Coming out stories -- Cause you can't hide it forever!

>going on a hitleresque rant
>improving your situation in any way

Best case scenario shell have lower expectations

Worst case she won't believe you and think you're crazy or just testing her

>>6610618
So when they say that trans genders are autistic they are right.

>>6610618
>Try to come out as trans
>instead come out as nazi
Great job OP

are you that guy from american beauty?

I'm glad everything went just as planned.

Too bad your plan is retarded.

>>6610618
>Tell Dad I'm gay
>k

My brother thinks gay sex is disgusting and now I'm sad I don't get to get anal violated at family show and tell.

>have sex with a considerably older guy
>tell my parents im gay
> dad loves me no matter what
>mom hates me for a month and we still have issues

great thread

hashaha

its just coming out

its just 2016

>>6611649
>mom hates me for a month and we still have issues
Who the fuck cares? Its not like women are even people.

some asshole spotted me at a fag bar wearing leather jacket like the village people dancing with a guy in new york and told my friend's nephew all about it, cocksucker

>grew up in a homophobic environment
>got bullied, beat up for being gay before I even realized myself
>even friends joke around about it in the usual way but so frequently, that it still kinda hurt at some point
>finally build up enough courage to tell a close friend
>"Wait, you really are gay?"
>"Oh man, I though that was just a joke."
>"Well, sucks for you" *starts laughing really hard*
>proceeds to laugh for a full minute

That was almost 2 years ago, I still don't know how to feel about it.

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>>6611812
damn. is your high school tiny or something, because that's how it was for me in middle school, but once I went to a centralized high school I met actually decent human beings. Hope that happens to you too, bro.

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>tfw in the closet
>tfw biscum
>tfw in long-term committed, monogamous, hetero relationship
is there even a reason I should come out? I mean, I could then openly participate in conversations about attractive men and buttsex, but other than that, no one cares, and it doesn't change anything, correct?
I have such trouble being completely honest with even those closest to me, and I really want to become someone who doesn't lie about anything when the truth won't hurt anyone or will do less damage than a lie.
idk. wut do, senpai?

>>6612003
don't bother, if you're coming out people are expecting something from you, whether it's a boyfriend or a different dress sense or whatever, if you come out and nothing changes it sorta makes everyone think you were just attention seeking

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>came out to a few close mates
>everyone was cool with me being mtf trans
>thought, wow, my parents will react the same way
>come out to parents
>they get genuinely angry at me and threaten to disown me
>say its a thing I had to do cause I lost a bet
>play it off
>go to my room
>check out 4chan

So /lgbt/, how is your day?

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>>6612142
yeah, that's pretty much what I expected. and here I thought coming out was about me, and not other people...
I should probably not tell people my birthday's coming up either.

>>6612166
That damage control.
Did it work tho?
I'm sorry

>>6612142
>implying sexual orientation=specific behavior
fucking oppressive retard homos. coming out is also about letting straight people in your life that someone close to them is also lgbtq and that lgbtq issues are not just something that happen to other people somewhere else, but people close to you, that you care about.
>>6612333
dem trips

>>6612376
>encountering this level of ignant on a queer board
q here stands for queer, which includes such sexualieties as asexual and demisexual, and other identities such as two-spirit and other gender-nonconforming individuals.

>>6612417
so made up things in other words?

>>6612417
asexual isnt lgbt
demisexuality is just autists
two spirit etc. are just trans people

>>6610618
>come out to mom as tranny
>"i'll help you and will never disown you"
>"don't tell your friends, it's embarrassing, they won't accept you"
>"move away when you start hormones, don't pick up meds or make hair removal appointments in this city"
>"don't tell our family, i don't want them knowing, wait until grandma dies and the family goes its separate ways" (she hates them)
>"remember there's a big inheritance that is yours when i die"
>"i still love you though, kiddo, i promise to help you, we're a team"
>fall for it, still go to family functions without coming out to them to not be an embarrassment, mostly done with hair removal, still in boymode cuz need ffs, but barely making enough money to scrape together for ffs and live
>grandma finally dies
>hey mom, so you know that plan we had?
>mom backs out of her end of the deal
>gets pissed when i tell my cousin and some friends
>"i can't deal with this now" any time this is even remotely brought up

How dumb was I? It didn't seem so fucked up at the time.

>>6611935
Nah, really good high school in a rich part of a giant city.

I think I was just prone to being bullied because I had straight As, was shy, impressionable, dressed kinda unusual and was fucked up beyond broken from a terrible childhood anyway.
There were even other even openly gay guys but they didn't get called a faggot when walking down the halls for some reason.

I so badly wish I had a normal nonchalant reaction from my parents like most of you guys, but obviously my coming out had to be made into an extravagant melodrama...

