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Bifag here. How do I last LESS in bed? When I was dating girls

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Bifag here. How do I last LESS in bed? When I was dating girls it was a blessing because they don't mind being fucked for an hour straight, but now I'm in my first gay relationship and as the bottom it fucking sucks that my boyfriend fucks me for a good 20-30 minutes and cums but I'm still hard as a fucking rock. It makes sex frustrating because I almost never finish. Any advise you can give?
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Why can't you just masturbate yourself?
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Toys!
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>>6822115
Why can he just masturbate too?why have sex at all when we can just jack off? Sex, I feel, should be about mutual enjoyment.
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>>6822102
>Any advice you can give?

Relax.
You don't always have to cum.
What you have is called Performance Anxiety.
After your bf cums then you feel like you should cum too, to show that you enjoyed it.
This puts pressure on you and makes it difficult to cum.
The solution is to not care whether you cum or not.
Just give up.
Tell him you loved getting fucked by him and that it felt amazing. Tell him that sometimes the pressure to cum makes it more difficult to cum.
Tell him that you should just take a break for a while and then start lovemaking again. Maybe he could suck your cock at that time, or whatever it is that makes you cum. Don't be afraid to ask for what turns you on. Since he has already cum, it is now your turn and he can help you with this. Maybe you just want to jack off while you look at his body or suck his dick. Maybe you want him to fuck you with a dildo.
Maybe you want to eat his ass or have him eat yours.
Maybe you want to watch porn alone without him around and jack off.
The point is, it doesn't matter.
Sex should be about pleasure, not about performance.
Find out what fetishes you have and what really turns you on and think about those things when you're having sex.
Sometimes just knowing that it is okay if you don't cum will take the pressure off of you and allow you to cum.
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>>6822184
This 100%.
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Why not just switch?
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