The Internet has made transwomen in to a fetish. But how does

>trans
>meet men
Well there's your problem! Men are gross.

>>6703795
well i cant speak for trans women, but as a trans guy thats how i do it, im just up front about it, a thing you gotta love about guys with dicks is that 90 percent of the time they wanna just stuck it somewhere, so you got that going for you, as far as a real relationship tho its just a little harder than it is for everyone else. i try to limit myself to people i know are bi because you usually have a better chance of them being accepting. ive had plenty of luck with hookups, guy and girls, but dating is def harder. just dont give up or let yourself get too excited

>>6703881
Eh. That's a little extreme. I'm dating a guy right now who is straight, and he assumed I was cis until I said otherwise. He was just like "that's fine you're beautiful". He definitely doesn't feel gay for being with me. Maybe you just meet the wrong way

Still no real luck with finding a guy. Last time a guy let me touch him was maybe 3ish years ago.

Dunno what to do.

>>6704020
It is extreme, and also true. Give it time. Wait until his friends and family find out about "your secret" and watch how quickly he drops you. And you didn't even try to defend the sex. Telling.

>>6703881
Not everyone is attracted to women

>>6704101

sounds like the typical transbian pep talk, like how radfems try to get ftms to detransition, without being overtly too pushy

>>6703881
God, I am so fucking ready all cis girls, gay, 'bi', or lesbian to fucking die already in the gynocide so it can just finally be men and trangirls and no more vacant sociopathic rapist women like yourself. Women are the main forces manipulator other (albeit weak) men to posture and maintain their toxic masculinity that fuels hatred of transwomen. Just grow up and learn that men and trams women are not here to cater to entitled women like you (assuming you're cis).

>>6704129
*straight, bi etc

>>6704110
i'm exclusively attracted to men >:o

>>6703881
Or date openly bi men. Or men who are straight but like super progressive/tumblr.

>>6704101
Sucks for them then.

>>6704110
>men are hot
>transbian reeeeeee
lol

>>6704129
>chooses not to fuck or date men
>sociopathic rapist
lol feed me your hate I only grow stronger

>men are weak and attack one another because women exist
lol

>Just grow up and learn that men and trams women are not here to cater to entitled women like you (assuming you're cis).
You assumed wrong little bird.

>>6704096
I date a cis straight man too, same situation as >>6704020 too. His family knows and are ok with it. His friends don't, but they don't need to either. The sex is kind of meh on my end, but from what he does I can tell he's getting a lot out of it so it's fine for me. After I get srs it'll be better for me since I'm not a big fan of anal.

Idk why I would ever do what >>6703881 says. I'm not even slightly attracted to women, so why would I settle?

>>6703831
>Transbian.

>>6703795
Look, this is kinda relationship 101, you have to work out with the person you're dating, if one of you are not comfortable with how things are all you can do is move on.

Also people are way more accepting nowadays of transgender men and women. You just have to find someone who is ok with it.

>>6704216
>His friends don't, but they don't need to either.
But they're his friends. What happens when they DO know? Because it's a when, not an if.

>I'm not even slightly attracted to women
That's unfortunate. Good luck then.

>The sex is kind of meh on my end
>why would I settle?
kek you already did.

>>6704319
Ever since I've been on hrt, sex hasn't been on my radar in a relationship. I'm more interested in snuggling and usual lovey dovey stuff. I don't know his friends very well, but I do know one of his friends he hangs out with regularly is openly gay, so I doubt it would matter. Also it's definitely a if, not a when. I hardly interact with them for long.

If you're actually this cynical, I think that's the real unfortunate thing and I feel sorry for you. Hopefully things will look up for you soon!

>>6703795
>The Internet has made transwomen in to a fetish.
There was a fetish for this and transgender prostitutes long before the Internet came along.

>>6703881
>Not to mention you're much more likely to actually be satisfied and have an orgasm when you have sex instead of just being sweaty, sore and disappointed in a bed that smells like onions and shame.

What's wrong with having sex with men?

>>6703881
Nothing wrong with this post peeps, Bi women are life. Embrace it!

>>6703881
>Men are hot, but emotionally limited and weak. Almost all of them have massive sexual insecurity issues from obsessing over either being gay or not being gay. They're like delicate, emotional little flowers encased in a testosterone meatbag and will absolutely make their insecurities about being attracted to you somehow your fault and your responsibility to "fix."

