Unusual coming out stories

Waiting.

>>6691479
I have a feeling that this is going to get bad.

>be me, 18 years old, 2nd semester of college
>had 1 girlfriend in the past, but mostly would chat up guys online
>Parents had no idea
>Invite gay guy to my dorm one weekend
>We get it on, and I come to realize what this means
>Mom picks me up to bring me home for the weekend next week
>In the car on the ride home, mostly silent
>I say to her "I think I should tell you. I'm gay."
>Her face turns white. She slows the car from 50 MPH to 0 and pulls off to the side of the road
>She then looks at me and says "What."
>I nervously repeat what I had said
>She says "No youre not." and takes off

All down hill from there folks.

>>6691509
That must be the most fucked up reaction. The denial. As if you being gay was so bad she just couldn't stomach it or even acknowledge that it's real.

>>6691521
The worst part is that growing up, I remember one night at the dinner table with both my parents, and my dad went on for like 5 minutes about how both my parents would love us no matter our choices in life, and he specifically listed "military, being gay,working mimimum wage, etc" and my parents raised my brother and I pretty liberal, so my mothers reaction caught me VERY off guard. Im now 23, and it still really bothers me. And that was just the first time I came out to my parents. Since then, I've come out again lol

>>6691534
I suppose a lot of people hide their bigotry these days. I feel like it's almost worse when people proclaim they're not homophobic and then react like that than if they were open about it before. Are you getting along now? Have they accepted it?

OP here, soz for wait.

Cont

>year later
>ma comes to me, "do you still think you are gay anon?"
>ohfug.jpg
>yeah mom, I still think so and I know so.
>sudden rage on mothers face
>"So what? Just because your such a anti social loser and can't get a girlfriend your gonna go ahead and cover it up saying your gay?
>remind her she found gay porn on my computer
>oh shut it anon, I don't want to hear any of it.
>if you marry a guy, I'm not attending the wedding

>The next two years are just pure verbal abuse, tried to commit suicide and landed myself in the hospital. Mom didn't show up to see me there.

Also I live with her, and the situation gets worse and worse everyday. But everyone else i know is still fine with it but is un aware of me and my mothers relationship.

I have certain specific stories I could share, but I would want to waste all of your time reading some faggot shit on a anonymous image board

>>6691563
As far as they know, im back to being straight.

In truth though, its been one hell of a trip. Since then, I've been hospitalized for suicidal ideation twice, done an insane amount of drugs trying to cope with life, tried to "reprogram" myself to being normal, and everything else inbetween. Currently, im mostly happy, and ive actually started to identify with some close friends, but havent taken serious steps to come out (again) to my family. I am actually looking to move away from them, and possibly cut contact from my parents. Still a few years away from that though.

>>6691585
Wouldnt*

>>6691594
>>6691585

you can share them if you want op

>>6691606
Aight, here is a very recent one.

>come home with boyfriend, mother supposedly isn't home.
>we cuddle and spoon on my bed for a bit
>go into kitchen for something to drink
>turn the corner into the kitchen, my face immediately goes pale.
>mom is standing in kitchen, with a impatient look on her face
>tell your little faggot friend to get out of my house, and your staying inside for the rest of today.
>tell her I'm not a fucking child and she can't control me
>escort my boyfriend home
>come back home to doors and windows locked with a note on the porch that told me to find my own place to stay tonight.

>mfw just went back to my boyfriends house and we fucked all night

>>6691587
Moving out is probably the most important factor. As long as you're living at home your parents will not think of you as your own person and individual but rather their child that they have a right to boss around.

>>6691628
I'm guessing you're baiting, but hell I'll bite.

I can understand being upset about not having grandchildren if your son is your own child, but that's not cause to deny his identity. They apprehension about accepting their own son is hurting him so incredibly much. As parents, shouldn't you love your child?

About your hangup about anal sex. You'd hesitate to invite your son's boyfriend over but you'd have no problem inviting your daughter's? How do you know he's not fucking her up the ass?

And the part about all homosexuals being feminine is ridiculous.

>What is bears

>>6691651
So if their cheif concern was the well being of their son, why would they actively make his life worse? I think they're thinking about themselves, about what they want and need.

>>6691660
None of us asked to be brought into this world. They've fed and clothed him because it's their damned responsibility. In my opinion if he cuts them off because they're a toxic influence on his well being he's absolutely justified.

>>6691674
go back to r9k now

>>6691651
dude that guy's mom is being a total bitch about it, not even acknowledging when he comes out
seems pretty bigoted to me and tbqh you seem like a selfloathing gay to go ahead and compare being gay to being a drug addict or slut in the same sentence as defending an old straight woman's prejudices
either very sad boy or troll tbqh

>>6691660
No, I want to cease contact with them because they are a negative influence in my life. I don't come home from a night out and vividly describe my sexual encounters with them. Thatd be ignorant.

In the last 10 years, I cant name one instance where I needed them and they were there for me, or made me feel proud, or strong of who am I, either when I was doubting my sexuality, gender, or who I am as a person.

If you had a friend that only made negative remarks towards you, and you realized that everytime you talked to them they made you feel like shit, youd stop hanging out with that friend, right?

Yeah, thats my relationship with my parents.

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>>6691635
>mfw just went back to my boyfriends house and we fucked all night
Pure gold

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>>6691674

>" I want my children/grandchildren to carry on my name and make it great."

