Choice or not

Are you attracted to any men outside porn?

>>6340528
Not op but what if I said no

>>6340531
Then you might just be thrilled by the novelty of gay porn / thinking about men in a sexual way

>>6340543
How do I make it stop

>>6340550
Stop watching gay porn I guess, or just wait for the novelty factor to probably wear off at some point and you'll get bored of it

>>6340487
I became "gay" at 48, following the death of my wife. I was not involved with anyone following her death, but eventually as my grief went away began becoming interested in sex again. With all of the media attention about homosexuality and all the positive stories I became interested. I started with watching gay porn and soon began meeting other men for dates. I'm now 53 and am in a gay relationship and I couldn't be happier. I wouldn't give up my years married to my wife but at the same time I could have spent my entire life as a gay man and been as equally happy.

>>6340487
Everyone needs to discover their sexuality. You're going to find that as you look at more porn you're going to get used to ideas that were initially scary or repulsive to you. You're not changing, not really, you're just becoming true to yourself. You may find yourself attracted to things you thought you didn't like; this is part of the adjustment period. You have to try things before you know if you truly enjoy them or not, but as you gain experience you'll reject certain experiences and embrace others.

Mostly, you're going to find that your initial thoughts were correct and you'll have the same preferences as before you explored. Sometimes you'll find that you have additional preferences. Rarely will you discover that your initial thoughts were incorrect. This is why some people can change their sexuality even though it's accepted that people are "born" gay or straight.