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I think I'm submissive because I fantasize about being "fucked"

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I think I'm submissive because I fantasize about being "fucked" instead of "fucking", but I'm also not gay. Is there a way I can train myself to want to be the fucker so I might be able to have a gf. As of now I don't want one, but if I change that, maybe I can fantasize about girls instead of guys?
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Google pegging, femdom, gentle femdom, role reversal.

/d/ has a pretty good /gfd/ & /rr/ general.
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Wtf are you saying.
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>>5849091

The thought of a girl having the dominant role doesn't turn me on. Is there I can make it seem more appealing?
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>>5849072

Wow I never thought I would run into another person with the same exact problem as me
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>>5849099

How do I make myself more manly so I'll want to date girls.
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>>5849115
Pick a hole.

Then think about fucking it.

My dicks big. So it makes it easier.

Think outside the dick lad
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>>5849128
>My dicks big.

Can I see?
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>>5849111

Is there anything you've tried to change your feelings?
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>>5849128

I'm sorry.

What do I do when I'm thinking about fucking a girl?
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>>5849072
You're gay dude. Deal with it.

1/10 made me reply
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>>5849169

I'm not, though. I just need to learn how to be more manly and then I'll want a gf.
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>>5849164
Sometimes I have difficulty trying to not imagine girls with dicks.

But I have little trouble with thinking about penetrating someone.

Want them to hold your hand while you do it?

Quit being soft, control your dick
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>>5849203
>Want them to hold your hand while you do it?

I am confused. Who are "them"?
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>>5849217
Son. You are not football team.

And I am disappoint.

Bitch.
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>>5849226

Did I do something wrong? I'm sorry.
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>>5849072
used to be like you, then turned gay and became a tranny
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>>5849287

How did you turn gay?
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>>5849292
all men are innately gay
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>>5849294

How did you turn gay if you were already gay?
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>>5849292
You condition yourself to only get off to cocks. Whenever you feel aroused by a girl you punch yourself in the face and whenever you see a naked dude you touch your dick for a while.
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op might be trolling but this is actually kind of how i feel

if i were manly enough maybe i could put my thing in a vagoo and like it. that probably doesn't make sense because i'm not attracted to femdoms but idk....
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Wanting to be fucked does not equal being submissive. Your life is not porn or anime. If you think this way you have fetishized sexuality itself and you will never be happy no matter what happens
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>>5849198
OP two questions:
-Do you believe that being homosexual and masculine are mutually exclusive?
-Ever heard of power bottoms?
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>>5849426
being fucked=being submissive

the only people who don't like this truth are heterossexual cis female feminists, cuz it implies that very heterosexual sex has female being sub(which is tru)

unless shes a dominatrix of course
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>>5849393

Why did you do that?
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Well, if you don't get turned on by the thought of fucking someone, want to be fucked by someone, but find that anyone penetrating you (might it be a man or woman) is repulsive to you, then yes you're in a kind of a tricky spot.

It's okay though. Most important isn't sex but love, and when you love someone, then sexual relationships become a bit easier as you find whether or not you want to do that or not.

And there are a lot of people going out with a girl and they still use dildos on their BF, or finger them. That wasn't born yesterday, anon.
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>>5849420

I'm not attracted to the thought of being dominated by a girl, but I am attracted to the thought of being dominated by a man, like I want to be a fuck toy for him, but I'm straight.
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>>5850619
OP, do you feel you were bullied as a child?
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>>5849105
Either you find a girl willing to fuck your brains out with a gigantic strap on or you accept your inner faggot and go for the BBC. Your choice, closeted faggot.
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>>5850612

The thought of a woman penetrating me isn't repulsive, but in my fantasies it's men.

I guess I could have a gf that could take that role if I had one. I don't feel enthusiastic about it but maybe it will get better?
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>>5850624

I don't think so. Some people would be mean to me sometimes and make me cry, but nobody ever did it repeatedly.
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>>5850888

Are there girls who are willing to only be dominant tops? Could it work?
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>>5849426

Is it submissiveness if I want a "protector", if that makes sense?
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>>5850173
>-Do you believe that being homosexual and masculine are mutually exclusive?