>"Did you grow up with boy cousins Lord Tywin? Sons of your father's bannermen, squires and stable boys?"

Stop pretending my lord.

>>6691693
>tfw boyfriend fucks you and creams up your ass before he goes off to work
Pure gold

>>6691674
>It's different when a girl gets fucked in the ass even though it is disgusting. I would not stand for it if i knew some guy was treating my daughter as a whore.
Oh, I get it, you're just an asshole.

>>6691749
Acknowledging that he's gay? Not caring about someone's sexuality is one thing, but being in blatant denial of someone's sexuality because they're gay is just ignorant.

>>6691738
Hilarious and original
Kill yourself

When will you retarded faggots learn to stop feeding the trolls around here? JFC, this site used to know better, but this board seems to have been filled with retarded new fags since its inception.

Ignore breeders, trolls, homophobes, and /pol/. It's not that hard.

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>Be me
>Come out as gay to family
>"No shit anon, we all assumed that you were"
>Come out to close friend
>She tells me that she thought I was gay within ten minutes of meeting me
>Come out to another friend
>Find out her and a bunch of people in my grade had a betting pool of which month i'd come out
>Literally no one was surprised
>mfw

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>>6691836
Fun stuff. It was the straight up opposite for me.

>"Are you joking? I never would have imagined..."
>"You look and act nothing like it"

And then there's the absolute diamond tier retarded thing my friend did.
>came out
>didn't believe for literally 3 hours
>fast forward a month
>in a group where everybody knew so casually talking involving faggotry
>turns out he fucking forgot about it
wew lad

Then a year later
>classmate visibly pushes conversation to gays multiple times
>mostly directed to me to rip it out of me
>spit it out like Vsauce
>"Okay, I knew it already, I was just making sure"
>"Where do you know it from anyways?"
>"I don't even know, like half the class knows"
>"Oh. Cool. Less stress for me then."
Turns out like 2 people were not okay with it, but I hated their guts anyways.

>>6691836
same man

>sitting playing tf2 with best friend
>"i like girls"
>"oh anon, i know"
>go back to playing video games

I was freestyle rapping.

Got on stage, rapped a lot off stuff, had a mental breakdown and told the crowd about that black girl i didnt fuck and told them that if i wanted to get aids i would fuck guys, my mind started going down to, hmm i would like to fuck guys, anal sex is much better than vaginal, went to "i only wanted to fuck my ex in her butt in the end of our relationship and in the beginning i just told her that if i wanted to fuck butt i would date guys" i endet it with "ich wurde von sovielen typen hinterrücks gefickt und ich kenn keine metaphern ich bin verdammt nochmal autist" which meant as much as ive been backstabbed by a lot of people, but because im autistic i have to take it litterlie which means i took it in the butt by lots of guys.
When i realised what i just sayd i tried to save me from more damage and told those people that im psychotic and acted like i raped a girl and trie to cover it up, after that i went to a mental hospital where i faked a borderline personality disorder to justify my bisexaul feelings for myself.

Before wenting to the hospital in my marterial arts club i just changed to was a trainer who tried to show me how to dodge strikes, he told me to get down, and i went in the direktion of a blowjob like position as i realised it i called myself a faggot so everyone there was also able to assume.

After 3 months of mental hospital i went back to hiphop and my sports club, everyone in the sports club was like not wanting to have to do something with me, i didnt really know why, i couldnt remember the gay stuff because i still lied to myself.

I freestyled a lot, when i do this i get some memmory loss and not really know what i exactly rapped. i remember this stuff in fragments usually weeks or months after the show. Cont...

>fapping to /hm/ 3 years ago on my phone. Drank some whisky earlier, smoked a bowl
>get a text "its your dad I'm in town tonight want to go to the bar?"
>dad is truck driver and I see him every 3 or 4 months so I jump.
>do a line of adderall so I'm not drowsy
>Go to bar with my dad
>shootin shit, were talking
>he makes a reference to some show we like
>I say I got a funny ass picture about that, hold up lemme look it up on my phone
>were both looking at my phone as a chiseled Roman God is taking it shows up on my screen
>forgot to close tab
>very tense and awkward now and I'm frozen
>"so... You're gay?"
>I just let go and say yeah I have been for a long time.
>he tells me he owes my mom a hundred bucks now.
They made that bet 10 years ago.

I came out to one of my friends as a trans guy and I checked with her at least three times to make sure she knew I was being serious.

I find out a week later she thought I was joking the entire time.

When she finally realizes I was being serious she asks if that means we can date since she's str8

I'm only attracted to men.

>>6693409

I dropped lots of gay lines, so everyone in the rap scene and who listened to me knew it but i still made myself belive that my mindfuck came from borderline, and i cnat fuck girls because of my abusive mother and my abuse relationship which i really experienced.

There was this one gig where some motherfucker was at stage provoking me because i stood up against merkels refuggees politics when he asked.
He was doing lots of bad racist jokes before and than called me a racist and stuff.
I burst out of anger told him when he projects his racism at me ill project my homosexuality at him, so threathened him on a very gay way about fuckim hin in his mouth and if he wants to fight he can have it, but it woldnt change anything, we also could have been fucking, he just should have been a little bit nicer or a lot meaner, and completely gay stuff like this.
I endet it with telling him that we both have to reflect stuff, me why i think about fuckimg him in his face, whyle calling him a faggot, and he calling me a racist while making racist jokes.
Forgott about this too/ didnt take it as a cue for me being gay.

