Do you ever lose hope of finding a boyfriend, /lgbt/?

>>6597803
everyday

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>>6597803

Yes. What I would give to have another chance to make different choices.

>>6597803
I think the main thing I dislike of not having a bf is that my friends get to do yearly vacations and camping and whatnot and I'm stuck by myself and have nobody to do anything with other than go out for drinks and such. I even have a hard time finding someone to go to movies with because all my friends go with their gf's and gays are basically women 90% of the time so they don't watch normal movies so I can't even find a date to go with either.

Every single day

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>>6597803
I never had any hope in the first place. As soon as I realized I was gay I also realized I was going to live one very lonely life.

I don't expect things from people I haven't met yet. I know, it's strange.

All the fucking time but I recently met someone and we instantly clicked.

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>>6601104
Cheers anon. I hope your thing ends up better than mine.

I never had any to begin with.

>>6597803

Nope, only for those who make these threads everyday.

I have, and I've learnt to live with it. I don't expect someone to deal with the shit-show I am anymore, so I continue being my own shit-show. It has improved my quality of life immensely.

Nah. I get laid often enough but haven't had a boyfriend in almost two years. So it's not like I am exactly unattractive.

It's just that I have nothing in common in the tiny gay dating pool where I live. The nearest city is full of classist, elitist douchebags who only date people who wear designer brands. Everybody else is either impossible to find or looking for a hook up.

tfw when grindr hookup became your bf
>super happy

I wish I could lose hope of finding a boyfriend
If I lost hope, I'd stop caring about finding a boyfriend.
It's because of having hope that I suffer, I keep hoping and hoping, putting myself out there, but love never comes, no matter how hard I try, but having hope won't let me quit, and I'm feeling really tired and I really want to give up.
If I had no hope I could stop kissing and cuddling thin air when I masturbate (daily) and break into tears as I snap out of it and realize nobody's there, and nobody will ever be

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>find perfect bf, handsome/10, sexy, kinky & fun (i have never so much in common with someone before; thinking about him everyday so much that it drives me crazy etc)
>live 1000 miles away
welp

>>6601941

Fucking disgusting faggot.

It won't last long. You're all the same - craving hookups nonstop until you breathe your last breath.

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>>6607783
i dont know i think its going to last a while, i mean he just broke my ass in properly(he's over 9 (thousand) inches) and i know how to cook
>he aint going no where

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>>6607712
>wouldn't walk 500 more

Filthy casuals won't travel two British isles for pootietang

>live in Florida
>get messages from cuties a lot
>"So uh...want to go out sometime?"
>"No I'm just visiting, I leave tomorrow."

IF YOU'RE VISITING SOMEWHERE, DON'T MESSAGE THE LOCALS

>>6597803
im gross fat and ugly

>>6607712
>hes dating a girl

>>6597803
What is this from?

There can be no hope in this hell. No hope at all.

>>6608172
Single Fist Guy

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Yes.

Every guy I presumed to be gay turned out to be straight.

It's just so fucking hard to find someone your age who isn't closeted and is gay.
10% gay? my fucking ass.

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>>6597803
all the time OP. But you gotta stay determined Frisk!

>>6608127

That's hot.

>>6608172
How do they have sex? The robot doesn't have a dangle.

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>>6608660
It's a special upgrade.

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Pretty much yes. Being KV Virgin, robot, and loser at 20 tells me that I'm doomed. I can't even properly talk to normal people, let alone gays. Some time ago I managed to talked to a guy and I clicked with him so fast. He's extremely QT and robot autistic tier like myself and I sincerely thought this was the one. But next day he stopped answering at all.

>>6608821
>>6608660
>implying robo twink would top

especially when I'm older, and don't look half way as cute anymore.

>>6608492
It's like 0.06-0.08% actually

>>6597803
Hope? Nope.
Interest? Absolutely.
The fantasy is nice, but the reality is not.

>>6598241
What kind of choices?

>>6610843

Every choice you can make over the course of your lifetime, including the everyday ones.

>>6608492
>that one guy you thought was gay and you had a crush on turned out to have a girlfriend

RIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

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>>6597803
>Spend 3 years in high school looking for a date
>Each year somehow come across a gay/bi guy I'd like to date, try my hand at getting them interested
>Fail
>Senior year (18)
>End up with 2 guys I could date
>One of which is an old friend who I was a bit out of touch with, but who had come out and I had very good chances with
>One of which would've been easy since he asked me out, but he was really low quality. Like, drinking, smoking, and drugs. Nice intentions, nice guy, just was -that- type of gay guy
>The hookup kinda guy, but who wanted an actual relationship
>Made the right choice with choice 1
>Never broken up with him, he's super sweet, and I helped him go from looking like a 5/10 to an 8/10
>He has decent taste in stuff and doesn't talk like a 5 year old through texts like the other guy
God I am so glad I made the right choice. If you aren't straight edge, engage in hookups, and don't have the mental capacity above or near your age don't bother asking anybody out. Please.

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>That guy you know is straight but he's so cute and nice and perfect that it hurts you to not be able to ask him out
I'm playing the long run with this one, hoping I can convince him to switch teams.

>>6611573


that guy could be me

i wanna kill myself but i used to be 7/10 and i want to end it all right now

youre really lucky

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>>6611608
Aww it's okay. Do you want a pal to talk with? I like being a shoulder and an ear for anons who are lonely. If so drop a kik, but it's late where I am, so I'll message you in the morning, assuming you're interested.
Chin up, /fit/, good hygiene, and make some connections to find some quality gay men. You can do it! It all starts right now, not with a decision but with action!

>>6611616

i dont have a kik but my skype is grady sosbee

we can talk some time later on im really drunk right now

>>6608172
One Punch Man.

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i still have some hope but i still dont know how to get one.
even a qt online bf would be enough for now

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>>6597803
I don't remember when was the last time I had some sort of hope. Needless to say I am confirmed to be a lost cause and will probably die as a virgin.

