Closeted Bisexuals

I'm basically like you and desu I don't really see the point in telling anyone.
Like you said, what's the point?
If it's bothering you just let it slip without making a big deal about it.
I don't really feel the need to tell anyone but I already assume my friends know because of the huge amount of gay jokes I tell all the time.

>>6748815
i didnt start dating guys until i was 26 :( dont be like me. I didnt tell anyone but i knew i like guys also since puberty. very confusing for me didnt realize i was bi for a long time, didnt accept it for longer.

Ive been telling friends and family. honestly they dont really care all that much, most are like "didnt see that coming, happy for you"
>the reason i dont tell everyone is so that i dont get eliminated from the dating pool kuz girls are like "oh he's gay"

>how old r u?
>also dont tell anyone who has fucked up beliefs on the issue. tell people you can trust basically.

>>6748895
Yeah, but I'm like, getting older and more depressed. I lack a social life, I haven't been in love in so many years with anybody.

The fact that I have no reason to tell anybody given the sad state of my life is making me kind of depressed. It doesn't feel like some urgent matter where I'm hiding some absolute necessary truth to get out. But I don't know, it's just making me sad.

Also

> because of the huge amount of gay jokes I tell all the time.

This is me, I bet they all know too. I enjoy doing it, cause it's basically flirting with the idea of coming out.

>>6748895
There's some inherently bad feeling to being so detached that you just jerk off to non-straight porn and not in any way face up to it. I've done it for so many years that it makes me feel empty. I'm not really lying to myself about anything but I'm also not owning up to it either.

all my friends know i want to suck dick and they don't care because they know i'm not attracted to them in any way

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>>6748815
>tfw my ex was right when he said the occasional beating was better than being alone

I'm lucky enough to have parents and friends who would have an opinion either way, so I don't really feel like telling anyone unless I actually get a bf

kissless 25 year old bi virgin, no friends

I'm getting so depressed. Everything feels hopeless.

I feel like I'm getting close to be desperate enough to go suck some strangers dick, but I don't want to become that person.

>>6748815
I don't think about it at all. I have an extended family of people who would all be extremely upset with me if they found out that I like men. The only people I've told are friends and the anonymous users of this imageboard.

>>6762377
I haven't even told friends. I just make a lot of gay jokes.

Have you ever been with a guy?

>>6762385
I've never been with a guy, no. Probably never will. Want to.

>>6762412
Romantically or just sex stuff?

At first it was just sex, but lately I've fantasized about having a bf for some reason. I still lean more towards women when it comes to pure physical attraction. Dicks, tho, man.

>>6762428
Both. When it comes to women I think vaginas are gross, so I can't really imagine myself having a sexual relationship with a girl. Guys are just all around hot to me, and as I get older I appreciate more aspects of the male form. I'd love to have a cock in my mouth, but I'd also love to have someone to cuddle and talk to. I'm not all that attractive though and I'm too much of an autist to go out and talk to people, so a lot of that is just dreams.

>>6762481
>I'm not all that attractive though and I'm too much of an autist to go out and talk to people, so a lot of that is just dreams.

Too close to home. Getting old now and I have so much daily anxiety about having wasted away my youth. I need to seriously find the strength somehow to get out there and meet people before it's too late.

I feel like I'm getting closer and closer to actually doing some kind of hook-up to fuck a guy or suck some cock.

But it feels like degeneracy. I don't wanna become a whore just fucking strangers. But I'm feeling desperate.

>>6748815
Funny story.

A friend hacked my facebook and made my bio super gay.

When I changed it back, I just clicked 'Men and Women' this time.

No one's even looked twice.

>>6770053
It's not degeneracy if you don't do it all the time and with literally random strangers, not just a grindr fuck or something.

>>6770061
aww

>>6770066
I'm a really awkward person so doing anything but hook ups with the only intent of fucking is pretty much my only alternative. I couldn't handle anything like a normal date, way too much pressure. Also I'm ugly so I'm pretty sure my only shot would be getting with somebody 10 years older than me at least, that's just desperate to fuck and nothing else.

So that's why I say degeneracy, not because I associate homosexual hook ups as such. But if I were to do this, it'd have to be discreet and to the point.

I don't feel like I'm gay enough to make a big deal about it. Technically I'm bi since I like traps and feminine dudes, but realistically speaking its just never happen.