This went for montsh until one of my coaches recotnised one of my shows, where for somone who wasnt as deniying as me, it was very clear that im closet gay and suicidal and really fucking my life up by acting like i was a rapist just to keep woman away from me, so he kinda showed me that he is ok with it.
Now im outed at the sports club, which i did by having a extremly obivious crush on one of my coaches, and yeah thats it...

Now ill have to be the first dope german gay rapper.

Sorry for my bad english. in my head this stuff was hillarious idk if i could transport it that way.

>Be away at university
>Been with a guy for about 5 months
>Decide I need to be honest with parents since they're always asking about girls
>Decide to tell Mum before tackling Dad
>Go into kitchen
>Mum, I need to tell you something
>She gets the concerned face
>Mum, I'm bisexual
>Ugh, I know
>W-what?
>I've known for bloody years
>How?
>You didn't always delete the internet history, did you?
>Fuck! Does Dad know?
>He's the one who found it
>Fuck! Well I've sort of met somebody...
>Are you being safe?
>Of course I am!
>Well that's all that matters. What's his name?

>>6693669
MODS! MODS!

>>6693482
Is this real?

>>6691479
>Be me
>Mum I am bi
>Thats great anon, should we go buy girls clothes
>Lol wut
Never said anything to my dad about it he is autistic and wouldn't think it is important enough to talk about anyway.

>>6693416
kek

glad it worked out

It just fucking amazes me when parents get so shocked and upset that their kid is just gay who gives a shit? You're just gay and like the same sex. That's it. Not trying to compare woes here but be thankful you aren't transgender and have to deal with several more problems life problems because it would be at least a hundred times worse and i'm glad i don't have some of your parents because i would be dead right now.

>in hs have jehovah witness teacher
>he's very into that shit
>lectures us about obama being antichrist in history
>be dyke
>honestly just trying to get through this bs, quiet in class
>always bitching me out because i smell like smoke
>thinks i'm a stoner
>nooo, my mom just smokes cigarettes when dropping me off, can't get the scent off
>do my work, shut up otherwise
>calls my mom bitching about my smoke smell
>mom tells him to fuck off and now hates him because he gave her some church lecture and she hates churches
>mom otherwise bit homophobic so not out to her
>not church-goer cause they're hypocrites to her but she does believe in god
>so homosex is a choice and gays aren't real
>get girlfriend in hs
>hold hands lewdly
>jw teachers sees and gets pissy at me
>calls my mom to tell her about it
>shiiiiit
>mom comes to pick me up
>think she's mad at me
>nope
>bitches out jw teacher
>gets principal involved along with ap coordinators and counselors
>shouting, smoking inside building now, calling teacher a closet fagget himself
>fuck it tho
>mom, I am gay, he's not lying
>mom tells me she doesn't give a fuck
>fuck this asshole for wasting her time on some bullshit
>calling her about smoke and hand holding
>my grades are good? that's all that matters
>he's picking on me over nothing cause i'm a lil gay
>she's threatening to go to the news stations
>this is a public school! separation of church and state! no one needs to hear your church bullshit here!
>oh shit mom might do that
>mom you don't even think this gay stuff is real
>WHO CARES YOU'RE MY DAUGHTER.
>THIS ASSHOLE CAN'T JUDGE YOU
>jw teacher actually bit scared now
>apologizing, saying i'm a good student, kissing ass
>moms talking lawsuits
>can't change teachers, gotta stay in ap
>substitute ap teacher brought in for a month
>jw teacher gives excuse that he has to go to some teacher convention
>class finds out it's my mom throwing a bitchfest over me
>he comes back, never talks to me, make an A

>>6695080
your mum sounds pretty based, anon

>>6695111
Yeah. She bitches at us a lot but is very protective and caring of us kids.

Like even when she was saying some homophobic stuff and I was worried she wouldn't accept it, I was never worried about her kicking me out or sending me to some camp. I've got brothers that have fought and done drugs and crimes and all kinds of stupid shit. But god help you if you talk shit about them.

There wasn't room in that greentext but after all that at home she told me as long my grades stayed As and Bs and I went to college she didn't care if I dated girls. She didn't understand it, thought I would turn out straight as I got older maybe, but she said it wasn't the worst shit I could do. Loves me, all that good stuff. And then for a year she kept asking if I'd been molested or raped as a kid cause she read somewhere that that's why kids turn out gay. I kept telling her no, she kept thinking I was lying trying to protect someone, kept staying no cause honestly I was never raped or anything like that. Finally she dropped it.

To this day she doesn't like any girl I date. But she hates every girl my brothers date more. Every girl it's either she looks too manly just by having short hair, or she brags too much or tries too hard or is stuck up or talks too much or something is just off and she doesn't like her but she can't say why. But my brothers date nothing but stupid whores and she's told them that I have better taste in women.

>>6693669
Sir, that's a benia and this is a blue board

>>6691479
i was outed by my sister's x boyfriend a few years ago, this is what happened,

i had a gay lover and we were getting together for hawt gay sex about twice a week, well the guy was a little bit more of a slut than i thought, he trys to seduce my sister's x boyfriend, and he knew me and my gay lover were friends but he did not know we were gay or having sex until he tried to seduce my sister's x boyfriend, well my systers x boyfriend blabbed about it to my parents and everyone else i know, so i split up with my gay lover and tell him what a reckless slut he is,

i am still somewhat conservative and closeted, but i do keep an eye out for a chance to get some good dick on dick action but that dont happen often in this little redneck town i live in

>>6695080
your mom is cool!!! i bet i would like her, she has more balls than most men :)

cheers!!!