I never had any hope.

LUL i dont even know how to get a boyfriend

>>6608538
stop memeing me

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I just want a nice dude to tell me I look pretty and hold me, not much more than that.

>>6611625
I dunno if its Skype acting weird but I can't find you

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>>6597803
Yes, always, specially in 2 cases.

First, when seeing my crush and he denied me already because he's straight.

Second by watching amateur couple sex, I look at it and it looks so romantic and confortable to have someone.

>>6601487
wew lad

>>6611573
>straight edge

Hard left

>>6601941
Ikr almost 2yrs
Have hope all, they are out there

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I got spanked twice and carried to a car last night by a married man in front of his fiance

felt his hard dick when he hugged goodbye

i am swimmin in cock but my sex drive is kind of shit now

>>6608188
same

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i'm actually doing pretty good at ignoring this. as long as i don't think about it i'm fine.

but the loneliness is setting in right now. i shouldn't have thought about it. i screwed up

>implying I'm even allowed to hope

>>6611591
You're going to break your own heart and get depressed.
Don't do it anon

>>6616758
Me too. I don't think about it at all, begin to believe I don't need it...

Then I see a cute gay couple in love and I start to cry

your all faggots

>>6617197
r u me

>>6597803
Love is emergent; if you go looking for it you won't find it.

>>6623847
yea, better sit at home and play vidya

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31, will be 32 in a few months.

Committed to solitude at this point.

Don't want a Grindr hookup. I'd have liked to have had intimacy - some kind of mutual emotional honesty with someone.

That's never going to happen. Every person I've extended it to has either burned me, or it was the wrong person to begin with.

All the lifting, dieting, shaving, preening and pruning, posting enticing pictures of my torso or ass, trying to put on muscle, whatever - none of it "fixes" anything. In the end, the only thing that can "fix" you is yourself.

Best way I know to fix things at this point is to stop and just be content with being alone for the rest of my life.

>>6611573
>tfw straight edge and vegetarian
>tfw would rather cut myself everywhere and jump into a pool of 20M NaOH than hook up
>tfw mental capacity is significantly above that of my own age
>Still a permavirgin because no other gay people I know are like this
Anon, why do you lie to us?

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>>6597803
No, because I have 3 bfs

>>6624174
i eat meat and have a drink every now and then, could you live with that?

>>6624174
why would u want to date some insufferable

>>6624163
why have people burned you?

>>6623847
>Let's not do anything and hope guys just fall on your lap.

Great strategy.

If you want to find someone you have to be relatively proactive.

>tfw pretty cute (according to a lot of people apparently)
>tfw no issues finding people into me
>tfw my shitty personality kills any interest they had in me before anything happens
>tfw rejection issues so there's only so much of it i can take before i jump back into the isolation cycle again

I just find it so hard to talk to people

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>>6624314

People want what they want. I couldn't give him what he wanted. Wouldn't have mattered if I had 10, 20, 30 lbs more muscle. Maybe if I had a giant dick, but that's not something I can change regardless of effort.

He wanted something I couldn't give him and he's long gone, so nothing left but the feelings of inadequacy. You try as hard as you can for some people - within reason of course as to not cling or smother them. But when even that isn't good enough, it's discouraging.

Just seems like a lot of wasted effort. Keeping anything alive for him feels like wasted effort. He's gone and will never be returning. I'm stuck here in this place. Felt like he was such a special unique snowflake - really I did. Definitely a bad case of oneitis where he just wanted to fuck and get fucked by people - men and women.

I loved him but I was not loved in return. It's hardly uncommon.

Going through all of that again from the beginning with someone feels like too much to bear, so I'd better just get used to being alone.

>>6624299
Yes. I'm perfectly fine with any diet my hypothetical partner has, just so long as they:
>Aren't a raging alcoholic
>Don't smoke regularly
>Don't do drugs (like meth, heroin, cocaine, etc.)
>Don't try to make me eat meat/cook meat for them/drink alcohol/smoke/do drugs

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>>6624403

>>6616284
wow anon lewd

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>>6624163
31 myself. Learning to cope with the fact that discontent is a forever thing. Every day is Monday. My revised dream for life consists of equilibrium and full English breakfasts.

>>6613058

Would I be lying if I called you pretty?

>>6625253
Can someone explain the webm?
Or give a link to the story?

>>6625315

Pain never goes away. It actually hurts more as you get older.

Age just makes you tougher, bitter, and more jaded so you don't care as much the longer you go.

>>6625372
Father of suicidal son who can't get a job (so he's working the front of the family convenience store). Father is disappointed in him and says something like "you might as well go ahead and kill me because you're such a fuck up." and drops loaded gun pointed at himself after showing his son where to shoot him in the heart.

Son picks up gun with no hesitation and shoots himself instead, parents chimp out like good little animals.

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god i've turned 20 last month without ever so much as holding hands with a guy i don't even fucking know where to start with this shit

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>>6625396
That's horrible.
The Gore on /b never gets me and this vid didn't. But the stories behind shit like this always get me.

>>6597803
A long time ago.

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>>6597803
yeh

It's not even that i'm particularly unattractive, or hyper fem or hyper masc or anything. I'm from one of the most conservative cities in the U.S. (((*cough Jacksonville FL cough*))) and I go to school in a college town where everyone who is LGBT that I come in contact with has either been way crazy clingy (which just isn't for me) or been some frat dude that really just wants to fuck. Legitimately frightened that I won't find someone who will make me happy and I'll make them happy.

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>>6597803
I gave up when people only dated me as "pranks" or "jokes."

Seeing couples being happy in general just adds salt to the wound.

>5/10.
>No Hope.
>Only Thing That Stopped Me Killing Myself Yet Is Yaoi.
>I Capitalize Every Word And I Can't Stop.

>>6597803
Finding a boyfriend isn't all that difficult.

Keeping one is the real problem.

