I think my friend is trans

>>5937959
Cont
Skip to a few days later, I talk to him when he's sober, the information I got out of him is:
>He doesn't think he can be trans because he likes girls
>very self loathing, and hates who he is, thinks he is shit at everything
>He thought he would be more comfortable as a girl when he was younger, before puberty
>When he was away in Japan he felt so much better because no one knew him as the "weak, little, shy loser"
>Finds it really hard to get motivation to do anything because the future just looks so shit.
>Also liked TG porn, (as in like turning a guy into a girl, not shemale) but apparently not as a self insert

Look, I want him to be happy, and that's why I'm so scared, because he reminds me so much of myself. All the pain, the self loathing, the anger, it seems so familiar. I'm just worried that if he doesn't transition he'll be filled with regret.

On a side not he would look good as a girl,much better than me at least

>>5937959
>>5937960
Ha, your friend reminds me of me. Except I'm not an angry people. He's undoubtedly a she. What are you gonna do to help/hinder friend?

>>5938015
ahh, I don't know, I left the conversation basically telling him he needs to do a lot of introspection, and find out who he really is.

Don't put ideas in his head.

If you don't like yourself, it doesn't matter what the fuck you look like.

>>5938062
he's the one who came to me, he also said that he used to think he was.

I just want him to be happy

>>5938046
Honestly, that's the best option. Give the friend time/space when it comes to that, but if in a couple weeks he's still sad because he's not as pretty as girl x from class, then it's probably a thing.

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>>5937959
That picture just screams ago to me for some reason

No one transitions to be sexy

We do it to end our pain and become qt grils desu

>>5943135
Agp*

Honestly it could be any of the things people on here are saying it is. He could be trans, agp or still think of himself as male but is having a hard time dealing with the fact that he wants to look a certain way.

My younger self would have definitely identified with some of what you were describing. Minus the angry. I was just depressed and self-destructive. (A lot of that had to do with my sexual preferences and emotional baggage, as well.)

I've always admired sort of androgynous looks rather than full-on feminine, but I remember being annoyed the it was okay for a woman to be "pretty" but it wasn't alright for a man to be. My mom thought I wanted to be a girl for a while, so I could see how someone having a similar struggle could think they're trans.

Personally, I'm just a super faggy gay dude, but it is what it is.

The most you can do now is be there for your friend. If the feelings like this continue suggest that he see a therapist.

>>5937959
>>5937960
Sounds like your typical autistic beta loser, aka transbian. For him, he's associated his maleness with the harsh reality of life and he sees becoming a girl as a magical panacea, curing all his ills and making everyone like him, just like in his anime. He's not trans, and he'll never be happy.

>>5943135
Ok hon

>>5937960
Send your friend here...
Transgenders MtFs can be into girls. Gender and orientation are separate.

>(as in like turning a guy into a girl, not shemale)
spotted the AGP
tell him to just keep fapping to forced feminization captions and that' it's going to be okay

we don't need another unpassable 6 foot hon running around ruining our reputation

>>5937959
i love how he looks like a hon even in his imagination lol

>>5944389
>we don't need another unpassable 6 foot hon running around ruining our reputation
its already ruined tb h, just go stealth and distance yourself from the trans community

>>5944393
that's probably the point