How do you decide between being a top or a bottom? Is height

>>5975795
if you like to put it in other people you are a top if you like people to put it in you you are a bottom if you are fine with both you are vers

>>5975795
i would probably be vers but i have hemorrhoids. it's left my submissive side completely unexplored.

>>5975832
Heal and enjoy getting pounded.

>>5975795
what manga is this?

>>5975832
you can be sub outside anal sex too

>>5978243
Cory in the house.

Honestly, I feel like you can't be a sub, if your partner is smaller than you... I hate beeing tall.

So, I've considered myself a bottom all my life. From a young age I enjoyed sticking my fingers up my butt, and eventually I got to getting butt-fucked and it was great. I'd never really been a top, and had anxiety about topping due to unfortunate premature ejaculation (current bf timed me at 2 minutes 30 seconds from a bj). But now, with my current bf, I tried topping for the first time and I absolutely love it. It's literally just as fun as bottoming, but without any of the pain.

But here's the thing: it's kind of ruined bottoming for me. I can't get fucked without thinking about how much better it is to be the one fucking. We try to take turns, but I cum so fast and he takes sooo long that it's usually him blowing me until I cum, him fucking me, and then me fucking him until I cum again.
But I kinda don't want to bottom anymore. I really enjoy his blowjobs and fucking him. And getting fucked and blowing him has become such a chore. I almost envy dedicated top/bottom relationships.

>>5975795
Instinct for lack of a better term
i know im a bottom cause i prefer taking it in the butt and its rather hard to get off otherwise