I just had sex with one if my best friends, who is gay, and I

>>6801061
>vaginas feel better than anal

virgin detected

Nigga, you didn't have sex.

You made love to your best friend.
That's why it felt better. No need to over analyze or label.

Its just better when the dick is attached to the heart, regardless of gender.

>>6801098
I guess I shouldnt label it, but I could never be that passionate with a girl. My guy friends and so in tune and relaxed with one another, it feels effortless. With girls, I always feel like we're playing mind games.

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>>6801061
>I dont know whether to consider myself gay/bi now.

>>6801171
Personally, I think you might have just repressed what little homosexual tendencies you had, and the combined emotional burst from fucking your best friend, pretty much making love, combined with the relief/confusion of acting on liking guys.

I think you should think very deeply about what intentions you had leading up to fucking him, during, and how you felt after and now.

Good luck

You're very lucky, i wish it goes this way with my "straight" best friend.

Talk with him about how you (and him) felt when you made teh secs, you both may learn something important.

>>6801061

You're not officially bi until you dump him for a girl.

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>>6801345
>you both may learn something important

yeah, like how babies aren't made

>>6801061
You sound bi, if you are attracted to women no matter how many fags you sleep with you are bi.

>>6801221
>>6801300
I definetely dont think its straight. But I dont really feel attracted to guys unless I know them well, and we've spent time together. Maybe I'm just gay/bi and picky idk.
>>6801345
I know we were both very passionate. I don't want to mess up our friendship tho, and besides I dont think he's very monogamous.

>>6801351
Ha I wish that were true. My ex dumped a girl for me, and he cheated on me with some bitch called deltrese

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>>6801061

Protip: straight guys don't think that sex with a man is better than sex with their girlfriend.

>>6801353
Or if there's something more than friendship :^)
>>6801373

>>6801400
Yeah. I'm not saying I'm straight. I'm saying it didnt feel that good physically. It felt good because it was like a way to show appreciation for him being a good friend to me. I dont want things to be romantic between us. I like being just friends. But there's only so many ways you can show a guy how much he means to you. Making love to him and putting his sexual needs first felt really fullfilling. I just realized as I was typing that out that it sounds pretty gay. I dont know. I guess im just confused. I've never kissed anyone so deeply before.

>>6801499
Keep telling that yourself m8, maybe it'll work.

>>6801499
Did you enjoyed it?
That's the real question here.

>>6801525
Yeah, a lot.

>>6801535
Go for more man, and i dont mean more sex.
Again, talk to him. I dont know you or your friend, but i dont think you are only friends, at least from your point of view.

>>6801499
>A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. It's more commonly seen in but by no means confined to romantic relationships.

>>6801554
Yeah we're pretty close. We're definitely going to talk more about it later.
>>6801557
Hey that sounds like me. But if I had no problem fucking a guy then I'm like a gay demisexual?

>>6801571
You are either a gay demisexual or a bi demisexual who just hasn't connected with a female on a strong emotional level yet. Strong ie the level with your best friend.

the best things you can do is
dont question it
dont think about labels, you know all there is to know
gay straight are just made up words

be careful
I bet he wants a relation with you
you sound like you too want something with him
work that out

>>6801589
>>6801557

dont listen to this retards
they are one of "them"

>>6802666
Them?
>>6802661
We already have a strong relationship. Its not romantic though. At least it wasnt until the sex happened. I think I want to make it a regular thing. Would that make us boyfriends though? I guess that's what a boyfriend is right? A friend you can have sex with.

>>6801061
How are those the wrong reasons? If anything those are the right reasons...

Labels don't matter, just do what feels right and doesn't hurt other people. And above all, be honest with people you're banging.

>>6801061
Is that freddy and gibby?

Free love!!!

>>6801061
you're reminding me of the John-Paul/Craig relationship on the UK show Hollyoaks--you should Youtube it.

>>6801499
>I don't want things to be romantic between us
oh no...
you'll break his heart if you ever tell him this

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>>6803207
>A friend you can have sex with
Is a friend with benefits, not a boyfriend. A boyfriend is a male friend with benefits and mutual romantic love, or atleast the love should be mutual.

How do you even talk with each other after all that, kek?

>>6803841
>>6803853
Well. I talked to him today. He said that it shouldnt affect our friendship, and if I want to further explore my sexuality, he's there.
>>6803920
Um. He's gay, and I've always been comfortable with that. It was a but awkward after, but we both liked it so it didnt matter.

Next time stretch a bit more before sex.
That way it'll feel better.

>>6801061
Good for you OP. No really don't try to hide these feelings I imagine be felt the same way and it's awesome that you connected like that. Maybe start to take things slow. I think maybe you emotionally limited yourself before and now that it's happened you're more open to it. Good luck dude

>>6801061
Nigga u gay