>>6691628
How would you know he doesn't do the fucking? How would you know your straight son wasn't submissive as fuck and had his gf hammer his asshole with her fist or a pecker?
Too many possibilities. The latter is technically worse, isn't it?

>>6691651
It will go even worse when you try to turn them around, though. This has been proven time and time again.

>>6691655
I'm sorry, but I find it incredibly weak to trust your unborn grandchildren to make your name great instead of taking the work of doing this into your own hands. Stop being lazy and just fucking around, hoping your offspring will be great, be great yourself and do your parents the favor you expect of others.

>>6691742
Hey dude- not that guy, but- imagine your parents kicking you when you were down (figuratively and literally), locking you in your room each night with your grandma who stands guard that you can't leave and can't contact anyone, check on you every hour in person when you leave the house and phone wherever you are (school) about as regularly, picked your clothes each morning, wouldn't let you leave in anything else, and threw everything you picked away instantly, went through a spiel of forcing you to eat each dinner and then abuse you for being fat till you develop bulimia and stick you in the closed off mental ward for a month- They pay for rent and food. Are rent and food still worth more in "being there for you" points than the rest culminated together?
Parents are just humans, they can be shit.

>>6691749
They don't have to give a fuck. As far as I understood, though, anon's parents are all "no, ur str8 lel" even after he told them he wasn't. It's pure denial on their part now, acting as if they didn't know. That doesn't help him or them.

>>6691798
Most that bite have the hope in their hearts that they can show the baiters that not all lgbt-people are delusional shrieking harpies I feel.

>>6693482
Ich bezweifle, dass du der erste bist. Ein Kumpel von mir ist im Pott aktiv in der Battlerapszene- vll kennt er dich sogar. Welche Gegend, Meister?

I never assume I have to come out to anybody because I've been made fun of since before I even knew what gay was for having a 'gay voice'.

>>6696712
>she has more balls than most men :)
Not sure if the emoji is the worst part of this shit

>>6694956
I came out to my parents four times as ftm, with years in between each try. I'm one of those gold-star trannies that wanted a male name in kindergarden and didn't understand why people were calling me a girl. Back then, that was just cute. As soon as I actually learned to understand what sex and gender were, my parents started getting worried, I think. There were quite some years in my childhood where my only friends mother, a TERF, was drilling female superiority into my head and exacerbated my problems extremely. When I lost contact with that family when we moved and got into a different school and social context, I managed to shake any misandry that was left. Since I clung to computers and the internet, I could google shit, get a bit more confidence, and managed to tell my then only friend when I was around 14 that I doubted I was able to be female, and that I feared that I might be a transguy. I found the concept disgusting and confusing myself, but the answer of "Yeah? Everyone knows you're a guy. It's really obvious." somehow reassured me. I didn't flat out tell my mom,- I wanted to think about this more, be really sure, and thought just being a "tomboy" for the time being would suffice. But she wouldn't have it. She flipped her shit and had some semi-breakdowns and crying-fits because I refused to wear make-up or go out in skirts and dresses, pink glittery tops, really girly shit. She tried to strategically replace my more neutral clothing-items as soon as she noticed I hated them so that I started getting clothing I was comfortable with at friends and changing at school. One day she had another fit, even though I had no idea what was up, sat me down with her, and told me she noticed me in a hoodie and jeans at a busstop. She had a crying fit so big my grandma had to come and comfort her, because, as she said "You looked like a goddamn boy! Do you want to be a boy, huh?!" which made me snap and say "Yes. I do."
(cont)

>>6696800
She started shaking me, yelling at me "Say that was a joke. That's not true. That's a terrible joke. Never say something as terrible as that again." (hilarious, since my grandma always joked about gruesome death) I had no idea what to do and told her that it was a joke.
The two next tries went very similarly. When I was 15, and we got to a point where she at least trusted me enough to let me wear pants on my own accord, and she tried to give me a talk about how my depression, suicidal tendencies and obvious self-loathing and body-image issues would leave if I would "embrace" my femininity, dress better, get into swimming maybe, generally, it's summer, why won't we go bikini-shopping? I remember trying to tell her again. She sent me to a psychiatrist to talk these crazy ideas out of me. So after about a year of therapy, my therapist confirms my suspicions and sends me to a gender therapist. The last try, which worked, was around 18, a year after I moved out and a few months after I started hormone therapy. I invited her to my place and had a four hour talk with her, explaining her that I know it's hard, but it's fact, and she really has no influence on what I do anymore. So either she accepts it, or it'd be hard to stay in contact. "As long as you aren't gay. Imagine both a tranny and faggot. That would be the worst thing." (which I found funny, because beforehand I knew she was deadly afraid I might be a dyke). That's 10 years back now. I know that she told my extended family, especially my father, at some point, because they know and I never told them. She basically told me "It's okay. They know. It's okay." at some point when I wasn't sure about visiting for christmas. I am post-op, pass with flying colors, got a nice gf and am possibly the most successful person in my family and my NEET-brother actually became the father of twins in the meantime, so I guess she just doesn't have any reason to panic anymore. Just a weird 180°, overall, really.

