Grindr is super but do you guys ever flirt IRL?
-if you see a cute guy in public will you make an effort to talk to him?
-do you talk to strangers in bars?
-ever flirt with straight guys?
-is there a difference between flirting with and cruising a guy?
I am otherwise a very confident guy but I can't for the life of me flirt with dudes! I want to get better
>>6641095
I'm considering it, there a really cute (obviously gay) guy who works at a walgreens near me and i'm dying for some cuddles
>>6641095
Flirting with a trainee got me a blowjob at work once
He was flamboyantly gay though so I had kind of a green light to get suggestive with him, without a 'signal' I never flirt
>>6641095
"Hey, I like benis and have benis. Do you like the benis?"
Literally all it takes.
>>6641095
I'm a gay man. I tend to flirt with most people including girls. It's part of my personality. Although I have had to turn quite a few women away, especially when i was a few years younger. I try not to get sexual unless it's a man who i am pretty sure is gay. Although i have definitely accidentally hit on straight men before. Just be friendly and yourself. Use the apps and if you have a gay bar in your area use that. I wish there was a gay bar near me so i don't have to meet gay men through grindr 99.9% of the time.
To answer some of your other questions:
I dont normally talk to strangers in bars, but the few times I've been to gay bars, yes i do talk to strangers.
Ive never successfully cruised a guy, but usually dont try. Grindr is easier and safer for that type of stuff.
>>6641095
no, but I wish someone would initiate that with me ._.. I think I'd make a pretty good follow up
>>6641607
I normally just melt or panic. Which is weird because I am really confident outside of courtship stuff
>>6641132
>obviously gay
How do you tell?
There's heaps of cute guys in my college but I have the gaydar of an old blind woman.
>>6641095
>but do you guys ever flirt IRL?
No, that's dangerous. Liable to - at the least - make things incredibly awkward and uncomfortable, and at most, result in someone getting riled up and proceeding to do something stupid.
>>6642015
>No, that's dangerous. Liable to - at the least - make things incredibly awkward and uncomfortable
But Anon, that's half the fun