I don't know...

>-Ever heard of power bottoms?

I have seen it on this board before.
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>>5849128

Are you still here?
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How do I make myself more manly and wanting to penetrate women?
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>>5853834
Watch straight porn and try your best not to self-insert as the woman.
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>>5853856

How do I do that?
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>>5853885
how do you even self-insert in porn? like you actually believe you are the one being fucked/fucking?
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>>5853887

Sometimes if I'm watching a video of a guy cumming a big load I imagine I'm there swallowing it.
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>>5853891
but you're not, you're in your filthy bed holding your cock in your hand watching a screen. what would even the point be?
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>>5853893

The point of what?
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>>5853898
to think that you are there swallowing his big load when you are clearly not. i think i'm way too pragmatic to self-insert in porn.
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>>5853903

To cum.
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>>5853906
you can't cum without doing that? sounds weird.
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>>5853907

I can, but it's not as fun.
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>>5853893
Unless you get off on voyeurism, how else would you appreciate porn if you didn't try to imagine what it feels like from the perspective of one of the people seen? That's what I mean by "self-insert".
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>>5853919
I don't get off on voyeurism, I watch porn to see hot people fuck and do stuff I don't get to do, self-inserting has never even crossed my mind.
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>>5852326
I would be, but they're actually rare.
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Let's review the information gleaned in this thread...

>>5849072
>I fantasize about being "fucked" instead of "fucking
>As of now I don't want [a gf]
Gaydar's showing a potential contact, sir.

>>5849105
>The thought of a girl having the dominant role doesn't turn me on...
Implication: Only men can do it for OP.

>>5853891
Oh my. OP's not even trying to hide his power level anymore.

Conclusion: OP is as gay as the day is long. Just to clarify, I'm not mocking you for being gay; I'm mocking you for failing to realize something so obvious and for the futility with which you seek to escape this conclusion.
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>>5854409

Yeah this dude seems pretty gay. And dumb. OP, stop fighting your fantasies, or come up with a decent reason why you should be trying to fight your fantasies.
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>>5854409

But I'm straight.
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>>5854976
>come up with a decent reason why you should be trying to fight your fantasies.

To have a gf.
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>>5856071
Not forcing anything on you OP but take your time to think about this because judging by the entire thread, there's a pretty big possiblity that you're gay.
Speaking as a guy that refused to watch porn for 20 years out of fear that I might like the wrong kind and not like the right kind because I had never been aroused by a girl well into my teens... you owe it to yourself to think this through.

And hey it's not that bad, it's arguably the best time in history to be gay and the worst time to be in a long term relationship with a woman, depending on where you live. And being gay doesn't mean you have to dress like a flaming faggot and lisp and be any less of a man, and depending on how you handle it, it won't hurt your personal relationships.
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>>5849072
>I fantasize about guys fucking me
>I don't want to have a girlfriend nor do I have any desire to fuck a girl
>But I'm not gay
?
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>>5850619
Closets gay or bi leaning gay
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>>5850619

H R T
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>>5856113

Okay. Thank you for replying.
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Well, you have to realize and get turned on by what it means to fuck a woman. That's really where the whole, "dominant," thing comes from; not saying kinky but being in control.

If the idea of breeding a girl and making her climax with your dick doesn't get you off, then I dunno, just start adjusting your sexual fantasies and start watching porn where the girl is the receiver.
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>>5856840

and I'm saying this under the premise that you're not gay OP. If you are then this would just be an exercise in futility.
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>>5849072
You're gay mate, I was pretty much the exact same as you in 9th grade.

Just give it some time. Your gayness will come out.

Or it won't I don't know you.
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>>5852299
I was literally in the exact same boat as you mate.

I'm about 85% sure you're gay.

It's not that bad mate, you don't have to be a massive flaming faggot.

It took time for me to accept it too.
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>>5850619
U sound gay af nigga
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>>5856840

I guess.
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>>5856895

Okay.
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>>5856927

Okay.
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