1 Step At A Time, Finding One Is Enough Of An Achievement.

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>>6597803
yes he's called vodka and i spend time with him every night

>>6597803
all the fucking time

29, gay, 6/10
I have my life together in every respect except my love life, it's been 4 years since I've had a bf which longest period of being single since i was 18. Hope is fading.

Pretty much given up at this point - permavirginity isn't that bad, right?:
>9/10
>18 years old
If I haven't managed to find one by now, I'm guessing it won't get better in the future. I just want a qt 4-6/10 to hang out with and watch movies/read while cuddling.

Hell, I don't even know where to start looking for gay people, let alone bf.

>25, never had a proper bf
>over 2 years since I had sex
>not good looking at all and getting uglier
>no initiative
>boring
>no hobbies, passions, or real interests
>no money
>passive as fuck
>low libido
>bad at sex anyway
>very anxious
>closeted

I could go on. There is no hope and there never was.

im a fat retard, I dont have much hope

>>6625396
Did the guy die? Can the story be found somewhere?

My first and last boyfriend died in 2008, I still didn't think I'm ready for another relationship

>>6631256
>ywn cuck anon's late bf

>>6631261
>implying you can cuck the dead
>implying his bf wouldn't want anon to have a happy, fulfilling life

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>>6598241
This, so fucking much, damnit! I was dating this girl for almost 2 years but her roommate was this gay kid, so fucking QT, we got along so well playing vidya and hanging out when partying over at her house. I spent more time with him than her I wish I would have dumped her and made a move. I was to afraid of my desires to do anything about it and i think about it now at least once a day and want to scream.

Had a bf once, not any more, no one else has appealed to me in the slightest since...

>>6631271
Thanks..

>>6617186

You're generalizing. I'm straight, but I wouldn't mind having a bf if we got along well together.

>guy starts acting interested and getting close
>Brain: Welp time to fuck it up!!

>>6633167

Literally me in every social situation.

>>6624174
Maybe if you weren't such a pretentious cunt it wouldn't be a problem.

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>suffer from horrible social anxiety/depression, too scared to even start therapy
>become almost complete shut-in because of it
>no friends and no hope of a relationship

welp, I guess looking at pictures of cute couples online will have to do

>>6634677

Me too.

>>6633504

>>6630357
hey anon

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>repressed homosexuality for years
>finally accept gay feels
>realized I hit gay death years ago
>no one is interested ever
FML

>>6633655
>Watch my diet for health reasons
>Tell a chemistry joke because I have a weird sense of humour
>State a fact in relation to what the previous anon said
>"Ur just pretentious"
I'm not even going to bother. Just... fuck you and about 90% of everything that exists, seriously.

>>6634845
H-hey...
Do you know where they hide the bf?

>waste most of my life being an obese shut in
>start seriously fixing myself losing weight and gaining friends
>still never met any gay people irl
>still no bf
Was it all for nothing?

>>6636554
how old are you? also maybe move to a bigger city

>>6597803
The question seems misguided.
Having hope is the rarity.

>>6636565
19 so still hope on that front. I'm working on enlisting in the US Navy so I can finally leave this southern hell hole. I'm just worried that I've wasted my efforts on something that won't ever happen.

>>6597803
Can bald guys be sexually alluring?
Are there people who don't mind balding?
Do tops willing to fuck bald guys exist?

>The one gay guy where I live is much older than me
>Can't drive
>Don't work
>I've not left the house in a week
>Last time I left the house was to get a haircut, before that I hadn't left in two months
>I'm a 8/10 somedays or a 4/10 others
>The only relationship I was in was online
Just fucking kill me

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>>6597803
fucking faggots i tell you hwat

>>6636673

I'd fuck a bald guy.

>I'm bald.

>>6636618
Also trapped in a small town in the south. Shit is horrible.
>>6636688
I feel your pain, anon.

I think it'll happen someday. Rarely do I pursue a guy unless I know he's gay beforehand but I do give guys a chance if they ask for a date. As long as they aren't extremely overweight. Plan to move out of Oklahoma soon so maybe the dating pool will open for me.

>>6637215
>Also trapped in a small town in the south.
Where anon?

>>6637215
Beat's living in a Scandi country like me. Most gay guys are flamboyant sizequeens, trying too hard to be a normie married with kids old guy or just weirdos. Where are the friendly cute guys that I can play video games and cuddle with?

>>6637344
Kentucky, seems like where I live everyone is over 50 and really religious. I have no hope of even considering dating or anything until I get out of here.

>>6637472
You have it worst off than me I'm in Georgia which tends to be one of the better southern states still shit though.

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>>6636163
Not that guy but you really are pretentious m9

>>6637472
>>6637570
Although I'm in Oklahoma, I imagine both are worse than here. The open, often encouraged homophobic slurs and such do get tiring and the religious overtones for everything is just as exhausting to hear.

>>6637215
>trapped in a small town in the south.

You're not alone.

Georgia here. And not Atlanta or Savannah so go figure it might as well be BFE.

>>6637215
Live in hillbilly part of Texas, i know your pain

>>6637710
Where you at fellow Georgiafag

>>6637928
So East or West Texas?

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>>6637378
>play video games and cuddle with
If only.

i fall for people who are as successful and intelligent as me (academic rivals in general, always #2 and develop feelings for #1) . Of course all of them turn out straight, %99.9 of the gays are stupid fags who cant even /sci/, and interested in tumblr politics, /fa/ and /fit/, all of which are for people with lots of free time and not preoccupied with anything worthy.
> tfw you're probably one of the most academically talented gay guys in the freaking country and desperate to find a guy with whom you can have a noncasual stimulating talk. im seriously sick of seeing (insert ancient hipster culture here) literature and lib arts majors.