>>6696833
Absolutely forgot what the actual third try was. Probably a mirror copy of #2, explaining why I can't remember any details.

>>6693995
Yeah kinda, but i guess im not even gay, just bisexual. But still too traumatised to fuck women.
I guess it will go away, im making lots of progress.

>>6696772
Ne kennt mich nicht, komme ausm Süden, battlerap mach ich keinen.

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>When I talk to my friends I don't try to hide the fact that I'm gay
>I'm not completely in their face about it but I'm not completely in the closet either
>One day my friend straight up asks "Hey, anon, are you gay?"
>The question sort of came out of nowhere, wasn't expecting it
>"Y-yeah"
>"Oh cool, like I already knew I just wanted confirmation"
>Other friend starts joking around
>"DUDE THAT'S GROSS YOU'RE GONNA GET FAG DISEASE"

I got great friends

>>6697534
Same. Having good friends is nice.

Gay men are the supior and everyone else should envy us. Woman are just weak and useless.
Straight people will just be pushing out babies and feeding the wills of theres. Slaves.

>be 14 at the time
>gf is blowing me, have to close eyes to stay hard
>thinking about keanu reeves from the 90s
>dad walks in on us without knocking
>he's annoyed, tells gf to leave but is somewhat okay with it
>years later, at college staying at home cause its cheaper
>bf is fucking me in the ass
>dad walks in again without knocking
>flips his shit, says i can't have sex in his house, even though he was okay with me bringing home girls
>family meeting, tell parents im a degenerate
>they argue and eventually tell me to leave

mhmmm that double standard amirite

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>>6697834
>thinking about keanu reeves from the 90s
KEK

When I first dates a guy, I found out he had a blog with thousands of readers where he was blogging about our sex life in detail using my full real name.

When I came out years later as trans, every single person I knew cut me off and I was homeless

>>6698310
what does that have to do with the first guy

>>6691534
Holy shit i had the same thing with my mom, she took me to gay weddings when i was little, always told me she would always love me no matter what. I came out to her 2 years ago and she said, no you are not, and got really mad. Our relationship has not been the same since

>be 17 gay male
>agonizing over whether to tell parents
>work up the courage one day
>go down to dinner
>freaking out
>everybody is eating
>look at parents, say "ummm, I have something to tell you guys"
>"what is it anon?"
>"I...I...I'm gay"
>Dad looks slightly annoyed
>Mom looks smug
>Mom turns to Dad and hold out her hand
>Dad digs in wallet, takes out $20 and slaps it in her hand
>both go back to eating like nothing happened
>can't take it
>trying not to yell, "what the fuck just happened?"
>Mom says "he thought you were trans, and I thought you were gay...Mommy always knows her kids"
>both go back to eating
>Dad looks up "Don't think this gets you out of our fishing trip next week"
>goes back to eating
>Dad looks up again "I almost forgot" Reaches over to cabinet and pulls out 100 pack of condoms. "Be safe dude"
>goes back to eating
>Look back and forth between them
>mfw I forgot how chill my parents are

>>6695080
>mfw my brother is jw and from what I know, nobody who really was would be such a bitch

>>6698966
i wished my parents were as cool as yours, my parents are totally homophobe, my dad died, but my mom totally hates gays, really hates em, i am gay but i never came out to them, now my mom is 83 years old, in a wheel chair and i do all the cooking & house cleaning for her, if it was not for me she would be in some piss smelling nursing home, that hateful old bitch should be grateful that this old fag stuck around to take care of her because none of her other children cared enough to

>>6699005
lol tell her. If she makes you leave shell be on her own

>>6691674
>"Bears" are just large guys who are soft and cowardly. Just being tall, hairy and fat does not make you manly.
Holy shit try saying that to a bears face and see how it turns out. Also doing anal does not mean she is being treated like a whore lol, what have you only ever had sex in the missionary position for procreation only.

>Also passing down your bloodline and name is very important. I want my children/grandchildren to carry on my name and make it great.
Carry on your name and make it great? If you actually want to make your family name great get off your ass and do it yourself, it's not your children's duty to live up to your failed or otherwise unrealized dreams. Your children are not you and will never be you.

>>6691585
*Sends internet hugs*
>>if you marry a guy, I'm not attending the wedding
On the plus side if you ever get married one less mouth to feed? Invite me and introduce me to a cute femboi.
No homo.

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>>6693416

Kek'd

>>6693301
How'd that feel? Cause honestly, I was kinda offended. Like, i'm such a huge faggot, that literally everyone I know had figured it out. I'm moving to a small, redneck town for University next year, and i'm worried that my gayness my get me into some trouble

>Be me, 16
>Friend outs me at school
>Oh shit better deny it
>It's not fair on my friend, he wasn't lying, I was
>Tell parents
>Usual "Are you sure?" stuff - this lasts about 3 months of them hoping it's a phase
>Come out at school, do the right thing, but also be honest
>Most people are ok with it
>Starts off as people being really nice over the topic
>Gradually becomes jokes about it
>Eventually people stop wanting to be friends with me over it
>Lose pretty much all friends

That and two other events and I haven't bothered making friends in the last 5 years.

>>6700041
post the other 2 if they are interesting m80

>>6691585
>implying not everyone on /lgbt/ is here to read faggot shit on some weeb image board anonymously

>>6700054
Fine.

