Im a 28 year old ftm and a virgin because imagining someone touching my genitals disgusts me so much i panic. I was the same with my boobs but theyre gone. Ive been hit on a lot, i love flirting, and im horny a lot, but its just not happening. Theres a girl at work id love to be with, and she tries.
Is this normal for trans people, or am i extra fucked up?
>>6608736
I always thought it was normal because I'm exactly the same way as you. I had a few relationships in the past that partly aggressively tried sex with me but it just didn't work at all. It's not enjoyable for me to get even think about my genitals, so I'd rather not get touched there. I could also never stomach being penetrated and strap-ons just remind me of what's wrong even more. I just ID as asexual now because it's easier, even though I have no idea if that might maybe change after phallo.
>>6608777
Same guy- if you look at ftmg or generally other ftms online though, or generally other trannies, most seem to somehow be okay with sex. I just don't understand how they could be, at all.
>>6608777
I feel the same about strap-ons. And the other stuff. But i dont think i could be sexy or whatever presenting a strap-on to my partner. Feels like a joke.
It's a thing yeah. It took me a long time and required a lot of trust. And I have to be determined to make the sex part work. I need to put my body out of my mind and focus on just the senses. It's a bit of a mess, but my gf is very patient. I'm lucky to have her.