>>6637378
I want that too

but I'm so shy, sometimes I feel like there is a boy like me but I won't meet him because he's a boy like me

I'm from NZ so it's the same here

I try online sometimes but the guys are gross and I don't want to hook up, let alone with a barely literate man so much older than me

I'd be so happy if I just had someone to cuddle and be playful with :(

>>6637971
East near Texarkana

>>6637967

Macon

>>6638116
I'm around Carrollton been to Macon a few times there's just not much in south Georgia.

>19, gay britbong birgin
>6/10 looks, 3/10 introverted, bitter and guarded personality
>tfw never had bf or genuine recipricated affection from another guy
>tfw the one guy have feelings for lives on the other side of the planet

First year at uni was a failure - LGBT society is either full of sluts or drama queens and depression hit me like a truck after the first few months. May as well give up the effort of holding onto hope

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I'm 22 and I've never been in a relationship. I have been talking to a guy I met online for about 4 years now, though. We always talk about how we're going to eventually end up together (we're too far away from each other to realistically make things work) but I honestly don't know what to do. I think I had feelings for him before, but it's been so long that I've kind of moved on.

>tfw you're a 7/10 22 y/o, 5'11" 160 fit, hairy, more slightly more fem otter and just want a tall, cuddly, thick average guy to wrap his arms around your waist while you play WoW. Then fuck you afterwards. And then also grow into responsible, successful fag adults with you. Kill me.

Can't give up if I've never tried. I had several people try to initiate a relationship with me but I push them away because I can't handle letting someone in like that.

I got uni and other shit to take care of anyway so I don't really have the time, so whatever. But I'll probably suffer gay death before I find someone I'm comfortable with.

Yeah, specially because I grew up in a strict religious Asian (Filipino) family.

>>6640687
i don't want to sound like an old fart but
time flies so fast you'll heavily regret to not have initiate anything during your college years; so you better take some time to experience stuff asap & fully enjoy your youth...

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Yeah, I lost hope once I got to know that every second gay guy you meet online is part of the hook up culture.

But then it just might be my personality that's unfit. Maybe people want to fuck first and look out for common intrests later. Maybe I am not out there (introvert, lol) to meet the ones who want to get to know someone first before rubbing their meat against my cheekbones.
Online is just a fuck fest. I get the impression all they want is to fuk or have like 60 sex partners because "lol sex is just like a play of tennis, amirite?".
I dunno. I already have a hard time trusting people and connecting to them. It took me 22 years to get my first friend and then people expect me to be able to fuck after like 2 meet ups cause they don't see the connections sex with trust and emotions.
Nah, I rather stay away from online gays and not meet sex-crazed beasts.

>>6636673
I'm into bald guys
t. 20 yo college student

>>6653515
maybe I am lucky but the few cute guys I met online, and who show me some interest, are not part of this hookup culture at all... too bad they live too faraway from me ;__;
So yeah, there are people who "have standards", who have low sex drive, who are seeking serious relationships, etc. it's just a minority.

How old is too old to start dating? Actual dating, not hookups.

>>6654118
Which sites/apps are you using?

Germany doesn't have much for online dating. Only Grindr and Planetromeo which are both known for being the slutty gay scene standard.

>>6654118
Maybe I just can't find them or no one is living near me, lol. It's still hard not to get jaded about this =(

Having no chance in ever becoming sexually desirable hurts a little bit more every day.

>>6640675
come here dude.

Let's cuddle

>>6654151
it's never too late!
it's just getting more difficult once the loneliness crushes your social skills, so you better not wait any longer…

>>6654369
I have no social skills to begin with.

>>6654369
yeah nice platitudes but relationships change with age you can't get with someone when you have the relationship expectations of a highschooler

>>6654514 ...date someone (way) younger in that case?

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>tfw white non-conservative middle-class in scandinavia
>still scared of coming out
>no way to meet potential bfs

I know I'm better off that a majority of guys who are into dudes but it's still really fucking hard.

>>6636163
Ugh why can't my friends get my sense of humor

>tell science/chemistry related joke
>forget that most of my friends are in college wasting their time with remedial shit
>one who's actually really smart naturally, way smarter than me, but never learned anything because she picked some bs meme major
>feel bad because none of my friends can understand cheesy science jokes, even super basic ones
>all the other people in my science classes are spergs who will act suspicious if you approach them

>>6597803
Yes I have pretty much given up hope, 21 here and still a virgin, someone end my misery.

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>>6654882
come in my arms, we'll end it together

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>>6597803
>Do you ever lose hope of finding a boyfriend, /lgbt/?

A little more often than i should tbqh

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never
i just seriously doubt they will be anywhere near me
also : i don't really want a bf. one i really liked would be cool but..
desperation doesn't get you husband material senpai. chill with the thirst bois

>>6654664
What country?
I'm in DK if you need a friend

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>crushing on guy
>guy is on opposite side of the world
>guy is probably straight and will date/fuck/marry some stupid entitled lucky bitch with no personality

seriously, fuck straight women and the overwhelming majority of men who are attracted to them

>>6636317
nope but I can be one
>>6637378
>play video games and cuddle with
ayyyy

>>6654664
Don't be such a pansy. There's literally tonnes of support for gay guys in our countries, especially if you're not conservative. Where are you from anyway?

>>6656278
Yeah that's exactly what I mean; I feel like an idiot for being scared about it, yet at the same time I just can't shake the feeling that it'll fundamentally change how people see me in a way I'm not comfortable with. My mother's not a homophobe and all and my dad doesn't really say shit about it, but he's a staunch social democrat so I'd assume he's cool with it. It's just a weird feeling I can't shake and ontop of that I don't feel like there's a point in coming out until I meet someone.

>>6656093
Swedish west coast, best coast.

>>6624174
>muh mental capacitey
It's ironic that all these shut-ins never realise that the only reason they think they're so smart is because they never get out of the house and interact with people.

As a fellow straight-edge vegetarian into intellectual shit, I wouldn't even consider dating a pretentious cunt like you come across to be.

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I'm sick of your fucking excuses, anon. Get out and get a boyfriend RIGHT NOW or you'll be having to cook your own tendies tonight.