I didn't make a big deal out of it, not much point really. The only reason people know (most of my friends do and they don't give two shits) is because it's come up in conversation.
The only person I told specifically was my mother, who was basically like "that's alright, be you I suppose"

Only recently have my feelings about other guys gone from "I kinda wanna fuck a cute guy" to "I'd totally enter a relationship with a cute guy". It's quite nice really, it's refreshing to explore something new.
I was thinking of joining the LGBT society at uni this year since all my friends are straight. Is there any realistic chance of meeting a qt cool guy or are they all gonna be raging SJWs? My uni is in the UK

>>6748815
Better to be out of the closet, you don't need to advertise it (especially if you're not very social) but there is no reason to hide your interest in the same sex.

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I planned to stay in the closet but accidently came out to my mom and sister. my mom is homophobic but I asked her not to talk about it. she said its just a trend. now I live in shame at my own house. so I would say that you should be ready and have an open and loving surrounding.

>tfw sucked off roommate while drunk last night.
>He's been in his room avoiding me all day
>Really horny thinking about it and about to have a friend over
>Don't want to loss roommate
Why am I a slut? I hate that stereotype but then I live up to it.

I've never like made a post or any official thing coming out of the closet or whatever because I just don't see a point of calling all that attention to myself and being seen as "the bisexual girl" my parents are conservative homophobic etc and I'm not going to tell them unless the person I decide to marry is a woman but my friends/peers generally know just from asking me

Got bashed by a load of Pakistani kids and told my friends when I was 14, told my mother during an argument last month over how I never share much of my personal life and she treated it as me being an AIDS-baiting manwhore whom "no good woman would ever want if they knew".
We both agreed to never tell my dad or anyone else in the family though, not out of fear of what he'd do, she knows perfectly well I'm over being afraid of him at this point, but because it would be one more thing for him to have a psychotic break over (he's a paranoid schizophrenic)

>>6748815
I've told my gf about it and another girl I dated because their FUCKING WHITE MALE U DONT UNDERSTAND shit was annoying me to no end given that girl one was bi and current girl is a minority. Both were cool with it and I wouldn't have expect any less.

I will never come out as long as my mother is alive because she would be disappointed in me. It makes me sad that I can't be who I truly am and that none of my friends (adopted brother, sister, fraternity brothers) know, and that some would treat me differently if they did know, but at least I'm not gay. Makes me empathize more for gays I suppose, especially in the south (though I'm pretty empathetic as it is, as I'm the guy people come to when they're sexually assaulted, coming out, etc. and have had to deal with an enormous amount of things)

Father suspected I was gay before he died. Massively homophobic man, would have accepted me even if I did turn out full gay, given time to adjust, but I would have been a disappointment. Sucks having parents who grew up in an era and location of ignorance. Can't blame them though, it's just how they grew up.

I never really felt telling people, but all my good close friends know about me being the whore I am.
I wouldnt tell my parents tho, it's just me having fun and enjoying life I guess.

Sometimes I wonder if my mom knows I'm bisexual.

I had an "incident" once with a male friend at a young age, where we were just playing around with each others dicks and my mom and his mom caught onto it. She confronted me about it, but I can't really remember what she said, I was pretty embarrassed but I had no concept of homosexuality at the time, but I think she rightfully told me I wasn't ready or understood the sex at the time. One thing I do remember is her telling me we'll keep it a secret from my dad.

She's made a few gay jokes growing up, although what mother hasn't, but she also knows I've had interest in girls. So, whenever I do tell her, it'll be interesting to see if she always knew.

>>6772964
Sounds shit, man. I'm sorry. But unless your mother is a bad person, she would probably get a new outlook.

Disappointment is on them, not on you in this case as well. It's not really like you've personally failed anything. It should be something a parent can get over and not find disappointing at all. It sounds like you find it important enough to come out, so maybe it would be worth it? I'm sure from the sounds of it she's not gonna take it well initially, but if she's a good person and loves you she'll probably come around quickly?

>>6748815
Since I never have dated a guy yet, I didn't have the need to tell to anybody (I did tell it to a ex-gf that I was bi but I think she didn't really took me seriously).
At the moment, my only friend would be the person I'd pick if I had to come out, but I recently friendzoned her.. so I think it'd be really awkward to tell her "sorry girl, not interested by you, I'm into dicks at the moments"...
About my parents: they would be shocked & disappointed i guess: I'm already a NEET, and everytime they talk about lbgt people, i can see disgust on their faces
So, yeah, i think i'm gonna stay in that comfy/not-so-comfy closet for a while