1:
>Best friend's house burns down several years prior
>Couple of people keep making jokes about it, made one or two when he seemed to take them lightly
>He says he's having a bad time with it, depression etc.
>Tell him I get it, if he needs to talk I'm there
>I go through 2:, come back to school
>He's suddenly being weird, not speaking to me
>We play games online together
>Get told along with a few other people that he has new friends and doesn't really care if we're around anymore
>A couple of the others started sending him shit about his house burning down
>He runs around telling everyone he was depressed and I used that to pray on him
>He blames me for about 5 other people, 2 online, 3 in real life, making house fire jokes to him, even tells administration

2:
>At ~15 left to live with grandmother
>Parents are mad over it ever since, try using it against me all the time
>Call me selfish, acting out etc.
>Reality was I'd done it to get away from a lot of abuse that happened in the house
>(Kept up til 2am most nights, they wouldn't cook or buy food, clothes, would get drunk shouting, I'd have to spend whatever meager money I worked for on food)
>They refuse to acknowledge anything they've done
>Have to go stay with a friend (not the one above) for a while
>'Resolve' the issues (But not really, just had to go home eventually)
>Parents have talked with my grandmother about it
>She's run around telling everyone I'm a crazed drug addict
>Confront her about it
>She starts telling people I sent her threats of violence, that I had texted her I was going to 'beat her up'
>Even gets her new husband to come and threaten me

Don't put stock in people. Sorry if they're underwhelming.

>>6700106
That sucks dude, hope everything is good for you now

>>6700343
To be honest, those are just 3 of 13 really bad stories. But thank you, I'm trying.

>>6700398
You'll make it, Anon c:

>>6700453
Have you got any stories you've shared here/wanna share?

>>6700458
I guess, they're all pretty tame though

>be 19 chilling with friends
>"Hey Anon, are you still a virgin?"
>"N-no"
>"What was her name?"
>"Uuuuuuuuuuuh"
>"It wasn't a girl?"
>"N-no"
>"Oh cool, what was his name?"
>"I forget"

Didn't really, just trying to repress the memory as it was not the best experience. All of my friends were super chill about it, which was nice.

Coming out to my folks was weird. They'd been quite openly homophobic at times, though mum reckons bi is worse because they go home and give their wives AIDS... Moved out of home before coming out to them
>"Hey Mum, I'm gay"
>"Oh... Are you sure?"
>Hips Don't Lie plays softly in the background
>"Yes"
>"Well just don't be too gay, your father hates that"
>tfw better than expected
>Later that week
>"Hey Dad, can I talk to you for a sec?"
>"S-sure, what's up?"
>"Dad, I'm gay"
>"Oh... does your mother know?"
>"Already knows"
>"Welp, you know how I feel about poofters, so I guess it's very brave of you to tell me"
>"Doesn't mean I approve, however"

Still not too sure where I stand, I want them to meet my boyfriend properly and get to know him but they're clearly still really uncomfortable about the whole thing. Still, I count my blessings

>>6700610
I hope they learn to accept you anon

>>6693409
I think you are a very special person anon. Where are you from?

>>6700632
Thank you, Anon, I hope so too

>>6693482
>so then I threatened to sexually assault someone on stage

Anon pls go

>>6695080
>mom tells me she doesn't give a fuck
Best part :3

>>6696800
Your mom is a cunt.
Since I'm mtf, im just imagining how quickly she would have disowned me.

>be 11
>bio-father waiting outside to hang out
>half way out the door, tell mother that I am a man
>no time for her to respond before I was gone
>get back around noon
>she sits me down and makes me watch ' boys dont cry'
>afterwards she asks if I still feel like a boy
>I say yes
>she then spends the next 10 minutes looking for a trans therapist in our town and coming up with my new name on the spot
>afterwards she calls up nearly every family member and tells them I'm trans
>therapy was literally next week
>all went well except with my bio father whom I hadn't seen in 6~ years

We are an introverted but accepting family.

>be me at age 16-17
>mom picks me up from the greyhound station after I visted my dad in her car
>she says to me "anon, I found a bunch of girls clothes in your closet in a back pack, whoever they belong to you should being them back"
>tells me she cleaned my room when I was gone
>also found a bunch of really gay drawings I drew of anime boys
>ohshitfuck.jpg literally shitting bricks
> I say "mom why did you clean my room!!! In a teenager!!"
>inside the bag was other very weird shit. Like pads and like tampons and shit
>sweating bullets
>decide to tell her the truth, she is very uncomfortable before I tell her as we drive home
>"mom this are my clothes, I'm a cross dresser"
>she looks at me relieved and laughs genuinely and says "OH thank fucking god!! I thought you had some poor girl tied up in a basement somewhere!!!"

Later came out as trans, but holy shit best moment ever. I love her so much

>>6700709
Wow auto correct butchered my post

>>6691585

>I have certain specific stories I could share, but I would want to waste all of your time reading some faggot shit on a anonymous image board

Oh no, please tell us all what you have to share. This is quite interesting. Why haven't you moved out, though? If her verbal abuse is so bad you tried to kill yourself, you're well past the point of where you should stop tolerating her.

>>6700709
Why did you have tampons if you're trans????

>>6700709
haaaaaaaaaaaaaaahahahaha

>>6700754
He's got a taintcunt that rivals chris chan's

>>6697834

I'm a virgin, but I'm sure the same thing would happen to me. My parents let my brother's girlfriend move in, and now they're literally feeding her. No doubt they have sex too (although probably not as frequently as they would like since I'm always home and my room is next to theirs). I wouldn't even be able to bring a boyfriend to the front stoop without someone throwing a hissyfit.

