So afraid of getting out there

please respond

Get over it lol. There's literally nothing wrong with being gay

btw, every man straight or otherwise feels disgusting and shameful after blowing a load. It doesn't matter what you're fapping to it's called the refractory period. You're just psychologically associating your gayness with it. Stop doing that

>>6099052

ugly people fuck
fat people fuck

there's really no excuse to not have sex. will 100% the bodybuilder types be interested in you when they can fuck 18 year old twinks?

maybe not. but you just might get lucky.

regardless, there's some other socially awkward loser that just wants to fuck some ass or take some d.

the only thing coming between you and dong is your fear

>>6099376

Most body builders are into other bodybuilders not twinks lol

>bluuuh i is gay and in first world country with literally no severe problems bluuuh
Shut it and move on, gaynormie. Kiss boys and feel good about it.

>>6099479
b-b-but I feel so ashamed for being gay... I also feel like I'm a lesser man for being gay(weak man, beta). Also I don't know any gays irl, gay men kinda intimate me. That's part of the reason why I feel the need to have /fit/ body before I get myself out there.

Meeting guys on grindr just seems so sleazy and dirty.

>>6100048

I had my first same sex encounter with some random college student on craigslist in the back seat of his car with a vending machine condom when I was 19.

Don't fucking worry about it man. It's going to be a longer process to being totally comfortable with yourself and your sexuality, and trying to improve yourself and get in shape is always positive, but don't overthink it.

Just get out there and get your cock sucked.

You don't have to do something out of your comfort zone, OP. Being gay doesn't make you less of a man and it doesn't have to mean liking hookups. Tons of guys aren't into that. You might be happier waiting and having your first time with a boyfriend. Liking hardbodies is also a niche thing that mostly only other hardbodies like.

>>6099226
The refractory period is supposed to result in suddenly losing your libido, but also make you feel blissed out and happy in a sleepy way. At the very least you should feel more relaxed and content than when you started. If you don't you've still got some shit to work through.

OP here:
It happened again today, I was jacking off to muscle4muscle, then I got creeped out because of the grunts from one of the guy, he made this loud aggressive animal grunts some masc gay guys like to make, it just creeped me out and made me start to think about how "fucked up and weird" gay sex is.

Now I just feel like I've made myself gay by letting myself think about others guys cocks.

Sometimes I feel like I'm not really gay, just a mentally ill straight person that has just played himself(into thinking he's gay).

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>>6104464
How am I sounding autistic? You think i might not be gay? Is it just the autism that's tricking me into thinking im gay?

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>>6104486
>Is it just the autism that's tricking me into thinking im gay?

>>6104601
Please tell me what you mean by your snarky comment.

It's pretty pathetic if I would have gay sex and then realize i'm not really gay.

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>>6104636
If you're not gay you'll realize a long time before your pants are down.
I think he's making fun of how a tiny secondary detail that's more common in porn than real life is somehow triggering you.

>>6104657
I'm just afraid I'll get the feeling off "wtf am I doing" while some stranger from grindr has is dick in my mouth or inside my ass. I'm afraid that I'll start feeling ashamed once him fooling around with another guy.

>>6104636
There are people who fuck a lot of guys, get married to another guy, etc. but still sometimes think, "But am I reeeally gay?"

I'm not a gay though, I just dropped in to laugh at you.

>>6104737
Yeah me neither. My boyfriend's not gay either.

>>6104746
I'd like to have a friend that I could do dick/butt stuff with without having to label it. And then cuddle afterwards.

>>6104761
I wouldn't mind a friend like that, especially if we did cute things together and held hands and stuff too... oh and didn't have any other friends like this. :)

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>>6104729
I 100% garantee that you'll feel awkward with that mind set, your overthinking everything. Try to learn to go with the flow before trying to have important moments in your life where you hope to discover shit. Make friends, learn to have a good time, and after that have a good time with more than a friend.