Do any of you guys have a husband? What is married life like?

>>6594425
It's like having a live-in boyfriend but with a slight tax cut, but sometimes worrying about breaking up because if you play your current cards wrong you may end up financially fucked.

So yeah pretty chill if you're sure you won't want to break up.

>>6594484
I found the opposite to be true.

My husband and I have been together for thirteen years. After the supreme court decision it was a simple and frank, almost cursory discussion for us to get married.
>"Since we're free on Thursday should we go get married?"
>"the groomers on the way, we should take the dogs in on the way down"
>"ok"

Now that we're hitched I find it more reassuring that theres this kind of social contract keeping us together. This is regardless of our shared home, cars, property, accounts, insurance, and titles under both our names.

Im just more secure knowing that we're legally recognized, and protected.

Just eight years ago i was prohibited by his homophobic family from seeing him after a car accident in the hospital even though they hadnt talked to him for five years prior. There was the threat of them or my family taking everything from our lover if they contested our wills or power of attorney as was the case with the hospital, which cost me $3,500 in legal fees to have an injunction to have the power of attorney forcibly recognized.

Its safety.