Premature ejaculation?

>>6754171
As long as you finish me off, and cuddle me afterwards, I wouldn't mind a 3 minute max pounding. I'd just hug you , pet your hair and tell you it's okay, if you felt that bad about it.

Also practice makes perfect soooo hang in there!

>>6754201
It's not just I feel bad about myself, I'll feel bad for the bottom as well.

It's like I can't give him what he should get.

>>6754235
If a guy has just a little bit of empathy for his partner, premature ejaculation's a non-issue. Just take it slow, go at it again after a little personal time, and if you really don't think you can make him climax with anal then there's nothing wrong with using your mouth or a hand. Even if you're finished for the night after one go, your partner's probably going to be understanding. Be responsive and if you're insecure, ask him how he wants to proceed.

Stamina's only a problem if you completely ignore his body during and after.

>>6754171
Just cus this place is full of faggot doesn't mean this is where you should come for butt sex advice.

Look up the "Oxford Handbook of Psychiatry"

Go to page 497 and read. I came across this info the other day when I questioned why marijuana made it longer to come to orgasm as well as a longer lasting orgasm.

>>6754171
Ok so their is a muscle you can train to stop your orgasms. If you are peeing and stop pissing or cut your stream you will feel the muscle. your going to have to train clenching that muscle for 1 minute at a time.

when you know you are going to cum clench that muscle until you no longer have the urge to cum.
>This is pretty much your only solution. when i was having sex multiple times daily with my gf i had to do that a lot. its like 50% effective. Should help a bit.


another less good solution is to get mild whisky dick. that is drink a bit, have a nice buzz going, you will last 4x as long. (if u get too drunk you cant get it up tho so be careful)

Have you tried condoms? I know they are no fun but they really help keep you from blowing your load too quickly. I can barely reach orgasm with a condom on, so when I wear them I can go for a hour long fuck fest.

What about someone riding you?

>>6754411
trojan makes an "extended pleasure" condom for this reason
>i dont like them because they dont help me with PE. they are too tight and that makes me cum just as quickly

>>6754367
>Kegel
I could try. But isn't that exactly the muscle that tenses up just before you cum anyway?

>>6754411
I never do anal without condoms anyway...

>>6754433
Then it's not as fast. If anything, somehow, if I'm doing hip thrusts then I automatically cum a lot quicker (even if I'm just thrusting into a mouth or a hand).

>>6754446
its worked for me in the past.
>It does tense up, when it does clench. keep it clenched (it can hurt a bit with the pressure) just keep clenching.

a past gf used to give me grief about PE
>feels fucking terrible. Fuk that bitch

http://uk.reuters.com/article/us-exercises-premature-ejaculation-idUKBREA3O1NK20140425

The men, ages 19 to 46, had previously tried a variety of treatments, including creams, behavioral therapy and antidepressants, without any significant improvement.

google confirms what i already knew

>>6754493
"These men, who had suffered from premature ejaculation their entire lives, were able to improve their ejaculation time in just 12 weeks and maintain that improvement for another six months," lead researcher Dr. Antonio Pastore, a urologist at Sapienza University of Rome, told Reuters Health in an email.

>>6754171
OP if you're getting your idea of how long people are supposed to last from porn, you're doing it wrong. They cut out all the parts where the guy has to stop in order to avoid cumming too early.

Also, you don't need your dick to stimulate an ass. Fingers, tongues and toys feel just as good. A good pounding is generally the cherry on top, not the main course. You can throw in a lot of cherries by pulling out and doing something else while you cool down.

Also, some of it may just be performance anxiety. How long you last is not the be-all and end-all of how good you are at sexin'.

>>6754521
>>6754521
No, fuck off everything you think is wrong.
People know if they have PE and dont need you telling them stupid shit like "pron isnt real life"
its not performance anxiety its a physical issue called Premature ejaculation.
If you dont actually know how to help get the fuck out of this thread and take ur shit advice with you
inb4 "hurr durr try jacking it before-hand"

>>6754539
PE is a mostly-solvable medical condition. Go to the doctor, not a chinese cartoon bulletin board.