Coming to terms with being gay/bi

>>6285999
I can't stop thinking how cool it would be to get cute bf (a bit shy and submissive seems perfect) to chill with, play vidya or go out sometime
I'm a virgin and i didn't know any interesting girls, so it may be just loneliness idk
Yaoi doujins are the shit senpai ;3, maybe i just want my anime to be real

>>6285999
I know a polgbt dude who looks like pic related on steam. He's cuuute

>>6285999
im the opposite i guess. Im mtf/nonbinary snowflake, and i like women in a emotional/relationship way, but not realy attracted sexually to them that much, and to men im attracted sexually but not emotionally at all. I cant even imagine really spending a lot of time with a guy, just sex.

its a fucked up situation senpai, sucks.

>>6285999
>I am much more picky about guys IRL that I am attracted to, where as my standards for girls would be much lower

For me, this exemplifies just how degrading heterosexuality is for men - it makes you willing to stoop so low in pursuit of a functional womb. You SHOULD have high standards when it comes to your partners. That's practically the definition of self-respect, but it gets us accused of being "shallow" more often than not.

I don't know if you're capable of giving up the ol' fish crevice, OP, so I don't want to give you advice based on the situations of others. It's really something you just have to figure out on your own, but you're at least aware that there's alternatives for you. I wish you luck in whichever you choose.

Exact same situation
St8 porn, like to for obvious reasons

Girls irl, other than their bodies I really can't connect with any of them and they have shit humour and attitude

Gay porn, too muscley shit camera quality not appealing in the slightest prolly made by straight people for more business idk (not including Yaoi)

Guys irl, sexy and good looking, shares interests, can connect with, sexy

Is it just me?

>>6287676
>gay porn, too muscley shit camera quality not appealing in the slightest prolly made by straight people
How do you feel about amateur gay porn?

I'm in a surprisingly similar situation

I really am attracted to women and love and appreciate beautiful or great women but I'm also distinctly attracted to pretty/feminine dudes. I figure I'm just attracted to femininity

For that reason I also am very picky about guys I like

I see what you're saying about the thrill and the rush of thinking about it or acting on it, which is the most confusing for me. Is that feeling an indicator that I might just be into dudes, or is the thrill from doing something that (even in 2016) is a taboo?

Also when I fap, I can never finish to the thought of guys, even the ones I like.

Either way I feel like I'll be testing the waters soon enough, if I find the right person

>>6286047

Same here. I'm crushing hard on a few cute traps but I don't know if the attraction is genuine because I'm never attracted to dudes irl.

>>6285999
I think you are bisexual.

>>6285999
You bi guys out there should just go gay now. I can't tell you how many older guys have told me they felt they were bi when they were younger but put it off to be normal, and now they don't want women anymore.
Women are a drain on men, guys however will actually appreciate you. It's a lesson lots of bi-curious guys don't realize until they're in their 40's.

>>6288401

I was never even interested in relationships until I found a guy I liked, I just can't imagine being able to trust a female or deal with their craziness on a daily basis. Problem with guys is that I'm generally not attracted to them, I still need that feminine cute body to fuck in my life.

>>6285999
>I am much more picky about guys IRL that I am attracted to
I'm the same way. I'm attracted to more girls than guys but I'd want a hot guy over a hot girl.

>>6287676
>too muscley
Did you ever think to search for twinks?

>>6288428
It grows on you. Trust me. Currently fucking an older guy who said the same type of stuff. He was less picky with women, and more picky with guys, but in the end, he's realized he wish he would have stuck with a guy.
Now he wants me forever, but I'm not gonna start a relationship with someone 10+ years older than me. If someone like him came around and was just a few years older than me, I'd definitely have gone for it though, and then they'd have an eager to please femmeboy sex slave for the rest of their life (assuming they don't drop it when it ages like everyone does).

I identify as bisexual, I've had 2 girlfriends before, but only have ever had sex with 2 guys. First time was just a hookup, second time was with my boyfriend at the time.
At least I'm not lying when I say I'm not a virgin, I just don't say it was with a guy and they assume it was with a girl because they have no reason to think otherwise, so there's that.

>>6288535

I'm totally down for it, its just hard finding the right guy. I'm too straight for this shit.