(very long, I apologize in advance)

>be me
>be 14
>going on a cruise around the Bahamas with my family
>having a bomb-ass time, my gayness at a peak checking out all the hot guys from the ship and on the islands
>last night on cruise, ready to let everything sail by and wake up in the morning on a good note
>have to stop by the 24/7 buffet with my parents for a drink
>buffet opens up to pool deck, hundreds of sexy men partying at the pool
>i let my stare linger for too long
>dad notices
>he suddenly asks me why I act so gay, "why are you always like that? what are you, a 'bayot'?" (bayot in tagalog means very campy gay man, basically faggot)
>instead of shrugging off his comments as usual, I sass back because I'm a moody teenager. argument ensues.
>basically, he yells at me in public asking if I'm gay, mom stays silent, I run off to the top deck crying
>at top deck. I look out at the night sea and contemplate suicide
>mom texts me to come back to our bedrooms so I head back
>dad isn't there
>mom comforts me and hugs me. she eventually asks if I actually am gay. I'm too weak to actually tell her and instead start bawling and beating around the bush.
>suddenly, dad opens bedroom door
>I panic
>I bolt past him and run off to the top deck again.
>mom followed.
>she comforts me and encourages me to just tell her
>eventually I do
>(at the time, I knew I was gay and was pretty comfortable and proud of it, but for some reason I thought that playing as the "trapped victim whose prayers never worked" would get more sympathy from her)
>"I-I'm gay... but I hate myself for it... I want to kill myself blah blah angst"
pt 1/2...

>>6613696
pt 2/2
>oops I made her cry too
>we cry together and she tells me that she will love me no matter what
>she eats the helpless-victim narrative with a ladle, and starts telling me about a friend of hers that was apparently gay in high school but ended up marrying a woman
>listen awkwardly and pretend I believe her
>basically she's saying my gayness might just be a phase
>lolbutiwillbegayforever.png
>she holds me some more and then we head back to the room
>at bedroom
>dad is on bed reading a book. still looks a little upset but at least steam isn't coming out of his ears
>kinda overreact my panic and shuffle towards him like a recently traumatized, child war refugee
>can't bring myself to tell him I'm gay so mom does it for me
>he's not as comforting
>some shit happens until he basically forced me to so sign a contract, and agree to some of his conditions
>he said that since I'm gay I'll have to work harder and become valedictorian in high school, as well as being a doctor in a future
>i have to work with it and make an empty promise with him
>everything is awkward after that and I go to sleep

the rest of the trip was mostly silent and no one talked about it afterwards for a while.
now, dad is opening up and is more accepting, but I think my mom is still holding out that I'll turn out to be a good, christian son with a wife and five kids...

oh well. what can I do?

>>6613701
why didn't you get sunglasses so you could stare with stealth? lmao noob.

>>6613720
b-but it was night time anon

who wears sunglasses at night?

>>6613701

Ur Filipino. ..arnt all the boys there gay?

>>6612315

> That hi res Pepe

>>6613791
>tfw that's why I expected them to be more cool with it

filipinos are known to be very christian. most of us are catholic too, I think
I guess my parents were just more on the conservative side

>Call up my liberal friends to tell them something
>Expect them to be understanding because they tolerate all sorts of people
>Come out as a nationalist
>They ask me if i consider blacks born in my country european
>I tell them that a pig born in a barn is not a horse and that they are just mostly unwellcome guests
>My female friend starts crying
>anon are you racist?
>I look her in the eye and say " I don't think i care about niggers enough to hate them, they don't bother me if they stay in their countries"
>Get called a sick nazi fuck

>tfw a guy I know from bungie.net spread the you thought X but Y happened meme

>>6613895
/pol/-anon, I know you're angry right now but if you let me, I can help you blow of some steam. It'll be fun <3

>>6613863

I've been there before. I'm an tall athletic American guy with blue eyes. I got so much ass both male and female it was crazy.

>>6612425
It's all made up, you humongous tard. Words are literally made up.

>>6613999
was this reply supposed to be for me?

>I'm an tall athletic American guy with blue eyes. I got so much ass both male and female it was crazy.

I don't get how that relates but I'll take your word for it anon

>years back, be almost 19
>come home from working late on a saturday
>dad is drinking with my uncle
>dad rarely drinks, but when he does he doesn't drink more than just to get a little buzzed
>uncle however can get verbally abusive and generally an unpleasant alcoholic
>they ask me to sit down with them to chill
>uncle asks me about my sexual conquests
>have a brain fart and tell him the truth that I'm a virigin
>he gets really angry for some reason and offers to bring some really gross 50 year old who sometimes has sex with him
>decline
>he becomes really insistent about me having sex with this gross lady
>WHY THE FUCK NOT YOU GAY OR SOMETHING(the only reason he could think of why a 18 year old virgin wouldn't want to have sex with a disgusting whore willing to have sex with just because my uncle demands it)
>Angrily tell him I don't want to have sex with her
>He calms down, then apologizes for being pushy then leaves a few minutes later
>Dad asks me if i'm alright
>We eventually talk about things then tell him I'm gay
>Doesn't take it too well but calmly tells me he wants me to move out
>The next morning
>I ask him about moving out and stuff
>Tells me he went too far with telling me to go, and then when I told him he was just thinking about the way I could die as a gay person