>>6691651
>I don't want your life to be worse by being gay, so if you're gay I'm going to make your life worse.

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I've got some weird ass stories.
>be on high school tennis team
>coach is seriously a hardcore flat-earther
>the cia killed jfk, Antartica isn't real, the UN did 9/11, etc etc
>corners me after practice one day and demands to know who molested me to make me gay
>tries to exorcise me
He probably could've gotten fired if I told anyone about that.

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>>6700754
/B/yard here. Guessing from things I've seen I'm guessing it's a Boner hiding apparatus. Tie string to member and shove up bum. Boners eliminated.

>>6700660
In Hip hop Cultur that is a common kind of swearing, "ill fuck you in the ass" "suck my dick" etc. is just some kind of telling the other one that you have dominance over him.

Mine's not that interesting, but my boyfriend has a pretty funny one.

He's deaf and in high school he dated another deaf boy in secret for a while. My boyfriend invited this other guy over. His dad decided to cook something on the grill for their dinner.

At some point they went indoors to fool around, thinking that since both his parents were outside it would be alright. Apparently, some deaf people make a lot of noise during sexual acts. And it was definitely the case for this other guy. I'm told he was so loud that my boyfriend's parents heard him from all the way outside.

They came back outside like nothing was wrong and were bombarded with The Talk.

>>6704500

Is his life a sitcom?

Now I want a loud deaf boyfriend

>be 14
>computer gets a virus
>this is back when you took your computer to a computer hospitable for this stuff
>get computer back just fine
>two weeks late my parents get a call
>the computer guy was a Christian and he was debating whether to say it or not but he had to tell my parents he found a bunch of gay porn on the computer
>parents sit me down, want to ground me for looking at porn but don't want me to think its because I am gay.

>>6698966
finally......a positive story.

made me smile, fellow legbutt

>>6706721
what a rotten cunt

>>6696785
>Emoji

>>6698966
That sounds like the most bullshit feel good tale I've ever heard

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>>6706721
Why would somebody infringe privacy in that way? and then even brag about digging up private stuff? I mean, that was lawsuit worthy.

>>6698966
This is bullshit. I read this story somewhere and it matches like 90%.

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>>6707231
>One poster is strictly limited to browse one site and they can't repost any of their stories!

>Out to friends; not out to family (Gotta get that sweet sweet inheritance, planning on dropping the bomb on my grandparents deathbed, right before they pass so I still get closure and all that sweet dosh)
Onto storytime
>14, 9th grade
>Fall in love with super fucking cute bi friend
>He has a gf though so we don't date
>Spend year with him trying to get him to like me to no avail
>Near start of year before all that I'm at a school football game with the school band and me and a friend are discussing crushes
>"Yeah, I like (girl), and I think (girl) is cute too"
>"Alright anon, anybody else?"
>"Yeah, I just don't wanna say it because eh... Maybe once we get back to school (stadium was at a different HS)"
>Get back to HS
>"So anon, who was it?"
>"Well...It's (boy)"
>"YOU'RE NOT BISEXUAL ANON!"
I'd like to mention he was homophobic (literal sense here) and a JW.
>People stare
>Eventually realize I'm not bisexual
>I'm gay
>We work things out a week later after not talking
>He eventually warms up to it mostly, even gives me a bit of advice here and there like "don't try dating x, he's a douche"
8/10, bretty gud, exactly what I expected coming out.

>>6707489
>and a JW.
A jew? Is this what the young polgbts are calling them now?

>>6707516
Jehovahs witness
Knock off mormons basically
They have a special retranslated bible by special people with god's specific guidance to rewrite passages incorrectly, and to basically throw out jesus, god, and the bible in lieu of the "Watchtower", their special magazine organization thingey that controls their minds pretty much
If he weren't JW he would've been gay, and I would've dated him. Like, the guy even said he once had attraction to a guy but he had it beat out of him by family.

>at doctors when I was 16
>check both when the sheet asks for sexual attraction
>mom sees and says "look, you checked the wrong one" and gives it back
>pussy out of telling her
>check men
>shit wrong one
>check women
>hand sheet to doctor with all 3 checked
>he smiles at me like he's seen that before

Two months ago, I was unemployed, and sitting on the couch playing CoD

Oh, and I'm stoned out of my mind.

>phone rings
>its my dad
>hes calm
>explains he needs a place to crash and lay low for a while, and that he needs to stay with me

My dad has a history of uhm, liking younger girls. I'd go further into that but nope, the point is, he can't be trusted.