That’s only the ones who fuck up by trying to ACT macho without first exercising internal self-discipline and grounding themselves. I became a chaser after I met two girls in short succession at parties, found out they were trans, decided to take them to bed anyway because they were hot, and discovered that I liked it. This probably forced me to deal with questions about my sexuality early on, though even then I only gave a shit about the religious angle and I wasn’t shy about telling my friends, who were all godless heathens (or bad Catholics themselves) anyway. I don’t really understand being preoccupied with the question from any non-ethical angle: who gives a shit if people disapprove. I’m completely open about the fact that I’ve dated a trans woman with friends, coworkers, and relatives of my own generation, though I don’t see a reason to tell my parents unless I find someone and get serious. Many hit-and-quit chasers ask why they would risk their entire social circle for the sake of a trans girlfriend, and my answer is: you wouldn’t. You would risk your entire social circle for your own fucking pride as a man so you don’t have to slink around in the dark while supplicating to the social consensus like a pussy. How the fuck you can hold your head high while treating your love life like a shameful little secret is beyond me.

We play a delicate game where he pretends he's totally straight and I pretend I'm just another pretty girl he has banged. But that's not reality.

>>6703881
Only a transbian could come up with something so stupid and retarded.

"Men are weak. Women are master race"

>>6703881
kys nigger.

>>6706172
>gave a shit about the religious angle
>premarital sex
k

>>6703795
This is a tough one. I view myself as trans-oriented, and have had a few girlfriends that were trans. I date, and it is not so much the physical. I have no issues doing out to eat, going places together, going to the beach, or whatever... However, I think the hardest part is the fear of coming out with this to family. I have kept it under wraps from just family. Some of my friends know, but I think being open about it with family is something I really really struggle with. If it wasn't for that, I probably would be in a serious committed relationship right now. I know I am being selfish, but I honestly have no idea how to overcome the fear. It's weird, because I have no issues when it comes to friends or strangers, only family. I think at one point, they suspected it, because while I was dating someone a few years back, who was trans, every time I would call my folks to say hi, my mom always brought up the topic of 'there was this thing on tv with this transgendered..."

>>6706321

Oh no, that part still eats at me. But at least that’s no worse than it would be with any cis girl.

>>6706374
>still eats at me
You certainly sound contrite; have you gone to Confession?

>>6706418
>You certainly sound contrite; have you gone to Confession?

Can’t; I’m a convert who hasn’t gone through RCIA yet. Hopefully when I do my father confessor will help motivate me to master these temptations. At least I’ve sharply curbed my porn habit these past few months; it was getting out of control.

Unfortunately if I tell a trans girl I’m not ready to have sex for religious reasons, the last thing she’s likely to believe is that I’m one of vanishingly few modern Americans who actually try to be serious about Catholicism.

>>6703881
or just date gay men
...you can't, can you?

>>6706215
yup, I'm pretty sure it's a self hating transbian who wants to deny their own past life and masculinity so hard they grow radically androphobic while worshiping femininity as some sort of ideal

been there, done that~

>>6703881
>sweaty, sore and disappointed in a bed that smells like onions and shame
I was only 9 years old. I loved Shrek so much...

>>6703881
It's women who are the gatekeepers to men's masculinity, so when you chastise them for being insecure, you need to hold up a mirror and look into it. Men get judged like pieces of meat quite openly and women expect them to be the hottest shit in town otherwise they're disposable. That's why most guys who are not 8/10s or above have complexes because they know whoever they're dating will cut them loose at the first sign of weakness, where as girls all the way up to 5/10 can pretty much coast in and out of relationships at will and have tons of transbiens like you willing to date them for shits'n'giggles because you fail to attract a 9/10 who was OK with you having been a dude before who can never father him children and will make his family life awkward forever.

why is it so hard for trans girls to find guys who will date them seriously? I know like plenty of guys who say they would date a passable trans girl, and I'm not ugly and I'm fit and I'd totally date a nice tgirl.

Are these people even looking or are they just letting themselves get shut down after their first hookup or date goes wrong?

>>6704206
you're pretty funny

Kinda new here. Didnt want to make a new thread. What exactly is a chaser? And why is it seen as a bad thing?

I like women and would be totally open to dating a transwoman (ofcourse holding similar standards regarding personality/cuteness). Am i a chaser?