[spoiler] I still live at home but pay rent. That's more because I'm 25, not gay. They're not too thrilled with it but at least sometimes joke about, which to me is the best possible outcome. [/spoiler]

>come out to mom as bi at 14
>she starts talking about how she never felt attraction to women
>what

She told my dad and neither of them bothered me about it, so I figured they were accepting until

>few years later
>younger sister comes out to me as a lesbian
>reveals that mom told her and our brother not to be gay because "one was already too much to deal with"
>couple more years pass
>parents find out sister is gay unintentionally
>mom becomes depressed
>dad starts pressuring me to get a bf and tells me people are healthier in hetero relationships
>tfw I actually realized I'm a lesbian recently

>>6610618
I never "came out" in the traditional way, and never really saw reason to. It kind of just came to them in time.

One thing though that my parents and family are having problem to deal with, is that I want my relationships be open, since I seem to be poly.

I have open relationship at the moment where we both can have sex with other people, I just hate Im being called as a cheater because of it.

>MtF, been on HRT for a year but still present male
>finally come out to my mom
>she had no idea
>puts on her fake nice voice and tries to talk me out of it
>she asks "do you not like girls at all?"
>tell her i'm bi
>she audibly sighs
>tells me she thinks I'm setting myself up for a bad life and that I'm too young to make reasonable decisions (I'm 20)
>tells me that she hasn't noticed any changes from hormones but that she thinks I shouldn't be taking them or doing anything else "permanent"
>tells me that she'll always love me and that "no matter what you'll always be my little boy"
>seemed okay at the time but then cried for the next two days
>one week later, she hasn't mentioned it since

I'm assuming she's in denial at this point really, it could've been a lot worse though.

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>Be 19 and living with my mom
>Fully aware of my inherent traniness
>Work up the nerve to tell her
>She gets upset as hell but agrees not to tell anyone
>Proceeds to tell everyone, family or not
>Had to leave town because of this
>Haven't been back in years

Yep. That could have gone a lot better.

>>6612166
Sorry mate, but you're either going to commit suicide or come out and get disowned when you're autonomous.

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>Be 20
>Been in therapy for Gender stuff for around 3 months now
>Parents know I'm in therapy but not why
>Scared to come out because my parents are conservative and my mom can be a little crazy
>Decide I want to come out to parent's before starting hrt
>Bring my mom with me to therapist hoping that she can help me explain things to my mom
>At therapist tell mom she's noticeably shocked but seems to be taking it somewhat well
>Genders me tranny but whatever she doesn't know much
>Leave therapist thinking things went better than expected
>Mom tells me I have to tell my dad, nervous but whatever my mom was surprisingly accepting other than saying that I need to experiment more before starting hrt
>Come out to dad the following night over the phone
cont.

>He freaks out on me, tells me no one will ever love me, that I'll be hideous, I'm going to hell etc etc etc
>Well that was horrible
>Get text from my mom the following morning, she's showing her true colors now
>Tells me I'm not this there were no signs (despite the fact that my parents have thought I was gay for years and when I came out to my sister she told me they were debating over whether or not I was transgender)
>Tells me this is just a phase
>Tells me that my friends are manipulating me so they can be gay with me
>None of my friends are gay or trans at this point in time
>Tells me to stop being friends with my closest friend because he's to queer and it's messing with your mind
>Tells me I need to come home because college is brain washing me
>Tells me my christian ex gf is why I'm trans
>Tells me I only feel this way because I was sexually assaulted by my cousin when I was 6
>Basically tells me I'm a freak
>Weeks pass, pretty much refuse to come home for my birthday
>avoid talking to my parent's hoping for things to blow over
>They eventually start to think I gave up on it
>start taking hrt in secret
>4 months hrt and have been growing my hair out for a year and a half
>they're so deep in denial they don't think anything of it

>>6610618
Oh boy here we go:
>worked construction with my dad
>not turnt, but pretty fit. I've always been pretty andro
>Get into a fight about socialism at work
>escalates really hard while we are in a lift
>starts talking about how immature and young I am
>basically bullshitting because he has no arguments that arent complete garbage
>I know better Im older
>Basically talks about how easy I have it when he had to work so hard, his dad was abusive
>I havent talked about the fact I felt trans as far back as 8 years old
>Finally so angry I yell it out at him at work, in front of anyone
>I had to work through all this shit on my own, with no help from you
>he laughs at me and calls me a faggot
>on the ride home says well never work together again
>he made me drop out of highschool to work with him
>fast forward 6 months later
>no money, homeless at 17

Well, I'm 23 now and joining the Navy so theres that. :>

>>6619281
Fuck, dude. Good luck to getting through that. I guess you can always just present male to them even when you've gone full qt-mode.

