>>6851505
If you are mentally unstable, you should consider dealing with that before trying to find a relationship.

>>6851214
Pass seamlessly don't think like a boy or a boy trying to over compensate being a girl.
Oh! And cut off your dick. I find that always works.

>>6851330
Want an honest answer that will genuinely get you results? Make a tumblr, become part of the tumblr community, and stop going to 4chan. Finding people that will date transwomen (especially non-passing ones) is relatively easy on tumblr and tumblr related communities. And no one cares if you are as autistic as you clearly are.

>>6851585
>girlfriend to be your therapist, you will be disappointed time and time again.
we're kinda basically both eachothers therapists but we also have real therapists who don't help as much as eachother do.

>>6851430
Whoa there, calm the autism rage buddy. I just type like my tumblr friends.

>>6851441
When did I say I cant put up with mental issues in a romantic partner? I said trans women amplify mine.

>>6851404
>im unpleasant and boring
>but wait im also open, positive and enthusiastic socially
Seriously? Think before say

>>6851214
>1) Find bisexual girl
>2) Tell her you can supply willy and boobies
>3) ???
>4) Dead meme

>>6851587
Yeah anyone with a disability shouldnt seek companionship. If youre in a wheelchair grow a leg before you find a relationship

>>6851214
"queer" identified girls are almost always garantized to accept trans patners, and in my experience the 90% are just bisexuals with preference for women, so unlike "normal" bi girls they won't left you for a male.

>>6851430

Your T rage is out of control, sir.

>>6852258
Lul, you sound absolutely delightful. Ever considered that the universe isn't hiding all the cis lesbians open to trans relationships from you but that you're just a shitty person?

This might come as a shock, but people don't magically just want people who load their baggage on others.

But eh, you're a millennial. You'll eventually grow out of it.

>>6853387
>But eh, you're a millennial.
I highly doubt that you aren't a millenial bud.

>>6853387
Who says someone with problems is going to to use a partner as a sponge? Typical "just world" nonsense where people who aren't successful obviously must be that way because they're bad people.

>>6854734
Tfw. Generation X

>change your body so that you're no longer attractive to the majority of women
>emphasize features which are attractive to the majority of men
>desire to date a woman
Some people are just destined to fail.

>>6851214
Tumblr
i'm an ftm, but i met my cis gf on tumblr

its full of normal college age grills who like trans people. the only people interested in fucking you on this website are weeb autists

>>6856502
THIS
And even if you relied on your partner for some support so what? What kind of autist would suggest you should only seek emotional support from some therapist you dont care about and if you ever lean on anyone else youre doing it wrong?

>>6857206
How do i get into tumblr if i dont care, and how do you meet local people?

>>6851214
wait, transgirls are actually into cis girls? I avoided seeking transgirls out in lgbt spaces because I assumed that they commonly wanted to date other transgirls or men.

>>6858441
your naivete is qt

>>6851214
You might want to start with not using the word 'cisgender'.
And don't lose your penis if you want a straight girl.

>>6858441
what

>>6858611
show me your ways wise one

>>6857206
Key word here is ftm. You'll probably be fine in the dating pool

>>6858636
why do you think trans girls wouldn't be into cis girls?

>>6857806
>how do you meet local people?
it depends where you live,
do you live in NYC or Kentucky?

Why do you think that is a possibility? You knew it wouldn't happen when you transitioned, right? Maybe if you off yourself there is a cute cisgirl in heaven for you.

>>6851393

Pizza is definitely a tranny food. Especially delivery; lots of serotonin from melted cheese and not having to leave the house

>>6860623
Not like that's what others want as well...

>>6851214
Be attractive and don't be too self conscious. Work on your banter and be able to hold a good conversation. Be willing to carry the conversation if she's not opening up right away.

Basically put in a load of effort and don't get shitty if it doesn't work. Good luck.

Date a feminist! That's what I did and she's a lovely person. We've been dating a bit more than two years now and we did hella acid together last night and snuggled and she did stuff to my butt.

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>>6851404
>Then you're probably not making enough effort to socialize with them and make them feel like friends. Do make an effort to socialize, don't make an effort to pretend to be someone your not. As someone who's an unpleasant, boring, unpassing hipster, wannabe musician tranny, I've always had great success with being open, positive and active in social situations. Emphasis on open. Like almost too open. It works.

