Should I come out before going to uni?

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Should I come out before going to uni? 2016-08-23 16:44:57 Post No. 6782372
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Should I come out before going to uni? anon 2016-08-23 16:44:57 Post No. 6782372 [Report]

Okay, so, long story short:

19 F - just realized I'm actually attracted to girls about 8 months ago, not sure how/when to tell my friends/family. I'm thinking of telling them but somehow I feel held back because I feel like I've not fully accepted myself as gay yet. I KNOW I'm gay, I just can't really come to terms with it. I can't consider myself gay, whereas I have nothing against the LGBT community.

Thing is, I'm starting uni sep 5th and I feel like it would be so much easier to just tell people up front that I'm gay, and not have to come out 'twice' to people who think I'm straight. Immediately coming out at uni has the benefit that people won't have known me as 'straight' so it'll probably be less of a shock than to those around who do, now, know me as straight.

Thing is that I'm not sure if I'm ready to come out in such a short period of time. Any advice on this?

Anonymous 2016-08-23 16:49:19 Post No.6782389
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>>6782372
Lesbians are a meme, you aren't queer you're just an ugly chick.

Anonymous 2016-08-23 16:50:53 Post No.6782395
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Anonymous 2016-08-23 16:50:53 Post No.6782395 [Report]

I think you definitely shouldn't tell the people you meet that you are straight. But you don't need to tell them you're gay immediately. Tell them if it comes up but don't make a big deal of it. Because it isn't a big deal.

Anonymous 2016-08-23 16:52:23 Post No.6782402
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Anonymous 2016-08-23 16:52:23 Post No.6782402 [Report]

>>6782389
Kill yourself

Anonymous 2016-08-23 17:20:46 Post No.6782511
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>>6782402
>k-kill your-s-self

Anonymous 2016-08-23 17:35:30 Post No.6782561
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>>6782395
this. tell them when it comes up, or when you get a gf and want to talk about her or something. or if you're not comfortable doing it at all yet, don't worry about it, the whole big dramatic Coming Out experience is a meme anyway.

Anonymous 2016-08-23 19:14:59 Post No.6783074
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Anonymous 2016-08-23 19:14:59 Post No.6783074 [Report]

>>6782395
this

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