>family dinner
>Mom, Dad, older sister, older sister's boyfriend and younger brother.
>family dog is hanging out in his spot in the corner of the room
>after we finish eating, I just blurt it out that I'm gay
>Mom smiles nervously, says its good I said it.
>Dad and brother laugh, pointing at my sister
>Sister opens her purse and gives 10 dollars to each of them.
>Sister's boyfriend says his cousin is gay in that "I know one too" kinda way.
>Dog growls at me.

WELP

>>6626953
I don't live with my parents full time and am trying to make my next move to university permanent since I will no longer be on campus. Plus my parents are basically all bark and no bite, like they insult me a lot to attempt to get me to be less "girly" but like I haven't had a real haircut since Jan 2015, I paint my toenails, and occasionally where light makeup around them and they basically do nothing about it.

Idk what they'll do when hrt start being a bit more noticeable beyond making my skin look nice tbqh though

>>6626902
Don't tell me you're a filthy socialist
Being a queer is one thing, being a pinko faggot is another

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I started self medding in secret, and one day during one of my dysphoria trips i was laying in bed and mom comes in to check on me
She asks me what wrong, and i tell her i dobt feel like living anymore. She starts crying.
After awhile she asked me what the pills in my drawer was for. At that point i told her everything and he huged me and told me she loved me all the same
It was the biggest relief of my life

>>6627070
I would describe myself as a futurist. The major problems in society exist as a function of our competition with each other. When technology eliminates scarcity any system other than socialist is just cruel.

I don't believe in a regulated economy, but in theory I also don't believe in economies. It's a necessary distribution platform that's elegant considering our current limitations, but is far from the best possible way of organizing our society.

>talking with IRL friends on discord while playing vidya
>lol fag you literally look like a girl I bet you even take hormones you tranny
>no but I will
>knew it. who else going to play CSGO?

I didn't come out to family though

>See therapist in city in secret for a few months (she was fucking garbage)
>have to stay with my big brother in the city when I go to see her cause the journey is so long
>"Hey [anon], I was worried about what your therapist was for so I googled your steam name and found your tumblr and I want you to know I follow support you."

>Try to tell parents
>I try to bring up trans stuff
>"Bruce Jenner is a fucking pervert. If you were a tranny Id have failed as a parent"

>month later
>have been self medding for a full month
>"[anon] what are these pills for? are you on drugs???"
>tell them everything, including about my suicide attempts when I was in university before I dropped out, and about guy I dated.
>They kick me out.
>Dad throws empty beer bottle at me and seriously cuts up and scars my leg where it shattered.
>Mum cant stop crying and takes 2 weeks off work and just stays in bed.

>3 months since
>Living at a friends house with 0 money and sucking dick from chasers on craigslist so I can buy fem&ms
>My family is shattered. My parents weren't invited to attend my older brother's wedding and my mother has taken up alcohol.

Don't come out. It's the worst meme from this shitty board.

>>6627070
fuck off corporatist c᠎uck

>Talking with my best friend playing dota
>Starts talking about his gay cousin, and how he crossdressed when they were young how that was weird etc
>Mention that I did that and painted my nails and stuff
>And I'm kinda gay..
>He's quiet about it like he didn't know what to say
>Jokingly say I'm gonna get a pushup bra and camwhore for big money
>He laughs and says he'd still talk to me
feels gud

>>6628482
shoulda hid the pills in your laptop case, presuming you have one, especially if your parents are old
my parents rifle through my wardrobe, check under my bed, even behind the bookcase, but they're too technophobic to ever touch my computer stuff lol

>>6628482
Dude, that's a bad rap. Reading some of the stories on this board I can't even understand how people react this way. It's just not in my playbook, I understand it about as much as I'd understand aliens coming from another planet and talking gibberish. Its just so fucked up, even if you don't approve of it how can you just... hate someone instantly for this.

Jesus, hello darkness my old friend. Sorry to hear about your brother m8. He sounds like a cool guy, good luck to you and all the love of a stranger on the internet.

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I actually have a good one.

I always knew I was a filthy tranny from like 8 years old. Had a lot of time to research it and think on it while in middle/high school. So I was pretty well informed and rational about everything.

First people I came out to were my internet friends, my primary friend group. Everyone gets on cam, not regularly, and I get on cam wearing some random girl clothes I had aquired. Extremely nervous, had never crossdressed in front of others before. Did it almost as a joke.
Everyone is instantly like, WOW YOUR SO CUTE. DID YOU GUYS KNOW ANON IS A FUCKING TRANNY. LOOK AT THIS FAGGOT. ARE YOU ON HORMONES?