>>6656436
Sure, just let me go to boyfriend land where boyfriend are growing on trees.

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> trans guy, manlet
> only be sexually attracted to men.
> poor as shit, won't be able to afford top surgery for years and bottom surgery is so expensive that it'll likely never happen
> have severe Cluster C personality disorder that frequently drives people away because lol batshit
>Alcoholic. Tried therapy and medication, shit was worthless, went back to drinking as I'm only chill and happy when drunk.

Considering just buying a gun with my tax return next year and ending my life.

>>6656680

Better idea than sitting around on your damn computer all day. Have you done your homework yet?

>>6657936
Well sorry for being a social failure, but I don't even know where to meet normal people and friends beside work and college class and you expect me to find a date? Come on, Bars and Discos are degenerate, asking your friends useless (I'm the only gay person they know) and "gay support groups" are just plain awful.
You can't get to know someone at a party unless you are an extrovert and to meet someone through hobbies is impossible, when you don't have time and money and your hobbies are made for a one-player ride.
So master of finding boyfriends. Where should I look? Should I go where bookworms go? Should I go where gamers go? Where is that? Their home and that one pricy, loud convention at the other end of the country? Should I change college and work all the time until I find a friend that happens to be gay?
No seriously, if it's so easy and I am a social retard, then tell me how I should be doing it.

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>>6658814
Not him but try some e dating shit like Tinder

I'm in a similar place like you with me being a shy piece of shit. Sure i might not have been lucky enough to get a bf yet but at least I'm trying to do something. Step out of your comfort zone for once.

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>>6659016
I AM in dating e shit.
Most of the guys there don't intrest me and look for sex. I even write some guys, but once it gets established that I am a nerd things go downhill and we both lose the will to write.

>>6659067
It will be ok, anon. You are a wonderful person and someday you will find the one who will love you for who you are, no matter what.

>>6659067
Damn I'd date you if you're looking for love.

Where you from anon?

>>6659093
Thanks, anon. I know that that is true. I think I am just ranting frustration cus it seems so easy for everyone else. :/

>>6659108
(W-W-What?)
Um, Germany.
Which I guess, might be part of my problem. See this anon, here >>6654180

>>6659178
Oh man

I would have loved going on a date with you my nerdy German friend. Love from the states. >>6659016

>>6659188
If I'd ever need to flee the country and end up in the states, I would have gladly taken that invitation.

>>6659202
Wish you the best of luck my German anon

>>6657048
I feel u bruh

>>6597803
21 yr old gay ftm here, hrt for 2.5 years and passing. I am a virgin and only kissed two people. I have stopped believing I am going to find someone who loves me. I am friendly but once people who I'm trans they want nothing to do with me, romance-wise.

>>6658814
>>6659067
>>6659108
>>6659188
>>6659225

I'll be your boyfriend, anon.

>>6607142
why did this not get any replies

>kissing and cuddling thin air when I masturbate (daily) and break into tears as I snap out of it
it's sad

>>6659539
I'm here for you, anon. I love you.

>>6659554
I'm not the person I quoted in that post.

No you're not and no you don't. You don't know me and all your platitudes are worthless.

>>6637996
>one of the most academically talented gay guys in the freaking country

so you're the fastest two-legged kid in an handicapped race? congratulations

speaking so highly of yourself just makes you seem arrogant, maybe your personality being shit is why the smart gays avoid you and only the trash makes itself noticeable

t. gay in the same situation

>>6597803
Sometimes but I try to stay optimistic.
I ain't that ugly and I've got one before so , stranger things have happened

>>6659720
I know you more than you think.

>>6659858
Pic ?

>>6659866
Unless you're a moderator or managed your way into 4chan's servers and happened to stalk me by piecing information together from the posts I've made here over the years, then no, you don't. At most you might have an educated guess about how I am, but you have no confirmation.

>>6660000
check em

>>6601487
this lmao

>>6656135
Hear, hear. Same situation and it hurts that even hairy me is probably more good looking than his gf. If i had a vagina he would prefer me lol.

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> tfw this thread was up for near 2 weeks and it will reach bump limit

>>6654882
>I think that strictly controlling my diet somehow makes me a better person than you objectively.
>I'm trying to show of my knowledge with a "joke" that is both really unfunny and really basic.
>Simultaneously, it's a reference to my tendency for self harm- pay attention to me!
>I'm smarter than you without any qualifier.
>My failings are come at the hands of others, not from me.

Grow up, stop thinking you're hot shit even if you are. It just makes you seem like a shithead. I can understand why other people who are actually on the level you think you're on don't want to get close to you.

>>6611591
Trust me, I had that type of person.
>be me
>junior year
>find a 10/10 boy (no joke, with glasses and a beard you can snuggle in)

>inb4 he's a hipster
He ain't, in fact he was white and had euphenisms like a ghetto grill (YAAAS, rachet, etc.)
Moving on...

>assumed he was gay
>kept getting advice from grills
>had grill friends
>tried to play cute with him, hoping he would come along
>failed at catching him harder than a dumbass failing a semester of class
>never wanted to talk to me afterwards
It hurts to know how much I wanted to have him for 2 years. I was robot-tier in behavior and wanted a puppy love from high school I can remember.

>realise I'm gay in mid twenties
>feel like it's too late to ever get a bf
>way too scared to hook up with a stranger
>Already left uni and have no idea how to find anyone anyway

I never had a chance.

>falling in love with best friends boyfriend
>know that even if he batted for the other team it would fuck up a friendship
>also know that he's terrible boyfriend material anyways

Actual true suffering.

>>6666240
>falling in love with someone you know would be a terrible boyfriend

I hate it when that happens.

>>6597803
>lose hope
Can't lose what you never had.

My problem is:
>closeted
>insecure
>cynical
>high standards

I don't even know what to feel. I like the idea of having a boyfriend (never been in a relationship) however, I'm not really in a position to be looking for one. I feel like it's a lot of work??