Hi.
This advice is fucking bullshit. Only someone who is naturally extraverted would give this stupid advice. It's literally the same as telling a depressed person to just cheer up.
Q "How do I open up to people?" A "Just open up to people! lol". No shit sherlock.

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>>6851511

Millennials, everybody.

>>6860745

The one on the left has a dumb haircut and probably beat his wife, eww.

>>6860685
Yeah... No

>transbian doesn't want other transbians because they don't see them as real girls
>wonder why cis lesbians don't see her as a real girl

Typical transbian, nothing to see here folks.

>>6860702
I'm not a naturally extroverted person though anon. I had to teach myself not to be an awkward fuck, and as much as you want to convince yourself that only certain people are magically bestowed with the talent of socialization and can actually interact with people like normal human beings so you have an excuse not to try, it really is as simple as just forcing it and trying until you figure things out. Tell a coworker a joke, or about your favorite band, or some shit that happened to you today or even just make a mindless observation on some mundane shit that just happened. You'll probably be awkward and come off as weird at first but over time you'll learn not to.

>>6860685
Yeah, college semi-SJW type chicks are really the best. They're the most likely to understand your dumb nerd interests and at least half of them have probably developed some type of trans fetish from posting trans-positive ally shit on tumblr all day.

>>6858441
>wait, transgirls are actually into cis girls?
yes, because they're actually agp white straight dudes

>>6860806
Why tho?

>>6860911
She's an actual feminist, not an internet feminist.

>>6860926
>She's an actual feminist, not an internet feminist

That's also good but my point still stands

>>6860926
I don't like getting lectured on my persistent male privilege and the plight of Ethiopian alia gender trans niggers while cutting my face on piercings and a bright pink undercut

>>6860863
Are you surprised we kill ourselves so often?

>>6860932
Yep, she's good people. First person I came out to as trans too and was so helpful and supportive from day one.

>>6860947
Reputable academic feminism doesn't teach anything about transfeminine folks having male privilege in their daily life but you're a gross racist anyway so I don't have any pity for you.

>>6860921
This is the truth. All transbians are AGP.

The rest are self-hating/repressed homos with a fetish for straight men. It's sort of a lateral move from one closet to another. A closet with bibles and Sunday roasts.

>>6861000
See? You're proving my point.

>>6861007
By calling you out on using racist slurs?

>>6861018
Your whole post reeks and is exactly the reason why feminists are insufferable

>>6861025
I don't understand. You make false claims about feminism and then say I'm insufferable for bothering to correct your misconceptions.

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>>6861037
If you don't want to talk about feminism then fine, but don't make demonstrably false claims about the field. That's just ignorant.

>>6861032
"oooh a bad word now I get to lecture this person!"
You're the type of person who would get huck finn banned because of how problematic it is to have nigger in a book

>>6861053
More buzzwords
Let's just stop because I can feel myself losing brain cells with every post I read

>>6861088
I think it's important to recognize the historical significance of blackness in the American South but I don't see much merit in saying the word for gags. It's rude and hurtful.

>>6861099
How are any of those words buzzwords? None of the words in that post are even vocabulary specific to feminism.

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>>6861121
What's the point of this picture? Is it supposed to be funny? I don't think it's very funny.

>>6851232
It's literally just this.

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>>6861129
How are niggers not funny? They're an endless supply of comedy.

>>6861140
If I don't pass after ffs I'm gonna full on t rage

>>6860921
>>6861005
What is AGP?

>>6851342
>>6851404
I'm the opposite I'd prefer a trans gf.

>>6861143
Kek he raises a good point about sexism in Western media

>>6862161
Accelerated graphics port, an old video card technology

>>6851232
what the fuck do normal girls do anyway?
t. cis virgin

>>6851288
oh ok nevermind i'm fucked

>>6870473
Hang in there, sister. We'll all find qts to be codependent with someday.

Expand your horizons, meet nice people, be sociable, don't talk about your obsession with anime and don't be a creep.

how to get trans gf as stable passing transgirl?

>>6871313
Put rainbow knee socks on a fishing line and wait in the middle of your nearest city

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>>6871338
kek

>>6851342
So I can have children.

I've always wanted to care for a child that's biologically my own.

>>6872811
that's gross as fuck, and selfish anon. jesus