Everyone was super nice and acted like they always did, we even wen't on Omegle and fucked with 3rd world kids who would think they were chatting with a qt3d and then I would do my best deep black guy voice and they would instantly disconnect.

10/10 though, if my friends hadn't supported me I would probably be very fucked up rn. Having even just one person accept you is a pretty big deal.

>>6631339
>ANON IS A FUCKING TRANNY. LOOK AT THIS FAGGOT
>everyone was super nice

LOL

>>6631419
Not him but if you had real friends you would know that jokingly insulting is being nice and hugboxing is being a fake bitch.

>>6631426
>>6631419
Yea, pretty much this. They are actually honest and real with me, not freaked out and terrified of offending me. That's 10/10. I don't want to be in the hugbox, I want real relationships.

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God some days I wish I'd have your generic soccer-mom parents.
>Know my mum would be completely fine with me being a faggot
>Know my dad wont say shit because he's trying so hard to reconcile with the family
>Sisters literally just Facebook-tier so they wont give a fuck
>But I never have any excuse to mention it and I don't want to look like a pushy faggot
>For the past three years I've been trying to find a way to tell my parents I'm a faggot but it never arises in conversation

Jesus fuck, just kill me now.

>>6631468
Just wait until you have a serious BF and then mention something about your BF casually and be like, WTF YOU DIDNT KNOW??

ez mode.

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>>6631532
Silly anon, that's implying I ever leave the house

Honestly though, I'm likely going to slowly go full /femgen/ when I can get sustainable income and then do what you said.

Also considering the OP
>Few years back
>Close to graduation
>Hanging out with usual friends, half of them are full-blown bogans
>Somehow start talking about the one ultra-edgy gay kid who's in our class
>Just mention "Yeah fuck off, I'm a faggot and that's not how I act at all, he's doing it for attention"
>Literally nobody gave a shit
>It's just become a shitty inside joke to make me sound like your average ultra-conservative grandparents whenever someone mentions anything to do with being gay around a stranger
>The one guy who wasn't there when I told everyone I like dick legitimately believed I wanted to burn all gays at a cross for a whole year
Everything turned out the best possible way there.

In the middle of an unrelated argument, not sure how it came up, my parents shouted WHATTA YA GAY OR SOMETHING? and I was just like, 'Yeah'.
They both started to cry, dad asking what he did wrong and my mom telling me that it was my choice to make, but I'd have to 'deal with the consequences'.

>>6616128
Is it customary in the country you live in, paying rent and other stuff to your parents after a certain age? In Turkey they would always look after you unless you don't want them to or come out

>was sorta sure that I was trans
>mention it to friend
>he's chill with it
>mention it to sister, not ready to tell parents
>has a full fucking meltdown about how she doesn't like change
>she tells parents
>that evening parents talk to me about it
>they want me to explain what the flying fuck i'm talking about
>freak the fuck out, not sure how to explain it to them
>next morning tell them that i was completely full of shit
>mostly to calm them down, but i convinced myself that i was full of shit
>tranny feels go away over the next few months
>dad makes fun of me in the first couple of weeks
>this week the feels come back
>currently annoyed at myself because i nearly did it

>>6631652
In America, we like to kick our kids out after they've graduated high school.
If they stay at home after that, they're either away at college, or paying 'rent' or 'helping around the house', that kind of thing.
Honestly, I think it's to a point now where a lot of kids are living at home free right now, after high school, but I really don't think either party is comfortable with it, it's so internalized.

Like me, I'm out of high school, have a job, and am trying to get back into a college. If I'm planning on leaving for college soon, it doesn't make sense to try and move out with shit credit, on minimum wage, where a one bedroom apartment is like 650$ a month, nothing included. (And I don't live in the city.) Even knowing that, it makes me feel like shit to live in my parents household.

I work nights and stay up late when I'm off, partially so it feels like I'm the only one living here, since I barely see them.

>>6631652

I'm Bosnian, actually.


But we live in America and my credit is awful. My parents have it arranged with their mortgage company that I'm legally classified as a tenant for them. That way the money I pay them is by the books and it can help my credit rating

>>6612649
That sounds more like a plot of a film a la Flowers in the Attic than something that really happens to real people but then I recently read the book A Child Called It so I know sometimes people's lives can be like drama series/movies.

>>6613895
>>6610618
I swear, coming out as a nazi sounds like lot more fun than coming out gay/trans.

>>6631779
I wish she would have just outright disowned me instead of this mind game stuff. She wouldn't even give me hair care advice because she said she didn't want to influence me and be blamed for it later, which is a total projection on her part. I figured it out on my own, but damn. By the time I get ffs now, I'm pretty sure I'll be dead inside.