>i live with my girlfriend
>we live in a studio
>i tell him not here, but i can rent a hotel for him out here
>he says no, he "NEEDS" to stay with me
>he begins to get mad
>i begin to panic
>start literally crying and tell him im gay and i live with my girlfriend and i would feel uncomfortable having him around her
>he hangs up

two hours later, he calls me and tells me to go pick up my dogs at the fucking pound three hours away (he was taking care of my dog while i get a bigger place)

>haven't spoken to him since

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>>6707527
>JW
>Like, the guy even said he once had attraction to a guy but he had it beat out of him by family.
Jesus Christ... I remember being outed to my middle school classmate who was Adventist. That's like a knock-off JW.
Wow, all the shit I got from him... I'm usually a calm guy, but he was the first and only person since I know my mind whom I wanted to beat up pretty bad.
Fuck it, coming out greentext, knock-off of knock-off Mormons edition
>talking with A after school
>"So... I heard L told you." "Is it true though?" "Yeah." "I guess you know who else he told right?"
>"WHO?"
>"D ( the adventist guy)"
[insert shattering sound and thunder in my head here]
>"Are you kidding me?" "Nope. He knows."
Next day, while going home, walking next to D
>see that he takes a deep breath like he's trying to get some words out
>after like the 3rd try I drop myself in the deep water expecting the worst
>"I bet this is what you wanted to ask, yes I know L outed me."
[clearing it up with surprising ease]
>"But are you sure you are not just liking guys in a way like someone who looks at body builders and says they look good?"
>trying to wrap my head around what he just said for 10 seconds at least
>"Nah, pretty sure I like both equally."
>few minutes of awkward shit goes on, he tries to explain what is attraction and says that mine isn't
>he's a complete grown-in-a-cage, doesn't know literally anything about the topic, like far less than average
>"Wait, if you are bi, you just ignore the other side, get a wife and live your life that way, right?"
>did he just seriously fucking say this.
>"Well thanks for deciding what I do with my life, bye!"
>took the first junction in the sidewalk, did a 360° and walked away

>coming out
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H47ow4_Cmk0

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>>6708161
>letting your parents and literally everyone around you think they raised/befriended a failure who gets no pussy in his life
>better than coming out
We talked about this bullshit so many times...

>>6708185
>because they won't react poorer to having raised/befriended a faggot than a failure who gets no pussy

>>6708196
>but gets boypussy and isn't a retard with no social life
In my case they value that far more.
Also, with a stable social life you are way more likely to be a productive part of society with good studies, job and connections. GG deep-closet anon.

>>6708208
>they value that far more.
>laughing Tidus

I'd rather build my life around a crafted lie than ruin everything by coming out.

>>6706696
Thankfully it turned out well for him and his parents are really accepting. I imagine it was awkward as fuck for his folks at the time, though. Minding their own business barbecuing and then all of a sudden they hear obvious sex noises coming from their house. They all laugh about it now.

He isn't really loud himself, but then some deaf people aren't.

>>6707244
As in a fiction work, published by an author.

Not really unusual but my coming out story went like this

>be 17 and senior in highschool
>mom wants me to go to this brunch thing with a bunch of her coworkers
>don't really want to, don't have time to get ready and generally look pretty ugly
>forced to go to avoid yelling and general hardships
>get there, its a buffet style restaurant
>Mom's coworkers are two married couples and one engaged couple
>restaurant serve complimentary champagne and mimosas
>pretty tall and have a beard + hanging out with people well over 30
>guess I pass for over 21 and they serve me alcohol so I look to my mom and just kinda start drinking
>table gets a laugh out of it, mom's boss puts her fingers to her lips and says "we'll keep it a secret" while smiling
>they begin to conversate, talk about gossip
>find out I got brought because everyone was with their significant other and my mom was single at the moment, joked about how she brought along her son as her date (mom usually does this so don't think anything of it)
>dudes start drawing dicks on napkins and laughing about it, pretty cool group of coworkers my mom has
>one of the dudes (the youngest one) secretly trying to out drink me, think there's no way he'll be able to and match his drink count
>just champagne so don't really think much of it
>finally the table begins talking about relationships
>had told my crush (call him T) that I like him a few days prior at 1am
>Dude whose trying to outdrink me asks if I have a girlfriend
>say "no not at the moment, focusing on school" aka blatant lie
>he responds "oh no there's no one you like?"
>still not sure if it was the alcohol or not, but say fuck it and reply "actually I just told someone recently I liked them"
>mom goes "Oh this is the first I'm hearing of it. Who?"
>internally say fuck it, I've gotten this far "Oh its T..."
>Without missing a beat, my mom goes "Oh... T's girlfriend..."
>astonished by that outright denial

Cont.

>>6708834
A lot longer than I was expecting it to be. Anyway

>Tell Mom "no I like T I'm bisexual"
>Mom laughs trying to save face in front of coworker
>says "Well I don't know about that"
>coworker switches topics really quickly, saying "well that's great that you asked the person you liked out, anon. My fiancé and I are perfect for one another."
>quiet the rest of the event while everyone chatters, still trying to outdrink the coworker
>end up matching the amount of glasses we each took, not sure how many
>we all go to leave, say goodbye, be gentlemanly and shake everyone's hand
>engaged coworker came over and gave me a hug instead
>somehow reassuring
>mom and I drive home, end up discussing politics on the way back
>not another word was spoken about the manner

Fast forward to when I'm in university.

>figure out "oh shit I'm actually gay"
>Met this guy, ended up hitting it off, my first real boyfriend
>keep relationship a secret, but as months go by I realize I gotta tell my mom
>just up and say one night "hey I have a boyfriend now"
>she says "okay just be safe"
>takes me by surprise but I roll with it

I think that other male coworker ended up talking to her about it. She used to be pretty homophobic, and I still think she wants me to end up with a girl, but she's definitely a lot more open to the idea of me being gay.

>>6708219

That's no way to live. But you can throw away your life and tell yourself whatever, it's yours to waste after all

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>>6708219
>I'd rather build my life around a crafted lie
Alone.
>than ruin everything by coming out.
Fixed it for ye!