Tips to spot the bad ones

>girl
are you a lesbian? a mtf? a fem flamer? an old man with a diaper and sundress fetish?
I also have no fucking idea what you're asking about, stop being cute and coy, its fucking annoying. Just ask the damn question if you want a real fucking answer.

>>6834318
lesson 1. all lesbians are rapists

>>6834358
I'm lesbian and I'm moving soon and want to go clubbing and don't want to get fucked up in a place I'm isolated in.

>>6834318
Bad ones what?
Like boyfriends/girlfriends/whatever?
Here's some things to run from screaming until you get lost in the woods and rescued by 7 dwarves.
>says I love you in the first month
>wants to move in together in the first month
>wants to get married too soon and pressures you into it
>dislikes animals but has never had a traumatic experience and is not allergic(not the same as not wanting pets. You can not want a dog without hating dogs, and you can also own a dog and still hate dogs)
>is widely disliked by animals(dogs specifically. Cats hate everyone at first)
>does not approve of some of your interests or other major qualities and wants you to change to meet their standards
>expresses negative sentiment toward people with disabilities, particularly mental ones
>is rude to strangers, is always the first to complain about bad service and always the last to appreciate good service
If at least half of these things describe them, then they are almost guaranteed to be fucked up and abusive. The first two could possibly just be naivety or overeagerness, but the others almost invariably mean that they're a shitty person and your relationship is doomed to turn abusive as soon as they feel they've got you trapped.

>>6834428
These are good and apply to ANY relationship (gay or straight).

I would add that they have a controlling personality... either always need to be with you, need to know where you are, need to know what you are doing and tells you where you can go, who you can meet, etc...

>>6834416
All the standard bar warning on drinks apply.

>>6834318
>I'm a big girl

For you:

First, you don't get to bring any friends. If it was no charge for them, then that's incredibly suspicious -- just say nothing!

Always have a plan in action that lists you, and your lover, and maybe one of them if they're a cuck.

Generally it's extremely painful, and even though it might have been part of your plan, it can still crash pretty easily.