>>6707317
according to all the angry transbiens we have here, yes.

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>>6703795
c'mon mate, it's not just the internet. You combine the presence of tranny/trap porn with the actual prevalence of men with extrahetero sexual desires, and societal stigma which forces both transwomen and these men who are potentially bi or whatever but are attracted to trans women into their closet, and bam, the only area of expression for that desire is the freely available tranny/trap pornography which clearly doesn't represent the majority of the trans community.
I blame society more than internet pornography. Pornographers took advantage of an existing niche (or fulfilled a market demand, if you like). Bigotry keeps it closeted.

>>6703881
> t. man

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>>6704020
>"straight"

>>6703881
Holy shit people got triggered by this. Amazing.

>straight roommate asked out a girl he thought was qt
>comes back depressed after the date
>"whats up bro"
>"its not gonna work out"
>"why not?"
>"she was born a man"
>he grabs some cheetos and watches netflix with a sad look on his face
It was pretty hilarious. The point of the story is, some guys cant see past it.

>>6708332
did you try to encourage him to try it anyway?
God, some people are stupid.

>>6708339
No, I dont get involved in his romantic life.

>>6708307

All you have to do is imply straight men are not perfect little Gods and /lgbt/ throws a hissy

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>>6704159
>Or date openly bi men. Or men who are straight but like super progressive/tumblr.
That's cool and all, but I'm not a fan of fucking hairy dudebutts for their fantasy Thai vacation experience.

>>6704822
I'm cynical enough to gigglesnort at girls like you who try to validate your relationships with men that don't please you to me. It ain't my fault you settled for less. There are plenty of fish in the sea, so don't get mad at me.

>>6705471
Ego combined with massive insecurity atop a sense of entitlement to my body/undying love for grace of getting their dick hard like in their korean stop-motion fantasies.

>>6705636
You get it!

>>6706172
>I became a chaser
>the struggle
>proud Catholic
Swipe left!

>>6706215
>Men are hot
>Only a transbian could come up with so stupid and retarded
Fucking kek. Heard it here first folks.

>>6706319
>>6708221
o i am cryin

>>6706590
>or just date gay men
See above
>That's cool and all, but I'm not a fan of fucking hairy dudebutts

>...you can't, can you?
Oh yeah it's a real challenge to fuck a gay guy when you have a dick and breathe air.

>>6706600
When it's ogre, it's ogre.

>>6706645
>all that shit
I really don't care about your sexual insecurity, your baby craziness, your impotent rage, or your whining, nor am I responsible for fixing any of it. I'm "going my own way" lmao.

>tons of transbiens like you
>Men are hot
>transbian
¯\_(ツ)_/¯

>>6704206
Thanks babe <3

Too many bitter ragemonsters itt.

>>6708461
this reads like it was written by a shitposter from austria

oh well

>>6708390
not lgbt, all the invaders do

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>>6708503
I'm glad you think so! The hills are alive with the sound of buttpain lmao

daily reminder to gas the transbian fetishists

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>>6708867
Your powerless anger just makes my dick harder anon.

>>6708867
what is a transbian?

>>6706520
just date a catholic trans girl ie: Latin american
Mexican trans women all across the Us and many are catholic

>>6706657
>why is it so hard for trans girls to find guys who will date them seriously? I know like plenty of guys who say they would date a passable trans girl, and I'm not ugly and I'm fit and I'd totally date a nice tgirl.
don't think it's that hard i would date trans girl seriously far easier than with a cis girl who may try to force me into a kid
>Are these people even looking or are they just letting themselves get shut down after their first hookup or date goes wrong?
probably

>>6709197
You have to be rather gentle, or you could potentially pull out something and cause damage.

>>6708461
>That's cool and all, but I'm not a fan of fucking hairy dudebutts for their fantasy Thai vacation experience.
I still have standards, jeez. I wouldn't sleep with anyone who expected or wanted me to top, first of all. And anyone who seemed to be fetishizing me would definitely be out. Hair is sort of, well I guess I'm ambivalent about it. I used to be kind of grossed out by it but then I dated a guy that was a little bit hairy and I wasnt all that bothered by it. I don't know what a dudebutt is though.

>>6708461
stop posting, your frantic defense only proves how many mental problems you have

>>6709514
>I still have standards, jeez.
But you want to date tumblr.