>>6631779
I think my mom has Borderline Personality Disorder.

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>Be playing minecraft
>Tell friend on server (that I know irl) that I'm gay
>He gives unnatural response
>"I don't judge"
>wellokthen.jpg
>Skip ahead a couple of years
>On group chat with same friend + other friend
>All just watching youtube and whatever
>Decide I'm ready to tell other friend
>"I'm either gay or bi, but I'm definitely not straight" (I was starting to shift a bit - this was all during puberty)
>Other friend responds "Oh, cool. I'm bi too."
>Initial friend seems to have forgotten
>Sends comical image and acts as if he didn't know
>umm.png
>Skip ahead to about 2 weeks ago
>High school reunion thing
>First friend I told and I having a debate about the superior chan
>I explain to him that 4chan's /r9k/ is my new home and it's pretty good aside from the trap thread spamming
>"Did you just grin slightly when you said trap thread?"
>"Are you into dicks or something, anon?"
>Friend appears to have forgotten again
>mfw

Hes a history student; with a memory like that, how come he hasn't flunked all of his classes?

>>6631906
Holy shit dude you act like being gay is such a big deal, nobody cares enough to have to confess it like you killed someone, if they ever ask just tell them and so be it.

>>6631960
It's not that; I'd just at least expect the guy to remember.
It's almost as if he doesn't believe it, or doesn't want to believe it. I'd be OK with the first, but if he can't stand the thought of talking to someone who isn't heterosexual, I'd be a bit concerned.

>>6631980
Well, I wouldn't worry. Just act normally until he directly tells you that he has a problem with you.

>>6631759
>I'm Bosnian, actually.
Hey, so am I, though I'm a tranny and living in the old country. Dad's a muslim and hates "faggots" mom's catholic and sort of neutral. She occasionally calls me cute and says she wouldn't mind me being gay but never says anything about being trans plus she pushes me to be more masculine.

Weird that our diaspora would try and force their kids to act like Anglos, though. Diaspora I know always acts like they're back in Bosnia but just like the higher income and better living standard in the west.

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>be discrete masc fag
>only hook up with other discrete masc fags
>great sex with zero drama
>no chance of being exposed ever

I'll be over here "in the closet" - otherwise known as being a respected member of society. Have fun "coming out" and purposefully alienating everyone you know over identity politics. I hope instantly turning yourself into a walking joke for the rest of your life is worth it.

>>6632121
>I hate myself and everyone else should to

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>be 15 or so
>talking with my mom about various things, life stuff
>tone gets kinda serious
>anon, are you gay?
>deny deny deny deny
>conversation dropped

That's about it.

In my defense I just wasn't sure at the time and felt "no" was still an honest answer. She wouldn't be upset, she's enough of a liberal she might secretly be happy. My dad would be disgusted and uncomfortable but would probably do his best to make it not obvious. He wouldn't hate me for it though.

Either way they've stopped asking about everything related, including the dreaded "any cute girls on campus?", and I can't quite make myself bring it up. They clearly know already anyway, and I know for a fact around that time they were checking my skype when I left my computer unlocked and using the router to keep an eye on my internet activity.

In any case I wish I hadn't missed the opportunity to come out when asked so directly, especially considering I'm already lucky enough to have parents who almost certainly don't mind.

As for friends, I'm not "out" to many of them just cause I don't bring it up unless it's relevant. The few who do know never really cared one way or the other, though I do sometimes catch people being suddenly more interested in being friends with me after finding out, which is weird.

>>6632121
>hook up
>respected member of society
You already are a walking joke.

>be closet bi tranny
>dad asks me several times if I'm gay throughout highschool
>"I don't believe in the gay lifestyle, but you're your own person and you can make your own choices and you'll always by our son"
>"no-no dad, I just"
>in college
>parents still think I'm gay
>dance around using genders when they ask me when I'm going to get married or start dating
>mom tells me about cute guys my age who she thinks I would "get along with"
>both are anti-trans
>talk about men molesting childeren because of trans bathrooms
>dad's favorite southpark episode is the trans dolphin one
>attack helicopter style memes every time a trans person is on the news
>"you'll always by our son"

tfw my life

>>6632237
*be our son

>>6613754
I do
so I can watch you weave and breathe your storylines.

>>6632069
Of all my cousins and balkan friends I'm the only one who didn't go for a STEM field and I get shit on by their parents all the time, my parents were always super supportive of what I want to do and my weirdness over the years, so I think they were used to "defending" me

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>>6631906
Eh, people forget it. But I don't blame them, I don't expect others to know everything about my private life. One asked me if I have ever seen gay porn (this was in a context of random other shit, nothing weird in it) and I replied "Yeah, like every second time I jack off?" and it certainly wasn't the answer he wanted....