What hope?

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>hope of finding a boyfriend
>hope

>>6597803
Yes, i don't like sex with strangers and just want to have innocent dates with gay guys in my area. But the thought of just going to the lake or having a ride with the bicycle for fun times all while getting to know each other seems to sound like a total alien idea to gays in general.
I am not desperate tho, so i am all chill about it.

>>6668267
Exact same situation here. It'd be cool to go on dates and such but then again so many gay guys only think with their dick. Right now I'm happy being single.

>>6661346
Oy, this happened to me throughout my teenage years and early to mid-twenties. Cutie started at my job in March. He's actually a great polite young man by t obviously not gay. Although he might come across that way if I look into things quite a bit (I guess this is me being in denial/delusional). The fact of the matter is I won't date anyone as great as him. I was super friendly to him when he first started but I had to pump the breaks because I noticed I was getting too clingy so I stopped talking to him as much. The least thing I want for him is to be creeped out by me.

Tldr; crushes on straight boys are the worst.

>>6638001
Dunners reporting in. Being limited to Grindr, and the odd apps here and there. It's mostly creepy guys or feminine guys. No one ever has an Xbone, so no one to play games with :/

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If 4chan users weren't so socially inept they could make a gay dating website for nerds, shut-ins and general introverts...

>>6667916
It seems to me most gay guys are very careful abour their appearance, so how high are you standards? I mean someone who's not fat and goes to the gym at times shouldn't be so hard to find?

No cute boys in my city. I have zero hope unless I move out or start dating somewhere else.

>>6674289
Where are you?

>>6674191
i want this so bad

>>6674298
Netherlands, in the far north. We've only got farmers and football hooligans here. Really nothing date-worthy.

>>6659471
Where are you from anon? Are you actually straight or are you just jestin'?

>>6674310
>tfw no football hooligan bf

Why would I ever even have hope in the first place? I don't even think I'm that bad-looking and I'm not overweight or anything but I'm just too damn weird and shy

>>6675431
Can you post a pic? More often than not, people who say they're bad looking tend to simply lack self-confidence. Plenty of us are too damn weird and shy as well; heck, you might even find a boyfriend that finds your shyness/weirdness charming and endearing.

I realized that as a bisexual my desire for a boyfriend is only an expression of my failure as a man, the need for someone who is forward and dominant because how I am not and so on, while I cannot have a girlfriend because of failure to live up to the needs of a woman

but when I consider the possibility I realize do not want a boyfriend, I only want the idea of a boyfriend, when I think about the real thing I find that am too cowardly, too antisocial and most importantly too physically and mentally ugly to stand being in a relationship, because i would not be able to view the relationship from anything other than third person perspective, and I would not fit in in any sort of relationship which does not disgust me even if it were to happen

so basically I don't want anything other than rest of death, which I will not get because the eternal return as proposed by nietzsche

>>6675450
I'd rather not reveal my face to 4chan currently but I mean I've had a some girls crush on me through the years and stuff but I don't think attractiveness is my best quality at all. My main issue is just people skills and the fact that not only are there only a few gay guys but there also seems to be only super stereotypical Beyonce-loving type gays here. I'm definitely not hopeful while I'm living where I am. But I'm hoping to move far away after uni. I just have to act less strange around cute guys

>>6674310
Wordt mijn bf om eerlijk te zijn

i may not have a bf but at least I am making Narnia great again.

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>all these shy, lonely people who are probably just like you
>you will never meet any of them or find someone who actually cares about you

Fuck you faggots, I keep looking for a SANE boyfriend in KY but a decent faggot is so fucking hard to come by.

>>6678225
you're also part of the indecent pool of faggotry
fuck you too
/nohomo

>>6678232

You wouldnt say that with my cock on your fdace you little botch

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Yep, for so many wreasons.

Being fucking 27 and not having sucked a single dick in my life in a world where bein a 10/10 Joshua Bell of the Bellend is paramount. This despite having a face that looks about 20, but even by that time, they'd notice the tiny lines around my nose and the fact that I'm far more awkward than people at that age should be.

That and being absolutely shite at talking to people. At this point I don't even engage in normalfag society more than I absolutely need to, so to lessen the danger of getting another shitty boy crush that I know I'll fuck up somehow. I hate socialising anyway, it makes me tired and I'm too much of an autist to do it properly. Online is a fucking wasteland of whores and literal cucks, even the nore "respectable" sites turn out that way.

Gay relationships are a meme anyway, aren't they. Don't the longer-lasting ones only sustain themselves through cuckoldry. There was even an article about it. Perhaps the alt-righters are right and we really are aberrations.

I've pretty much accepted my fate of being the lonely pianist that dies unnoticed until the neighbours smell my rotting corpse from the next room.

>>6675799
we can find solace in the fact that nietzsche was fucking wrong, and as soon as our brains stop receiving oxygen we stop existing forever.

Would anyone here date a bara?
>inb4 I am one.

Hard to find a sub bottom I can be sensual with.

>>6679856
Of course!

>They give the best bear-hugs
>Amazing to cuddle with
>Overall they have amazing chill personalities
>Probably good in bed

I'm talking from my head-canon since I've never had a boyfriend, but I would totally love to have one like you.

>>6679856
Absolutely, as long as you wouldn't mind lots of cuddling.

>>6679908

>We do all that and then some.

I myself am very sensual and loving. Love to cuddle and hold close. Make-out. It hard to find anyone like that. I would cuddle with you anytime. ;)

>>6679933

Of course I don't mind. I love it!!!

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I'm nineteen, so I still have hope, but the fact that I have yet to even communicate with another gay/bi person, and the fact I live in the ass-end of the South, isn't too promising.

Not to mention I consider myself average at best, and from what I gather, gay people much more superficial in terms of looks than women are. Fuck man, I don't even give a shit about sex, I just want a loving relationship.

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>>6678872
>tfw I have the exact same attitude.