>I don't know what a dudebutt is though.
I figured that was fairly self-explanatory babe.

>>6709999
Ya got me. I'm pathologically driven to trigger you.

Currently dating a poly mtf who is also dating an mtf, but the second one doesn't like men...
Besides the logic loops, I find dating trans isn't any more difficult than dating someone in general. However, if they have a libido that demands they fuck every bi or trans they see... then might as well not even waste your time trying to make something special.

>>6703881
But cum smells more like mushrooms than onions. Something's wrong with the guys you're fucking.

>>6709999
> fuckin' quads

>>6708461
But no, keep posting. All it does is show us your horribly twisted mind.

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>>6711731
Dudes smell like onions on the regular. Onions and gamey meat like venison. It's the smell that's under all of the scented soaps, shampoos, aftershaves and colognes.

>>6711746
>But no, keep posting. All it does is show us your horribly twisted mind.
Oh no! Heavens forbid I don't worship the cock! I'm practically Satan! This thread is hilarious.

>>6706520
>Adult convert
Nice. But can you really marry a transwoman?

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>>6706657
There are people who treat being trans as a contagious disease and will tell you that you tricked them and lead them on when they find out you are trans.

I pretty much decided to never make the first move to avoid spreading my cooties to unwilling people. Only way to be safe is to be out n' proud and let people approach you. But I don't want to be out to everyone so I reject all approaches until I know and trust them enough to come out to them personally.

> Do you meet up with men who claim to have no problem with you being trans. Only to flake, and leave you the moment you meet or try and have sex?
Uhhh no, but I have a boyfriend that asked me out after seeing my posts and pics online and we've been dating since. I had someone else ask me out irl and I rejected them.
>>6703831
>t. fetishistic man turned tranny

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>>6704129
>Gynocide

>>6703881

you are projecting so much I could fill a driveway

>>6703881

sounds like you just had bad luck

I'm "straight" but I'd fuck antything that is cute, I couldn't give any less of a fuck if you have a penis down there, as long as I can pleasure you and watch you orgasm we will work.

>>6712862

I think so: >>6705726

There's a lot of salty trannies in this thread

>>6706172
>>6706329

I really can't emphasize these enough.. Being a chaser is the most deplorable thing you can do in today's society. It's probably worse than actually being trans. Your sexual preference is viewed by gays, straights, and even most transwomen alike as really deviant and it absolutely *ruins* your social circle.
>inb4 "if they're not friends with you even if you're dating a trans, they're not really your friends"
>inb4 having no idea how the real world works
I took a pic with a drag queen at a club and it wound up on facebook and my entire family was extremely judgmental of it. My dad straight up asked me, "You're not out there fucking transgender guys, are you?" "Uhh... n-no" Guarantee you none of my family wouldn't care if I was actually gay and attracted only to men.

>>6715156
>I took a pic with a drag queen at a club and it wound up on facebook and my entire family was extremely judgmental of it.

Well thur's yer problem right thur. Most people, gay and straight, think of transgender women as men in dresses, what we call hons. If you date cute, young, largely passable trans girls most people will think that you're a little weird, but they'll quickly get used to it. The rejection from gays on this board is its own thing, as it's mostly Alt Right gays (and I say this as an Alt Rightist) who are turned off by the feminist rhetoric that justifies transgenderism in most common intercourse, and thus latch onto transphobia as a means to raise themselves up a notch on the totem pole and better sell the 'homosexuality is totally masculine' / 'homophobia is a Semitic anti-Western scheme' line. This should not be confused with the attitude of gay men in general, as discussed above, who in my experience view chasers as distant cousins, or as an amusing funhouse mirror distortion of actual / ordinary homosexuality.

Source: my life.

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>>6715797
>Implying drag queens have to be ugly middle aged men

>>6715156

Why were you with that drag queen?

>>6709064
A trans woman who is attracted to women.

While it's not impossible, many therapists would see this as a red flag as a fetishist rather than an actual transgender person.

>>6703881
Yeah this is definitely on the extreme side of things. I did have an ex who kinda wanted to keep me as a secret from his friends/family, so I'm not saying it isn't a thing. But my current bf is pretty much like >>6704020. He was perfectly fine with introducing me to his parents (he suggested it, I didn't even have to bring it up) a few of his friends know, etc. Literally nobody gives a shit (in a good way lol)

I would date a trans woman. Holla at me.