>>6632237
Lol I loved that episode
Tbh just come out as gay and then trans whenever you feel ready. That should get them off your back until you're comfortable.
That way you can let them down a bit first. And then all the way later.

>>6610618
It's like the tenth time I came out to people but a few hours ago I did it to an old skype friend. Not even webcam or anything. I feel like this shit was like 10 more awkward this way than irl ones.
>topic goes on relationships
>"wait, how long have you been without a girl, dude?"
>"19 years."
>"...you ARE 19. Wait are you gay or something?"
>[15 seconds of silence]
>"Oh wow what the hell..."
[insert awkward conversation here with a faggotry-illiterate person]
And then we did a csgo mm. And got rekt because we were both distracted and couldn't even info correctly.

>Couple weeks ago
>I'm very much leaning towards bisexual, but still in the curious phase.
>Have installed Grindr just for finding someone in my city to try.
>Attend a political conference in a different city, have only just met some of the people there.
>In the general Whatsapp chat someone guy posts a screenshot of Grindr.
>Asks if all these people are from the conference.
>My face is there.
>Someone the next day: "Huhuh, don't know if you know it but you got outed in the chat"
>Yeah I know

Since most people use their sexual orientation as reasonable part of their identity, it is immediately assumed that it is also of mine. So I'm a bisexual guy over there.
Don't know if I should come out to housemates, friends and family. Seems very unnecessary, I'm still not even 100% sure, might just do a "oh hai I also like guys" when I come home with a boyfriend.

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>be me
>18
>literally this year
>have really close relationship with a girl and a boy
>we're literally the three stooges but with dick jokes and autism
>we recently began making out because why the fuck not
>kinda complex not-relationship now
>one day invite them over to my house
>we get at it as usual
>dad walks in as i grope femmie and kiss boy
>what-the-fuck-desu.jpg all over his face
>"...can you leave?"
i can't bring people over anymore

>>6627081
>he huged me
wow you just misgendered your mom anon.

>>6638732
What where you doing at the RNC?

>>6639122
I'm a eurofag, so nah.

I'm not out or out of the house yet
My initial plan is to get the post hs stuff over and done with and then move to Vancouver or Toronto and never see family again.

>Be mtf
>been dressing andro since 11th grade
>Hanging out with cousin. We're going to the club.
>Guy gives her Molly, she gives me some Molly.
>Love this girl and wanna tell her everything.
>Spill guts.
Went well. Good feels all around.
>Years later get on hrt.
>start looking more and more girly. Haven't told a soul after cousin.
>borderline full time. Look like girl, dress like girl, act like girl. Parents take notice.
> whispers behind my back.
> one day driving with mom.
>she brings up I'm starting to look really girly, and if there's anything I wanna tell her.
Fuckit.jpeg
>"yeahh I'm trans."
>she tells my sisters, dad, aunts whole world.
>Everyone is cool with it. Pronouns used, no preaching.
Life is good

>24
>still havent come out or even had a bf beides longterm smallshit
>dad doesnt talk to me anyways since divorced mom and mom reinstates how she always loves her kids and is a genuinely amazing person
>more afraid of what coworkers and friends would think of me since I'm not a cute/fashionable gay and just some ugly shitposter

At this point I feel like I should just supress my feelings altogether and see if it goes away

>>6626902
>tranny
>socialist

I'm lmaoing at your life right

>>6638874
aw cute feels, apart from the last bit
hope it works out for you folks

>>6640254
It won't. Better than going hon-mode though.

>>6632121
>will never have a boyfriend or fall in love

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>4 years HRT
>Came out to some friends that I'm trans because we're very close and it felt weird not telling anybody for so long
>They take it great
>Week later
>"Have you started Testosterone, anon?"
>She thought I was FtM
>"No I already transitioned"
>"Oh, so you have started"
>"Four years ago"
>"But you look like a girl"
>"I started estrogen four years ago."
>"..."
>"..."
>"YOU'RE MTF? NO WAY"

I was honestly flattered. She told everyone else later and they all started gushing over me. It was so nice.

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>>6610618
>Be me
>Already "out" with online friends; prepare autistic anime convention meetup where I will go as a grill
>(Seemed like a low pressure way to go around in public as a grill without much attention and I'm short/thin/Asian easymodo)
>In my dorm room on campus, the last day of my senior year before finals week
>Just picked up delivery of some clothes and cosplay stuff
>Put it on, trying out thigh high boots and yoga pants with a nice blouse and stuff
>About to join in on weekly autism tabletop session with online friends
>Decide to get insanely high beforehand with "extremely powerful" weed my best and only irl friend—who had previously attempted to drug and rape me a couple months prior—gave me
>(Online group tended to complain about me getting high before games, so my plan was to get high before the game and when they ask me to not be high I would reply: "Don't get high? I smoked 35 minutes ago")
>After using a gravity bong made of matryoshka gatorade bottles and using almost everything I had, I sit down in my chair in front of my laptop and the lights in the room and beneath the buttons on my keyboard begins lens flaring harder than the Star Trek reboot
>It feels as though my rib cage is playing pong with my heart, but in slow motion and with frame ripping
>I try to think, but I can't, because all my thoughts are in some amniotic baby language that I can't understand; thinking in it was like snorting pepto-bismol mixed with raw sewage
>Get plastic bag my new clothes in and begin vomiting
>Unable to stand, think, see
>Set bag on lap and flop hands onto keyboard and type out of muscle memory in online chat
"this isn't weed"
"i'm dying"
"help"
>Type in my name, university, address, etc
>Ask them to call police
>In the meanwhile, I try to mentally keep myself from fainting or from having my heart explode
>What felt like hours later, the police arrive and enter my apartment