Maybe being inherently distrustful of people works to my own benefit, since if I had formed any long-lasting relationship and ended up getting cucked, I'd probably be destroyed emotionally.

I wish I wasn't such a bleeding hearted, sappy romantic.

>>6680051
I know the feeling.

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>>6680089

Was hoping at least someone here could relate. Just about average in every single way, 5'11, 165 pounds, skinny fat. Really the only thing I have going for me is a above average dick and a nice voice, but the former wont fucking matter if I can't get anywhere, and the latter also doesn't matter since I ain't a fucking singer.

I'm fairly introverted and bitter on the outside too, which doesn't help.

>>6680111
It goes beyond just being introverted for me, to the point where I'm terrified of actually dating anyone since I honestly don't think anyone could ever like me. Being stuck in the middle of nowhere kills what little hope there may have been left. Does your bitterness come from being hurt or betrayed by others?

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>>6680185
That's understandable, I can't say I'd be entirely trustful of anyone who considered me attractive, either.

And yeah, for the most part. Been fucked over by people one too many times, I used to be very trusting earlier in my teenage years, and boy did it hurt me. Wish I could've grown apathetic, but unfortunately that's not the case.

The fact that not once in my life have I truly felt like I could really talk to someone about virtually anything fucking tears me up every single day.

I hope this shit doesn't last for the rest of my life, I'm not sure I could handle it.

>>6680241
If it helps you any, you have about 11 more years to go. Probably more than enough time to recover and maybe find somebody

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>>6680253
Maybe. I hope so. At least I'm self aware enough to realize that my dream bf won't just fall in my lap, I realize I gotta work for it. Not exactly sure where the fuck I'll start looking, but yeah.

I still got some years ahead of me at least to figure that out. Hope it works out for you too, man.

>>6680241
I would tell you to try to find someone who's trustworthy you can talk to and let some of the negativity out, but I know how difficult it can be to find anyone who gives a shit about you. I gave up a while ago.

>>6680279
Just an advice that you really shouldn't let yourself be eaten away. This sounds like the most cliched bullshit, but you'd be horrified at how many years can pass by being shut away being utterly miserable.

This happened to me for about 5 years with about two weeks of institutionalisation in between, and by the time I found myself ripping a helium bag off my head in panic, I was 24. Now I'm 26 and I've still yet to shake off the neurosis, but at least I talked to my latest crush. I don't really care if I hit Meme Death without a boyfriend, I just want to feel something again. Anything is better than being locked away from the world.

>>6680283
Parents are a no go, that's for certain. Really the only person who I thin genuinely gave a shit was my grandpa, but I don't wanna burden him with this. Honestly, 4chan is about the closest thing I got, mostly because I'm not turning a single person into my own private confessional booth.

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>tfw finally found bf after the longest time of being convinced that I'll be single forever
>While we're going out I feel incredibly lucky to find someone so wonderful
>We broke up not too long ago
>Not even sure why
>I hate myself again
>Constant feeling of worthlessness

Yeah I've lost hope

>>6679908
Same bara anon here. Quick question. With all of us single people here, why don't we all try to find love from amongst ourselves? To the two anons who said they didn't mind bara bfs, wish you lived near me. Could really use a cuddle right about now.

>>6683914
Where are you, bara anon?

>>6683933

Texas , you?

>>6683963
I'm the first KY anon from earlier in the thread. If we were nearby I'd give you all the cuddles you want.

>>6684007
Same. :(

It's harder to sleep when you don't have someone to hold.

I'm 25, big, strong, and loving and I still can't find anyone special.

>>6685146
Why must you be so far away, anon? You sound like the perfect bf, I'd love to fall asleep in your arms... Then again I don't know if you're into shorter/slimmer guys or not...

>>6597803
not at all
I currently have 6 maybes
I feel like the bachelor

its so easy being a gay top

>>6608172
one meme man

>>6685289
I love shorter, slimmer guys. <3
So long as your kind and loving. Loyal and fun, then I'm your man.

>>6683963
Houston?

>>6690139
Nope. More west, like far west. lol

>>6690208
Damn, like El Paso? Take care over there, bro.

>>6690214
Yup. You guessed it.

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Yeah. I've had a bf a few years ago, but my fairly poor social skills, mild depression and living situation caused the relationship to peter out. It's exceedingly unlikely I'll ever find a guy again, and even then it probably won't last.


I've given up pursuing relatioships or intimate contact, but I still occasionally want so much to be held that it physically hurts.

All of my hope for it is pretty much gone senpai.
I only know three LGBT people that I get along with: two bi tomboys and a butch lesbian. The rest of them are extroverted liberal arts fags (which I'm fine with - one of the tomboys and the lesbian also are, but the gay guys say that I'm a repressed, pretentious prude purely because I'm a STEMfag and get nervous around new people, then refuse to talk to me). They're also all skinny, femmy, sex-obsessed club-whores who divert conversations to male bodies, dick size, and celebrity whenever I try saying anything about anything.
I just wanted a chubby, non-femmy, not overly attractive bf to cuddle, talk to, and go slow with, who wouldn't judge me and decide I'm pretentious, prudish trash before even getting to know me. I'm starting to feel like they don't exist.

>>6689875
I wish I knew you irl, anon. You sound like you would make the right person very happy.

>>6690789
>I just wanted a chubby, non-femmy, not overly attractive bf to cuddle, talk to, and go slow with

Where you from anon?

I might fit the criteria

Yup, as a gay ftm closing on 30 and having 0 interest in lgtb scene the possibility of meeting someone doesn't seem to exist. I pass 100% and I'm stealth so I seem like a normal gay guy, I have a profile on a lgtb dating site but pretty much eveyone seems to only be looking for hookups there too. It doesn't help that I live in a quite small country in the nordics, there isn't gay bars etc anywhere near I live, not that I would even go one as I dont like to drink and party...

