TL;DR at the end
> good (not really best) friends and college classmates with this guy for 3 years now
>I've developed a crush on him, mostly personality, not much fiscal
>he isn't confirmed gay, but also never denied when someone brought it "as a joke"
>also he acts a lot like me (in the closet) about certain things, so that makes it suspicious
>he travels mon-fri 10 miles to go to class, then he goes back to his house, rarely go out on weekends with other classmates
> been lowkkey flirting with him for a while, but nothing interesting has happened (except if you don't count the times he randomly winks me when I look at him, or when he turns around to look at me randomly when I sit beside him, and when I confront him he just turn his head back)
>just texted him "I'm so mad, if we were less than 2 digits of miles away, I'll hang out with you every weekend"
He didn't respond yet, is it too obvious that I'm flirting? I'm afraid to lose him as a friend
TL;DR: I texted I'm so mad that we live so far away l'll hang out with you every weekend if I could" but I don't know if he's gay. Is it too obvious? Is my friendship at risk?
>>6365643
Why do you think theres something wrong in telling someone you'd like to hang out with them every weekend?
>>6365643
That is so cute oh my goodness. You'll be fine :)
>>6365643
Stop being such a fucking homo and have sex with him
>>6365643
Dude, you didn't fuck up. That's freakin' adorable. I'm 99% sure you're fine, and 100% hoping you'll be making out with him soon.
Op here, thanks for the nice words you guys get me. I tried to be cool and cute and he replied this morning with this"yeah, but see, even though i'm just a couple houses away from almost all of my friends here, I didn't go out last night either". I am betting on the wrong horse?
>>6368770
Tell him he can fug you
>>6368770
now you tell him that he could have stayed inside together with you
I thought you were literally talking about Filthy Frank and I got excited he was gonna come out soon
>>6369268
Why would that excite you?
>>6368770
Also, he recently joined instagram and he's following a lot of cute grills he's friends with and liking a lot of girls pictures.. Am I hopeless?
>>6369609
Yeah definitely. I too have Instagram and I actively avoid liking girl's pictures as to not come off as straight.
>>6369609
As a gay man, I exclusively like girl's pictures, pretty much. I have so many girls that I follow, he might do the same thing that I do and just like selfies to (hopefully) boost the girl's confidence.