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>>6641487
>I have a roommate who let them in, (they knocked politely before entering), and he's told to go back to his room
>They approach my room and ask to open my door
>I oblige them as I continue to vomit into a plastic bag
>There's a whole horde of paramedics and campus security, and as they enter I say:
"I swear this isn't what it looks like, it's for a cosplay"
>and start bragging about how "clean" my OD is because everything's contained in this nice bag and I'm still somehow lucid enough to talk to them despite feeling as though I was experiencing the bombardment of solar radiation and speed of the earth hurtling through space
>They tell me not to be embarrassed and give me a special bag to vomit in so that's cool
>After ensuring that, yes, I'm currently OD'ing, they pick me up under the arms and carry me out of the dorm
>People are outside gawking and I use the vomit bag to cover my face
>We use the elevator to go down, and while waiting I converse with one of the cops about how surprised I was that my heels fit because I thought it was going to be one of those things where you buy a size that's too small because you want to fit into them but won't, but instead I just actually fit into them
>When the elevator arrives on my floor, there are a few people in there who are clearly confused at the person who probably looks like a streetwalker getting carried out of the dorm complex by a gaggle of cops
"You get a free story to tell people" I say in my regular guy voice
>They nope the fuck out of the elevator
>I get dragged through the lobby of the dorm, where a good number of people are currently lounging, dressed up in women's clothing
>Get placed in an ambulance and sent to the hospital
>Things get hazy from there as they administer drugs to stabilize me from my whacked out heart rate and blood pressure and suppress the vomiting
>At some point, my parents arrive to pick me up
>Apparently I told them I had planned to run away and go stealth when I graduated

>>6641538
>"You get a free story to tell people" I say in my regular guy voice
This is the funniest thing in the universe. I don't think I'd be able to keep a straight face if I were carrying you.

>>6641487
>>6641538
This story is hilarious and all, but as a DM with players who get high or drunk and waste my and the other players' time, get your shit sorted anon.

On the other hand, I went girlmode for the first time at a con as well. It's a nice environment to start, like dipping your feet in a pool before you get in.

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>>6641538
>>6641487
Long story short: I nearly killed myself with notweed in order to make a bad Watchmen reference and ended up getting dragged out of my dorm by police officers while wearing portions of a cosplay in front of my peers and then ended up having my parents come see me in the hospital only to find me in women's clothing and so addled by the hospital cocktail that I divulged my master plan to transition and disappear from the earth to them

Things have been awkward since then, especially when my underaged Asian lesbian cousin who's 17 but literally looks 12 tried to rape me after I confided in her that I was trans

So my success with coming out has been minimal

>>6641448
Do you have an androgynous name or something?

>>6641697
No, they assumed I hadn't started using it yet, I think.

>>6610618
>be 14
>come out as FTM to parents
>'well okay'
>tell me if I want to transition I have to sort it all out myself
>be too terrified to sort it out

>few years later, finally sorting out appointments
>parents get really mad as they realise it's not a phase
>mum threatens to disown me
>dad threatens suicide

Friends have all been fine with it though, most still call me by female pronouns but I go by an androgynous name now

>>6610618
>be me, bi ftm
>talking this and that with my mother about a year ago
>timetofuckupmylife.png
>mention my female crush
>"so you like... girls?"
>abort mission abort mission ABORT MISSION
>"haha what no, it's just a phase and I don't find girls attractive at all, she's just an exception"
>"good, I was getting ready to beat it out of you"
>tfw I know she would
>always go into full on denial when she comments on my lack of femininity since

No coming out for me. Fuck that shit. I'm getting a dergee and then I'll scram.

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>be me, 18
>ready to come out as bi
>family would have no problem with it at all
>still embarrassed to discuss sexual and personal things with parents
>decide to come out in a facebook post because I don't want to do it in person
>subsequently hurt their feelings for not going to them first
>mfw I done fucked up

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>>6642678

>continue to fuck it up by posting on taiwanese hormone-simulation image forums instead of telling them that you were nervous

>coming out as bi
but why