Yes, absolutely. I'm a 20-year-old closet bifag in the south going to a uni full of insufferable yaass queens. Loneliness is okay, right?

>>6691680
Which country? If you're in Sweden we should have coffee :*

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>>6691680
>in the nordics
>there isn't gay bars etc anywhere near I live
I know this feeling. I have legit never even seen a gay bar in real life.

>>6691778
Finland.

>>6691797
Me neither, I know there are some in Helsinki and Tampere in here but I don't live anywhere near them. I'd chill in a gay cafe or something, but there's nothing like that in here at all.

I have no idea how to meet anyone as I don't have any gay tells either. No gay guy would even approach me in normal settings, everyone thinks I'm just a short straight guy.

>>6691837
A helsinkianon here: I feel you. Helsinki´s not that great desu (there´s like DTM and that´s it), at least if you are trans - I was hoping to get a bf when I moved here, but it´s more likely I´ll end up forever alone since everyone thinks I´m a girl on T and/or disgusting. But Finland´s a shitty place to be trans anyway

>>6691505
UK, in Bedfordshire.
I'm OK with LTRs, though, since I'm probably going to university soon, so I'll most likely be living between my hometown and my uni town.

>>6691946
To be honest I feel that Finland is a fucking great place for trans people, I have absolutely nothing bad to say about the trans units, free surgeries and free hormones. But the population is so fucking small in Finland, there's almost no one in qruiser in my city and almost all who I come across are looking for just sex the 2 people who would have been interested in a 2nd date in the span on 5 years were absolutely not my type at all.

Those of you who badmouth nordic countries which treat lgbt community the best, eat shit. Love, a forever closeted gay guy from turkey.

I was in a relationship a while back now but he broke up with me cause I wasn't good enough for him. Since then I've pretty much given up on finding a bf and having any kind of long lasting relationship with him, I lack the social drive to go out and meet new people and when I do go out I make bad first impressions. I don't act or look gay either. Online and on apps pretty much all these gay guys are looking for hook-ups and that's it. Doesn't help that the only people would find me attractive are those who like slightly chubby guys too.

I kind of have lost hope in a gay relationship.

The most I have is a fwb relationship and he hook up and mess around and play with each other but has never progressed to anything more. And its not sufficient.

>>6692369
He broke up with you just because you weren't "good enough for him"? If that's the case, fuck him, you're better off without him.

>>6692463
Oh I agree, but leaving like a 3 year relationship like that is hard, even more so when I have no idea how to find new guys that might be interested in me.

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I'll be 21 in November and I haven't lost hope yet, but I still never been on a date or been kissed (by another guy) before. I go to one of the biggest universities in the US and was initially really excited to go because I thought I'd meet so many gay guys just like me. But nope, I was dead wrong. 90% of the gays I know of are either emotionally unstable, really bitchy/Regina George-like or have concerning substance abuse. Also most of them just want one night stands or pretend to care about relationships while they really just want dick. And lastly I'm in the engineering school, which have almost no gay people in it at all (at least from what I've seen in 2.5 years).

I don't like the scene and I'm not into the Pride stuff, but this up coming semester I'll go to LGBT student associations to try to see if I can finally meet someone decent. I realize I have to put in work into this shit, even if I'm not comfortable with it.

>>6692469
How did you do it the first time?

>>6692482
Complete luck, we just happened to have a mutual friend, but that won't work again

>>6692491
Well, good luck. Maybe someone here could offer you some advice.

>>6692504
Maybe, I think it might be better not to get my hopes up though.

>>6692514
Can't say I blame you. I never had any hope either.

>>6692527
Yeah, love is suffering

>>6597803

My problem is that I'm skeletal, unkempt, clinically depressed, and probably autistic. But I'm slowly getting better, I used to be a NEET but now I'm a full-time student. Still fuckawful at socializing and making friends. I could maybe get laid if I went on one of those gay dating apps, but those kinds of things disgust me. I'd rather meet someone in my day-to-day life, however unrealistic that might be.

I've been considering looking at my college's LGBT club but it's probably full of flamboyant people. Or at least that's the excuse I use on myself to not try it out.

>>6692794
Even if it's mostly flamboyant guys there could still be a few masculine guys in the group. You can go once with no obligation to go back, you don't have anything to lose really.

>>6692815
expect your self image

Yes. From the outside, I'm what people would stereotypically consider attractive. Female, long hair, kylie jennerish in appearance. But I dont feel that way. I dont want to wear makeup and dresses. I want to be a man but im scared I wont find a life partner accepting of me. The men I'm interested in want a woman. And most gay men I know are extremely flamboyant or masculine. I can't seem to find anyone laid back like jefree star's boyfriend nathan for example. Their relationship doesn't need labels

>>6692880
if it makes you feel better, the kinds of dudes I'm personally into are just about what you described yourself as. I like pretty dudes, but I still want someone who can also be a bro as well.

>>6693175
Could you describe yourself?(:

>>6693202
6 foot, 165 pounds. Brown hair. I'm fairly typical in terms of appearance, but I guess it's kind of compensated by the baritone voice and 7 and a half inch wang. Had people compliment my ass before, but I'm not too sure about the validity of that.

>>6693225
Nice (: im 5'11" long black hair. Black eyes. Not fat curvy but hourglass shaped which i imagine would be difficult to transition out of. 18.

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>>6693252
Pretty close to my age, 19. I guess the main thing most people find off-putting about me is that I come off as fairly bitter and jaded, though that has to do with the fact I live in the middle of bumfuck nowhere and have virtually nothing in the terms of "options."

I've never met another gay or bisexual person in real life, which is fairly depressing as is.

I'm kind of a bleeding heart though, really the only thing I desire is a nice relationship to commit to.

>>6692059
>UK

I'm from the states like i said here >>6659188


A shame because I would have loved going on a date with you

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>mfw gay guys would always flirt with me in HS
>would always turn them down thinking I was straight
>looking back on it I can't get guys to even look at me
>regret